Second Date Update - Went The Distance

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

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00:00All right, trying to help out David this morning on the 7-15 second date update.

00:03He's confused about his date with Haley, and we were able to track Haley down.

00:08We've got her on the phone.

00:09She has not talked to him since their date, so we're going to see if we can get some answers.

00:13Haley, are you there?

00:15Hi, I'm here.

00:16Hey, Haley.

00:17Thanks for hanging on for us, and thanks for agreeing to come on with us.

00:21We wanted to ask you about this date you went on with a guy named David.

00:26Oh, gosh.

00:28Uh-oh.

00:29What happened on the date?

00:31We know that you guys went to Bar Louie, and we know you guys, he said you guys hit it off

00:36and had a lot of the same interest, talking about family.

00:38I think he talked about mountain climbing.

00:40You guys are both into that.

00:41It's awkward in Florida, but whatever.

00:44But there's indoor places.

00:45Okay, I got it.

00:46Yes.

00:46But anyway, you haven't gotten back to him since the date, and he's just trying to figure out

00:51what's going on.

00:51I guess he's reached out a few times.

00:54Oh, I don't even want to think about this date.

00:57It was a disaster.

00:58Okay, so you know a little bit, I guess.

01:03Yeah, that's pretty much what we know.

01:04He kind of gave us some bullet points.

01:05A disaster?

01:06That's kind of...

01:07Okay, well, first of all, I live in Sarasota, and I thought that we were going to meet

01:14halfway, because he lives in Newport Ritchie.

01:17But a couple of days before the date, he said, oh, I got to be honest.

01:22I have a suspended license.

01:23So would it be cool if you came up here, and then I Uber and meet you?

01:28And he said, I was really embarrassed to tell you, but I just have to be honest.

01:32And I was like, okay, interesting, but sure.

01:37So I drive an hour plus to meet him at International Mall.

01:42And, you know, we went to Bar Louis.

01:44We met up.

01:45And he just wants to have drinks, like happy hour, but no dinner.

01:51And so our date was only like an hour long, because how long are you going to sit there

01:55and drink?

01:56I had to drive forever to get back home, right?

01:58And my drive was longer than the date.

02:01Man.

02:03Did you...

02:03Wait, so was the plan originally to have dinner?

02:06One would assume if you're driving an hour to go meet somebody, Uber.

02:11Yeah, that's...

02:12She drove all that way for an hour for some drinks and no food?

02:17Yeah, and he didn't offer to sit down and talk.

02:20And finally, I'm hungry, so I order myself an appetizer.

02:25And he...

02:26It was just so rude.

02:27It was weird.

02:28Like, first of all, your license is suspended.

02:30That's very weird.

02:31And you have me drive all the way up, and then you don't offer to buy me dinner.

02:36Like, it's just...

02:37It's crazy.

02:38It's rude.

02:39So, yeah, no, I haven't talked to him since.

02:41And it's just weird.

02:43Yeah, I mean, that's not cool.

02:44I think you accommodated him by coming up here from Sarasota.

02:48Absolutely.

02:49Buy the woman a meal.

02:51Lana's on your side.

02:52Yes.

02:55All right, well, here's the deal, Haley.

02:57We actually have David on the phone with us, and I want to bring him back on, because

03:00I get what you're saying.

03:01I get why you'd be frustrated by that.

03:03Hold on a second.

03:04David, you there?

03:05Yeah, I'm here.

03:07Haley, I'm sorry.

03:07I don't have to tell you.

03:08You know, I was trying to keep it casual.

03:10I apologize.

03:11Uh, okay, thank you.

03:18That's a good start.

03:20Well, but what's the reason?

03:21I mean, besides keeping it casual, I mean, you can have a casual dinner, right?

03:25Yeah, I mean, I guess I just, you know, I didn't think that, you know, I didn't think

03:28we were trying to, you know, do all that, and, you know, dinner's more of like a time

03:32commitment.

03:32You know, usually when I go on a first date, it's usually just drinks, you know, so if

03:36we don't hit it off, you know, it's easy to just say goodbye.

03:39But, you know, I thought we did hit it off.

03:42Okay, you said it's too much of a time commitment.

03:44I committed time.

03:45Do you realize that when I drove over an hour to see you and then over an hour back, which

03:50is gas money and time and effort.

03:53So it's a little bit of a commitment for me.

03:56And so I don't think dinner is unrealistic.

03:59Like, we were at a bar with food.

04:02We were surrounded by restaurants.

04:04That's true.

04:05Right next to Rocco's taco.

04:06You know, I'm sorry, I just, I didn't realize, I didn't realize that you wanted to eat.

04:11And, uh, you know, that's, that's on me.

04:13That's my bad.

04:15Okay, well, what if he was willing to take you out on a, on a more formal date where there

04:21was dinner?

04:21Would you be willing to go out, out with him again, Haley?

04:25No, because I want to date a guy who knows how to treat a lady.

04:28I don't want to have to how to treat a lady on a first date.

04:31Like, you're a grown up, we're all grown ups.

04:33You tried, you failed, I'm sorry, I'm done.

04:35Is there anything I can do to change your mind?

04:37I mean, you know, like I, I bought you drinks.

04:39I, you know, I paid for my Uber, like, you know.

04:43Oh my gosh, you're such a big boy.

04:45You paid for your own Uber.

04:46I actually paid for the gas to put in my car to drive.

04:50Cause I pay for my car.

04:51Cause I don't have a weird legal issue.

04:53I don't know what your deal is, but congratulations that you paid for your Uber and a couple of

04:58drinks, but no, it's a deal breaker.

05:00Like, I didn't call you back on purpose.

05:06All right.

05:06I got, yeah, David, I think this one's a loss here.

05:10Yes, it is.

05:11All right.

05:11Well, listen, I'm sorry.

05:13It didn't work out for you guys.

05:15I appreciate you, David, coming on with us.

05:17Haley, thank you for your time as well.

05:19You guys take care.

05:21All right.

05:21Hey, thank you guys.

05:24He's a little clueless, right?

05:25Yeah.

05:26I don't, I don't blame her at all.

05:28I mean, if I was driving over an hour and I was even going to get a meal, I mean.

05:33What was the first date?

05:34And the thing is she was accommodating him.

05:36Yeah.

05:36So wouldn't you go the extra mile?

05:38Absolutely.

05:39You should.

05:40I would think.

05:41All right.

05:41Let's see where you're at on this.

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