00:00Right now, though, we are doing our second date update, and we are trying to help out Dana, who reached out to us, had a great time with Nick on their date, but has not heard anything since that date, and is just trying to figure things out.
00:12So, we do have Nick on the phone with us, Kevin, right?
00:17Yes, we do.
00:18All right, let's bring him on. Nick, you there?
00:21Yeah, hello.
00:22Hey, Nick, thanks for agreeing to do this with us, man, and we just want to ask you a couple questions. I'll get right to it.
00:27This is about a date you went on with this girl, Dana. We heard you guys went to Chewy's, had a great meal there, and she thought you were a complete gentleman, said that it was awesome that you paid for the date, thought you had a genuine connection, and I guess after the date, she texted you a couple days later and was trying to set up another date with you, but didn't ever hear anything back, and that was kind of where things were left, and we were trying to figure out why that is, because it did sound like you guys had a good date.
00:57Uh, did she tell you, um, what she asked me to do when we were to hang out again?
01:05No, she didn't tell us that. She just said that she hit you up to hang out again.
01:09Oh, yeah. Well, she, uh, the reason I'm not texting her back is because she asked me, uh, she wanted me to hang out when, the next time we hang out, she asked me to go to a therapy session.
01:21Whoa.
01:21Wait, a therapy session?
01:24I thought, she said, she thought it would be a good idea to go there, and I was like, what? Uh, and I thought she was joking. Um, no, this girl thought it would be a good idea if we were to go to a therapy session, it would be good for us.
01:40Um, and I was like, holy crap, and I didn't get back to her, and I have no desire to, because I think the whole situation with her is a little nutty.
01:48Hmm.
01:49Um, yeah, I can kind of, I can see how that'd be a lot. No doubt about it.
01:53And she didn't explain why or anything like that? She just said, I think it'd be good for us to go to a therapy session after one date?
02:00Yeah.
02:02Okay.
02:03I've never heard of this ever in my life.
02:04Yeah, that is, that is kind of strange and unusual.
02:07Um, well, I don't have any other questions for you, because...
02:10I don't think there's any meat in there.
02:13There's no, yeah, that's, that would be a really strange thing.
02:15I will tell you this, we do have Dana on the phone with us, Nick.
02:19Would it be cool if we brought her on and just kind of asked her about this?
02:23No.
02:24Please, I, no, don't, don't involve me.
02:28All right, just, I'll just, I'll just take a couple minutes.
02:31You know, just take a minute.
02:32That's fine.
02:32All right, thank you.
02:33Uh, Dana.
02:35Hey there.
02:36Is that true? You asked them to go to a therapy session with you?
02:39Uh, um, yeah, I, I did.
02:42I think that's a really good idea, you know, to, like, start a relationship off, right?
02:47You know, start your communication the right way, make sure there's no secrets, you know, all that kind of stuff.
02:53Wait, but after one date, though?
02:55Well, I mean, here's the thing.
02:58I've been really hurt, like, Nick doesn't really know this about me, because, like, you know, we've only had one date.
03:03But, like, I've, I've been through a lot, and I just, um, don't really want to waste my time or anybody else's time.
03:10If it's, like, not genuine, if it's not real, if it's not, like, the right match, and so, like, why waste our time?
03:16Just let's figure it out now.
03:18And, like, not like I'm expecting you to flip the bill or anything, and it isn't my therapist.
03:22So, it's, you know, just a privilege.
03:24Yeah, but we, listen, Dana, we, we just met, and, and, and it's just, like, I would understand this if this was after, like, a year or so.
03:35But, I literally just met you, and we went to dinner.
03:39Uh, so, I don't, I don't, I mean, not, it just sounds a little kooky.
03:43I'm, I'm sorry.
03:44I, I, I, well, I don't know.
03:47I, I, I ask anyone, really, if, if, if this sounds normal to them.
03:52Like, I'm sorry about your past.
03:54Like, uh, it wasn't me that did that to you, okay?
03:57So, it's not gonna, it's not, I'm definitely not gonna go to a therapy session with you after one date.
04:02Um, I, I mean, I guess I'm, I'm glad that you've not been hurt in a relationship, so good for you.
04:08Um, but I just, you know, you should just know, like, some people have been through different experiences, and so, like, that's why.
04:13But listen, listen, I, I shouldn't have to pay for your past bad relationships.
04:18Well, I'm not asking you to pay for it.
04:21I'm just asking you to, like, participate in making sure that this one is a good one.
04:26You should probably go to the therapy session before you date someone new, you know?
04:31Well, I understand that you're probably looking at it from a, a, a decent, good point of, like, uh, you're looking from a, uh, anyways.
04:39Uh, no.
04:41Watch this train of thought.
04:42Well, I don't think any guy would do it, okay?
04:44I, I have no desire to do it.
04:46I think we're on different pages here.
04:48That's exactly right.
04:49I was just gonna say, it seems like we are not on the same page about, like, what we're looking for, or, like, what we'd be willing to do if we met the right person, or whatever.
04:56So, um, uh, now I get why you didn't call me back.
05:00Although, you know, you should, you just, like, tell them.
05:03Okay.
05:04I'll, I, I guess the next time I'm in an awkward situation like this, I will definitely be clearer.
05:11So, I apologize for that.
05:13Um, yeah.
05:15All right.
05:15Well, at least you guys are communicating well now.
05:17Yeah.
05:18Yeah.
05:18Yeah.
05:19Absolutely.
05:19I feel like, um, maybe we could have had a chance, because we actually are listening and being patient.
05:23So, anyway, good, good luck to you, Nick.
05:26Okay.
05:26All right.
05:27Well, guys, it's not going to be another day, it looks like.
05:29I'm sorry.
05:30Uh, Dana, thanks for reaching out to us.
05:32Nick, thanks for your time.
05:33You guys have a great day.
05:34Okay.
05:35Bye.
05:36All right.
05:36See ya.
05:37Take care.
05:38I don't know who's signing up for that after one day.
05:41No, nobody is.
05:43That's a big ask.
05:43Now, I have empathy towards her of, like, hey, you know, I understand you're going through some stuff, or maybe you want to do it the right way, and you're seeing somebody about that.
05:51That's great.
05:52But to involve someone or invite somebody after the first date, I think that's a little much.
05:58That's a lot of much.
05:59Yeah.
06:00Yeah, absolutely.
06:01I mean, come on.
06:02I mean, she can't base every single relation on what's relationships on has happened to her in the past.
06:07That's true.
06:07So.
06:08You can't carry it over.
06:08That would be tough.
06:09But would this be a deal breaker?
06:11Maybe you could have worked it out.
06:12Maybe you could have talked about it.
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