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00:00Monogamy is a little bit boring.
00:05More and more British couples are questioning monogamy.
00:09Well, this is it.
00:11If you want to be my lover, you've got to go with my wife.
00:15But can relationships be opened up without breaking down?
00:18It's happening now.
00:19No turning back.
00:21To provide answers, a unique retreat is reopening its doors.
00:27And its uninhibited residents have returned even wilder than before.
00:33Thank you, Liz.
00:34With the help of a specialist relationship therapist.
00:37It's one of the hardest things you can do.
00:39But opening up should be absolutely amazing fun.
00:43Curious couples can discover whether their dreams of an open relationship
00:48Do we knock?
00:49No, I don't think so.
00:50Live up to the reality.
00:53Okay.
00:54And whether by having sex with other people.
00:59You've always said you wanted to see me get spit-roasted.
01:02One of society's greatest taboos can be broken.
01:05My preference, I'm not going to lie, is a foursome.
01:08I'm on the fence with that one.
01:09Without it breaking them.
01:11If our relationship ended, I would be devastated.
01:15It's moved very quickly. I think it's very overwhelming.
01:18What could go wrong?
01:19Are you 100% sure we're doing the right thing?
01:35There's only one way to find out, isn't there?
01:37Heading to the retreat today are new arrivals, Kirstie and Connor, who've been married for nine months.
01:46So me and Connor met about three years ago.
01:48And he slid in my DMs.
01:52Construction worker Connor has built a happy home life with full-time mum, Kirstie.
01:58And the couple are parents to two boys from her previous relationship.
02:04My boys love this man more than me, so...
02:07Taken over?
02:08100%.
02:09Favourite?
02:10Yeah.
02:11Hello, guys.
02:12You all right?
02:13Nice to meet you, how are you doing?
02:14I've gone though, yeah?
02:15Yeah, man.
02:16Nice to meet you.
02:17Hello, mate.
02:18Nice to meet you.
02:19The committed couple see themselves as adventurous in the bedroom.
02:23When it comes to sex, we've pushed our boundaries.
02:26We're quite naughty.
02:28Now they want to further spice things up by opening up their relationship.
02:33I do believe we are animals, and are we sexually men and be with one person?
02:37No, we're not.
02:38I'm not saying that I'm going to go and sleep with loads of people.
02:41I just believe in...
02:42What is it?
02:43Non-mon...
02:44How do you say it?
02:45Non-mon.
02:46I can't say it.
02:47You know what I mean?
02:48I believe in that.
02:49So today, Kirstie and Connor are stepping through the door into the world of non-monogamy.
02:54It could open a whole can of worms, but we've overcome a lot worse than bringing someone
02:59into the bedroom.
03:00Yeah.
03:01So...
03:02So, I mean, it should be a breeze, right?
03:04Yeah.
03:05Here to help guests on their journey are the retreat's sexually liberated residents.
03:12A heady mix of singles and couples in open relationships.
03:17The most beautiful thing in a relationship is when you have so much trust in one another,
03:21that you can go as far as to have sex with someone else, and it doesn't affect your relationship.
03:26Malogamy isn't for everyone.
03:28It's too traditional, it's too old school.
03:32When you include other people, I think it's exciting.
03:35It keeps it alive.
03:40Come on in.
03:41Before spending time with the residents...
03:43Hey!
03:44Hey!
03:45...Kirstie and Connor will meet with Dr. Lori Beth, their guide into the world of non-monogamy.
03:51So, tell me what brings you here.
03:55So, we've...
03:57We want to open up our relationship and bring a man into the equation.
04:01I'm a straight guy, but, you know, I enjoy seeing my wife happy and seeing her pleasured in our dude.
04:10Happy wife, happy wife.
04:11Yeah, exactly that.
04:12He's the love of my life, but would I ideally like a relationship where we can occasionally have a bit of fun?
04:19100%.
04:20I would be lying if I said I didn't.
04:22It wouldn't be something that I'd want him to do all the time, but occasionally for a treat.
04:25Then, life's great.
04:27What you're saying is what you'd like to try is to have another man, and so the three of you enjoy...
04:34Yeah.
04:35...some experiences together.
04:36Yeah.
04:37Well, I have, in a way, a bit of confidence issues and...
04:40What's the insecurity for you?
04:42Just potentially losing her.
04:43Right.
04:44So, one thing is she would choose somebody else instead of you.
04:48Yeah.
04:49Okay.
04:50I know she loves me.
04:51I think sometimes he feels like he's not good enough and...
04:53Yeah.
04:54So, you're comparing yourself to somebody and going...
04:56Constantly.
04:57He's better, he's better.
04:58You do that constantly.
04:59Yeah.
05:00I have no idea why I'm insecure, to be honest.
05:03I think I've been put down quite a bit in my childhood rather than some of the praise which I should have got.
05:09Okay.
05:10So, this is actually an area that you need to work on.
05:15I want you out of your head as often as possible.
05:18Okay.
05:19So, let's talk a little bit about boundaries.
05:21So, have you thought about things that you actually reserve to you as a couple?
05:26Um...
05:27You're not happy.
05:28Connor's not happy with me kissing someone.
05:30Okay.
05:31That's really intimate to you?
05:32Yeah.
05:33It's understandable when you think about what kissing symbolizes and what it means.
05:37Yeah.
05:38But these are the things that I would ask you, even if you suddenly felt comfortable with the idea of her deep kissing someone.
05:43Yeah.
05:44While you were in the experience, do not change the boundary tonight.
05:47Yeah.
05:48So, tonight, you've got a party in the cloisters.
05:50You might have the opportunity to hook up with another man and potentially leave with somebody if you want or not, depending on what's going on.
05:58Sounds good.
05:59Have a brilliant time.
06:00Thank you very much.
06:02You're welcome.
06:03Certainly, for heterosexual men, it is often far more challenging to have another man of any ilk in the room at all.
06:14If Connor's not prepared to really work with his insecurities, if he's not able to pull himself out of his head, he'll find it very difficult indeed.
06:22Bringing a guy in is a huge deal for Connor because of his insecurities.
06:27So, I mean, it's amazing that he would even be open to try that and want to try that.
06:32There is part of me that doesn't want to bring a guy into it.
06:37What I'm worried about is them being able to do something that I can't.
06:42So, it is a massive risk.
06:44I could potentially lose my wife.
06:46I know you're attractive, so it just depends on what they think of me.
06:55You'll be fine, too.
06:56They might just want you.
06:57Don't worry.
06:58I'll say they can't have me unless you're with me.
07:01If you want to be my lover, you've got to go with my wife.
07:03I like that one.
07:07Next to arrive at this unique retreat are Shanice and Ricardo from South London.
07:13It gatecrashed my cousin's birthday.
07:15And I asked for the number and then we just kind of progressed from there.
07:17Yeah.
07:18Because, really, people can't really resist the charm at the end of the day.
07:21Do you know what I mean?
07:22Sorry.
07:23It's all real now.
07:27Busy lives and a full house with three children has taken its toll in the bedroom.
07:32We started off like rabbits.
07:36Yeah.
07:37And then we had children.
07:38We're getting that back.
07:39We want the rabbits back.
07:41After almost a decade together, the couple want to explore by having sex with other people.
07:48I don't think you should be conformed into a monogamy box.
07:52You hear about cheating like nearly every day.
07:55Someone cheated on their wife.
07:57We don't want to be one of those people.
07:59Nice to meet you.
08:00Hello, Shanice.
08:01Hi.
08:02Are you okay?
08:03Here to greet them are one of the retreat's open couples, Jen and Mark.
08:07We're not going to be bullshit.
08:10Sex is a big part of our lives.
08:12It's a fundamental in our relationship, but it's also a hobby.
08:16It is, yeah.
08:21So you feeling good?
08:22There's a little mirror there if you want to check yourselves out.
08:24Check yourselves out.
08:25Make sure the hair's good.
08:26Yeah.
08:27He's all looking great.
08:28He's all looking great.
08:29My relationship with Ricardo is very important to me because we've built so much in the time that we've been together.
08:37We've built a home.
08:38Our kids have integrated.
08:40I don't want to lose that.
08:41So opening up our relationship does scare me.
08:45Kirstie and Connor are preparing for tonight's social.
08:58In attendance are the retreat's unique residents, all eager to meet the new couple.
09:06This is it, bub.
09:07We're doing something fucking crazy.
09:09I'm excited.
09:10I'm buzzing for it.
09:11But I think I can be excited for it, whereas you've got like that feeling of dread a little bit.
09:17Yeah.
09:19No one's ever going to be here, bub.
09:22Never.
09:23What about if someone's got a Q&A?
09:25No one's going to have a Q&A.
09:26Someone's got a better chin.
09:27No, that is never going to happen.
09:31I love you.
09:32I love you.
09:36Let's do it.
09:47I am nervous.
09:49Down here?
09:50Can we come down here?
09:55I just worry that Connor's going to look at me looking at someone else, knowing I'm attracted to them,
10:00and it's going to make him feel really rubbish.
10:03And I obviously don't want to make him feel like he's not good enough.
10:09It's Kirstie, isn't it?
10:10Yeah.
10:12I can eat that.
10:13I saw you early, didn't I?
10:14Yeah.
10:15First to grab Kirstie's attention is Nathan, who's no stranger to non-monogamy.
10:21I love sex.
10:22I'm a very sexually active person.
10:24I've been brought up around a very traditional family household, but opening up has been a massive eye-opener.
10:29It's broadened my horizons to the way I think.
10:32How old are you guys?
10:33I'm 30.
10:34I'm 32.
10:35Really?
10:36Wow.
10:37You guys don't look 30.
10:38We always get that.
10:39We will take that, won't we?
10:40Little toy boy, ain't I?
10:41I like a younger one.
10:42What are you guys looking for?
10:44So we're looking to bring another male in to the equation.
10:47Got to give it a bash and just see where it takes us.
10:49Give it a bash.
10:50Literally, hopefully.
10:51Literally give it a bash.
10:52I think Nathan's gorgeous.
10:55He would be my type.
10:57I'd say Kirstie's looking very sophisticated and sexy.
11:01I've got, like, a lot of confidence issues, I guess.
11:04I'm the same man.
11:05We all have an insecurity.
11:07Yeah, I find it mad, though, because I look at him and I'm like, why would you be worried?
11:11It takes a man to, like, acknowledge.
11:13Yeah.
11:14Yeah, yeah, 100%.
11:16I'm not physically attracted to Connor.
11:18He is a good reckon lad.
11:20I'm straight myself, but I've had male, female throughsomes in the past.
11:25I'm quite comfortable with my sexuality.
11:27So if Kirstie and Connor wanted to spend more time with me, I'd be happy to get to know him a bit more.
11:31Hello.
11:32Lovely to meet you.
11:33Josh.
11:34But Nathan isn't the only resident to catch Kirstie's eye.
11:36I like a guy with a present, and you do have one.
11:39I have a present.
11:41Oh, big compliment.
11:42I sent this only because he was still at the door, and I was like...
11:45Oh, what a compliment, thank you.
11:47We do want to open up, and I think we need to start, especially with me first, because she's more willing, light, and she's more open than what I am.
11:55Kirstie and Connor, she's gorgeous.
11:57He's a really good-looking guy.
11:58I mean, I'm straight, but at the same time, I can appreciate that.
12:01I'd like to chat to him a little bit more, because it was only brief, but, yeah, really nice people.
12:05I need to have conversation and connections, you know, vibe.
12:08Yeah.
12:09Vibe is major.
12:10Aesthetics get you 20% of the way, and then the rest of it's vibe.
12:13Having mingled with the singles, Kirstie and Connor weigh up whether they connected with anyone enough to invite them into their relationship.
12:23In my opinion, I thought I had a bit of a bromance or connection with Nathan.
12:27I think Josh is fucking gorgeous, I'm not going to lie.
12:30I do.
12:31I think he's, like, really good-looking.
12:33I think he's got a presence.
12:35Yeah.
12:36I mean, I, as speaking to him, like, sort of bromance, I mean, he, like, again, he seemed to...
12:43Sorry, it was difficult for me to hear her say that.
12:46Yeah.
12:47Sorry.
12:48To hear you say that, you know, like, he was fucking gorgeous like this.
12:51You don't even say that to me.
12:52Oh, babe.
12:53So, I mean, like...
12:54Yeah, but I think that everything.
12:55You don't tell me that.
12:56Can I take a minute, mate?
12:57Quick, yeah.
12:58Sorry.
12:59Oh, babe, I didn't mean to upset you.
13:01To hear, like, the passion how you speak about someone else, like, oh, it's difficult for
13:12me, right, to hear you say that.
13:14Like, I want to be your one.
13:15I want to be able to bring someone...
13:16But you are my one.
13:17Yeah, I understand that, but to hear that and the passion, like, how you literally just
13:21said that about someone, like, made me feel really shit.
13:26I feel really bad how Connor reacted.
13:29I never expected him to react like that, because it's kind of like we're in this environment.
13:35He's kind of encouraged me to give an opinion.
13:37If he can't accept that I find someone else attractive, then can he accept me in the bedroom
13:42with another man?
13:44I'm having the second thoughts on tonight.
13:47I don't know if I can do this.
13:59In a luxury retreat in the English countryside, a group of extraordinary people are rebelling
14:05against monogamy by opening up their relationships to other people.
14:10I think a lot of people who are monogamous fear their partner being attracted to someone
14:15else means that their partner may choose that person and therefore leave them.
14:21With non-monogamy, because you don't have to make that choice, adding more people just
14:27means increasing your experience.
14:29So you're just adding joy to the relationship.
14:39Hi!
14:40South Londoners Shanice and Ricardo want to open up, having been in a committed relationship
14:45for eight years.
14:46We've wanted to kind of explore the open side of our relationship for a little while.
14:51It's really exciting being at the retreat, but it's definitely nerve-wracking.
14:55So, what brings you here?
14:58Ooh!
14:59Sex.
15:01Okay.
15:02Great start.
15:03That's a good place to start, Alfie.
15:05We want to explore, seeing how we both feel in open situations.
15:11Okay.
15:12Have either of you been open in previous relationships?
15:15Never.
15:16So, what are the things that you get anxious about that you worry about with this?
15:21I don't really feel, I suppose, uncomfortable.
15:24In many situations, I would say, as far as I'm concerned, I'm secure with Shanice.
15:29Okay.
15:30For me, it would be the idea of feeling left out.
15:35I haven't been in this situation before.
15:37So, let's start with numbers to begin with.
15:40Threesome, foursome, fivesome.
15:42Let's start there.
15:43So, for me, being in a foursome situation would just make me feel that little bit more comfortable.
15:51To avoid any issues, I think a couple swap is great.
15:55My biggest worry with a threesome would be, it might be a bit overwhelming, feeling like we're not a part of the situation.
16:04Sometimes three can be an awkward number to begin with, particularly if somebody is worried about the possibility of feeling left out.
16:12Whereas if you have four people, it's easier to switch attention and to find a way in.
16:17I don't think, I think that's something that's crossed my mind before, but it doesn't really do anything for me, another couple.
16:23Yeah, well, but she likes men.
16:25Yeah, exactly.
16:27In terms of opening up the relationship, I prefer to be with another girl and have a threesome.
16:32I don't know if that's greedy or what, but the more women, the better, I would say.
16:36Is a desire for a threesome more about, I don't like men, so why would I have another man there?
16:43For me, I would say probably, yeah.
16:45Yeah.
16:46What about attractions?
16:48Are you attracted to women as well as men?
16:50I haven't had any sexual experiences with women, but I do find them attractive.
16:54I mean, would you want to experiment with women?
16:56Yeah, I would, yeah.
16:58Tonight there's going to be party at the poolside.
17:00Okay.
17:01Before you go, talk about, you know, we're aiming for a foursome, we're aiming for a threesome, we'll see how we feel.
17:07Make sure you've had that discussion first.
17:09There'll be loads of fun people there.
17:11Have an absolutely brilliant time.
17:14My pleasure.
17:17I'm not sure if Janice and Ricardo are on the same page at this point.
17:21Janice really took on board the idea of four, whereas what can often happen with heterosexual men,
17:27in an experience like this, is there's some comparative stuff and some competition,
17:32and so a man can feel more threatened by another man being there than another woman being there.
17:37Look at this.
17:38What a lovely move.
17:40Yeah, so heavy.
17:42I was surprised by his reaction to us swapping with another male and female, just because I thought he'd be on board altogether.
17:51So what do you think? What do you want to do?
17:56My preference, I'm not going to lie, I'll be honest, is a foursome.
18:00And the reason for that is because there's no way anyone can be left out.
18:07I'm on the fence with that one still.
18:09Why?
18:10It just don't do anything for me, you get it?
18:12Yeah, but you're swapping.
18:13You're not interacting with the guy.
18:17It's me interacting with the guy and you interacting with the woman.
18:22I think he's more tunnel-visioned on two females, and that's where his head is at at the moment.
18:28We will see how tonight goes, and hopefully he will be a bit more open-minded.
18:41Married couple Kirstie and Connor are attending a party in the hope of opening up their relationship by allowing another man to join them in the bedroom.
18:51But learning of Kirstie's attraction towards resident Josh left Connor questioning whether to continue.
18:58If I know she's got that sort of physical connection with someone, I don't know if I would be able to do this.
19:08In our relationship this happens a lot, like I'm very outspoken and I'll say it and then he gets upset because he's sensitive and then I feel like a knob.
19:16And then I feel really bad.
19:18I don't think we should quit. I'd like to carry on with the experience, obviously, but I'll respect whatever you're happy to do.
19:27The thing is, I did get along with Josh, you know, that I thought he was sound, but now I know she's got that sort of passion when in there.
19:35I mean, that's not something I can go ahead with. I'll be honest with you, I can't.
19:39That's fair enough.
19:40I mean, I'm happy to peel off someone else.
19:43If we're to take anyone else out, I'd say Nathan. Probably he's the best person for it.
19:48I would agree.
19:52Hiya.
19:53Hi, guys. You all right?
19:54So we've been talking and if you're up for it, we'd like to chat with you a little bit more and see where it goes.
20:00Yeah, absolutely right.
20:03I'd like to take a step further. I don't feel like these things can be rushed, but there is definitely a vibe there.
20:08As soon as I met you, like, I thought you're definitely my type of guy, you're someone that I would definitely chill with.
20:14Yeah, you said, like, I could see you and like, oh, do you want to go for a pint?
20:17Exactly.
20:18Yeah.
20:19But this is it.
20:20Yeah, absolutely.
20:21This is all very new for me. Have you ever done anything like this before?
20:24Do you know what? Yeah, I've done threesomes with guys.
20:27Okay.
20:28I've done foursomes with guys and girls.
20:31Based on my experiences, it just depends on the connection with the guy.
20:35As I'm straight and I know he's straight, you don't want to feel awkward with someone who's going to bedroom with your partner.
20:40So it's good to get a good connection on a friendship level.
20:43The only question I've got is, what's your boundaries?
20:46My boundaries are what your boundaries are.
20:48Like, I know there was a couple I've met before, they don't like kissing.
20:51So this is it with Connor, if we're like getting down to it and there's a kiss, he won't like it.
20:56A kiss inside of it, anything which we would normally do on a daily basis, you know, that's our little thing.
21:02And, you know, I don't want that to be taken away from me or from us.
21:06And I understand that.
21:07So we're on the same page.
21:08Yeah.
21:11I'm feeling.
21:12It's getting a bit cold out here.
21:14And we go inside.
21:16Okay.
21:17And we go from there.
21:19Absolutely.
21:20Well, it's mixed emotions.
21:21I just don't know what's going to happen.
21:23It's all very new to me.
21:25I know if I'd put myself in this sort of situation.
21:28Obviously, really uncomfortable for Connor, but we're going to open up to a whole new world if this is something that we can do.
21:33If we can enjoy sex with other people, for me, that's perfect.
21:37With having group sex and threesomes, it's the big deal.
21:40I mean, you look at them and you can tell that they're definitely nervous, which I completely understand.
21:46But there's the boundary that we both know and we respect.
21:52I think what's best, start off seeing how I feel with just giving her a massage.
21:57Yeah, absolutely.
21:58And then, I mean, then we just go from there.
22:11Is that pressure all right, yeah?
22:12Yeah, it's healthy.
22:16I'm, like, living my best life right now.
22:25Do you feel, like, comfortable?
22:27Not being honest.
22:28Yeah.
22:29It's high from the C.
22:30Would it feel better if maybe you tried a massage as well?
22:33Yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:34So I can draw it to you.
22:35Do I take the last side?
22:36Both do.
22:37Both do.
22:44What would you think would be your next step after this that you felt comfortable?
22:47Mindset right now is, like, just mixed, mate.
22:50Like...
22:51Is it?
22:52I guess...
22:54Potentially, um...
22:55I'll see you kissing.
22:56You're okay with that, yeah?
22:57I've got to give it a shot.
22:58That would be my decision.
22:59Yeah.
23:00Despite being a firm boundary agreed with Dr. Laurie, the no kissing rule has been abandoned.
23:14How do you feel?
23:15I'm comfortable.
23:16Yeah.
23:17Yeah.
23:18Yeah.
23:19Yeah.
23:20Yeah.
23:21As soon as he locked lips, he put his tongue in her mouth, I just felt, you know, that's
23:45that's my wife that I love and just seeing her with another guy just hit me, um, and I
23:53just wasn't ready.
23:54I feel really bad now.
23:55No!
23:56No!
23:57No!
23:58But yeah, I appreciate it, but where do we go from here?
24:03I'll leave you guys too.
24:06I feel like Kirsty wanted things to progress a lot more, but she respected Connor's decision.
24:12I would have loved to have gone further with, but it's their relationship.
24:16It's not mine.
24:17So you need to respect that and just let them do them.
24:20The fact that Connor even suggested kissing him, I kind of knew from the minute he said
24:24that, that was going to be the end because that was something he didn't want to do.
24:29I just felt uncomfortable.
24:32Um, just didn't feel like I was ready for that.
24:36Well, I really did feel alright about it.
24:39I don't feel like now, like I've got no emotion towards it.
24:43It meant nothing to you?
24:45It meant nothing.
24:46I know.
24:47And how do you feel towards me?
24:48The same.
24:49Where do we go from here?
24:51If we're going to do this, it has to be in, in my, our own time.
25:00But it's not.
25:01It's your time.
25:02You've got to remember, like, you've, I'm in love with you.
25:04I love you, like, so much.
25:06But I love you.
25:07Yeah, I know.
25:08And you're very much more open than me.
25:10I'm going to be completely honest with you.
25:12I feel like this part of you that is very selfish.
25:16I'm, I'm trying to open up for you.
25:18And I've gone, gone this far.
25:20Because it's always about you.
25:23I feel like I take a back seat for him to be emotional.
25:26I love him to bits, but I kind of feel like I can't have emotion
25:29because he's got too many of them.
25:31Have you ever sat back and asked me how I feel?
25:33Because every, because every day I do that.
25:35Like, you don't.
25:36End of, you don't.
25:37No.
25:38You can feel like, no, no, no, no.
25:41Oh.
25:42End of?
25:45To be honest, I didn't really enjoy any of it.
25:49So at this point, I'm not sure if I think bringing a guy in
25:54is right for us at this moment.
26:11Last night, married couple Kirsty and Connor attempted to open up their relationship
26:16by having sex together with a man for the very first time.
26:21Bob, do you look really sad?
26:23But seeing Kirsty kiss resident Nathan caused Connor to pull the plug,
26:28leaving their stay in the retreat hanging in the balance.
26:31Last night, we had a bit of a disagreement and obviously I did upset Connor.
26:36We're both hotheads and we can both sort of give it a little bit, but we love each other
26:42and it's silly.
26:44How are you feeling?
26:46I just felt last night was difficult for me to see, I guess.
26:55We only went so far last night, which I thought was too far to be honest.
27:01Maybe I'm just not ready yet.
27:03But it wasn't just a kiss between Kirsty and Nathan that Connor struggled with.
27:08During the social, Kirsty triggered Connor's insecurities
27:12by discussing her sexual desire for resident Josh.
27:18Obviously I upset you.
27:22Wasn't expecting the words.
27:26That sort of passion where you haven't ever been like that with me.
27:30But I am like that with you.
27:34Morning guys.
27:36Good morning.
27:37How are you?
27:38Yeah, not too bad.
27:39How was last night?
27:40Mmm.
27:41Yeah, it's pretty fair.
27:42It wasn't too bad.
27:43What happened?
27:44Basically, what happened?
27:45Rejected me.
27:46I got a little bit too excited about you.
27:48Kirsty's me?
27:49Yeah.
27:50So then how she reacted.
27:51Yeah, she'd give you a compliment where if that comment wouldn't have been made,
27:54you would have blown it for me.
27:56You would have been in.
27:57I fucked it for myself.
27:59Maybe you would have.
28:00That's the truth of it.
28:01Yeah.
28:03Josh would have been my first pick if I hadn't have said right to him.
28:06The thing is, he would have been mine as well.
28:07So has that comment ruined it for me then?
28:09Am I off the table?
28:10I wouldn't, not necessarily.
28:12Not necessarily.
28:16I want to better myself as a person and I believe this is the right way to do it.
28:21Grab a seat.
28:22How are we?
28:23How are we?
28:24Well, last night was tough for me.
28:25To be honest, I don't know if I'm ready to go with it again and, you know, go ahead again.
28:33So, did you not set your thing as a boundary yesterday?
28:36Yeah.
28:37We knew we were going to talk about that.
28:38Sorry.
28:39You knew you were going to hear this from me, right?
28:40Yeah.
28:41I'm like, did you not set that as a boundary yesterday?
28:43Yeah.
28:44I tried to get into a process into my head.
28:47You were trying to control it.
28:48Yeah.
28:49When people feel anxious about something, they try to control it because they think they'll
28:53feel better.
28:54Part of the reason you're doing this here is because he's already said, I have insecurities
29:00I want to get past.
29:01The thing is, it affects every part of our relationship.
29:04Of course it does.
29:05You've been insecure, doesn't it?
29:06Yeah, I know it does.
29:07And the fact that you are objectively a very attractive man has meant absolutely nothing.
29:13You don't feel that.
29:14No.
29:15No.
29:16Okay.
29:17I don't want you to back out because of insecurity because insecurity can be worked on.
29:22So tonight, I want to put you back in a situation where you have the opportunity to try this
29:28again.
29:29I kind of feel like Connor needs to be, obviously he's straight and he's not going to get turned
29:34on by a man, but it needs to be a sexier environment.
29:37Do you think maybe you need to start having sex with him and the other person comes in
29:42while you're already engaged with each other?
29:45Yeah.
29:46What do you think, Connor?
29:47Yeah.
29:48After listening to what Dr. Laurie had to say, we do want to give things another shot.
29:52I want us to grow, to become even stronger.
29:55I guess I'm scared because it's my insecurities.
29:59They kick in.
30:01The thing is, I need to, I need to do it, don't I?
30:08Well, you've just got to look at it, like...
30:10It's not the sex.
30:11I've come to terms with that.
30:12It's not the sex.
30:13The sex isn't a problem.
30:14It's me.
30:17I'm so wrapped up in my own head.
30:22I want to be the best husband I can for you.
30:25Yeah, but you are the best husband.
30:26You're the best husband ever.
30:27You already are the best husband.
30:28You don't need to allow us to sleep with other people to be the best husband ever.
30:32Like, that's not what I've ever said to you.
30:34You just need to realise your own worth.
30:37Like, that's what I think you lack.
30:40I just don't know why I'm like it.
30:44Connor's childhood wasn't the best.
30:48I mean, he lost his dad quite young.
30:50He's from not the best of areas.
30:53He's never felt like he was important.
30:55And I think how he is now is a reflection on how he felt as a child.
31:01And it makes me sad because I just think,
31:03I wish he could see himself how I see him.
31:06You're an emotional little pair.
31:09Opening up is a massive thing.
31:11It's scary by someone else coming in
31:14and being able to give her something possibly I can't.
31:17It's massive for me.
31:19I just don't know what would happen.
31:22I've seen him come in, but the other one…
31:23Is he looking for me?
31:25Yeah.
31:27Yeah.
31:28Oh, oh.
31:29Yeah.
31:30Hey!
31:32This is gonna be funny.
31:33Shanice and Ricardo are getting themselves pumped.
31:35Oh, wow.
31:36tonight they'll be heading poolside to join the retreats residents for their first social
31:44from tonight ideally I'm thinking couple swap because I get to explore with another man and
31:51both get a little bit of something I don't know how I'm gonna feel about that yet my preference
31:57is women only women if I'm honest I don't want no sucking dick tonight please yeah
32:02it is definitely nerve-wracking being in a place where you want other people to be attracted to
32:19you so I'm just gonna brace myself head up chin up yeah you're you're the bee's knees yeah
32:26come on Baba I think the main thing I'm feeling anxious about is when I first walk in and just
32:38seeing everyone what if like you know I walk in and everyone's like oh not really interested in him
32:46wasting no time Ricardo hones in on the retreats female residents making a beeline for Grace Kiki
32:58and Sophia how are you guys good how are you good I'm good a bit nervous that's the first but it's
33:04all good so with regards to you guys opening is it just females or you open to males as well my
33:13sexuality I'm pansexual okay so I just love anyone and everyone really oh brilliant what about you
33:19would you say a show or your bisexual okay so I find women attractive I would love to like explore with
33:25my partner and a woman and a man yeah all women women in general yeah women in general grace is
33:34really cool you know when the conversation just flows you don't even have to try it's just like
33:38yeah man I'm happy I'm happy have a good time my first impressions of Shanice and Ricardo were that
33:45they were a huge vibe very easy to talk to so yeah it was good it was nice easy conversation eager for a
33:51potential foursome Shanice finds one of the retreats resident couples Linda and Nathan they've been
34:00together for nine years and open for three monogamy is a social construct that I think needs to be
34:08dismantled opening up our relationship has allowed us to form a deeper connection with each other
34:13Linda is fire crazy sex appeal and yeah Nathan's yeah he's a sort of a little bit
34:42yeah I think she needs to find a really really lovely she looks great she's fantastic if they
34:49wanted to get to know us a little bit more we'd be more than willing to see if we vibe and connect
34:53yeah you've been lovely speaking with you guys honestly you don't know I know this I was gonna say I'm
34:58gonna move on to other people as well welcome welcome to the park
35:07so what exactly made you guys decide to do this then we just wanted to add some additional spice
35:24to our relationship do you have boundaries that you've set in place or so we have boundaries with
35:30regards to the physical side so what is that those things share please we would love to know we don't
35:36want to do a no okay oh wow we're very we're very I'm on the same plan as you I thought you were going to say something totally different
35:45Janice and Ricardo just a lovely couple Janice is really attractive she's got amazing boobs
35:52I would love to have fun with those
35:54go for it it's been lovely to see you
35:57oh it's tough oh it is tough
36:02with the night drawing on Janice and Ricardo are faced with a big decision
36:07who to invite to try and open up their relationship with
36:11a single female or a couple
36:13only one couple I'm interested in which is Linda and Nathan
36:17and I feel like they're literally the same as us just more experienced
36:22what do you think
36:25obviously you're going to say the girl
36:29totally the reason why because it's just easier to be more fluid with that situation
36:33and it doesn't really do anything for me another guy
36:38a girl
36:41a couple
36:42a couple
36:43that's hard
36:45Kirstie and Connor are getting ready for a romantic evening
36:59they're hoping Connor can overcome his insecurities
37:02to enjoy group sex with a man
37:05you do look stunning
37:06and have arranged to meet Josh for drinks
37:11hi guys how you doing good to see you again
37:13I am hoping that we can all have a nice drink together
37:16and hopefully he agrees to us
37:19I am nervous
37:21we want to see if you're interested
37:26yeah I'm giving it a go
37:28yeah I'd be grateful to be a part of your experience
37:30yeah yeah of course
37:31I do want to go as far as I can and you know
37:34I do want to explore and see where me and her can go
37:38I think you know you're sort of the man for the job
37:40I think we're both the same personality
37:42you're taller, better looking
37:44oh mate I wouldn't go that far
37:46you're joking me
37:46you're both very good looking
37:49glad that I've been asked to join their experience
37:52I'm looking forward to it
37:54I really get on well with them
37:55Kirsty's a gorgeous girl
37:56I'd love to spend a night with her
37:57and Connor, great guy
37:59I feel like we're going to have a great time
38:01one thing I will say to both of you is
38:03I understand that your relationship is sacred
38:05and I would never want to interfere with that
38:06and it will never be what you both have
38:08yeah
38:09so that's all I can offer
38:11it's just having a good time with both of you
38:12but that's all we can have
38:13as long as you've been recruited
38:15tonight is such a big step
38:18because it's something that we've been talking about for a while
38:20like could we do it
38:21and Connor's wondering if it's something I want to do
38:23anyway guys
38:25shall we move on
38:26yeah
38:27let's do this
38:28after last night's failure with Nathan
38:32the couple have another opportunity to open up
38:35but it all lies in Connor's hands
38:38I don't know if I can fully go through with it
38:44or will it just be like last night
38:46or can I go that extra step
38:50I'm going to take it all away
38:51girl
39:03or a couple
39:04what do you want to do
39:07you're right
39:09if it was a girl
39:10just to have a good time
39:12do you know what I mean
39:13yeah yeah yeah that's how I feel
39:15I was hoping for a couple swap ideally
39:18but a threesome with another female
39:21would probably be the best child
39:22because then I think Ricardo will be more comfortable
39:25who would you pick then
39:29Precious or Grace
39:32this is hard
39:35they're both fun
39:37and I feel like Precious is mad at understanding
39:40he's old
39:40he's old
39:40he knows what I'm boogie
39:42I'm picking Precious if it was me
39:46but
39:46there you go
39:47alright fuck it Precious
39:51with Precious
39:52the attraction was there like straight away
39:54really friendly as well
39:56yeah and welcoming
39:56I did get a good vibe
39:58Precious
40:00can I speak to you for a minute?
40:01oh yeah sure
40:02so we have been talking
40:08we just wanted to get to know you more
40:12and have a few drinks
40:15sure
40:16yeah and just chill with you
40:19how comfortable do you feel?
40:25I think you're absolutely lovely
40:27you're a beautiful couple
40:28and I think that we get a good vibe
40:30for me I obviously am attracted to you a lot
40:38I think you're a stunning girl
40:39so do I
40:40and we get a good vibe
40:41but I feel like it's more of a like
40:44brother vibe if you know what I mean
40:46hey
40:46hey
40:49but physically I'm attracted to you
40:55okay
40:55yeah
40:55so
40:56I understand
40:57I wouldn't say like spending more time would be probably something that I would do
41:03in a smaller setting
41:04I didn't anticipate that
41:09people would say no
41:10people would say no
41:11oh damn it
41:12or that someone would want me instead of Ricardo
41:16I don't like rejection
41:19because it's not something I'm used to
41:20and it was something that secretly I probably feared
41:22it feels awkward in it
41:25and it feels like weird
41:26it's like oh
41:27I'm not used to this
41:28but where do I go from here
41:30grace obviously
41:32go and get her
41:34how are you guys
41:48good
41:49yeah
41:49and we wanted to get to know you more
41:51and invite you for some drinks
41:54and just chill and catch a vibe
41:59for sure
42:00well I would like to tell to you guys
42:03I feel like more of like a friendship vibe with you guys
42:07I didn't really feel like the sensual click straight away
42:13I'm really flattered though
42:14I really appreciate you
42:15no problem
42:16you guys are gorgeous
42:17thank you
42:19thank you
42:21I didn't expect the rejection from grace
42:28just because we really hit it off
42:30we were really excited about exploring the open side of our relationship
42:38and getting stuck in
42:40now my biggest worry
42:44is not having the opportunity to open up our relationship
42:47oh fuck
42:49married couple Kirstie and Connor
43:06have invited Josh to their bedroom
43:08for a threesome
43:10I am of course
43:12I'm nervous
43:13about tonight
43:14I am
43:14but I mean
43:15let's just get out there
43:16and go with it and see how I feel
43:19oh my lord
43:21now do you see why I like it
43:26love you
43:38love you
43:38we've come so far since being here
43:42I mean
43:42so much further than we ever ever thought
43:44this whole experience has definitely made me see that
43:49I definitely would like an open relationship
43:52I agree
43:53I mean
43:54this was the best possible outcome
43:56this is even better than I could ever imagined
43:58you know
43:58it was
43:59it is going to be very selective
44:02and it is going to be who we're comfortable with
44:03but yeah
44:05I mean
44:05I would love to continue
44:07on our journey
44:08you're making that look so easy
44:11Kirstie and Connor's experience was transforming
44:13he and Kirstie are feeling closer than ever
44:16and he's found his confidence
44:18but the danger with couples is that
44:21when they come here
44:22and they have a good outcome
44:23they think well
44:24that's it
44:25it's done
44:26it's an ongoing process
44:28one good experience
44:29is not going to override
44:31a lifetime of insecurities
44:33but they both now know that
44:35that things can change for the better
44:36a massive start for us
44:39my confidence is through the roof
44:41when we came in here
44:42his confidence was so low
44:44and there was like this sadness in him
44:46but from doing everything we've done
44:48it's like having a new mat
44:49so
44:50not that I want a new mat
44:52let's just
44:52alright guys
44:55how are you this morning
44:56all good man
44:57how are you
44:57good to see you here
44:58nice to see you again
45:00thank you so much for like being so good
45:04and helping us
45:05good enough to do it again
45:05alright
45:06I'm happy to
45:07let's stay in touch
45:08let's do it
45:09pleasure
45:09me and her
45:10I feel like we're so much stronger
45:12and I didn't think that was possible
45:13and I love her even more
45:15you know
45:15and it just can only continue and grow
45:17I'm a happy girl
45:19I'm a happy man
45:20next time
45:46Shanice and Ricardo's opening up
45:49get the party started
45:50is in danger
45:52of crashing down
45:54it is difficult to watch a partner
45:58enjoy that with someone else
46:00and fresh arrivals
46:01Nat and Tom
46:02take the plunge
46:04I'm going to dare them to kiss
46:06I'm not sure how that makes me feel
46:09if our relationship ended
46:10I would be devastated
46:12you
46:13you
46:14you
46:14you
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