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Second Date Update - Worth A Shot
Beasley Digital
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4/23/2025
Second Date Update - Worth A Shot
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00:00
All right, Kevin, we're in for one on this one, I feel like.
00:02
Yeah, this is going to be interesting for sure.
00:05
All right, second date update right now.
00:07
It's different than normal.
00:08
Usually we're just trying to set people up on a second date.
00:10
But in this scenario, Emily has reached out to us, and she actually ran into her ex.
00:16
They broke up like seven years ago, and they decided to hang out.
00:18
And she said, I'm telling you, the sparks were still there.
00:21
I mean, we're at different spots in our life now, but the sparks are still there.
00:24
I want your guys' help in letting me tell Steven this.
00:28
Her ex.
00:29
Yeah.
00:30
But are the sparks still there for Steven?
00:31
We're going to find out.
00:32
That's obviously the huge question here.
00:34
She's cool with whatever he has to say.
00:35
That's what she told us.
00:36
So we're going to call him right now.
00:54
Hello?
00:55
Hey, is this Steven?
00:57
Yes, it is.
00:58
Hello?
00:58
Hey, Steven.
01:00
Sorry to bother you this morning.
01:01
This is actually JR, Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.
01:06
What?
01:08
Yeah.
01:08
Yeah, man.
01:09
Hello?
01:10
You heard our show before?
01:12
Oh, of course I have.
01:13
Okay.
01:14
I appreciate that.
01:16
Hey, man.
01:16
We wanted to see if we could talk to you on the air, and it's actually about a woman who
01:21
is really into you.
01:23
Would you be okay with us asking you a couple questions?
01:24
Um, I'm nervous, but okay.
01:28
All right.
01:29
All right.
01:29
All right.
01:29
Totally normal.
01:30
This person kind of wants to tell you some things, and I'm going to kind of let her do
01:34
it herself.
01:35
You know who she is.
01:37
It's Emily.
01:39
What?
01:40
Yeah.
01:40
Emily, you there?
01:42
Hi, Steven.
01:43
How are you?
01:44
Uh, I'm, hello, hello, I'm good, hello.
01:50
He loves the word hello.
01:52
Wow.
01:53
I am.
01:53
Hi.
01:54
Hi, Ellen.
01:55
I'm enlisting some experts here to help me have the confidence to tell you what I want
02:02
to tell you.
02:02
You got this, Emily.
02:03
Go for it.
02:04
Okay, thank you.
02:06
Okay, so you know how, obviously, you know, we went out a couple weeks ago, and I have not
02:12
stopped thinking of you.
02:13
I just think that we picked up where we left off.
02:18
We are different people now.
02:20
I mean, you've been with people, I've been with people, and I just feel like maybe it's
02:25
time to reconnect and be together again, since we're a little older, a little wiser, and I
02:32
just, I don't think I've really ever stopped loving you, and so it would be really kind of
02:39
nice to see where it goes.
02:42
Wow, that's wow.
02:47
Emily, Emily, Emily, Emily.
02:50
Thank you, Emily.
02:54
I know.
02:56
All right, I'll just be honest.
02:58
You know, Emily, we've had a lot of history.
03:01
Emily, you know how I felt about you.
03:05
You know what happened to us and how I felt about that, and it was really great to see
03:11
you, and it was really great to go out, and I had a good time.
03:17
I guess the bottom line is, you know, I just, I'm going to be honest, I'm never going to
03:22
get over what happened between us, and I will always be there for you, and I'm very grateful
03:28
for you, and I care about you, but I can't go down that road again.
03:35
I had to shut that door, and like, I have to keep it shut.
03:38
Even though so much time has gone by, like, so much time has gone by, we clicked.
03:43
Did you feel those sparks when we were together?
03:46
I mean, not together, but you know, having dinner, like, I just, I feel like we still
03:50
have that, but we have grown wiser, and I've learned from my mistakes, and listen, I know
03:56
I hurt you, but I know that we can work through that, and get over it, and start fresh.
04:04
You say it was seven years ago, and it was, but I'm telling you, for me, it could have
04:09
been last month.
04:11
I'm definitely a different person.
04:12
I'm so sorry, and I didn't mean to hurt you.
04:14
I just, I feel like I know what I want now, you know what I mean?
04:17
And that us running into each other was like fate, like it was meant to be.
04:21
You know, I don't want to get too nosy, and I'm going to just jump in here for a second.
04:24
I'm going to let you guys talk, but is this like a trust thing for you, Stephen, or?
04:29
Yes, it is a trust thing, and I, you know, I was hurt, and it's been hard for me to open
04:34
my heart fully to another person in that way, and I'm working on that, and getting better
04:40
at it, and dating people helps, but with Emily, I don't think, I can't even imagine,
04:49
you know, when you date somebody, or try, you know, see if you're right long-term with
04:53
somebody, you've got to fully put, you've got to open yourself up fully, and I don't
04:56
know if I can ever do that again with you, Emily.
04:59
I'm sorry.
05:00
I believe you that you've changed, and I hope, I believe you.
05:03
I don't think you're lying or anything, but I can't put myself in that situation just
05:07
with you again, I don't think.
05:10
I know I lost, I know I lost our trust, but I know I can earn it back.
05:14
I do.
05:15
So, Stephen, I guess, would you be willing to give it a shot?
05:18
I mean, maybe just one date?
05:19
I'm going to stand up for my, kind of my instinct and my mental health, and I'm going to respectfully
05:25
and lovingly say no.
05:27
Okay.
05:28
Okay.
05:29
All right, Emily, I know that's not the answer you wanted to hear.
05:32
I know you were excited about this.
05:34
Stephen, thank you for your honesty, and thank you for coming on with us today, and you guys
05:38
both have a great day, okay?
05:40
Thanks for calling.
05:41
Thanks, guys, for all your help.
05:42
Yeah, you got it.
05:43
Take care.
05:44
Wow.
05:44
There's a lot of layers to whatever hurt him, whatever happened between the two of them,
05:50
and you know what?
05:51
I kind of got to give him credit to just stand up for how he feels.
05:54
You could feel how he felt through the phone.
05:59
You could just feel it.
06:00
Like, he is bothered by this, whatever this was, and he just cannot get over it yet.
06:07
What are you going to do?
06:07
If there's no trust, it's a good idea not to get into that relationship.
06:10
100%.
06:11
Okay, I got to get your reactions on this.
06:13
800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
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