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Second Date Update - Show Me The Money
Beasley Digital
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4/23/2025
Second Date Update - Show Me The Money
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00:00
All right, Connor is, uh, it sounds pretty depressed, to be honest with you.
00:05
Commercial free new country, 99.5 QYK.
00:07
We want to set him back up with Rebecca.
00:09
So we're going to give Rebecca a call right now and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:12
Hello?
00:30
Hi, good morning.
00:30
Is this Rebecca?
00:32
This is Chief.
00:33
Hey, Rebecca, this is actually JR, Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.
00:37
How are you doing?
00:39
I'm good.
00:40
How are you?
00:41
We're doing great.
00:42
Random phone call, um, but we want to see if we could talk to you on the air for a minute.
00:47
Actually, about a date you went on.
00:48
Would that be okay if we just asked you a few questions?
00:50
I know that's weird.
00:52
Uh, sure, I guess.
00:54
Okay, cool.
00:55
So we want to talk to you about this guy, Connor.
00:57
Uh, we heard you guys went out and had a great time.
00:59
He felt like the feelings were mutual, where you guys were both into each other, you guys
01:04
were hitting it off, and he thought for sure he'd be seeing you again, and you guys would
01:09
be going on another date, but that hasn't happened yet, and we want to see if we can make it happen.
01:13
So what's going on?
01:15
Why are you not getting back to, uh, Connor?
01:17
Oh, okay.
01:19
So, him and his ex split up.
01:24
He was divorced, and we were open about that, and that was good and everything, but he told
01:29
me that he has to give her a lot of money in alimony, and, like, like, a lot of money,
01:37
like, over half his paycheck, a lot of money.
01:39
Oh.
01:40
Oh, wow.
01:40
That's nice.
01:41
And that just, like, I don't know, it took, like, me off my game.
01:47
It made me uncomfortable, and, and I don't know, like, it just, it kind of made me question,
01:53
like, how we would make dating work, if, like, he can barely, like, pay for stuff himself,
02:00
because he has to give all this money to this woman who he doesn't even, like, want in his
02:06
life anymore, and I don't, yeah, I just, I don't like it.
02:12
Well, I mean, obviously, this is a court decision, so he doesn't have a whole lot of
02:15
say in it now.
02:16
I mean, did you, I mean, can you really hold it against him?
02:20
I mean, no, I understand that, but I just, I guess that, like, I'm at a point in my life
02:27
where, like, I, I can provide for myself, and, and I want other people to be able to
02:32
provide for themselves as well, and, and if they can, if we can't provide for each other
02:37
either, then what's the point?
02:39
Did he pay for the date?
02:42
He did.
02:42
Okay, so, so he has money, but you're saying majority of his paycheck goes to his ex?
02:48
Yeah, and, like, and, and he has to, every time he, like, makes this financial decision,
02:55
or a financial decision, he has to think about her, and how much money he has to give her,
03:01
and how much he has for himself, and I just, I don't like that it's, that she's that, like,
03:07
involved in, in control of his life and what he does.
03:10
It just makes me uncomfortable.
03:11
Okay.
03:12
All right, well, I can see that.
03:13
All right, well, I want to tell you this, Rebecca, we actually have Connor on the phone
03:17
with us, and he got to hear what she had to say, and there's a lot there, and I want
03:21
to bring him back on.
03:21
Is that okay if we bring him back into this conversation?
03:24
Yeah, I guess.
03:26
Sorry.
03:27
Connor, is that kind of accurate about your situation?
03:29
I mean, it, it is accurate.
03:32
Um, unfortunately, you know, I, I got screwed pretty hard in the divorce, and, um, that,
03:39
it just is the way it is, the way it played out.
03:42
Um, I just didn't see Rebecca as someone that was, like, you know, kind of after my money
03:50
or something.
03:51
Like, I just, you know, I didn't think she was greedy.
03:54
She didn't seem greedy when we talked.
03:56
I'm, I'm definitely not after your money.
03:58
I don't want it to seem like that, but it's the fact that you don't have any.
04:04
Like, well, you, you have money for you, but how can you be in a relationship if you
04:11
can't, like, provide for the relationship?
04:13
And it would definitely be, like, a split thing, but it's definitely not fair for one
04:17
party to be more responsible than the other.
04:21
And I don't know, like, we're not kids.
04:24
We're not teenagers.
04:24
I'm not, like, a little teenager who expects you to pay for everything, but it would, it
04:29
would be nice to have you contribute, and it, it doesn't seem like you can.
04:33
I mean, you're not, like, wrong.
04:37
I can, I can cover myself, like you said, but, um, bringing in another factor into the
04:43
budget would be tight, but, I mean, I, I figured out, navigate it, um, and, you know.
04:51
How much longer do you have to pay, just out of curiosity?
04:53
Like, five more years.
04:55
Five more years.
04:55
Oof.
04:56
Wow.
04:56
You know, and then, but then, like, my income more than doubled, so.
05:03
That's one way to look at it.
05:04
Yep.
05:04
It's a positive way.
05:05
Yeah.
05:07
Yeah.
05:08
Okay.
05:08
Well, listen, the, the facts are kind of just a facts when it comes to this.
05:12
I mean, it is what it is.
05:13
Did you have a good time, though, Rebecca, with Connor?
05:16
I mean, I did, but, like, when we were talking about it, I already felt myself getting,
05:22
like, mad and, and, and upset and uncomfortable, and, you know, we aren't even, like, dating
05:29
yet, and I, I just, I don't want to resent him for this thing that he can't really control.
05:34
Like, that's not fair.
05:35
So, you're not looking for another date?
05:37
I'm not.
05:39
Okay.
05:39
All right.
05:40
That stinks.
05:41
That's tough.
05:42
Whew.
05:42
Well, Connor, like I said, man, I'm sorry that you're in this situation, and, like, it
05:47
just, it is what it is, and, uh, it's not going to be for Rebecca, so I'm sorry we
05:51
can't make another date happen, man.
05:53
It's all right.
05:54
I'll, uh, I guess after hearing that, I'm going to have to, like, find a, a sugar mama
05:58
or something.
06:00
Maybe.
06:01
Well, they're out there.
06:02
All right, man.
06:03
Have a great day, Connor, and Rebecca, thanks for your time.
06:06
Thank you, I guess.
06:08
I mean, that's kind of a stalemate there.
06:11
I mean, you, you, you're just in a situation like that.
06:14
I mean, he can't do anything about it now.
06:16
I understand what she's thinking, though, because for the next five years, it's going to be
06:20
like this, and he's giving money to another, another woman.
06:23
It stinks for both of them.
06:25
Right.
06:26
But, um, yeah, that's really sucks for him.
06:28
All right, I'm interested to see what you have to say about this one.
06:30
800-992-1099.
06:33
800-992-1099.
06:35
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