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00:00Anxious.
00:01It's just you're alone, isn't it?
00:03Yes.
00:05En route to the unique retreat today
00:07are married couple Jamie and Charmaine from Essex.
00:11I do put you in some situations, don't I?
00:16Jamie is very laid back.
00:19That's the first thing that comes to mind when I think of Jamie.
00:22I would describe myself as quiet, private.
00:26In the past, I've spoke for you a lot, haven't I?
00:28Yeah.
00:29I'm very chaotic.
00:32The couple have been together for eight years
00:35and have three children,
00:37two from Charmaine's previous relationship and one together.
00:41Our lives are very mundane.
00:43Just a normal family, just trying to get by.
00:45Very unsuspecting to do something like this.
00:51Charmaine believes that opening up their relationship
00:54will make up for lost time.
00:56When I was 18, I was raising children, so I never had that sort of rebellious teenage
01:03stage, you know, drinking, partying, and neither of us have been with, like,
01:09lots of previous sexual partners, even now.
01:13Me and Jamie, we don't go out socialising loads.
01:16So, the social aspect of opening up is just as appealing for us as, like, the sexual aspect.
01:22No going back now.
01:23If you're secure in your relationship,
01:28that opening up can be a great thing, it has an element of honesty about what it is you desire.
01:33I just feel like we're not meant to be with one person our whole lives.
01:37I feel like we're...
01:38Why would we limit ourselves to one person if we can experience all of these different things together?
01:45How are you feeling?
01:46I'm nervous to, uh, meet new people, but I think it'll be a good thing for us.
01:52Just got to go with it.
01:55I am a little bit worried that this experience might cause a lot of conflicts if it was to go wrong.
02:01You know, it's not just us to think about, it's all of the children.
02:05There's a lot riding on this then.
02:07Yeah, there is a lot.
02:09There's a lot at stake.
02:11It's not something we've taken lightly.
02:13I feel like we're walking into a lion's den, to be honest.
02:17I'm anxious of the unknown and the fact that if we do end up opening up,
02:22I don't know how I'm going to feel in that moment.
02:25Sort of doing this is very out of character for me.
02:29This is it.
02:30What are we doing?
02:35Oh my god, they're so cute.
02:38Welcome.
02:39Hiya.
02:42I know couples coming to the retreat are going to be extremely nervous.
02:45What are we getting ourselves into, okay?
02:47My advice is rip that band-aid off and just do it.
02:50Hi.
02:51Hello, guys.
02:52Hi, I'm Jen.
02:53How you doing?
02:54Welcome to the house.
02:55Can't wait to get to know them.
02:57Yeah, I think there's definitely an initial sexual attraction there for us.
03:01Yeah, for sure.
03:01Hello, gorgeous.
03:02Mwah.
03:03Welcome.
03:04So we're looking forward to seeing where we can take things.
03:07Lily.
03:07I'm Charmaine.
03:08Charmaine, nice to meet you.
03:10Charmaine and Jamie are super hot.
03:12They seem really friendly and nice.
03:13Excited to be here.
03:14I'm a bit nervous.
03:15We're nervous.
03:16We're definitely nervous, but we are excited.
03:17Everyone here is super lovely, so.
03:20Jamie did seem a little bit apprehensive, maybe a little bit of nerves there.
03:24What do you think?
03:24Yeah.
03:25He's a bit of you, isn't he?
03:26Yeah, they're both really good.
03:28Everyone's like, oh, it's nice.
03:30Book the order room for tonight, please.
03:34I don't think we expected to be greeted by so many people, but I think it was very daunting
03:38sort of walking into that situation because it's the unknown and everybody's so confident.
03:42God.
03:47I love you.
03:48I love you too.
03:53Are you okay?
03:56I can feel you.
04:02On hand to help Charmaine and Jamie navigate opening up their relationship is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
04:09Hello, welcome, welcome.
04:11I'm Effie, nice to meet you.
04:12You too.
04:13Come in, come in, come in.
04:19Take a seat on the couch, make yourselves comfortable.
04:25What brings you here today?
04:27I think opening up has been something that we've spoken about for about five years maybe now,
04:33four or five years at least.
04:34So is variety something that kind of excites you?
04:40Neither of us have had much, like many sexual partners in the past.
04:44I've only slept with three people.
04:47Okay.
04:47Whose idea was opening up?
04:50It was mine.
04:50Okay.
04:51It was mine.
04:52I'm just the bad influence.
04:53Okay.
04:54How did you throw it on?
04:55I think that I said, like, I'd like to see him with another woman.
04:59Okay.
05:01At first I was a bit like, okay, I wasn't expecting this.
05:06And the more I thought about it, I sort of thought,
05:09perhaps if we are going to open up, the safest route would be to do it together.
05:13Okay.
05:14With another couple.
05:14Okay.
05:15What do you think is going to be the biggest hurdle for you?
05:17I think for me, maybe the fear of rejection a little bit.
05:24I have quite a few insecurities.
05:28I've had my children very young, so obviously, you know, my body has changed a lot.
05:33So, like, the idea of approaching people and being rejected, that makes me nervous.
05:40Everybody is afraid of being rejected, especially in the non-monogamy world.
05:44And more often than not, no one's really rejecting the person.
05:48It's just about what they want and what they're looking for doesn't align with what you're looking
05:53for.
05:54Does that make sense?
05:54Yeah, that makes sense.
05:57For you, Jamie?
05:58What do you think is going to be the biggest hurdle for you?
06:00I feel like the social aspect of it will be the biggest barrier.
06:04I feel like I can, you can probably see it now, I talk over Jamie a lot.
06:08I feel like I lead the conversations.
06:10Do you feel that?
06:11Do you have awareness of that?
06:13Yes, sometimes I'm grateful for it as well though.
06:16Sometimes I think it takes the pressure off.
06:21I can sort of hide behind her, I guess.
06:23Yeah, yeah, for sure, yeah.
06:25Do you feel seen?
06:28I try and hide, I try to be unseen.
06:29Tell me why you want to be unseen.
06:31Um, I'm guessing, um, it feels, um, safer.
06:40Yeah, okay.
06:50I spend a lot of time questioning what people's intentions actually are.
06:55I can imagine that makes connecting really hard.
06:57It can do, yeah.
06:59Yeah.
07:03Why do you want to take this, like, massive leap into non-monogamy,
07:08which is going to challenge all these things that you're struggling with?
07:12We go backwards and forwards, don't we?
07:14Like, is it something we really, really want?
07:16Sure, it's a big decision.
07:17Or is it something that is just a fantasy?
07:21Tonight, there's going to be a social, because we like the party around here.
07:26I want to challenge you, because this is what this is about.
07:29When you meet somebody, when you're in a social circle,
07:32the whisper in the back of your head is saying,
07:34this person has the potential to hurt me.
07:37Can we change that whisper to, I want to get to know this person?
07:40What are they passionate about?
07:42Does that make sense?
07:44I feel like that's given me a lot to work with.
07:47Right. And then, hopefully, you would have connected with a couple
07:53that might join you this evening.
07:56No pressure.
07:56Okay.
07:58Thank you for sharing. Thank you.
08:07Oh, my goodness.
08:08Oh, my goodness.
08:11Yes, I pray.
08:12Jamie has deep shyness and mistrust,
08:15and I am worried that that might get in the way of him making the connections.
08:19I'm hoping that he won't shut down.
08:20I thought you said they don't get emotional.
08:22Oh, you know me.
08:24I don't get emotional in front of people.
08:27Apart from you, who gets the absolute brunt of it.
08:30I do feel that because I was the one that sort of instigated the conversation about opening up
08:37with Jamie, I feel like I'm the more eager of the two. And I think I'm a little bit worried that
08:45Jamie's sort of confidence or insecurities, if you will, will sort of hold me back.
08:52I think the biggest hurdle for us will be...
08:56Me trusting people.
08:59Try not to analyse into how you're feeling too much.
09:04Obviously, I'm going to try and do that.
09:05Yeah.
09:06But this is a lifelong habit.
09:07I don't think it's going to come that easily.
09:09No, I don't think anything worth having comes easy.
09:16Previously on Open House...
09:18It's two guys!
09:22Back in the dirt!
09:24I have identified as gay since I came out when I was 18.
09:28Today, I don't know.
09:32I'm interested in being with a woman sexually.
09:36The worst case scenario would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting.
09:40You've not explored a female body.
09:43Do you know what you're doing?
09:44I do not know what I'm doing.
09:46No, no, no. We don't know what we're doing.
09:49Maybe go and have a chat with Naomi and Jen.
09:53Yeah.
09:53Let's fucking do it.
09:56Here comes some of the girls.
09:58This is definitely a very big moment in our relationship because this is
10:03a doorway towards something which could be like a huge change for us.
10:06Engaged couple Chris and Simon are at the retreat to discover if they have any attraction to women.
10:21Oh, you guys are so fun.
10:22To help find the answers, they have invited residents Jen and Naomi to the hot tub.
10:29I just like didn't stop laughing with you.
10:33We just had such a fun interaction.
10:35It was really funny.
10:36Yeah, that's nice.
10:37Sorry, I was just playing with your feet.
10:39Sorry about that.
10:39That's okay.
10:40Is that okay?
10:40That is actually very okay.
10:42I'm actually very into that.
10:44My biggest turn on is someone playing with my feet or sucking my toes.
10:47No way.
10:48Go on, lick it.
10:49Come on, is it a bit too...
10:50No, it's not.
10:51They're there when you want them.
10:52Oh my goodness.
10:56We're only two minutes in and we've got the foot set.
10:58Yeah.
10:58Okay.
11:01I think I'd been in the hot tub for approximately 30 seconds before there was Simon stuck to my toe.
11:08I love that though.
11:08I think that's amazing.
11:10Love a foot man.
11:12I am very attracted to both of you girls and I would be definitely up for at least having a kiss.
11:19I'm down for that.
11:21So yeah.
11:22So would you like a kiss?
11:26Seeing Simon kiss a woman in front of me was jaw-dropping.
11:39He really went in for it.
11:44Simon matched my kissing like straight away and that's rare.
11:47Like if someone can do that, it's really cute.
11:49Gina, I don't want you to be left out.
11:50Go on.
11:50That was a great kiss.
12:12I enjoyed that.
12:14Are you ready for a kiss?
12:16Um, I don't know.
12:27I think I might be more attracted to Naomi.
12:30Okay.
12:31Um, than to you gentlemen.
12:32No problem.
12:36Come on, get this.
12:38I'm so ready for this.
12:39I'm going to judge.
12:40Watch.
12:46Seeing Chris kiss Naomi was very hot.
12:50Absolutely loved it.
12:55Ness nervous now.
13:00I don't know what you said.
13:01I was just asking if he's Ness nervous.
13:03Ness nervous.
13:04I thought he said Ness something now and I was like, what?
13:12How are you feeling?
13:15It's way past my bedtime.
13:20Right.
13:22I think probably going to call it a night.
13:24Just take your time to like go through because this is a huge thing for you guys to do.
13:32I thought Simon seemed really keen and playful, but I think maybe there was a difference of where
13:38they wanted it to go.
13:42I feel like ending the night where we did was probably the right call.
13:46Because I wanted to progress, but the fact that Chris rejected Jen did make me feel as though
13:56the night itself wasn't going to probably progress any further.
14:01Are you okay?
14:02Yeah.
14:03Good.
14:05I'm going to the detail tomorrow.
14:06But I do want to talk to you about it.
14:08Yeah.
14:15How did you sleep?
14:28I woke up a few times, I think.
14:30Engaged couple Chris and Simon have woken up to their second day at the retreat.
14:35My brain looks like so much it happened yesterday.
14:39I just couldn't stop thinking about everything.
14:40I think maybe Chris was a little more reserved.
14:47He was a bit more nervous.
14:48Yeah.
14:49I think if Simon was on his own with us, he would have taken it further last night.
14:56Yeah, no, I completely agree.
14:56Do you agree?
14:57Yeah.
14:58How do you think they feel today?
15:00Hopefully they're both on the same page because it'd be really awkward if they weren't.
15:03Yeah.
15:06Are you ready for a round of golf?
15:09Never heard.
15:10Ready for a hole or two?
15:14Why can't I be that funny in front of girls?
15:16Terrible.
15:16You are funny.
15:17I'm not.
15:18You were making a lot of loads last night.
15:20I'm feeling mixed emotions about last night.
15:23Chris didn't feel comfortable kissing Jen.
15:25That was a bit like, okay, how are we going to navigate this then moving forward?
15:28How are we feeling?
15:33A bit deflated.
15:34Yeah.
15:36What happened last night with the girls was really fun, really exciting.
15:40Really enjoyed it.
15:41But while I've been saying that there are like no expectations, I probably did have expectations.
15:46To be honest, it felt like even though it was just a kiss, like that still felt rushed for me.
15:52Yeah.
15:53Like, I'm a real slow burner.
15:56Given that we had like the social mixer and then we had the hot tub experience and you still feel like that was rushed.
16:06Yeah, yeah.
16:07I don't think pushing that any further I think would have been a mistake.
16:10I'm conscious that we're both here to do things together, but maybe would need to go about it in slightly different ways.
16:17Right.
16:18I guess that's part of the whole thing with exploring non-monogamy is you do always in the back of your mind think about your partner.
16:26But I think it's really important to understand my sexuality better because it's an integral part of who I am.
16:32On hand to help Chris and Simon process the night before is non-monogamy coach Effie Blue.
16:43How are we feeling?
16:46I'm feeling a little bit disappointed, I think.
16:50Okay.
16:51That's probably how I'd put it.
16:52Okay.
16:52Do tell.
16:53So yeah, last night things got quite playful.
16:57So Jen, Naomi and I started kissing, which was really good fun, really enjoyed it.
17:06I was like ready to go, oh yeah, like this is, let's take this further to the next step.
17:11What was it like for you, Chris?
17:13So I only had a kiss with Naomi and I was expecting there to be like a spark or something like that.
17:19And I didn't particularly feel that.
17:22Okay.
17:23What do you think got in the way for you?
17:27I don't think I've ever met anyone and on the same night kissed them.
17:30Okay.
17:31Tell me about the disappointment and the deflation.
17:35The hope was that I was going to come into this and leave feeling as though I did have that spark
17:41and arousal towards women.
17:43And I feel like the experience that I had last night didn't prove that.
17:46Okay.
17:46Okay.
17:47I understand that.
17:49Do you think Chris being there had any impact on your experience at all?
17:53I think I have found myself a bit worried about you.
17:56I'm not worried about you, really.
18:00I have had a bit of like in the back of my head like, is he okay? Are you doing okay?
18:06So is there anything that we need to talk about here?
18:09I just like having Simon around.
18:14What sometimes happens is when the other person's been there for a while and you kind of both lean on
18:18each other, we lose sight of our individual confidence and inner strength.
18:23Does that make sense?
18:25Absolutely.
18:25Okay, beautiful.
18:26I think I have a plan, hard to explore.
18:30So would you be willing to have two separate experiences today?
18:35Yes.
18:38Okay.
18:39We can certainly give it a try.
18:41Give it a try.
18:42Yeah.
18:43I am feeling nervous about having to go into another social situation.
18:46You'll be fine.
18:47There were definitely points last night where I think I was looking for Chris.
18:52So while I love you, it would be quite nice to maybe not have Chris around tonight.
18:58Go forth and have fun.
19:01Because I really don't feel like I can progress in my sexual relationships.
19:09As long as I am still unsure in exactly what it is that I am attracted to.
19:16Let's split this up.
19:23I'm not sure whether to wear these together or these together.
19:28Those look very compatible.
19:30Does this look sexy though?
19:32Listen, I don't know if Speedos are very sexy.
19:36Right.
19:37Chris and Simon are getting ready for their separate socials.
19:41There's always a risk that exploring non-monogamy might jeopardize our relationship.
19:45But I think it's important to know exactly who I am as a person.
19:51So that's why I'm here and that's why I'm doing is because I feel like this is
19:55important for me to get more clarity on the question marks that I have in my head.
20:01I think that's going to be fine.
20:02Good.
20:07I think that's going to be fine.
20:09I think that's going to be fine.
20:11I think that's going to be fine.
20:16In the bedroom, I pretty much love anything.
20:18Like, I'm happy to explore anything.
20:21Like, I'm always like a don't-knock-it-till-you-try-it type person.
20:24Scream if you want to go to an orgy.
20:26I love exploring.
20:30I love trying new tricks.
20:32A gay couple.
20:33It's like every woman's dream though, I'm not going to lie.
20:35Is it?
20:36Yeah.
20:39Oh, Lord.
20:39But up in the bedroom, Simon is starting to have some doubts.
20:45I just feel pressure to take it to the bedroom and do something.
20:51There's no, there's no need to do that.
20:54I'm anxious because I feel like I'm in the perfect scenario to explore.
21:00Oh, fucking hell.
21:02And that's essentially why I'm here, is to discover my sexuality.
21:10So there is pressure with that, obviously.
21:12I don't know.
21:14Yeah, I don't know.
21:16I think I'm definitely in my head at the minute.
21:20I think you have problem with a guy like this.
21:22They're coming over, he's coming over.
21:24Hello.
21:24Hello.
21:25Oh, hi, bud.
21:26How are we?
21:27How are you?
21:28I know.
21:29Oh, look at that.
21:31I love that area.
21:33Hello.
21:33Hello.
21:34Oh, you're cold, Hans.
21:36Nice to see you again.
21:38I think just being alone with women pushes me outside my comfort zone.
21:43I just don't think I'd be able to relax and be me in that moment.
21:49Meanwhile, Chris is waiting to be collected for his afternoon social,
21:53an all-girls pyjama party with residents Emily, Kirstie and Mandy.
21:58I'm feeling dreadfully nervous because I don't know who's going to be there,
22:04but I do know that Simon isn't going to be there.
22:07It's like Simon is sort of like a comfort blanket.
22:11Naomi, who he kissed last night in the hot tub, is picking him up.
22:17Hello.
22:17Do you want to come and join a party?
22:19Yeah, let's do it.
22:21Are you nervous?
22:23Oh, yeah, oh, yeah.
22:24Oh, don't be nervous.
22:25It's going to be so good.
22:28There you go.
22:29Hello.
22:30Hello.
22:30Hello.
22:31I feel so overdressed in my pink dressing gown.
22:33Oh, dashing.
22:36Just step into the room and see three other girls in there as well
22:39was quite intimidating.
22:41You come into the pink room and take it straight.
22:43I know, that's all made of the same thing.
22:50What's your plan for me then, ladies?
22:51What's going on?
22:54We wanted to pamper you.
22:55Please.
22:56Do you like having a bath?
22:58A bath?
23:00Is that a step too far?
23:01I don't know.
23:03I might go in in my pants.
23:05I don't know if I'm brave enough.
23:06Why don't we run above a bath and then if you want to dip your feet in, you can.
23:09Yeah.
23:10And we can pamper you.
23:11All right.
23:12All right.
23:12We'll do a bath.
23:12Bloody hell.
23:14Oh, my God.
23:16I think for me personally with him, he's just a little bit too nervous for me.
23:20You know what?
23:21Sometimes people can grow on me, so you never know.
23:29Truth.
23:30Down by the pool, Simon and the ladies are playing a game of truth or dare.
23:36What do you want to do right now?
23:40Maybe all five of us stand up and all kiss each other at the same time.
23:59My hands are wandering.
24:00Sorry, guys.
24:03Jingle, jeffy, come wet.
24:04Oh, my God.
24:06Good.
24:06Your lips are so soft and like plump.
24:11You're such a writer.
24:12You just suck.
24:13I know.
24:14I know.
24:15You put right in there.
24:17Does anyone want to move this upstairs so we can keep playing the game?
24:25I think let's go for it and just give it a go.
24:29Let's go, yeah.
24:31Let's go.
24:39Retreat newcomers Charmaine and Jamie are getting ready for tonight's under the sea themed social.
24:46Do you think that's okay like that?
24:47Yeah, it's fine.
24:49Charmaine is hoping to meet a couple to open up their relationship with,
24:53but Jamie will have to overcome his confidence issues.
24:58How are you feeling?
25:00Yeah, I'm excited.
25:02I'm a little bit apprehensive of the social part and how you're going to be,
25:07how you're going to do.
25:08Right now I'm anxious.
25:11You are pacing.
25:14Are you nervous?
25:14Extremely.
25:16I'm hoping that we go into this evening together and that Jamie will feel confident enough to sort
25:22of go off separately and I really hope that it brings him out of himself a little bit more.
25:27I think it's going to do both of us the world of good, but I think especially it's going to
25:31do you good.
25:35I'm a bit worried because I feel like my self-confidence can sort of hold Charmaine back.
25:42It puts a bit of a burden on her in like social situations.
25:45You ready for this?
25:48Love you.
25:54Down at the social, the residents are already turning up the heat.
26:01This whole experience is obviously completely new to us, alien to us and I think it's a very
26:10vulnerable situation to put yourself in.
26:15This is a big step.
26:16I don't feel like your relationship is ever going to be the same once you've opened up.
26:20Potentially that could damage our marriage.
26:26Of course I have worries about how it might affect me in Charmaine because it's not something you can
26:31undo. Once it's done, it's done.
26:47How are you feeling? Are you okay?
26:49I'm like, I've got butterflies. I'm feeling a bit like giddy.
26:52It's just excitement.
26:53Oh my goodness, the green is gorgeous.
26:56Simon and the girls have moved the party up to the bedroom in the hope that it may lead to Simon
27:02having his first sexual experience with a woman.
27:06How do you feel about making the lighting a little bit more?
27:08Whatever you feel.
27:11I have never had sex with a woman. I don't know what I'm doing.
27:16What's your buttons?
27:20I think I tend to feel most comfortable probably like laying back and letting stuff happen.
27:26Can I request for you to like lie down then?
27:29Just down the hall, Chris is fully immersed in his all-girl experience.
27:34Yeah, I think you're good.
27:35But his cautious approach is hindering things from progressing to the physical.
27:40Best case scenario would be to just like maybe have some fun in the bedroom.
27:44Are you going to get in your bubble bath?
27:46I'm going to have to pluck up the courage at some point.
27:48But like Simon's always been more sexually confident.
27:52When are my nails and my face mask? How about that? What do we do with that?
27:55Just take it off.
27:56Oh, you look like a new man.
27:58Blimey. Right.
28:00Don't worry, we're going to be there to help you.
28:05Are you hanging up your clothes?
28:06No.
28:09It's a new shirt.
28:10Oh, how's it going with these toys?
28:15Whoa.
28:15Is it nice?
28:16Oh, it's lovely.
28:17This is a lovely temperature.
28:18It felt nice being in the bath with Naomi.
28:20It was more intimate certainly than the hot tub.
28:23So, we are going to have an early night.
28:28Chris is definitely very cute, but just wasn't really giving me the energy.
28:34I know he's nervous, obviously, that's a given.
28:37We'll miss you.
28:39So, me and the girls thought it would be a nice idea to leave Naomi and Chris.
28:45I mean, I think there's definitely some sort of spark between them.
28:50It was nice having the other girls here, but I feel like I was like constantly looking around
28:55the room, like trying to make sure I'm like giving everyone equal attention.
28:59It's a lot to manage, yeah.
29:00Yeah.
29:00I think Chris is a wonderful, wonderful man and he's just someone that really
29:05intrigues me to get to know him a bit deeper.
29:08How are you finding this? Are you more relaxed now? You look very relaxed.
29:11I feel, I mean, I'm in a lovely bath with a lovely lady.
29:15Naomi's a really interesting person and she's very attractive as well.
29:20Yeah, I'd like to kiss Naomi.
29:21So, it's nice having just one person to focus on.
29:26Is it?
29:26Yeah.
29:26That's good.
29:31Yes, yes, yes.
29:32I like that.
29:33You're it.
29:34You've got it, I'm so proud of you.
29:37Yeah, it's a safe one, a handcuff knot.
29:39That's fantastic.
29:40That's your introduction to knots and bondage. I'm sure your old star leader will be very good.
29:47My relationship with Chris is definitely somewhere between romantic and friendship.
29:52Because we shared a kiss, I think naturally it had more of that romantic element to it.
29:58Despite not going there today, this has been wonderful.
30:01This has been so nice.
30:02I think I would have kissed Naomi.
30:04But I think what I've found is that I just do need a bit more time to do those sorts of things.
30:08I hope you have a lovely, lovely evening.
30:10And I'll see you at Summer Point.
30:11Thank you so much.
30:12All right.
30:12It's all right.
30:15Like, I don't feel like I made much more significant progress in my own story.
30:22He's not here.
30:23Once I came back to the room and found he wasn't there, I was thinking about where he may be.
30:32I feel jealous that he's probably doing something sexual and I would like to be there to see it.
30:37Charmaine and Jamie have just arrived at their first social, in the hope that they will find a couple to join them in the bedroom.
30:54Hello. How are you doing?
30:57To kickstart their evening, they make a beeline for engaged couple Lily and Jo.
31:03How's it been, settling in? Because I imagine it's been quite intense.
31:06It was intense.
31:07Yeah.
31:07It's very fun.
31:08Yeah, you both look great.
31:09Your dress as well is stunning.
31:11The velvet suit.
31:12I've got velvet trousers on.
31:14Oh, yeah.
31:15That's a little bit overdressed.
31:19It was very clear that they were nervous.
31:21The nerves really shone through.
31:24And what do you do for work?
31:25I'm in it. I'm just at home with the kids and we've got three boys.
31:29Oh, really? A handful.
31:31So what do you do for work, Jamie?
31:33I do scaffolding. I don't know if it's better to tell you, though.
31:35No way. I also scaffold.
31:37Oh, really?
31:38Scaffolding, yeah, in Cambridge, yeah.
31:39Oh, okay. Are you enjoying it?
31:40Yeah, I love it.
31:41Yeah, give it to our news, you'll hurt it.
31:43Yeah, that's what everyone says, but...
31:45We're both scaffolders, so we're both in the same industry.
31:48So we definitely have some things in common, which is nice.
31:51It'd be good to spend some more time for them, I think.
31:53Yeah, we'd definitely see them again if they wanted to see us.
31:55Enjoy the rest of the evening.
31:57How are you feeling?
32:00Yeah, I feel good.
32:03Do you feel ready to separate and speak to people, yeah?
32:07Yeah, I think so.
32:08Yeah, I think I'm more nervous than you now.
32:10Okay, love you.
32:14Yeah, I think I'm just going to jump in and allow myself to be surprised.
32:17Hiya.
32:19Good morning.
32:19I'm Jen.
32:20Hiya, I'm Shah.
32:21Nice to meet you.
32:22Shah?
32:23Yeah, Shah mine.
32:23Shah?
32:24Oh, okay, Shah.
32:25How are you feeling?
32:26I'm nervous.
32:28I think for both of us, it's a big thing to sort of separate from each other.
32:32I think we sort of lean on each other quite a lot for confidence.
32:36It's, yeah, going to be a bit of a challenge for us.
32:38Yeah.
32:38Hi.
32:39Hi.
32:40I'm Jamie.
32:41How are you feeling, my darling?
32:42I'm good.
32:42We're not as scary as we look, I promise.
32:45I'm loving this velvet jacket, by the way, it's fabulous.
32:47It's a bit of an in-spo pic thing, it's like, I'll order that.
32:50Yeah?
32:51Yeah.
32:52Jamie's nerves didn't necessarily put me off, to be honest.
32:55It's going to be a nerve-wracking situation for anybody to walk into,
32:58so I can completely understand that.
32:59Your partner looks absolutely beautiful tonight.
33:02I love the fact that you're matching in green.
33:04Yeah.
33:05It just, you look really good.
33:06Erm...
33:07Monsieur, s'il vous plaît.
33:09I've definitely got a jealous streak to me, seeing Jamie floating with somebody else.
33:19It's not something I've ever seen before.
33:22Personally, I think if it wasn't for Jen, I would be lost in the social aspect.
33:28I'm the mouth.
33:28I think Jamie says the exact same.
33:30Are you the mouth?
33:31Are you?
33:31Yeah, you wouldn't think that now.
33:33I'd just like to finish your sentences, what can I say?
33:35She's too impatient.
33:36I am impatient.
33:37I'll start saying something and she'll be like...
33:42I think I can put on a confident act, but deep down I'm quite nervous in a social situation.
33:51Right now I'm feeling quite apprehensive.
33:54Also very aware of how Jamie might be feeling.
33:58It's lovely to speak to you. I'm going to go and see how Jamie's doing.
34:04Speak to you soon.
34:06So we've been trying to open up for about five years now.
34:09Okay.
34:10It's probably my confidence has held us back.
34:12Yeah.
34:13You seem pretty confident.
34:14Yeah, I was going to say.
34:16I think I needed to hear that.
34:17You're holding your own?
34:18Yeah, you're doing fine.
34:19Yeah.
34:20You okay?
34:20I'm fine, yeah.
34:21Jamie, I'm going to go for it.
34:28Hi.
34:29I want to step out.
34:30Sorry?
34:30I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed.
34:32It's like a little broke.
34:33There's a situation here.
34:35I just feel overwhelmed.
34:44It's just a bit much for me, like the whole situation.
34:48We're not holding the gates to anything.
34:50This is our journey.
34:52I'm just uncomfortable.
34:54Where do we go from here?
34:55I don't know.
34:58The decision's yours from now.
35:00I don't know if I'm going to be able to hold myself together now.
35:03I really don't want to do it.
35:05I just want to go home.
35:17After having very different sexual experiences, Simon is waiting for Chris in the cocktail bar.
35:24I'm feeling a little bit apprehensive about telling Chris about what's happened,
35:28because I didn't expect it to go this far.
35:31And it's such a big step in our relationship, opening up with women as well.
35:38Let's do it.
35:39There he is.
35:47As soon as he walked in, I was like, we've had very different days.
35:50Are you okay?
35:51You look so cute.
35:52Oh, it's really good to see you.
35:59You okay?
35:59Yeah, okay.
36:02You've been gone for so long.
36:03He went before me.
36:04What have you been doing?
36:06So, go on.
36:08I went down to the red room.
36:11It was really hot.
36:13I was very much just enjoying myself.
36:16Jen was like, do you want to eat my pussy?
36:19Wow.
36:20Just right out there.
36:22It was getting you going?
36:23Well, so this is the thing.
36:25I don't know if it was because of a bit of stage fright, but I didn't get hard and I didn't come.
36:31But in the moment, I was like, I loved that.
36:34You can feel you enjoyed that up here.
36:36It doesn't matter how you feel down there.
36:38That.
36:38Yeah.
36:39The exploration is why I came here.
36:41And the sexual exploration I had today is exactly what I was looking for.
36:46I just don't care that I struggled with getting an erection.
36:50So, how are you feeling?
36:54I am jealous that I wasn't there to see it.
36:57The way I frame the jealous, part of me wants to have been there to have seen it happen.
37:02It's like missing a big event.
37:03That's the only sort of jealousy I feel.
37:05Are you doing okay?
37:07Yeah.
37:08You've overcome some pretty big steps today.
37:12Yeah.
37:13So nice to like hear you gushing about it.
37:16And it would have been nice for me to be able to have my own sexual experience,
37:24but I know that I'm not the type of person who would have been able to do what Simon did.
37:29So, how on earth are you?
37:34So, I've had a little pamper day.
37:35You had a little pamper day.
37:37So, they gave me a face mask.
37:39Your skin is glowing.
37:40I am.
37:41I'm radiant.
37:41You are.
37:42And then I hopped in the bath.
37:44Oh.
37:45And then Naomi jumped in the bath with me as well.
37:48And that was basically it.
37:49Nothing really progressed from there.
37:51I'm just obviously happy that like at the end of the day, it's still you and me.
37:56Yeah.
37:57Shall we go to the room?
37:58Come on, let's do it.
38:03I feel fantastic after telling Chris about my day,
38:05because it just reaffirms everything that I already feel fantastic about in my relationship with Chris.
38:12Well, we have amazing communication.
38:16We're super honest with each other.
38:17And that's the foundation of our relationship.
38:19And it will always be that way.
38:20Do you think you feel like more sure in your mind about how you feel about women?
38:25I feel more sure.
38:26Mm-hmm.
38:27I feel absolutely sure that I can have sexual experiences with women.
38:32Mm-hmm.
38:32And for it to be fun and pleasurable and enjoyable.
38:35Excellent.
38:36I feel absolutely great.
38:38Yeah.
38:38Yeah.
38:38Yeah.
38:41I would love to come.
38:46Oh my God.
38:47Oh my God.
38:49Oh.
38:50I just don't want to do it.
39:01Charmaine may have been the one who wanted to open up,
39:04but now she's struggling, leaving husband Jamie unsure of what to do next.
39:09I think that was a lot harder than I sort of anticipated.
39:27Yeah, I think I just got a little bit overwhelmed.
39:32I noticed that Char and Jamie had gone outside and they were gone for quite a while, so I popped
39:40out to check out who they were.
39:41I'm going to cry again.
39:42Don't cry, don't cry.
39:43Sorry.
39:44Deep breaths.
39:45You're doing great.
39:45You're doing great.
39:46Everyone thinks you're amazing.
39:48Deep breaths.
39:49Oh, it's just overwhelming.
39:50You're okay now.
39:54Yeah.
39:55We would love to chat to you though, so if you feel like you can come back in, just remember why you
39:59came here and what you wanted to achieve out of tonight.
40:03I think we will come back here and I just need to get myself together.
40:05Yeah.
40:07Jen came out and sort of had a word with us and reassured us and yeah, I think that was a big
40:11help for me to sort of snap out of it a little bit and get out of my head.
40:16Should we go with him?
40:17Yeah.
40:17Come on then.
40:18Come with me.
40:20Oh my God, it's so warm in here now.
40:22So warm.
40:22Lovely.
40:24This is Jen's Don't Tell.
40:25This is Jamie.
40:26Hi, Jamie.
40:26This is my partner, Mark.
40:27Yeah.
40:29Well, thank you for putting us at ease a little bit.
40:31Oh God, I'm glad you feel a little more at ease now.
40:34I think at one point I was ready to do a run.
40:36Yeah.
40:36But I feel like you're here for a reason.
40:38You're here for a reason.
40:39I would have been disappointed if we had a couple of times.
40:41You'd be great for sure.
40:44I don't know if there is any vibes from them because I'm not feeling it.
40:49I'm not feeling them being flirty with me, but I think they're gorgeous.
40:53And you're both hot as fuck as well.
40:54Like you have nothing to be like conscious about, own it.
40:58Yeah.
40:59What do you like to talk about them?
41:01Is there anything you're really passionate about?
41:03It's like they're with our books.
41:04That's how boring we can be.
41:05Oh, I love that you both read.
41:07That's what I'll marry a couple.
41:10Are you not like me though?
41:11When I'm reading like a spicy book, I text him and I'm like,
41:14listen, you're going to have to get home because I am suffering it.
41:17Yeah, I'm like, you need to reenact the scene right now.
41:19Yes.
41:20Oh my God, that is super hard.
41:22I think the vibe we got off them was very chilled out and relaxed.
41:26And I think that's what we need this evening.
41:29Yeah, hopefully we've read that right.
41:31We really appreciate your appearance at ease.
41:32Oh.
41:33And I was wondering if you'd like to spend a bit more time in the hot tub.
41:36No pressure whatsoever.
41:39Would you like to spend some time in the hot tub?
41:40I definitely would, yeah, would you?
41:41I would like to spend some time in the hot tub.
41:44We both definitely fancy Jamie and Charmaine, yeah.
41:46I don't think they realise they're a hot couple.
41:49Let's go get in the hot tub and get these bloody heels off.
41:55I think Jamie and Charm might be potentially the most nervous couple
42:01we've connected with in this way.
42:03I want them to have a really good experience,
42:05but I wish they weren't so nervous.
42:07Yeah.
42:16Next time on Open House...
42:22My main concern is, is it something that should have stayed a fantasy?
42:26What are you feeling this evening, then? Do we want to...?
42:30How are your feelings for what, tonight?
42:32Yeah.
42:33You're the boss.
42:34No pressure.
42:36I don't feel like your relationship is ever going to be the same once you've opened up.
42:41So we're coming in to have sex separately from each other.
42:44I'm scared.
42:44I'm interested.
42:46I'm definitely interested.
42:47Yeah, I'm sick, yeah.
42:49If it goes wrong, it might put us off forever.
42:52Yeah, it's just a bit scary what might happen next.
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