00:00Nathan has reached out to us today for the second date update.
00:03They have agreed to go on another date, he and Melissa, but that never happened.
00:07She's not even responding, but it's weird because they already made plans.
00:11What's even weirder is we have her on hold because she did answer our phone call.
00:16So she agreed to talk to us on the air.
00:18I don't think she's too pumped about it, but let's see if we can bring her on right now.
00:22Hey, Melissa.
00:24Yeah, hello.
00:25Hey, Melissa, thank you so much for agreeing to talk to us on the phone.
00:28And this is about a date you went on.
00:30And I'm just going to recap something or kind of what we know real quick for you.
00:35We know that you went on a date with this guy, Nathan, to Donovan's in Riverview.
00:40He was very excited about the date.
00:43He said he's been playing the date over and over in his head, thinking about what could have gone wrong.
00:48And all he can think about is the things that have gone right.
00:50And the fact that you guys talked about hanging out again.
00:53And he's really trying to nail down that next date with you, but hasn't heard anything.
00:58And it's just confused on what's going on.
01:00So is there anything you can tell us that might be the reason that you're not getting back to him?
01:04I just want this done, okay?
01:08Because, I mean, I've got to block him from social media.
01:12He's been texting.
01:14He's been calling.
01:15He's been on my social media.
01:17I get all these messages that he's commented on stuff.
01:21And now he's calling you?
01:23What is up with this guy?
01:25Well, he's really into you.
01:26So I guess.
01:26Sounds like he's trying to get in touch with you.
01:28Yeah.
01:28We had a great date.
01:31Yes, yes, yes.
01:32And then he was texting me fine.
01:34But I have like 35 notifications from him for every morning when I wake up.
01:40He's all over my social media.
01:42He's being a creeper.
01:43And you know what?
01:44This, hopefully this phone call will make him stop.
01:47Okay.
01:47So what is he doing exactly on your social media?
01:49Just commenting on things?
01:51Like, I don't know.
01:51Liking pictures?
01:53He's going through my pictures from like years ago.
01:57He's liking all the photos.
01:59He's commenting on all the photos, all the posts.
02:02He's getting fights with my friends over stuff that happened years ago.
02:07What?
02:07And I'm getting all these comments.
02:08And I'm getting my friends, you know, contacting me going, who is this Nathan person?
02:13So he's arguing with your friends in the comment section on your pictures?
02:17Yes.
02:18And I've had to delete like half of his comments on Facebook.
02:21Why don't you just reach out to him and just be like, hey, man, can you lay off my social media pages?
02:27Oh, my gosh.
02:28I think he would have gotten a hint when I don't respond back because I don't want to engage.
02:35Well, obviously he has not gotten the hint because that's how we got your phone number.
02:38And we have him on the phone with us.
02:40Oh, my gosh.
02:41And I want to bring him back on because it sounds like you're just really annoyed on his social media activity here.
02:47Or basically his activity on your social media.
02:50It's creepy.
02:50All right.
02:51Hey, Nathan.
02:53Yeah.
02:53You're hearing what Melissa had to say.
02:55Are you kind of, you know, doing the whole Facebook, Instagram stock thing?
03:00First of all, I don't think there's a problem with looking at your social media presence and just, you know, looking at you and trying to learn a little bit more about you and your background and stuff that maybe we haven't covered on our date.
03:12You know, I'm just trying to get to know you a little bit better.
03:14And if you would have called me back, I probably wouldn't have had to do some of these things.
03:18But, you know, I just got curious and I started looking at your social media stuff.
03:22I don't think that's a big deal.
03:24You are liking everything.
03:25You're getting in conversations and fights with my friends.
03:30It's not fights.
03:31It's not fights.
03:31I'm just trying to prove that you were right in the situation that, you know, some of your friends didn't seem to feel that you had a right to say.
03:39So I'm just backing you up.
03:40I'm trying to get to know you a little bit better.
03:43If you'd called me back, maybe I wouldn't do this.
03:45But these are posts from, like, four or five years ago when I did not know you.
03:51Yeah, why are you involved in stuff that happened, you know, a couple years ago, Nathan?
03:56Just out of curiosity.
03:58When you look up somebody on social media or Facebook or something like that, you want to go through some of their stuff and say, you know, what are they into?
04:05You know, have they changed a little bit?
04:07You know, can I go back and see what she used to look like?
04:09Has she changed her appearance?
04:11You know, hair color, cut her hair, things like that.
04:14But, you know, I'm just trying to get to know her a little bit better.
04:17Before a second date.
04:20You know, Nathan, I was going to call you back.
04:21But, you know, all of a sudden you're blowing up my social media and you're making all these comments and stuff.
04:28And my friends are asking me about, like, who is this Nathan person?
04:32Of course I'm not going to call you back.
04:34Okay.
04:34So, obviously, when it comes to social media, you guys should probably stay away from each other.
04:40But you guys did have a good date.
04:42I've got to ask this.
04:45I'm just going to ask it.
04:45Ask it to ask it.
04:46You've got to.
04:48Melissa, do you have any interest in seeing Nathan again?
04:51I have all the interest in getting him to leave me alone.
04:55All right, Nathan.
04:56It doesn't get more clear than that.
04:57I'm sorry I saw the answer you probably wanted to hear.
04:59Let's just lay off the social media stuff and let you guys just go your separate ways.
05:04All right, man?
05:05I mean, all this because I was liking posts.
05:08We had a great date and now this is what happened.
05:10It just wasn't her thing.
05:11All right?
05:11I hope you guys can kind of just separate and not talk anymore because I think that's the best for everybody.
05:16And I do appreciate you reaching out to us, Nathan.
05:19And thank you, Melissa, for coming on.
05:21Okay?
05:23Yeah.
05:23I hope this puts an end to it.
05:25I hope so, too.
05:26All right.
05:26You guys take care.
05:28I don't blame her.
05:29He's commenting all over her pictures on Facebook.
05:33I mean, they don't even know each other.
05:34He doesn't know her friends.
05:35That's kind of weird.
05:36Well, it's a red flag to anybody if you get a notification saying that somebody liked your photo from X amount of years or months ago.
05:45It's like someone's scrolling through your stuff.
05:47You're giving yourself away.
05:48Right.
05:48I don't think.
05:49Does he not know that she gets those notifications?
05:51And it all says, Nathan, Nathan, Nathan, Nathan.
05:53Like, I don't think he has any problem with her getting those notifications, which is the problem.
05:58Yeah.
05:58Would you have been freaked out by this?
06:00Or do you think she did anything wrong in this situation?
