00:00All right, second date update right now. Trying to help out Kayla. We were able to track down Michael, who she's been trying to track down. He's on the phone with us right now. What's up, Michael? How you doing?
00:09Hey. Yeah, I'm all right. I mean, you know.
00:13No need to be nervous.
00:16Yeah, this is strange. No doubt about it. I totally understand that and the reservations you would have right now. But let me just ask you a few questions. I know you agreed to talk to us and I appreciate that.
00:28But we wanted to talk to you about Kayla. We heard you guys have been hanging out for about a month now and things have been going well in her mind.
00:36And she thinks you guys are a great match, a great pairing. But now things have dropped off between the two of you.
00:42She doesn't know why. We wanted to ask you straight up, what's going on here?
00:46I mean, you've been hanging out for a month and then nothing.
00:49Well, I mean, I don't know. There's something sketchy going on with this chick.
00:54And I'm just not having it. You know what I mean?
00:57Give us some details.
00:59So, you know, we've been together a little bit more than a month.
01:02And I mean, you know, I've been putting a lot in and I just really haven't gotten anything in return.
01:08Right. It's been a month.
01:10You said you guys kissed.
01:11Yeah. I'm not talking about, like, physical stuff or anything like that.
01:16That's where Alana's brain was.
01:18Okay. Gotcha.
01:19No, no, no, no. I'm not saying, like, oh, it's been a month.
01:23Like, why, like, it's not that.
01:25It's a relationship stuff, right?
01:27Over a month, I've never met any of her friends.
01:30I've never met any of her family.
01:31Never met anyone who's in any way close of her or part of her life.
01:36Every single date we've been on, it's only been, you know, like, one-on-one type of stuff.
01:41Right.
01:42She's never, like, she'll, you know, we'll be texting and she'll be like, oh, hey, I'm going to hang out with my friends tonight.
01:47And that's it.
01:48She got inviting me.
01:49Her brother was in town.
01:50She hadn't seen him in a couple of years.
01:52And, you know, she didn't introduce me, you know.
01:55So I just, I feel like, you know, I'm kind of just being left out.
01:59Like, she's hiding me or keeping me a secret or something.
02:01And I'm just not a part of her life, you know.
02:04And it's just, I don't know.
02:06It seems weird.
02:07It seems, it just seems real weird.
02:09Hmm.
02:10Okay.
02:11So you said you're feeling left out.
02:14I'm like a ghost.
02:15Has she met your friends?
02:16Yeah, a couple of them.
02:18Well, I got to be honest with you, man.
02:19We are on the radio right now.
02:20So you can't be that big of a secret if she's calling us to talk to you.
02:24There is that.
02:25I guess.
02:26I don't know.
02:27I mean, is her family and friends also on here?
02:31No.
02:31All right.
02:32I see where the problem is here.
02:33Okay.
02:33Well, listen, Michael, we do have Kayla on the phone with us.
02:36If that's her real name.
02:37If that's even her real name.
02:38No, she, no, that's Kayla.
02:40Kayla, are you there?
02:42Yeah.
02:42Hi.
02:43You heard what Michael had to say.
02:44I'm just going to let you respond.
02:46Yeah, Michael, I can't believe you feel that way.
02:50We've been hanging out for a month and there's a time and a place, you know, like I'm not
02:56trying to rush things and have you sit with my family.
03:00But, you know, there'll be time to go through all that.
03:03And my brother, when he was in town, it was just for a couple of days and I hadn't seen
03:08him in a minute and I wanted to spend time with him, you know, not like hanging out in
03:13some group.
03:13We weren't partying and painting the town red, you know, it was like one-on-one.
03:18I'm not saying that I would have monopolized your brother's stuff, but you could have invited
03:22me, you know, at least have me like stop by.
03:25Like I couldn't have dropped by to say hello, just, you know, grab a coffee with you guys
03:28or something.
03:29It's like I'm not even important to you.
03:31No.
03:31I'm not even like a part of the rest of your life.
03:34No, you are a part of my life.
03:36It's just, it's been a month.
03:38I don't know.
03:39I just, I don't understand.
03:40I've never met anyone that's reacted this way.
03:44In fact, I would think you'd be relieved if you haven't had the pressure to meet my family
03:49yet.
03:49Like you'd be glad.
03:50Maybe, I guess we just think differently about this because the way you show someone you
03:56like them and that they matter to you is by introducing them to the other people who matter
04:01them to you, matter to you, right?
04:03Like your friends and stuff, you know, you like kind of show them off like, hey, look
04:07at, you know, look at this person, you know, who I'm, who I'm into, you know, like that's
04:12how you show that they matter and show other people that they matter to you.
04:14It just, it isn't right to just kind of, you know, always have me as a segregated, separate
04:21part of your life.
04:22Like I'm not ashamed of you or anything.
04:24I do think you're important.
04:25Like we're talking to you on the, on air or we're talking to you on radio and I'm, I'll
04:30put it out there.
04:31Like you're a great guy.
04:33Okay.
04:33So you've heard what he had to say, uh, Kayla.
04:36I mean, would you be willing to introduce him to your, you know, your friends at least?
04:41I mean, yeah, I'm, I'm, I, I think we can like try and set something up.
04:47Oh, okay.
04:49So you're not hiding anything.
04:50Try to set something up.
04:52It, it kind of feels like you, you don't really want to do it.
04:57I don't know.
05:00You're just, you're kind of coming across a little whiny.
05:03Oh, here we go.
05:04Oh boy.
05:05You know, Michael, she did say she would try to set something up.
05:08Would you, is that good enough for you to see her again?
05:10I mean, she wants to see you again.
05:11We're on the radio.
05:12It's out there.
05:13But I mean, yeah, yeah.
05:18I mean, you know, I, you know, the, the, the dates that we've been doing and everything
05:23have been good and whatnot.
05:25I mean, you know, it's just, I feel like, you know, I'm, I'm definitely down to, to do
05:30this.
05:31And Kayla, you're still wanting to go out again, right?
05:34Right.
05:35Okay.
05:36Well, we are going to set the excitement.
05:39I'm not so convinced.
05:40We are going to try to set this up for you and invite anybody you want to invite.
05:45We will pay for it.
05:46And we appreciate you guys coming on with us.
05:48Hang on for me.
05:49Okay.
05:50Okay.
05:51All right.
05:52What just happened?
05:53I think maybe, I mean, he, it was like an insecurity thing almost, right?
05:58A month.
05:59I mean, come on, that's pretty early in a relationship.
06:02I wouldn't be inviting somebody to meet my family after a month.
06:06You're still figuring, three months, three months.
06:09That's your, that's your threshold.
06:11I feel, I feel like it should be everybody's.
