Second Date Update - Worth A Shot

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4/23/2025

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00:00All right, Kevin, we're in for one on this one, I feel like.

00:02Yeah, this is going to be interesting for sure.

00:05All right, second date update right now.

00:07It's different than normal.

00:08Usually we're just trying to set people up on a second date.

00:10But in this scenario, Emily has reached out to us, and she actually ran into her ex.

00:16They broke up like seven years ago, and they decided to hang out.

00:18And she said, I'm telling you, the sparks were still there.

00:21I mean, we're at different spots in our life now, but the sparks are still there.

00:24I want your guys' help in letting me tell Steven this.

00:28Her ex.

00:29Yeah.

00:30But are the sparks still there for Steven?

00:31We're going to find out.

00:32That's obviously the huge question here.

00:34She's cool with whatever he has to say.

00:35That's what she told us.

00:36So we're going to call him right now.

00:54Hello?

00:55Hey, is this Steven?

00:57Yes, it is.

00:58Hello?

00:58Hey, Steven.

01:00Sorry to bother you this morning.

01:01This is actually JR, Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.

01:06What?

01:08Yeah.

01:08Yeah, man.

01:09Hello?

01:10You heard our show before?

01:12Oh, of course I have.

01:13Okay.

01:14I appreciate that.

01:16Hey, man.

01:16We wanted to see if we could talk to you on the air, and it's actually about a woman who

01:21is really into you.

01:23Would you be okay with us asking you a couple questions?

01:24Um, I'm nervous, but okay.

01:28All right.

01:29All right.

01:29Totally normal.

01:30This person kind of wants to tell you some things, and I'm going to kind of let her do

01:34it herself.

01:35You know who she is.

01:37It's Emily.

01:39What?

01:40Yeah.

01:40Emily, you there?

01:42Hi, Steven.

01:43How are you?

01:44Uh, I'm, hello, hello, I'm good, hello.

01:50He loves the word hello.

01:52Wow.

01:53I am.

01:53Hi.

01:54Hi, Ellen.

01:55I'm enlisting some experts here to help me have the confidence to tell you what I want

02:02to tell you.

02:02You got this, Emily.

02:03Go for it.

02:04Okay, thank you.

02:06Okay, so you know how, obviously, you know, we went out a couple weeks ago, and I have not

02:12stopped thinking of you.

02:13I just think that we picked up where we left off.

02:18We are different people now.

02:20I mean, you've been with people, I've been with people, and I just feel like maybe it's

02:25time to reconnect and be together again, since we're a little older, a little wiser, and I

02:32just, I don't think I've really ever stopped loving you, and so it would be really kind of

02:39nice to see where it goes.

02:42Wow, that's wow.

02:47Emily, Emily, Emily, Emily.

02:50Thank you, Emily.

02:54I know.

02:56All right, I'll just be honest.

02:58You know, Emily, we've had a lot of history.

03:01Emily, you know how I felt about you.

03:05You know what happened to us and how I felt about that, and it was really great to see

03:11you, and it was really great to go out, and I had a good time.

03:17I guess the bottom line is, you know, I just, I'm going to be honest, I'm never going to

03:22get over what happened between us, and I will always be there for you, and I'm very grateful

03:28for you, and I care about you, but I can't go down that road again.

03:35I had to shut that door, and like, I have to keep it shut.

03:38Even though so much time has gone by, like, so much time has gone by, we clicked.

03:43Did you feel those sparks when we were together?

03:46I mean, not together, but you know, having dinner, like, I just, I feel like we still

03:50have that, but we have grown wiser, and I've learned from my mistakes, and listen, I know

03:56I hurt you, but I know that we can work through that, and get over it, and start fresh.

04:04You say it was seven years ago, and it was, but I'm telling you, for me, it could have

04:09been last month.

04:11I'm definitely a different person.

04:12I'm so sorry, and I didn't mean to hurt you.

04:14I just, I feel like I know what I want now, you know what I mean?

04:17And that us running into each other was like fate, like it was meant to be.

04:21You know, I don't want to get too nosy, and I'm going to just jump in here for a second.

04:24I'm going to let you guys talk, but is this like a trust thing for you, Stephen, or?

04:29Yes, it is a trust thing, and I, you know, I was hurt, and it's been hard for me to open

04:34my heart fully to another person in that way, and I'm working on that, and getting better

04:40at it, and dating people helps, but with Emily, I don't think, I can't even imagine,

04:49you know, when you date somebody, or try, you know, see if you're right long-term with

04:53somebody, you've got to fully put, you've got to open yourself up fully, and I don't

04:56know if I can ever do that again with you, Emily.

04:59I'm sorry.

05:00I believe you that you've changed, and I hope, I believe you.

05:03I don't think you're lying or anything, but I can't put myself in that situation just

05:07with you again, I don't think.

05:10I know I lost, I know I lost our trust, but I know I can earn it back.

05:14I do.

05:15So, Stephen, I guess, would you be willing to give it a shot?

05:18I mean, maybe just one date?

05:19I'm going to stand up for my, kind of my instinct and my mental health, and I'm going to respectfully

05:25and lovingly say no.

05:27Okay.

05:28Okay.

05:29All right, Emily, I know that's not the answer you wanted to hear.

05:32I know you were excited about this.

05:34Stephen, thank you for your honesty, and thank you for coming on with us today, and you guys

05:38both have a great day, okay?

05:40Thanks for calling.

05:41Thanks, guys, for all your help.

05:42Yeah, you got it.

05:43Take care.

05:44Wow.

05:44There's a lot of layers to whatever hurt him, whatever happened between the two of them,

05:50and you know what?

05:51I kind of got to give him credit to just stand up for how he feels.

05:54You could feel how he felt through the phone.

05:59You could just feel it.

06:00Like, he is bothered by this, whatever this was, and he just cannot get over it yet.

06:07What are you going to do?

06:07If there's no trust, it's a good idea not to get into that relationship.

06:10100%.

06:11Okay, I got to get your reactions on this.

06:13800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.

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