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Second Date Update - So Fresh and So Clean

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00:00Danny has reached out to us today for the 715 Second Date Update, commercial-free new country, 99.5QYK.

00:06They've hung out twice, which is a great thing.

00:09So you would think that was good.

00:11Second time they hung out, it was at his house, and he cooked her dinner.

00:16But since then, hasn't heard from her.

00:18He said something about making a move.

00:20Maybe it's because he didn't do that.

00:21He said he was a complete gentleman, so maybe that's what it is.

00:24And that's a bad thing to be a complete gentleman and not make a move?

00:26No, but maybe she was just looking for something else.

00:28Oh, all right.

00:29Well, we're going to find out.

00:30Hey, we're going to find out because we've got her on hold right now.

00:32Let's bring her back on.

00:33Elena, are you there?

00:35Yeah, I don't have a lot of time.

00:38I have to get to work.

00:39What is this about?

00:40Okay, so I'll get it right to you.

00:41Give me 20 seconds.

00:42Here's what it's about.

00:43It's about a date you went on with this guy, Danny.

00:46He told us that you guys went to a happy hour your first time you hung out.

00:50The second time you hung out, you went over to his house.

00:53He cooked you dinner.

00:54He said it went really well.

00:56You guys enjoy each other's company.

00:57He was a complete gentleman.

00:59And I guess you even texted him saying you made it home safe and thank you for everything.

01:04But since that text, after the date, he's been trying to get a hold of you, hasn't heard anything.

01:08And we were just wondering if there was a reason for that.

01:12Oh, yeah.

01:13He may have cooked me dinner, but I did a whole lot more for him.

01:17Okay.

01:17What do you mean by that?

01:18What kind of stuff?

01:20I basically cleaned his whole house.

01:22You cleaned his house?

01:23Yeah, like, when I got there, he had a glass of wine waiting for me, which I thought was sweet.

01:28But, you know, he invited me over to cook me dinner.

01:30And the first thing he has me do is clean off his table.

01:34He's like, oh, yeah, I didn't have time to clean up the table.

01:38Would you mind doing it?

01:38And it's like, okay, that's kind of weird, but sure.

01:40I mean, he's got, like, papers and dirty glasses, so, like, cleaned off the table.

01:46And then, like, I sat down to have a sip of the wine.

01:48And then he was like, oh, also, I didn't get a chance to vacuum.

01:52Would you mind just vacuuming under the table real quick?

01:54Oh, he did not.

01:54Seriously?

01:56Yeah.

01:56And I was like, uh, sure, I guess.

02:00So I vacuumed under the table.

02:03We have the meal.

02:04And, like, the meal goes well.

02:06But then he's like, so I cook, so you got the dishes right.

02:10And I thought he was joking.

02:12But he was not joking.

02:14He had this man that I have been on now two dates with has me do his dishes.

02:19And you did him.

02:20Well, yeah, I was so uncomfortable.

02:23Like, I'm in his house.

02:24I don't really know him, you know.

02:26I just didn't want to make it awkward.

02:28So I just did them and tried to get out as fast as possible.

02:33Hey, man, you're a good person for doing them.

02:34I feel like I would have bailed.

02:35Yeah, but you do that.

02:37You help out when you have somebody cook you dinner, though.

02:40That's not too much to ask, is it?

02:42If I ever have you over for dinner, I'll make sure that you're vacuuming as well.

02:45Not vacuuming.

02:46I'm talking about the dishes, though.

02:48You always help out with the dishes.

02:49It's a kind gesture.

02:50Right.

02:51I'm not sure I would do that on a date.

02:53But that's obviously the reason you haven't called him back, Elena.

02:56Yeah, I mean, the whole thing was just super rude.

02:59And, like, who does that, you know?

03:01Yeah, his name's Danny.

03:02Yeah, that happens.

03:03Well, listen, we actually have Danny on the phone, and I would love to ask him about this

03:08because that is weird.

03:10Let me bring him back on, Elena.

03:11Give me one second.

03:12Danny, you there?

03:12Yeah.

03:15I mean, wait, wait, just a second.

03:17Where I'm from, it's pretty common that if someone cooks, the least you can do is clear a table.

03:21So I don't understand why you're being a priss about it.

03:24Ooh.

03:24Okay.

03:25And, like, maybe if we live together, but this was the first time I've been to your house.

03:30You're supposed to, like, try to impress me.

03:32Like, we're still getting to know each other.

03:34I came over because you offered to cook me dinner, so I thought I was going to be able to just, like, relax and enjoy the evening, not work.

03:41I would have stayed home and cleaned my own house, you know?

03:45Okay, well, I went out.

03:46I did the grocery shopping.

03:48I cooked the meal.

03:49I brought the wine.

03:50And, like, you're just, like, complaining about vacuuming, which took, like, a minute.

03:55Not the time.

03:57It's how rude it was.

03:59It's that you should have done that ahead of time.

04:02If you wanted to bring me over as your guest, you should have made me feel like a guest, not like I lived there and had to pull my own weight.

04:09I feel like you're exaggerating a little bit, to be honest.

04:12Like, it was just a few crumbs on the bottom of the table that you had.

04:15The quick vac takes a second to just clean it.

04:17I asked you.

04:18It wasn't like you were doing my whole house.

04:20I wasn't asking you to be a maid.

04:22It felt like I was doing your whole house because it was three different tasks over the course of an evening.

04:27It was awkward and uncomfortable.

04:30And I genuinely can't believe you're trying to make me the bad guy here.

04:34I bet anyone listening would never ask that of a guest, especially on a second date.

04:40Is this something you do to your friends, too?

04:41Like, do your friends come over?

04:42You ask them to help out?

04:43Hey, can you wipe that down?

04:44Hey, can you vacuum this?

04:45Yeah, sure.

04:46My buddies that come over, I'll ask them to do stuff.

04:48And they always help me.

04:49It's not like I thought I felt that comfortable with you that you were already, I don't know.

04:55It was a bonding thing.

04:56I just felt very comfortable with you to ask you for that.

04:57I thought we were, like, on the same page.

04:59And then now all of a sudden.

05:00Well, I didn't because it was date two, Danny.

05:05And I was like, what's this guy going to ask me to do next date?

05:09Like, change his oil?

05:11Hem his pants?

05:12Like, what is my next task for you?

05:15I don't know.

05:17Maybe this is a mistake, then.

05:19I don't know.

05:19If you don't want to help out for a small thing, then what's going to happen in the future when I really need your help?

05:24I mean, not to look too far into the future, but I'm just saying, like, I really felt comfortable with you.

05:28You felt comfortable enough after first date to come over.

05:31Yeah, and then I didn't feel comfortable anymore.

05:34So.

05:35Elaine, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you probably don't want to hang out with Danny again.

05:41No, I've got some great maid services I can recommend for you, though.

05:44Uh-oh.

05:45Okay.

05:46Well, Danny, I think you and Elena are seeing this situation completely different, obviously.

05:51And it looks like it's not going to be a third date for her.

05:54So I appreciate you coming on.

05:55And, Elena, thanks for your time as well.

05:58Okay.

05:58Yeah, I got to go.

05:59All right.

06:00See you.

06:01I mean, the audacity to be able to ask somebody, hey, can you get a vacuum over there?

06:06Can you clean off that table for me?

06:07Like, to ask a girl to do that when you're trying to impress her?

06:10I mean, what is that?

06:11Yeah, I mean, cleaning off a table is one thing.

06:13If, you know, because, like, I work at, you know, our table, too.

06:15A lot of times it's messy.

06:17Sure.

06:17Like, computers.

06:17Hey, can you just clean that off?

06:19But to actually ask her to grab the vacuum, that goes overboard.

06:23And then tell her to clean up afterwards.

06:26Right.

06:27If she was like, hey, let's do these.

06:28Or, like, you know, hey, I'll get these dishes.

06:30You know she's going to offer to help.

06:32You would hope.

06:32You know she will.

06:34And so then you'll just do them together.

06:35But to say, hey, I cooked.

06:37You clean.

06:37That's a little bit too comfortable.

06:40Yeah.

06:41His argument was, I did all the grocery shopping.

06:44I got everything together.

06:45This is the least you could do.

06:46So, does he have a point?

06:47We want to know.

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