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Second Date Update - Got Schooled
Beasley Digital
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4/23/2025
Second Date Update - Got Schooled
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00:00
We want to make this happen for Danny today. Sounds like a nice guy. We didn't have to ask
00:04
a lot of questions because he's thought this through quite a bit. Yeah, they just went out
00:08
for a coffee date, but he said everything went really, really good, but he's getting ghosted.
00:12
All right. So we do have his date, Charlotte, on the phone with us,
00:16
and we're just going to ask her what's going on. Charlotte, you there?
00:20
Yeah. Hey, Charlotte. Thanks for coming on with us. So we heard from this guy, Danny,
00:25
and you know you went on a date with him, a coffee date. He said it went really well.
00:30
Really enjoyed his time with you, but has not been able to get ahold of you since this date.
00:34
And we kind of just want to know what's going on and hopefully we can help you guys out and get
00:37
you guys set back up. Well, Danny was really nice and we had a nice conversation. We had a good coffee,
00:45
but I just don't think that we're really a good match like right now. Why is that?
00:54
Well, he's about to go back to school and I just feel like he's going to be working part-time and
01:02
then he's going to be really busy with grad school. Everyone I know who's gone back to school,
01:06
it's totally taken over their lives and like, he's not actually going to have time to date.
01:12
That's not the relationship that I want to be in. You know, he's going to be busy with,
01:15
with class and studying and then working when he's not doing that. And like, I like to actually be with
01:21
the person I'm dating and travel and do things like that. So I got along with him. He's a nice
01:26
guy, but I don't think that now is the time. But this is a good thing though, right? He's
01:31
furthering his education, you know, is he going to get his master's? Is that what you said?
01:36
Going back to grad school. Oh yeah. Yeah. You're good. I want to hang out to that guy.
01:40
Sounds like he's got, he's kind of driven in a good way. This would be a good thing, right?
01:44
I mean, he's got, he's got plans and he's got goals and that's great. Obviously that's
01:49
attractive, but like he has a lot of work to do before he gets anywhere near he wants
01:53
to go. And like, that's not, that just doesn't line up with what I want right now.
01:58
And what is it that you want specifically?
02:01
Well, stability, you know, and, and freedom, like financial freedom and time freedom to
02:08
just be able to travel and be together, not buried in like books or exams or anything like
02:15
that. Gotcha. Okay. All right. So you just kind of worry
02:19
that he's not going to have a lot of time for you. Yeah, basically, like I said, he's
02:24
nice, but I just don't think the timing is right. All right. Well, how long does it take
02:28
to go to school? A couple of years. A couple of years. Yeah. All right, Charlotte. Well,
02:32
here's the deal. Um, we have Danny on the phone with us and he's got a chance to kind of hear
02:37
your voice cause he hasn't heard in a while. He hasn't been able to get ahold of you, but
02:40
he has been able to hear what you had to say. Um, and he wanted to know what was going
02:44
on. So can we bring him back on for a second just to kind of get his reaction? Sure. Okay.
02:50
Thank you. Uh, Danny. Yeah. Well, like, hi, hi, Charlotte. Uh, I'm like, you, but it
02:59
sounds like I'm getting punished and you're not calling me back cause I I'm going to get
03:03
my master's degree. Really? I don't want you to feel like you're being punished. I just
03:08
don't think the timing is good. Sometimes that's all that there is. Like, haven't you ever been
03:14
with someone that you couldn't make the relationship work because you were just in
03:17
different places? Yeah. That's called a long distance relationship.
03:23
Yes, it is. That's not what I mean. Well, you just mean like different places in life,
03:27
obviously. Like different places in your life. Yeah. Like you have different priorities right
03:32
now. Yeah. But I mean, it's just for a couple of years. It's not that big a deal. And you
03:37
know, I'm going to be making way more money when I get the degree. So like I did just
03:43
seem like you're choosing a, you're over focusing on this way too early. Okay. We've
03:50
been on one date. Like we're not partway into the relationship and you're like
03:55
bringing this on. We, we went on one date. So I don't, I feel like you're taking this
03:59
a little bit seriously. Well, obviously he's taking his education seriously. He sounds like
04:03
a man with a plan, which is a good thing. I just, it's not my plan. Okay. That's fine.
04:09
It's great that it's his plan. It's not my plan. Her plan is to go out and
04:12
travel and have her weekends free. And not be with a boyfriend who would be
04:17
studying and working part-time. Is that kind of what we're getting?
04:20
Yeah. Okay. All right. Well, Danny, you kind of heard what she had to say. Is there
04:25
anything you want to say to her? I mean, look, I got my answer. I appreciate
04:31
the honesty of it. It seems a little like she just wants someone that's already
04:38
making lots of money and make it someone else's problem while they're getting
04:42
there. I don't know. All right. Well, um, it sounds
04:46
like it's not going to be another date for you guys. And, um, Charlotte's going to kind
04:50
of cut this one off now, which is totally okay. Up to you, Charlotte. And I'm sorry.
04:55
They call it dating. Yep. I'm sorry. We couldn't make another date happen for you, Danny,
04:58
but you guys have a great day. Okay.
05:00
All right. You too. Thanks for clearing it up.
05:02
Yeah. You got it. Yeah. You know, that's a bummer because he is doing something that's
05:08
trying to better his life and, and he's kind of is getting punished for it a little bit.
05:13
Yeah. But I mean, when you're walking into a relationship, I mean, to, you know, to have
05:18
to, she's going to end up supporting him. He's a student, you know, that's a lot to ask
05:23
though. That's a lot to ask somebody when you're walking into a relationship. Hey, yeah, it's
05:28
a great thing you're, he's doing, but is it really fair to her? She wants to travel.
05:32
She's at a place in her life where she, you know, has stuff that she wants to do. She
05:36
doesn't want to be tied down to a student. All right. Well, let's see what you think about
05:40
this. This should, there's a minute deal breaker. 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
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