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00:00The first couple travelling to open house this year are Tanith and Mark from West Yorkshire
00:19we met in the most lovely little pub the red lion like a typical old man's pub where you
00:26would not expect to meet anybody in that only attractive looking lady I've ever seen in that
00:30it took his chance this is definitely the best relationship I've had I like to smile she's
00:43just a fun personality she's she's always bubbly and not softy they share a house a chihuahua and
00:51big plans me and Mark is it we are like family now and we are thinking about you know the future
00:58with kids and that kind of stuff too essentially a ring but like all relationships this one has its
01:08ups and downs and some old habits are hard to shake I tend to have a bit more really
01:13I've always wanted to just do what I want to do when I want to do it and sometimes when you find
01:24yourself in relationships you feel a bit trapped I think I've always felt very much trapped so today
01:29Tanith and Mark are setting out to discover whether an open relationship could be right for them before
01:36this relationship I've never thought of non monogamy yeah there's always that stigma around that and you
01:41know it's quite taboo for someone to even think about it two friends two lovers but you you're still
01:47kind of free here to help the guests on their journey are the open house
02:11residents who are experienced in the extraordinary world of non monogamy
02:16actually being non monogamous is more natural to our human nature than being monogamous
02:24the open lifestyle for me is just about embracing your own sexuality and who you are as a person it's a
02:34very empowering feeling I like men I like to have more than one like three five sometimes you see the
02:46the orgasm of the men really tell me I we offer new couples some form and a bit of experience I'm a cracking
02:57it's good honey I am I here he's so fit anyone who looks like a drummer market and pan is completely my type I love a man with strong hands
03:02How's it going, honey?
03:14Are they here?
03:17They're really bad.
03:19He's so fit.
03:20Anyone who looks like a drummer.
03:23Mark and Tan is completely my type.
03:26I love a man with strong hair, as you can tell by the facial hair.
03:29I think fancy is too weak a word.
03:31I think we absolutely love their vibe.
03:35Oh, wow, the energy.
03:37She's cute. I like her.
03:40Hi.
03:42Nice to meet you.
03:46I love a guy with long hair to give me surfer vibes.
03:51And she with just a little pocket of energy.
03:53Absolutely brilliant impression.
03:57Very nice welcome in.
04:01So the worst case scenario would be that you would risk your relationship.
04:06And, yeah, of course it would be devastating.
04:09Nice to meet you.
04:11Hello.
04:11Hi.
04:12Welcome.
04:13I'm Effie.
04:13Nice to meet you.
04:14Hi, Effie.
04:14Nice to meet you.
04:15Come in.
04:15Guiding all new arrivals on their journey is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
04:24I think it's important to have a retreat like this because it provides a space that you don't have anywhere else.
04:30You can play, you can connect, you can explore, you can experiment, and you have a support network around you to take care of you to make sure that your experience is the right one for you.
04:42And I'm looking forward to challenging people to get out of their comfort zone and really explore non-monogamy.
04:52So how long have you been together?
04:55Two and a half years.
04:56Two and a half years, yeah.
04:57Okay.
04:57How is it going?
04:58Like, we've had a, we had a turbulent start.
05:01Okay.
05:02But there were insecurities and trust issues, you know, at the very beginning.
05:05And then I ended up cheating.
05:09Okay.
05:11And done.
05:12Caught in red on six.
05:13Caught, yeah.
05:15We've been together, I think, a year.
05:19Yeah, just like, tore my world apart.
05:22It was really hard.
05:23Feeling it, feeling we were in a good place and it's all to be shattered, I guess.
05:28And we had it, like, I think, took time for ourselves.
05:31And I realised in that time, like, he was worth, worth it.
05:38Dan, how are you feeling?
05:40It's like, it's just a lot of emotion, isn't it?
05:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
05:43Sorry.
05:44That's, yeah.
05:44It's all right.
05:45We're good.
05:46We're good.
05:46Okay.
05:49And was there cheating in your previous relationships?
05:51Do you have, like, a history of cheating?
05:52I've always had a tendency to be a bit unfairful in the past.
05:57And what were you getting out of those cheating experiences?
06:04I guess it's the feeling of feeling like you wanted or somebody is attracted to you.
06:08It's probably, like, not feeling good within yourself.
06:11So you're looking at getting that through other people.
06:15Maybe it stemmed from childhood or there was some insecurities within myself.
06:18Maybe I didn't feel like I was good enough and I was seeking attention elsewhere.
06:22Yeah, there's lots of different reasons why people do what they do.
06:25So how much of, sort of, your history of infidelity has impacted your decision to potentially open up your relationship?
06:35So I, I think I was the one that brought it up.
06:38Okay.
06:38Yeah.
06:39I knew I wanted to be with Mark.
06:41I thought maybe this is the right path that we should go down and explore.
06:44I think it was just, I think, for me, we're just, monogamy, how we're just failing at relationships.
06:51Like, I couldn't wish to make a better person than Tan.
06:53You know, she's just a great human, you know, nothing negative about her.
06:58You know, really good energy.
07:00And I don't want to lose that person.
07:02Yeah.
07:04So do you have something in mind that you want to explore?
07:07So we've thought about just bringing, like, a woman in and then going separately.
07:16Okay.
07:17We have thought about opening up our relationship separately.
07:20Obviously, we've had trust issues in the past and I think playing separate would build that extra level of trust in our relationship.
07:29If we do this separately, I think it could build our trust because you, you, you've gone through, you've gone through accepting that someone's gone off somewhere.
07:40You, you, you're aware that it's consensual and you both consented to it and there's no dishonesty or deceit.
07:47Okay.
07:48So this is about trust, right?
07:50Yeah.
07:50You're going to lean into that a lot.
07:51Yeah.
07:52So how about we create two separate socials for you?
07:57Where you get three to socialize, connect with people.
07:59Um, if you want to escalate things, we have beautiful spaces for you to go and do whatever you want to do with a little bit of separation, a little bit of independence from one another to, to have your own experiences with other people.
08:12You're going to, you're going to come back here tomorrow and we're going to unpack it together.
08:16We're normally joined at the hip hop, aren't we?
08:18Yeah.
08:19Okay.
08:20Well, we're here to challenge you and help you understand.
08:23Yeah, that's what we're here for, you know, we're here to try new things.
08:26I'm excited for you.
08:27Um, have a great time.
08:29Don't forget to have fun and I'll see you tomorrow.
08:32Yeah, see you tomorrow.
08:33Beautiful.
08:33Yeah, yeah.
08:34Let yourselves out.
08:38Trust is key to the success of their exercise tonight.
08:41They will be going apart separately and socializing and potentially connecting and escalating things with somebody.
08:47Oh my God, that's cool.
08:48Wow.
08:49And in those moments, they're going to have to lean back on trust to have a good time.
08:53Are you nervous about anything?
08:56I'm nervous about it.
08:57Yeah.
08:57She's got a friend in the deep end, isn't it?
08:59You know what I mean?
08:59That's what you boost me up.
09:01Single scenarios about each other.
09:03It's completely new to me and Mark, so I guess it's a big step.
09:07And something that would be difficult for me in this is definitely if one of us did something and the other didn't.
09:15You know, I think that would be the hardest thing.
09:17Next to arrive at this unique retreat are Chloe and Paul from Liverpool.
09:28Where are we getting led to?
09:29It's like the start of a scary movie where everything's all well.
09:33So me and Chloe are the same.
09:34I mean, we belong here.
09:36We do go like bread and butter, yeah.
09:39We met at 6-1 College, didn't we?
09:42Yeah.
09:42We've been together for nearly 10 years now.
09:45Married for three.
09:45Like, we're like two best mates going on holiday, do you know what I mean?
09:50That's what it's like.
09:55Soul mates from the start.
09:57Chloe and Paul have always been each other's one and only.
10:01Paul was actually my first relationship.
10:05I hadn't been with anyone else before Paul.
10:07Like, he was literally my first everything.
10:09Yeah, we've only slept with each other, yeah.
10:11So it is a fact that we have missed out on some experiences.
10:15I just feel like there's this, like, part of me that I kind of haven't unlocked yet.
10:22Now the curious couple are looking to expand their horizons by having sex with other people.
10:29When it comes to monogamy, why can't we have fun with multiple people and still have one partner?
10:35I think we'll find out if we're good kisses or not.
10:37Yeah.
10:38When I end up, like, clashing teeth and everyone is going, is this not how you do it?
10:45I feel a bit nervous.
10:46Be sad. We'll be all right.
10:48There's just that little bit of nervousness.
10:50That's what makes it all worth it.
10:51Yeah.
10:51Imagine you were numb to it.
10:53You'd be like, oh, like, what's the point?
10:55I think Chloe might be a little bit more nervous than me, but I'm self-confident.
11:00I've always felt secure.
11:02I'm not going to lie.
11:03I'm excited.
11:03So we're opening up our relationship and he's like my best friend.
11:06He's not just my husband.
11:08I think that's what makes me nervous.
11:10A lot of things could go wrong.
11:14Oh, my God.
11:15Tanith and Mark are preparing for a big night.
11:26You look beautiful.
11:28Tonight, they'll be going to different socials.
11:33Mark will be having fireside drinks with the retreat's female residents.
11:39Cheers.
11:39And Tanith will attend a cocktail party where she will get to meet some of the residents' men.
11:51I feel weird you're not being there.
11:53Yeah, I think that's the big thing for me is you're not actually being there.
12:00It's a big thing doing it apart, so I guess you never know until you're in there.
12:06Yeah, beautiful.
12:06My game plan tonight is to relax and just go and enjoy it.
12:12I just want to go out there and have fun.
12:16Here to collect Mark for his soiree is resident Marie.
12:21I do this sexy lifestyle since, yeah, seven years now.
12:29Sex is healthy.
12:32So I do a lot of healthy stuff.
12:36Hello, how are you guys?
12:40How are you?
12:40I am here to collect for Mark.
12:42Is that okay?
12:43Take good care of everything.
12:44Yes, we will.
12:46Oh, God, see you later.
12:47See you later.
12:48It's going to be fun.
12:49Have fun too.
12:50Yeah, enjoy yourself.
12:52See you soon.
12:52Bye, love you.
12:53Bye.
12:53Bye.
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13:13Having only ever been intimate with one another, childhood sweethearts Chloe and Paul are arriving
13:20of the retreat to explore opening up their relationship.
13:25Look at me with my backpack.
13:26It's like my first day in school or something.
13:30It's fine, isn't it?
13:31What's that accent?
13:32Eyes okay?
13:33Hi.
13:34Paul, okay.
13:35This is Chloe.
13:36Nice to meet you.
13:37Lovely to meet you.
13:38Lovely to meet you.
13:39I'm glad.
13:40I think they've got a good energy.
13:42Are you all right?
13:43Are you all right?
13:44Are you all right?
13:45Yeah, I'm so good.
13:46Yes, I'm so good.
13:47Lovely, yeah.
13:48Are you all right?
13:49I would spend some more time with them.
13:51She's very cute.
13:52She's got this beautiful, kind of innocent, cute smile, and I like that a lot.
13:56I feel whenever I hear this girl's acting, I'm like, right, party for you.
13:58We know who's there.
13:59Yeah.
14:00It was lovely, aren't it?
14:01Yeah?
14:02It smells so nice, hasn't it?
14:03I know.
14:05I think worst case scenario for me, she runs off into the sunset with someone else.
14:10That's kind of a worst case scenario for me, too.
14:12And you prefer it with other women.
14:17Hello, guys.
14:21Hi.
14:22I'm Effie.
14:23So, I want to hear from you.
14:24What brings you here today?
14:26Like, over the last two years, during sex, we've opened up a lot more, and obviously,
14:30our sex life improved, and then it comes to a point where, like, Chloe started opening
14:35up about her, like, being like your audience.
14:38How long this idea of bi-curiosity has been with you?
14:43It's been quite a few years.
14:45I did, like, have the thoughts when I was younger.
14:49I think about it all the time.
14:52Growing up, it was said all the time, like, oh, girls who are bisexual are greedy.
14:57Some family members I've spoke to, they're really supportive.
15:00But a few of them I've tried speaking to, and they just, like, blow it off.
15:06I think if I hadn't met Paul, I might not have been as open about it.
15:10Like, obviously, now.
15:12Like, I just need to try it, and then I'll know who I am as a person.
15:19OK.
15:20So, I want to hear from you what normal legamy might look like.
15:26Like, for me, like, I'm excited, like, to explore a woman's body.
15:32Mm-hm.
15:33But, like, for Paul to also be exploring the same person as me.
15:37Oh, that's funny. Yeah, that's funny.
15:40Like, my amazing reaction was, like, oh, that's cool, that.
15:43Like, I've hit the jackpot here, and my wife, like, wants to, like, experiment.
15:47It's like digging for treasure together.
15:49Yeah.
15:50And, Kylie, did you ever consider exploring women on your own?
15:54I think it'd be more, like, bisexual than, say, like, lesbian tendencies.
15:58Yeah, yeah.
15:59Like, you might enjoy it with me and the girl.
16:01Yeah, not just me, you know?
16:02On your own with the girl.
16:04You guys are a wonderful couple.
16:06Clearly love each other.
16:07You're very close.
16:09Um, one of the dynamics I notice is that sometimes you talk for Chloe Paul.
16:14I apologise.
16:15It's okay.
16:16There's nothing to apologise.
16:17I just want to explore it.
16:18I'm confident, you know what I mean?
16:20And, Chloe, if she, like, isn't confident in the situation,
16:23then I'll help her out to find the words.
16:25But I don't necessarily mean to, like, if she's got something to say,
16:28I don't mean to get in first.
16:30So, you are here to explore non-monogamy.
16:32You have no experience, and you're like, we want to do this thing.
16:35Let's explore.
16:36I'm going to start you off lightly.
16:38Tonight, there's a social.
16:40If you can, at some point, for a short period of time, separate.
16:47Go the opposite way.
16:48Yeah.
16:49Chat, chat, chat.
16:50Yeah.
16:51You know, look for connections, right?
16:52Yeah.
16:53Get back together, and maybe invite somebody,
16:55and just have that sort of first experience.
16:58Do you think you can do that?
17:00Yeah.
17:01Yeah?
17:02Yeah.
17:03Sounds like a plan.
17:04So, this is really about you just feeling your way around.
17:06Yeah, it's exciting.
17:07Can't wait.
17:08It's going to be miles full.
17:09Can't wait, yeah.
17:10Does that feel good?
17:11Yeah.
17:12Just ready to go.
17:13Beautiful, beautiful.
17:14Okay.
17:15Go out there, have fun, and I'll look forward to speaking to you guys tomorrow.
17:18Awesome.
17:19Yeah.
17:20Thanks very much.
17:21You're very welcome.
17:23You're welcome.
17:24Let's go.
17:27Paul and Chloe's relationship is almost old fashioned.
17:29They've met really young, and they really haven't had any chance to sow their wild oats.
17:35This is it now, like, what we came for.
17:37Yeah.
17:38The encouragement today is for her to socialise separately, without Paul being there talking
17:43for her.
17:44It'll be interesting to see how well she does.
17:46Oh, my God.
17:49I'm excited, but I'm nervous.
17:50Because I've only ever been with Paul, like, but I just feel like there's this, like, part
17:56of me that I kind of haven't unlocked you.
17:59But a lot of things could go wrong.
18:01Ladies first.
18:02I know they're sad.
18:03Of course I'm excited to see Chloe with another woman.
18:07I'll be there to support her, but really I'm going to have fun too, do you know what I mean?
18:11Some confidence.
18:12But every boxer has a plan until they get in the ring and get punched in the face.
18:16I can't wait to see what's in store.
18:24Yeah.
18:25Hello.
18:26At the retreat's camping area, Mark joins the ladies who are eager to make his acquaintance.
18:32It's all right by the fire, isn't it?
18:34Yeah.
18:35A little bit weird at first, you know.
18:37It's just all a little bit nerve-wracking.
18:39Mark, I can't remember your girlfriend, wife.
18:43Are you married?
18:44It's my girlfriend.
18:45Girlfriend.
18:46What's her name?
18:47She's called Tanith.
18:48How are you feeling not having her with you?
18:50Is that a little bit weird?
18:52We'll look after you.
18:53Yeah, I'm sure you will.
18:55Escorting Tanith to her social is Aaron, one of the retreat's single males.
19:04I think I've always been the more sexual person in a relationship.
19:08I love sex.
19:10I've always loved sex.
19:12Hello.
19:14Hello.
19:15Are you OK?
19:16Are you ready?
19:17Yeah, I think so.
19:20We're going to go and have a really fun party.
19:24Tanith is attending a cocktail party, laid on just for her.
19:30I'm feeling nervous.
19:31I guess it's going to be a bit like, well, there's a lot of people to talk to.
19:34Yeah, I'm just going to take it as it comes, really, and go in there with an open mind.
19:44Hey, everyone. Are you all right, guys?
19:46Hey, guys.
19:47Hi. How are you?
19:48This is the first time me and Mark have done anything socially without each other,
19:52so obviously it feels a bit weird and strange without him.
19:56Yeah, cheers, everyone.
19:57Cheers, everybody.
19:58Cheers, cheers, cheers.
20:02So how long have you been together?
20:03Two and a half years now.
20:05This is the first time being apart.
20:07There is no, like, a little wingman more than I think, but we are each other's person.
20:11We're our best mates, like, you know, just, like, soul mates and stuff.
20:14Obviously this is the first little, treading the waters and everything, and then...
20:18Yeah, yeah.
20:19Yeah.
20:24Secure, please.
20:25Okay, I'll bring you that to the back.
20:26This is a good service.
20:28Isn't it?
20:29Efficient, efficient service.
20:30Yeah.
20:31How old are you now, Mark?
20:32Don't mind me asking.
20:33Er, 34?
20:35I'm 40.
20:36Oh, yeah!
20:37I'm a secret.
20:38I'm a secret.
20:39You look great.
20:40I'm 40, thank you.
20:41What's your secret?
20:42A secret?
20:43I'm just moisturising.
20:47But you look incredible for 40, man.
20:48Oh, thanks.
20:49You look great.
20:51He was really easy going and down to earth, and I think that's what I found really attractive
20:55about him as well.
20:56He just seemed like just such a genuine person.
21:00With Mark proving to be a hit, the ladies are keen to move things on.
21:06We dare you to...
21:11Can I have, please?
21:12Two little lap turns for Mark.
21:15Oh, yeah!
21:19Oh, wow!
21:21Yeah!
21:22I feel like he's just one of them guys that you think, yeah, you're good looking, and then
21:27the more you spend time with him, you're like, you're sexy as fuck.
21:30I'm having a great time tonight.
21:31Yeah, I'm excited.
21:32I like meeting new people.
21:33Ultimately, all I want out of this experience is for us both to just have fun and enjoy it.
21:47Chloe and Paul are preparing for their social.
22:03Tonight, they'll be attending an 80s-themed party, with the aim of potentially meeting
22:16a female resident for their very first threesome.
22:19Just thinking a bit makes me, like, nervous.
22:25I think the nerves are starting to settle in a bit.
22:28If I'm not comfortable, then it's just going to be anxiety for me and a lot of pressure that I don't want.
22:35Are you not nervous or anything?
22:37No.
22:39Chloe's more nervous than me.
22:41I honestly think it's all going to be fun and it's going to be fun.
22:50Give us a kiss.
22:52Let's rock and roll.
22:53Yeah.
22:54That's that bit.
22:56I do rely on Paul a lot when it comes to, like, group situations.
23:00Like, he'll talk the back legs off my donkey, whereas me, I do get anxious.
23:04I think I prefer to close your hands.
23:06If I can form out my comfort zone and, like, challenge myself, because that's what we're here for.
23:14But, to be honest, I don't know if I can.
23:24As instructed by Effie, for a short time, Chloe and Paul will separate
23:29so the less socially confident Chloe can try making connections of her own.
23:36I think it's weird to feel a bit too relaxed about the situation.
23:41Paul can work any room.
23:43You need to make friends so quick.
23:45Hi, you're all right?
23:46You're all right, strangers?
23:48There are times where I don't really need a conversation.
23:51That's just my anxiety.
23:52That's what I need to work on.
23:54Yeah.
23:55So, is it the girls' side that you're looking to explain?
23:57Yeah.
23:58Yeah, when it comes to girls and stuff, I think you have a lot of the same body parts.
24:01Yeah, yeah.
24:03You know your way around a bit and it's not as alien.
24:06Yeah.
24:07Yeah, it should be, yeah, fairly easy to put things on.
24:10Yeah.
24:12I've never really had any experience playing with girls.
24:15There's just a lot of pressure.
24:17It's kind of like imposter syndrome.
24:18I've never seen you.
24:22Okay.
24:24You're still dancing.
24:25I love it.
24:26I'm just feeling the vibe, do you know what I mean?
24:28Just bouncing around the room.
24:30So, are you in here for her experience?
24:32We're here for her, but it'd be nice for me to just enjoy the situation too.
24:36Yeah.
24:37But I'm just looking for another girl to bring her out of the shell.
24:41She is like a wild card once you get to know her.
24:43Yeah.
24:44But it's getting her out of her.
24:46What's the situation with you?
24:47So, I've got a partner as well.
24:48He's also a Scouse.
24:50Must be a Scouse magnet then.
24:51Yeah, maybe.
24:53I've had with that.
24:55Yeah, it's going great.
24:56Yeah, it's going better than expected.
24:57But I'm also like, I wonder how she's getting on.
25:04What's the crack?
25:06We're here now, this is it.
25:07It's fun, isn't it?
25:08I am having a good time.
25:09I think it's just over here I'm like talking to so many people.
25:13It's still brand new, but how long have we been doing this?
25:15An hour?
25:16I know.
25:17Not even like...
25:18I know.
25:19A lot of these people have been doing this for like...
25:20Yes.
25:21...two years, five years, ten years.
25:22For us we've been doing it an hour.
25:23So I think even if we do this for a year, it'll still feel new.
25:27Yeah.
25:28You have to think it and then it passes.
25:29You're like, all right, I'll do it.
25:30Take that opportunity again.
25:31Yeah.
25:32You need to strike whilst the iron's hot.
25:35As a man and as a husband, it's my duty to look after Chloe and to push Chloe and to help her like explore anything she needs and give her what she needs.
25:46And if this is something that she needs, then I'm only going to support her.
25:50I'm nervous, but I'm okay.
25:51Just kiss.
25:52Yeah, let's go.
25:53Let's go.
25:54Let's crack on.
25:55It's good.
25:56It's exciting.
25:57Yeah.
25:58How old are you guys by the way?
25:59I didn't even ask.
26:0027.
26:01Same age.
26:02Yeah.
26:03I'll just...
26:04Shall I just go?
26:05I'm too old.
26:06You've got like a gentle scouts accent though.
26:07Like some of my friends in Liverpool, they'll be like...
26:08Yeah, I've been around so many northerners, actually picking out different twang from it.
26:09Yeah.
26:10I love it.
26:11Yeah.
26:12I love it.
26:13I love it there.
26:14I love it.
26:15I love it there.
26:16I love it.
26:17I love it.
26:18I love it.
26:19I love it.
26:20I love it.
26:21I love it there.
26:22I love it.
26:23I love it.
26:24I love it there.
26:25I love it.
26:26I love it.
26:27I love it.
26:28I love it.
26:29I love it.
26:30I love it.
26:31I love it.
26:32I love it.
26:33I love it.
26:34Once I started talking to Emily and Holly, anxiety was like lowered and I got more into
26:40the vibes.
26:41So I'm very bipolar.
26:43Okay.
26:44Say like my type of like punky tattoos.
26:46I know.
26:47I don't want to go into it.
26:49She's lovely.
26:50She's so sweet.
26:51So cute.
26:52So cute.
26:53Yeah.
26:54Very attractive.
26:55Really good vibes.
26:56Considering she came into it so nervous.
26:58Like really good energy.
26:59Just so you know, we're down.
27:01Yeah.
27:02So just.
27:03That makes it make sure we're down.
27:04Yeah.
27:05Yeah.
27:06I think with me it's a lot about like vibes.
27:10So if you make me feel comfortable, I'm like, it's just going to feel natural to me.
27:14Like I'll come back when I come back when I come back with you.
27:17Yeah.
27:18That's fun.
27:19I'm totally down.
27:20Yeah.
27:21Yeah.
27:22Okay.
27:23Hold your hands.
27:24Yeah.
27:25All right.
27:26How's that?
27:27Nice.
27:28You can say you've snobbed a girl.
27:29I know.
27:30I've never kissed a girl before now.
27:31That was my first time.
27:32I got like the butter.
27:33Like I got a feeling.
27:34So I'm hoping it leads to good things so we'll see.
27:35How's that making you feel?
27:36It's weird.
27:37It's weird.
27:38Yeah.
27:39Yeah.
27:40Yeah.
27:41Yeah.
27:42Yeah.
27:43You can say you've snobbed a girl.
27:44I know.
27:45I've never kissed a girl before now.
27:46That was my first time.
27:47I got like the butter.
27:48Like I got a feeling.
27:50So I'm hoping it leads to good things so we'll see.
28:03How's that making you feel?
28:04It's weird isn't it?
28:07I've only ever saw a kiss me.
28:14Yeah.
28:15I'm not gonna lie.
28:16Like this is weird.
28:19I don't know how I would feel.
28:34Earlier, Chloe surprised herself and husband Paul by kissing a girl for the very first time.
28:44And since she started, she can't stop.
28:49What are your names?
28:50Starting necking on.
28:51So you can just come out of the photo.
28:53And Emily.
28:55I got the ball.
28:56Okay.
28:57Okay.
28:58Okay.
28:59Okay.
29:00Okay.
29:01Sure.
29:02With things moving so fast, Paul takes Chloe aside.
29:12What's going on Ian?
29:13I know.
29:14You're beating me.
29:15I know.
29:16Makes a change.
29:17But.
29:18Isn't it mad how like all of a sudden it's went from nothing to like full on this.
29:20Because I know we spoke about doing it as a pre-summer.
29:21Yeah.
29:22I feel like I kind of want to go on my journey.
29:23I mean, not on my, like not on my afternoon.
29:24But.
29:25Even though like I'm obviously exploring this side of myself, you can explore too.
29:30Just literally don't even over think it.
29:33Yeah.
29:34Yeah.
29:35Yeah.
29:36Yeah.
29:37Yeah.
29:38Yeah.
29:39Yeah.
29:40Yeah.
29:41Yeah.
29:42Yeah.
29:43Yeah.
29:44Yeah.
29:45Yeah.
29:46Yeah.
29:47Yeah.
29:48Yeah.
29:49Yeah.
29:50Yeah.
29:51Yeah.
29:52Yeah.
29:53Yeah.
29:54Yeah.
29:55Oohów.
29:56Guys.
29:57Again.
29:58I can't even like to experience it all for, but…
29:59I kind of felt like it was kind of shifting.
30:01From, experience and something together to like take onto our own like separate journeys.
30:10Like there was a shift.
30:18Having made the decision to go their separate ways, Chloe wastes no time.
30:21Hi.
30:22Hi.
30:23Hello.
30:24How are you?
30:25Good.
30:26I wanted to know if you wanted to go to the U.
30:27Yes, absolutely.
30:28Love to.
30:29Love to.
30:30Sure.
30:31Let's do it.
30:32Let's go.
30:33Let's go.
30:34Let's go.
30:35And I feel like the way it's been tonight, I don't think anyone expected, like, I don't
30:40know where Chloe is now.
30:42Where's my girl?
30:47Right.
30:48Here we go.
30:49Where's Emily?
30:50Emily's gone too, so I don't know about that.
30:53She's gone with the two girls.
30:54She's gone with both.
30:55She's, she looked so happy.
30:58Shocked, like, I'm not gonna lie, I'm shocked, like.
31:01I thought it'd be baby step, baby step, baby step.
31:05And for it to happen so quick, caught me, like, off guard.
31:09Let's all just get cosy.
31:14Let's have a slumber party, guys.
31:17Cheers, girls.
31:18Cheers.
31:19Cheers.
31:20Cheers.
31:21It's weird, it's like the tables are flipped.
31:24And I wasn't, I wasn't expecting that.
31:27Has she ever had, like, a girl experience at all?
31:29Oh, really?
31:30Oh, really?
31:31Just me, like, yeah, yeah.
31:35Women's lips just feel so much better.
31:36Yeah.
31:37Yeah.
31:38Yeah.
31:39Oh, cosy cosy.
31:40Oh.
31:41Oh.
31:42Oh, cosy cosy.
31:43We're going to have to step on me game now.
31:53Not to be outdone.
31:54Just want to go on the outdoor jacuzzi.
31:55Paul arranges his own after-party.
31:56A little chat and a little laugh and see where it goes, yeah?
31:59Yeah, that would be nice. Yeah, I'd like that.
32:01Sounds awesome. Right, let's have it. Let's go do it.
32:03Let's have it!
32:08Ooh, you got a central massage oil.
32:10Would you like a little massage from me and Emily?
32:13To be honest, I'm so nervous on the insides, but I'm pushing.
32:16I know, if I don't, like...
32:19I want it, but I know if, like, I shy away,
32:22like, I'll shut myself off to me.
32:25Two women instead of one, I know.
32:27I don't know if it's too much, like, more than what I bargained for.
32:38At the festival area,
32:40Mark is enjoying his dating experience away from partner Tanith.
32:45And as the Fireside Games heat up...
32:49Give a French kiss to Lily for me.
32:52I'm a hundred percent alive.
32:54What hot she is!
33:00That's hot!
33:02Ooh-la-la! Ooh-la-la!
33:03For sure!
33:05Kissing without my partner felt a little bit...
33:08strange at first,
33:10but I think I loosened up a little bit.
33:13It was quite fun.
33:14Yeah!
33:16Yeah!
33:18That's nice!
33:20Mark is definitely my type.
33:23Such a vibe and just fucking attractive.
33:25You're a great kisser, by the way.
33:27Oh, thank you.
33:29I want to try now!
33:31There's a lot of names.
33:32I'll get there, I'll get there!
33:33I'll get there!
33:34Meanwhile, at the cocktail party...
33:36Say hello to everyone!
33:37...open couple Lou and Ellie have taken Tanith under their wing.
33:41Well, we've both been in the lifestyle for, like...
33:44We've been different...
33:46Yeah, yeah, over ten years, but together four years.
33:51Yeah, so, um...
33:52Have you got, like, any, like, what...
33:54Like, I was looking at your legs and everything when you came in and you...
33:57Oh!
33:58I know, like a little...
34:00But she's still thinking about Mark.
34:03Yeah, that's what Mark used to go with.
34:05Me and Mark, we're quite good at the gym.
34:07We go to the gym together.
34:09He's my, uh, inspiration,
34:10cos I wouldn't go for him, I don't think.
34:13It's a bit like,
34:14Oh, my partner's gone now.
34:15Like, it's a bit weird,
34:16but I'm sure he's in good hands.
34:18Yeah!
34:19Yeah, it's going...
34:20Going good.
34:21I think, for me, the next step would be to, obviously, get to know the girls a little bit more.
34:37I'm gonna go back to the yurt now, and if you ladies wanna follow me, then you're welcome to.
34:45Yeah, we loved it!
34:46Everyone's the fun I do!
34:47Yeah, get warm!
34:49Come on, then!
34:50Let's go! Let's do this!
34:51Take us to your yurt!
34:56Didn't expect it'd be going like this.
35:00What about Tanith?
35:01Are you thinking about Tanith at all?
35:03Do you think she's having a good time?
35:04I'm not really thinking too much about Tanith,
35:06otherwise that'll distract me from what I'm doing here.
35:10Do you think he was thinking about Tanith?
35:12No.
35:13Yeah, he didn't seem too worried, but he's the one coming into this experience,
35:17and this is him pushing his own boundaries.
35:21I'm eager to get out there and have a good night.
35:23Just looking forward to having fun and seeing what happens.
35:27Welcome to my place.
35:36Since wife Chloe went it alone, Paul's found himself in the hands of Grace and Naomi,
35:42both eager to become his non-monogamy guides.
35:45I think here we've just been raised, haven't we, with one idea of what a relationship looks like.
35:51Yeah.
35:52You know?
35:53There's a million ways to navigate a relationship,
35:55and you're in control of how you want to do that.
36:00It's just like...
36:02It's exciting, yeah.
36:06Yeah, it's good.
36:07It's like this feeling.
36:08Hopefully amazing right now.
36:09Probably on top of the world, yeah.
36:10Hopefully amazing right now.
36:13We'll take our clothes off.
36:16Have you got kids together?
36:17No, no.
36:18No.
36:19Do you plan on having children?
36:20Yeah, yeah.
36:21So, like, here's the thing.
36:22Like, you're good when you started.
36:24Here's the thing.
36:26We've struggled to have kids.
36:28Like, we had a house, we were like, like, this is the next step, now, to have a kid.
36:31Yeah.
36:32Like, we're trying, trying, trying.
36:33Oh, it hasn't happened, yeah.
36:34Trying again, trying again, trying again.
36:36Still hasn't happened.
36:37Like, this is like nine months.
36:38Oh, wow.
36:39She just got investigating, like, you've got endometeosis.
36:43This year, she's getting a surgery, so we could have kids, possibly next year.
36:47Yeah.
36:51You've obviously had a lot of, like, experience in this life,
36:53this lifestyle, so...
36:55Yeah.
36:56It's a bit of vanilla, mate.
36:57Still very new to it.
36:58Vanilla's fine.
37:01I could definitely sense Paul's nerves.
37:03I think it was extra daunting because then there wasn't just one girl there, there was
37:07two.
37:08So, it was probably difficult for him to make that first move.
37:15You were born to be a lesbian!
37:18I've asked myself that I feel like it's been missing type thing.
37:21So, yeah, it's just, like, I can learn about who I am now.
37:27My relationship with Chloe is everything to me.
37:30I think worst-case scenario for me.
37:32Chloe can meet a woman and a woman can fulfill her needs more,
37:35and she could leave me, and I'd have to deal with that.
37:39We are broken.
37:40I would have to be all broken.
37:47PAULE HASN'T SEEN WIFE, CHLOE, SINCE HER SURPRISED DISAPPEARANCE
37:52Paul hasn't seen wife Chloe since her surprise disappearance with residents Holly and Emily
38:06over four hours ago.
38:13Hello.
38:14Hi.
38:15Yeah.
38:17You OK?
38:18Yeah.
38:19Can you come and tell me about it?
38:21What did you do then?
38:23They went down on me.
38:24Oh, God.
38:25Yeah.
38:26Did they?
38:27Yeah.
38:28And then I went down on Emily.
38:34Did you?
38:35Yeah.
38:36And then we did like kind of like a triangle.
38:40What?
38:42A triangle?
38:43Yeah.
38:43What does that even look like?
38:45What does that even look like?
38:46It's like Holly and I was eating Emily out.
38:49And then Emily like done was eating meals.
38:52Who likes to do?
38:53You can't help?
38:56What can I help her?
38:58What?
38:59I know.
39:02Felt right?
39:04Yeah.
39:06Do you think you're all bisexual then?
39:08Yeah.
39:09Definitely do.
39:09Yeah.
39:10That's like impressive.
39:11But it's always like what?
39:13Yeah.
39:13That's like mental.
39:14Sorry, I'm just trying to deal with the stuff you just told me.
39:18Like what?
39:18Yeah.
39:19That is mental.
39:20I know.
39:21What about you?
39:22I went to the hot tub with Naomi and Grace.
39:25We were just like, to be honest, we were just talking.
39:28But then literally like that was it.
39:30And really we were just thinking about you and talking about you.
39:32You know what I mean?
39:33Like mental what you got up to.
39:35It was nice.
39:37It is different being with a man than me.
39:39Like to be with a woman.
39:40More like sensual.
39:46Does that mean that you're still like attracted to me and you still have sex with me and stuff?
39:54Yeah.
39:57Wow.
39:58That is mental.
39:59No.
40:01Ironically I was the one out in my comfort zone tonight.
40:04Fuck yeah.
40:05Well, I can't.
40:07This is information overload.
40:13That is mental.
40:14I'm just like.
40:15In shock.
40:17That was not the plan.
40:19And like it wasn't even something we'd like give thought to.
40:26When you're doing it, I know.
40:28So it's like.
40:30It's on me.
40:31But I don't know if I can like have sex with me.
40:34It's all right now.
40:38It's all right now.
40:38It's all right now.
40:47yeah mark is getting cozy in the yurt with six female residents meanwhile partner tanith's feet
41:09remain firmly on the ground it is very nerve-wracking but everyone's so lovely
41:14no no it's just overwhelming but yeah it's just us it's just so free and happy and you know just
41:21excited to be here and be involved kind of got a good vibe from all the people but i don't think
41:27there's that kind of romantic spark any yeah it's just been quite you know getting to know everyone
41:33i think that one's yours thank you what do you what do you do for work really do you not ever
41:43just get pulled over i'm quite strong i think tanith is great she's got loads of energy bubbly
41:50i would look to explore it further so that my strength is giving i normally just give okay so
41:58that's that's kind of my thing and if that was something that would interest you did you want
42:04to like continue this maybe somewhere a bit more private or i guess our vibes are like the same but
42:15like i think you're like top that honestly you'd be like it really is literally to talk to you like do you think you can handle all of us
42:28what about what do you girls think do you girls think you can handle me
42:35didn't expect they'd be going like this but i'm just kind of going with flow and uh you know if
42:45everybody's comfortable and happy then you know what will be will be i have a proposition i think
42:50we can all kiss to make you a little bit relaxed a frenchie
43:05as mark's night intensifies
43:09bye bye guys tanith has come to an end
43:14i'm gonna head up but it's been lovely i'm sad to see you all go but i'll see you i'll see you
43:20hopefully i just decided to call it a night really because i didn't feel that sexual chemistry
43:25that connection with anyone to like go any further
43:28you're so cute
43:34oh it smells so good
43:38i don't know what mark's been up to i think if i thought about that it would be yeah but uh yeah no
43:50oh
43:56oh
44:01oh
44:04oh
44:10oh
44:12oh
44:14oh
44:16oh
44:19I think the unknown is hard.
44:46Having fun?
44:48Having fun?
44:55Next time on Open House...
45:02Do you think there were any boundaries crossed?
45:10It's massively important that we can invite another woman into the relationship.
45:15Now I need to step out my comfort zone.
45:18I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we ever will.
45:21Oh, I'm going to burn myself.
45:23It's absolutely bonkers.
45:26Literally, like, what are we doing?
45:29I don't know.
45:30I think that's the reason why I'm going to do it.
45:31It's just about a few of them.
45:33I think it's not enough to run through my mind.
45:35I'm going to go ahead and push this to the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side.
45:37We're going to get you all the way through the side of the side of the side of the side of the side of the side.
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