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00:00It's contraceptive, known to man, is wedding cake.
00:05But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:10It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:13These curious couples are about to find out.
00:17Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:18They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:20Hello, you all right?
00:22Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:26Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:31...and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:36It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:41They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:45Oh, jeez!
00:48...can become a reality.
00:50We like the idea of group sex.
00:52We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:54And whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos.
01:00I should have been thinking about the man that I love, and how he was feeling.
01:05And have sex with other people.
01:08Oh, my God!
01:10Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:14This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:16I'm nervous.
01:27Yeah.
01:28I've got butterflies.
01:29How are you feeling?
01:31Yeah, I'm buzzing.
01:32Checking into the retreat are Ellie and Chaos, whose love affair began online.
01:37When I first saw Ellie, she was wearing these very small shorts, and her bum was, like, kind of hanging out.
01:44Oi! Oi!
01:44It was a very hot day, so...
01:47You ready to have fun, Ellie?
01:48Yeah.
01:49Can't wait.
01:51Chaos was quick to take the relationship to the next level.
01:55I prepared this video.
01:56Will you be my girlfriend?
01:58Then it went viral.
01:59I went bright red.
02:01I went literally the shade of a tomato, and all the comments were saying about how...
02:06Yeah.
02:08Sit!
02:09As a professional GB athlete, Chaos knows how to stay cool under pressure.
02:15I'm just a really chilled and laid-back person.
02:17I have complete trust in Ellie and what she does, so I have nothing to worry or be jealous of her.
02:23And being super fit helps him keep up in the bedroom.
02:27We do do it, like, well, every day.
02:31The chemistry is good, so we're quite adventurous.
02:34Top notch.
02:36I would probably say that I have a very high, like, sex drive, and, yeah, it's hard to find someone that matches that.
02:43Now the couple want to find out if opening up their relationship, starting with a threesome, will help them keep the spark alive.
02:51I would say the honeymoon period is over, but we're still very much so attracted to each other.
02:57I do think it's a bit naive to think that you can be with one person for your entire life.
03:03Can you see it?
03:05Yes.
03:05Oh, my God.
03:07How are you doing?
03:09Here to welcome them are hosts Jess and Tom, who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:14How are you feeling?
03:16Very excited to see what's to come, yeah.
03:18Hello.
03:20Hello, everyone.
03:21Hi, everyone.
03:22Now, Kea.
03:23Nice to meet you.
03:24Nice to meet you.
03:25God, you look so good.
03:26Yeah.
03:31Intimacy therapist Dr. Laurie Beth wants to help the couple take their first steps into non-monogamy.
03:37Hey, grab a chair.
03:39It's good to meet you two.
03:40So why don't you tell me what has brought you here?
03:43We thought this would be the perfect opportunity to have a threesome.
03:48Yep.
03:48Seeing Eddie, for example, kiss another girl or anything like that.
03:52I'm attracted to that, so...
03:54I think that's Kea's ideal scenario.
03:56I mean, that's kind of every guy's dream, to be honest.
04:00What do you think other people might bring to your relationship?
04:03I mean, more fun, I guess.
04:05Yeah, I guess.
04:05Yeah, okay.
04:06Yeah.
04:06More fun.
04:07Yeah.
04:08So where are you in your sexuality?
04:11I've always said I don't really label things.
04:12I never consider myself as straight or bisexual.
04:15I've always had attraction to both sexes, so that's really how I feel.
04:20So opportunities are structured with that in mind?
04:24Yes, yeah.
04:25What is jealousy like for you?
04:27I've never been jealous in my life, really.
04:30I mean, I've nothing.
04:30I don't know how...
04:31Like, there's nothing that will make Kea's jealous, he says, so that's interesting.
04:36Not that I know of, anyway.
04:36Yeah, exactly.
04:37Thank you, but nothing that comes to mind.
04:39What's jealousy like for you?
04:40I'm slightly a bit jealous.
04:42I mean, it would be strange not to be.
04:44I don't think that he would ever do anything behind my back, so I do fully trust him in
04:49that way.
04:49But I can be a little bit jealous.
04:51Okay, so before you date together, Ellie, I want you to go on a social alone.
04:59I want you to explore your bisexuality on your own first, without Kea's there, so you
05:04don't have to worry about jealousy.
05:06You'll have the opportunity to meet someone, spend the night with them, and lay the groundwork
05:11for a threesome.
05:13Yeah, that sounds good to me.
05:14Cool.
05:14Well, it's hard to predict how someone will react seeing their partner give or receive
05:20pleasure from another.
05:21She's not actually sure she might get jealous seeing him with another woman.
05:25It can be fine one minute, and absolutely not fine the next.
05:31We're going to go away and have socials, so mine's tonight.
05:35That's what's got my nerves going, but I guess I'm excited as well.
05:39Give me a hug.
05:45We're going to throw ourselves into it, I think.
05:47Give it 100%, see what it's about.
05:50Yeah, and have fun with it.
05:53The couple have only just arrived at the retreat, and one of them has already made a big impression
05:59on the residents.
06:00When Ellie came in, yeah, she was so confident, I was just like, I didn't even care about the
06:05car, I was just looking at her like...
06:06That's why I said...
06:07She looked classy as well.
06:08Very.
06:08She is bisexual.
06:09Oh, she is bisexual.
06:10Yeah.
06:10Oh, okay, cool.
06:11And he's straight.
06:12There's a lot of girls that are okay with getting with a girl, but wouldn't want the guy to
06:16have sex with her.
06:17Girl, yeah.
06:18So they'll be having fun, and he can just watch.
06:20Watch.
06:21Yeah.
06:24Are you scared?
06:26A little bit.
06:28Next to check into this exclusive retreat, a couple, Helen and Steve from Dorset.
06:33My first impression of Steve, I thought he was Jack the lad.
06:38Remember, you sent me a picture of a bed at a hotel, a four-poster bed saying, are we going
06:43to hang out?
06:44I thought, who's this man think he is?
06:46She had a lovely smile, but it was her arse.
06:49She had a very nice bum.
06:50I didn't fall in love with him.
06:54He irritated me.
06:56He would contact me about three times a year on Facebook.
07:00All right, babe, when are we going to get married then?
07:02And then my house burnt down, and he offered to help, and I don't know, I kind of really
07:08fancied him with his brush, painting my walls.
07:11And now she drives a Range Rover Sport.
07:12What a life.
07:13Do you know what I mean?
07:14Well, Christy, you couldn't go wrong meeting me, babe, could you?
07:17Wow.
07:17Oh, look at the river.
07:19Look at the size of that lake as well, look.
07:21Don't have too many drinks, Steve.
07:22You'd be skinny dipping in there.
07:24Damn right I will.
07:25The couple have been together for four years and have a one-year-old child.
07:30My daughter is my baby girl.
07:32My pride and joy.
07:34And she'd make anyone broody?
07:36Broody, does that mean horny?
07:38No.
07:39He's funny with words.
07:41He doesn't get them all.
07:41Helen and Steve have no complaints between the sheets.
07:46I'd rate Steve 9 out of 10 in the bedroom.
07:50This tongue is better than anything you get at Ann Summers.
07:54Ann Summers has got nothing on my tongue.
07:56That's fair.
07:57It's true, don't it?
07:58Yeah, that's fair.
07:59Oh, my gosh, the size of that.
08:02Steve and Helen are here to explore if being in an open relationship with other people
08:07can make them stronger as a couple.
08:10Here we are.
08:11Let's go.
08:13It's an opportunity to discover what we both really, truly want.
08:17I think this will make a huge difference to our relationship.
08:21Wow, pretty, isn't it?
08:22I'm excited about going on this journey.
08:24It's definitely an eye-opener.
08:28Hey, guys.
08:30It's nice to meet you.
08:31I'm going to give you a hug.
08:32Hey.
08:33How you doing, mate?
08:34You all right?
08:34Yeah, really good, mate.
08:35Smart hat, isn't it?
08:36Nice to meet you.
08:37How you doing?
08:37Welcome to the house.
08:39Take you on a tour around the place, yeah?
08:42Yeah.
08:42How do you do this way?
08:44Oh, yeah.
08:44You all right?
08:44Good, thank you.
08:45Nice to meet you.
08:50There's a steam.
08:51Yeah.
08:52He's got thrown in the deep end.
08:53Obviously, with letting them, it's quite hard.
08:55Yeah.
08:55I might feel a little bit uneasy, him going on a date with someone else.
09:00So, yeah.
09:02Cross that bridge when I come into that.
09:08You've got to get me some sexy outfit.
09:11Ellie and Chaos are hoping to bring another woman into their relationship.
09:15But before they date as a couple...
09:17I mean, I'm no fashion expert, but I think it goes.
09:23Dr. Laurie wants Ellie to explore her bisexuality without having to manage her jealousy.
09:29So she's going on a solo social.
09:31Being a little bitch right now.
09:33You need to have it a little bit up.
09:35And they're like, yeah, like that.
09:38I love staring at a palette.
09:41If she makes a connection with someone, she'll have the opportunity to invite them to spend the night with her.
09:48It is amazing that I'm finally kind of getting to explore this when I'm in a relationship with Chaos.
09:54It's going to be a great experience.
09:56Yeah.
09:57Sexy, yes.
09:58I think she's going to enjoy herself.
10:00And I look forward to hearing all the gossip about it.
10:04Yeah, you look good.
10:05Fun.
10:06Looking good as well.
10:06Does it look good?
10:08Yeah.
10:08I'm excited to get to know new people and have fun.
10:11I'm taking it as it comes, so we'll have to wait and see what is in store.
10:15Have fun.
10:17What?
10:18No.
10:18I'll see you tomorrow.
10:19I'll see you tomorrow.
10:20Love you too.
10:27Tonight, Ellie has a chance to socialise at a party where all the guests share a belief in the benefits of non-monogamy.
10:36Hi.
10:37Hello.
10:37You OK?
10:38Good.
10:39Nice to see you again.
10:39Nice to see you too.
10:41Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
10:45I wanted to introduce you to Ellie.
10:47So have you been having a good day?
10:49Yeah.
10:50So, I mean, throwing the D-pad.
10:52I don't know what to expect.
10:53I really don't know.
10:55It would be nice to find out their expectations as well.
10:57I don't know whether they'd find me attractive.
11:01Do you have a relationship with that girl?
11:02No.
11:03Have any of you?
11:04No.
11:05No.
11:05I have.
11:06Yeah.
11:07How was that?
11:10Chaos is quite comfortable for me to get with a girl because he obviously finds that attracted to him.
11:16He doesn't find it with men, so he wouldn't want me to do that.
11:20What are you?
11:21Sagittarius.
11:22OK.
11:23I'm Cancer.
11:24OK.
11:25Yeah.
11:26Oh, really?
11:28My ex was Leo.
11:30Oh.
11:30Yeah.
11:31So, like...
11:32We're picking the same ones as well.
11:33But Aries and Leos, they're, like, the ones I've always been, like, romantically involved with.
11:38So drawn to you.
11:40Yeah.
11:41Yeah.
11:41Literally know what other signs are.
11:43Me being Aries and Kiss.
11:44I know.
11:45It's beautiful.
11:46I'm the best of you.
11:47Woo!
11:48How long have you two been together for?
11:49A year.
11:50Oh, OK.
11:51Like, we...
11:52We were dating before that.
11:53Oh, OK.
11:54And we were pretty much exclusive when we were dating, so it's been more than a year.
11:57Yeah, a bit efficient.
11:58A year.
11:59Yeah.
12:00Well, our anniversary is on the 27th of this month.
12:02Oh, OK.
12:03So, see.
12:04Uh, no, not yet.
12:05A threesome.
12:06Yeah!
12:07A threesome.
12:08Joan, that's what he wanted for his birthday.
12:10Oh, my God.
12:11Of course you are.
12:12Great, so you're available on the 27th.
12:13Yeah.
12:14Oh, you're not.
12:15I'm beautiful.
12:16Cheers, baby.
12:17Cheers.
12:18Cheers.
12:19Cheers.
12:20To help Ellie get comfortable with non-monogamy, the residents have arranged a game of spin the
12:25bottle.
12:26That's you.
12:27Yeah.
12:28That is a 100% new girl.
12:30Whee!
12:31Kissing someone else while in a committed relationship is a first for Ellie.
12:36I'm nervous because I feel like it's all eyes on me, so that makes me very nervous.
12:42Hey.
12:43Oh, let's go.
12:44Let's go.
12:45Literally.
12:46It's easy because we're sat next to each other.
12:47Exactly.
12:48Whee!
12:49Yes, ladies.
12:50That's pretty cute.
12:51That was really cute.
12:52Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
12:53Oh, thank you.
12:54Yeah.
12:55Oh, thank you.
12:56Yeah.
12:57Yes, ladies.
12:58That's pretty cute.
12:59Yeah, you've got very nice lips.
13:01For me, kissing the girls, there's no feelings involved.
13:04Yay!
13:05Yay!
13:07It's just a game.
13:08Like, just have fun with it.
13:13Ooh!
13:14Oh!
13:15Hey!
13:16Game over.
13:17Ellie's decided she would like to spend time alone with one of the residents.
13:22With girls, it's harder to choose.
13:24They're all so lovely.
13:25And I didn't get to kiss Gracie.
13:28And obviously, she's, like, so pretty.
13:30And I chose Gracie.
13:32Yay!
13:33Yay!
13:34Don't make me laugh!
13:36Yay!
13:37For Ellie, the date is an opportunity to lay the groundwork for a threesome before boyfriend
13:43Chaos gets involved.
13:45Her vibe is great.
13:46Like, she seems really fun.
13:48I do fancy Ellie, yeah.
13:49She's really, really sweet.
13:51She's definitely my type.
13:52So, yeah.
13:53I think me and Ellie got on really, really well.
13:55And the girls could see it as well.
13:57So, that's also a good sign.
14:00It definitely makes me nervous, but I just take it step by step.
14:05And, you know, if you're comfortable with it, then just have fun with it.
14:20Ellie is on a date without Chaos, before the couple trial opening up their relationship
14:26together.
14:27Would you like to even do the honors?
14:29Yeah, you first, darling.
14:31Oh, adorable.
14:32This is cute.
14:33This is literally, like, glamping.
14:35It is, isn't it?
14:36And she's invited Grace to spend some one-on-one time with her.
14:40I'm going to take my heels off.
14:41Please, get comfortable.
14:43Cheers.
14:44Chin-chin.
14:45This is obviously my first time on a date with a girl, so that is really exciting.
14:50And, like, I can't wait to explore that side of my sexuality.
14:54I guess you're, like, open to getting to, like, know me and, I mean, Chaos as well.
14:59Yeah.
15:00You'd be happy to, like, have a relationship with someone who's in a relationship or be
15:04involved in their relationship?
15:06Yeah, either way.
15:07Yeah.
15:08Like, because it would be me coming to, like, your two's relationship, whatever works best
15:13for you two.
15:14While Ellie and Grace get to know each other more intimately, Chaos is keeping himself
15:21busy.
15:22I would like to think she's having a good time.
15:25And I'll find out tomorrow.
15:28I feel all good just to work out.
15:31I'll just tie myself out of it.
15:33But the only thing is there's loads of wasps in here and bugs are a big no-no for me.
15:40Oh, fucking spiders.
15:42So I don't know how I'm going to sleep tonight in this room knowing there's two wasps flying
15:46around.
15:49Back in the yurt, the girls have found a game to play.
15:53Shall we try these dices out?
15:55Yeah, you want to?
15:56OK, so you're my lover.
16:00OK, cool.
16:01So you've got to lick me.
16:03Where do you want to...?
16:04Are you having me to lick you?
16:05I'm having me to lick you.
16:07OK, I'll just let you be a surprise.
16:09That was nice.
16:10And that's actually, like, one of my spots.
16:11So I was like...
16:12OK, sorry.
16:13OK, cool.
16:14You can't go wrong with it.
16:15I threw myself into it and, like, tried to see whether I could develop, like, a deeper
16:16connection.
16:17OK, my turn.
16:18Massage.
16:19Massage.
16:20Oh, my God, yes!
16:21Wow!
16:22You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:23Yeah, it's very nice.
16:24Oh, this is so good.
16:25Amazing!
16:26OK, well, clearly, well, she's kissed my boobs.
16:27So feel free.
16:28Boob kiss, kiss my boobs.
16:29Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
16:30Loved it.
16:31Yeah?
16:32Yeah.
16:33Yeah.
16:34Yeah.
16:35Yeah.
16:36OK, my turn.
16:37Massage.
16:38Oh, my God, yes!
16:39Wow!
16:40You've got very, very, very soft skin.
16:41Yeah, it's very nice.
16:42Oh, this is so good.
16:44Amazing!
16:45OK, well, clearly, well, she's kissed my boobs.
16:48Yeah.
16:49So feel free.
16:50Boob kiss, kiss my boobs.
16:52Yeah, well, I'll give a little...
16:54Loved it.
16:55Yeah?
16:56Yeah.
16:57Yeah.
16:58Before I turn the light off, do you want to have a little kiss?
17:03Yeah?
17:04I just feel like, you know, it would have been so much tonight.
17:10It was quite a new experience, so maybe, I don't know, maybe I was just a bit nervous.
17:15Kind of hard for me when I already have an emotional connection with someone else in a relationship.
17:24Committed couple Helen and Steve have come to the retreat to explore opening up their relationship to other sexual partners.
17:41Hey, guys.
17:42Hello.
17:43Come on in and sit down.
17:44Dr. Laurie is on hand to help the couple brave their first few steps into non-monogamy.
17:49So, what brought you here now?
17:54I want to date other people, have a connection with someone.
17:58Mm-hmm.
17:59You're the driving force.
18:00Would that be a fair thing to say?
18:01Would you say, May?
18:02Yeah, definitely.
18:03On this experience, I've pushed this a little bit more because I want Steve to recognize things that are important in a relationship because there's a lot of things that we don't do together.
18:14What's the romance like in your relationship?
18:18Steve's very, very busy all the time.
18:20You know, I'm a busy person, too.
18:23We don't have a massive amount of time for each other.
18:26If romantic is nice, I could write you a list.
18:29I'm always nice to her like that.
18:30I'm just that sort of guy.
18:32Isn't it?
18:33That's not romantic, though, is it?
18:34Romance is whining and donning someone and taking them out.
18:36We've not been for a day, yeah?
18:37I took you on the back of my jet ski.
18:39Steve, do you have any ideas of things that you would like to do?
18:42I don't think I could just meet someone and just jump into a bedroom.
18:46I think they'd have to get to know the people more.
18:48Consensual non-monogamy takes lots of different forms.
18:51This gives you the opportunity to see how different things feel and to challenge some of your boundaries that come from monogamy.
18:58We've got quite a good relationship with sort of, you know, we don't have the insecurities or anything.
19:04You love me, don't you?
19:06Of course, babe.
19:07Oh, there you go, I see.
19:08Well, that was a pretty quick response.
19:11So tonight, you're each going to go on a social, spending the nights separately.
19:17Then, you're each going to have the opportunity to choose somebody to spend one-to-one time with.
19:22You don't have to do anything, but I'm encouraging you to push out the boat a little bit.
19:28Yeah, lovely.
19:29Come on then, Steve.
19:30Nice to meet you.
19:31See you later on.
19:32You too.
19:33This is a really interesting couple.
19:39I suspect that there's an emotional void in Helen that is really driving this whole thing.
19:44But I'm not sure that meeting and potentially having sex with other people is going to fill that void.
19:51I'm really curious to see how they do on their socials.
19:55That's so nice, isn't it?
19:57Yeah.
19:58Oh, so nice.
20:00So, where do you find yourself at with this?
20:04I don't know.
20:05I think, I don't know.
20:07It's very hard, Steve, isn't it?
20:10Yeah.
20:11I am looking forward to my social.
20:13It's a good bunch of people.
20:14It'd be good to get out and enjoy the company and see where it takes us.
20:17I just plan to have some fun.
20:19But Steve is considering the potential risks.
20:23I wouldn't mind being game and experimenting and that.
20:26Would you let me go and bang, sorry, sleep with one?
20:29Would you let me go and sleep with one of these women?
20:31Just to go on a trial, just to see what I was like.
20:34It's not a laughing matter, really.
20:35It's okay, Steve.
20:36This is very serious decisions, Ellie.
20:38All right, put the whip down.
20:39Last night, Ellie went on her first ever date with a girl.
20:52Hello.
20:53Hello, stranger.
20:54While boyfriend, Chaos, spent the night alone.
20:57Yeah, I think Gracie's really attractive.
20:59She has, like, such a nice smile and, like, her skin is so good.
21:02I love her freckles, her hair, everything.
21:05But it's not that I really want to rip your clothes off kind of thing.
21:08I was, like, nervous to see my own boyfriend.
21:12Are they new?
21:13No, they're Gracie's.
21:18So, tell me about the night.
21:20What did you do?
21:21No, you tell yours.
21:23Well, we played Spin the Bottle.
21:26Yeah.
21:27So I kissed Kelsey and Chanel.
21:30When Ellie told me that she was kissing multiple girls doing Spin the Bottle,
21:34I thought that was quite hot, to be honest.
21:36I mean, who wouldn't?
21:37I think that's, for me, that's a turn on.
21:40So I've got, yeah, I'm all for that.
21:42Then Gracie.
21:44And we went to a yurt.
21:47I ended up licking her neck.
21:48I mean, she licked my neck.
21:50And I, like, kissed her boob.
21:52You say you had quite a fun night, then.
21:55Tonight, the couple will have the chance to invite someone on a date together, in the hope of having a threesome for the first time.
22:03I just don't know how I'm going to feel about you going and kissing people.
22:06Well, you know it's going to, that something like that is going to happen, you know that.
22:11Yeah, but you obviously don't have to.
22:16No, but...
22:17I'm going to be nervous and maybe, maybe jealous, I don't know.
22:20For me, him kissing girls, that's definitely tiptoeing on, like, boundaries.
22:27Helen and Steve are getting ready for separate socials.
22:39Got chicken legs at the minute.
22:41Dr. Laurie wants them to try and make a connection with someone, and then invite them to spend some time together, alone, on a date.
22:48My expectations are to have fun and go on dates with a couple of people. It will be nice.
22:55A social will be an opportunity for Helen to experience romance, something she thinks her relationship lacks.
23:02Remember Christmas Eve? I wanted us to wear Christmas pyjamas and watch a movie together and you were at the pub.
23:08Yeah.
23:09It's Christmas, isn't it? It's when you go out, Christmas, isn't it?
23:11No, family time.
23:12Family time.
23:13I'm out of here.
23:14Oh, have fun.
23:16Love you.
23:17I'm off.
23:25Hey.
23:26The retreat's sexually liberated residents are ready to welcome the couple.
23:31Sorry, thank you.
23:32Hello.
23:33I'm good, thank you.
23:34It's nice to see you.
23:35You look stunning.
23:36Yeah.
23:37I'm good, I swear.
23:38Steve.
23:39How you doing?
23:40You all right?
23:41How you doing, man?
23:42I don't get many parties like this, do you?
23:43No, it's not.
23:44No.
23:45No, absolutely not.
23:46What's happening, girls?
23:47So what brings you here, then?
23:48Experience, innit?
23:49Yeah.
23:50I've never done anything like this before.
23:51I just mean, like, an open relationship.
23:52No, never.
23:53I've never went on dates or anything like that with anyone else.
23:54No.
23:55I had, like, a threesome or anything.
23:56No.
23:57No.
23:58Ready to spice things up later?
23:59Yeah, let's just go in.
24:00See how the boat goes, innit?
24:01Yeah.
24:02Yeah.
24:03Not used to dating etiquette, Steve takes a novel approach.
24:06No.
24:07No.
24:08No.
24:09No.
24:10No.
24:11No.
24:12No.
24:13No.
24:14Steve takes a novel approach to flirting.
24:17What's your ideal date night, then?
24:19Bit of Emmerdale Farmer in front of the telly, innit?
24:21I was, like, joking.
24:23I was, like, joking.
24:27That was...
24:28Erm, it's quite hard.
24:29I'm not really a person to talk in depth about the sexual life like that.
24:34I like a bit more privacy.
24:36I don't like to boast about things that I've done or boast about things
24:39that I'd like to do.
24:40So, are you, like, into anything kinky, then?
24:42You know, you know,
24:44bad but what do you mean very bad I used to be a lazy entertainer I've never been
25:01all for the big sort of hench guys kind of all the muscles and that at her
25:06social you feel right because you've got definition how much do you weigh I'm
25:10fine Helen is wasting no time getting to know the residents that's muscle then in
25:15there yeah and how tall are you I'm 61 and obviously you work out you don't I mean these
25:30guys are great everyone's chatting everything's flowing and made me feel like I can be myself so
25:35I'd like to know where it kind of goes from here you don't know about it right now I'm shy as they
25:43come I feel like Helen's rolled out and me and her were clicking we're having a bit of banter I'd
25:48definitely like to take her out just to show her that this it can happen like you can there's more
25:53things out there hello hello how are you look phenomenal thank you you know I got some eyelashes
25:59on so it's all good yeah what do you do for a job I just set up a barista coffee business called the
26:09screaming bean what was on your mind when you thought of screaming beans my sister said you
26:15cannot call it that because it is just disgusting yeah thank you I could clear this is a beam it's
26:20clicky though isn't it I just don't know how you didn't see that screaming bean architect Josh has
26:25taken a shine to Helen you sound like an experienced lady what do you want commitment and time
26:33commitment and time Helen's a lovely lady I love talking to her she just seems like an absolute
26:40genuine person that um just you'd want to be around I think with tattoos like people go oh what's your
26:45tattoo Helen and it just looks like a little F where are your tattoos where are your tattoos well you
26:50can't really see it it's in there I'll see it later and Helen has also made a connection with Josh I
27:01liked the way that Josh asked me what it was that I wanted because that I feels important and the fact
27:09that he'd done that showed that he values the other person's sort of needs so that one was a bit of a
27:16winner for me on the other side of the retreat Steve is loosening up he's decided to give the female
27:37residents a taste of his ladies entertainment the striptease dance vibe I'm not gonna I thought
27:54there was a dick in my mouth at one point yeah that's somewhere to meet someone anyway just ball
27:59straight in the mouth and he's a really fun character yeah you know you're not you're not shy
28:09I think my striptease went down really well with the girls they were very excited there was a
28:39very large amount of screaming it's nice to make someone smile
28:43as the social winds down Helen is getting closer to resident Josh there's something that you said
29:00today which made me think yeah that's a really I want to know I'm interested in you you're a lovely
29:06uh a lovely person to talk to yeah full of energy fun that's for sure and she's invited him to go on a
29:14romantic date for me it's an emotional connection with someone that I can get on with someone that
29:20she actually wants to listen and that's the reasons why I've picked him should we go yeah
29:25after me bye bye see you there bye
29:27Helen picked me uh it was a nice surprise she had the pick of the guys and she brought a lot of laughter
29:34out of me and um I think she's just a great person and I just would love just to get to know her a bit more
29:39I'm really looking forward to going to spend some quality time with Jess she's one sort of person
30:00very very weird to be in this situation to go for a different woman whilst my wife knows I will enjoy it
30:07let's go we're gonna have some fun definitely and yeah we'll just see where the where the night goes
30:16yeah committed couple Helen and Steve are dating people outside of their relationship for the very
30:35first time after you oh lovely oh thank you I'll take your jacket if you'd like but I think you're cold so
30:43yeah oh bless you Helen is being romanced by Josh from West London so you also won first uh yes please yeah
30:52I'm excited to spend time with Josh he just seemed really kind of relaxed chilled and genuine and I kind of like that
30:58like that me and you are gonna have a fantastic yeah look cheers to this thank you for picking me
31:04after you Jess it's cute in here to be fair while Steve is having a one-to-one with Jess from Belfast
31:12locking the door securing it
31:14Jess is a very nice bubbly girl
31:18oh I think she's on the same wavelength as I am to see how things occur and how things progress Steve
31:27struggled with flirting earlier but being alone with Jess seems to bring out his playful side so you
31:34live in Glasgow then yeah no Ireland Ireland how fast yeah the island is not a different country is it
31:40it is is it yeah no it's not a little thing just above England it no I like the accent me I like it
31:46the Scottish accent or the Irish accent Irish do you think I have an Irish accent yeah would you like
31:51another drink gently say yeah I'll take a top up what a top up I'll take a top up a top up the day
31:57it's going really well Jess is quite a bubbly person and quite a good laugh to be around she's
32:02definitely got a bit of banner and maybe we could see what progresses Helen says she hasn't been on a
32:08single date with Steve in their whole four-year relationship when I started working on building
32:14sites I was scared to go up and do gym ladies so small talk over dinner is providing welcome attention
32:23I used to just like sort out concrete blocks so they're like 80 to 100 kg
32:29fucking hell are you joking no I got told that I'd chat people to death but you know
32:34it's not really a bad thing I love it you've got a lot to say Josh was actually really gentle and
32:41quite intensive I kind of liked that that he actually wanted to listen to me it was just nice
32:47I used to be a David Beckham person yeah yeah I used to joke up I can see that to be fair I can see
32:55that you're definitely not Victoria I'm not Victoria definitely no what do you mean no no I take that
33:03as a fucking massive compliment a compliment and listen you've got a bit of physique yeah yeah Victoria's
33:09got bones do you like curbs then yeah I like I like something a bit bit a bit of something are you
33:16more of like a boobs guy or like a bum guy an arse guy a bum guy a bottom a bottom guy a bottom person
33:23from what I've understood of you so far I feel like you need support I feel like you need people
33:29around you that will boost you up I've never had that there wouldn't be nothing nicer than the fact
33:37that someone actually believing in me and guiding me do you get me I love everything you subscribe to
33:43you I think you can tell that I'm having a fantastic time are you yeah I feel like I can't
33:51comment on the situation you can't comment on the situation no no I'm enjoying myself of course I am
33:56good I've been on a date for a long time tonight has been like a real eye-opener for me it was about
34:03getting to know someone because that's something I feel and is missing from my relationship at the
34:08minute so I've really enjoyed my time back in his yurt do you get whipped all the time do you like all
34:20that whip shit it's been to your way and despite turning the conversation kinky I could do more with
34:27my tongue and what most people do with the whole of their body yeah definitely yeah yeah million
34:32percent million percent I'm going to Ireland with you you're coming back with me yeah I'll meet that
34:37yeah come on then I'll come there that's right Steve's decided to call it a night did you have fun
34:45with me yeah yeah yeah I really had a great time Jessie's a very nice girl if I was 21 I think and I come
34:52on to an experience like this I think I'd be well game for doing it all but we've been together for
34:57four years and that's something I don't want to lose after a night experiencing their first ever
35:17taste of non-monogamy dr. Laurie wants to help the couple reflect on their dates okay so let's start
35:26with the early part of the evening how was that fun it was alright I picked my date yeah we shared a
35:35couple of drinks together mm-hmm yeah we clicked we got on really well and yeah he's a nice guy I went on a
35:41date with a girl called Jess mm-hmm I did a little show for the ladies whilst that we was in there on the
35:46natural thing yesterday so I took her with me just to get to know a bit more you enjoyed the time oh
35:51it was a lovely time of a very lovely girl very very nice person now that you've both had romantic
35:56dates with other people how do you feel about open relationships the whole idea of this experience
36:03really was to sort of better our relationship I do always feel that he lives life in the fast lane and
36:10sometimes that you know not all my needs are met I do agree what she's saying and I do work a
36:16substantial amount of time but has made me realize now that I do need to spend a lot more time with
36:21Helen and be more there for her because I'm not usually there that's good which to me is a good
36:26thing about coming on to here and it's made me realize I don't think I could be in an open
36:29relationship just kind of my heart really it's not unusual you know often couples think they're
36:36ready and then they have to go away and work on themselves and their relationships it's taught us
36:40to sort of work on our relationship definitely it's been a definitely an eye-opener 100% an eye-opener
36:47yeah thank you for throwing yourselves into it and I wish you all the best thank you very much
36:54have fun we will nice to meet you you too take care bye love
36:58this was a really interesting couple Helen was really not getting enough attention from him
37:09she's not getting the romance from him that she wants and she was hoping that non-monogamy was a
37:13solution to that I am happy that they feel that they learned something in this process and they felt
37:19that they had something positive to take away definitely feel happy we're leaving
37:23yeah but in a good way I spent some more quality time definitely is a big thing I definitely
37:29definitely haven't spent enough time with her and he's learned yeah this is this has opened my eyes
37:33to see that I didn't expect Steve just to openly say that he really wishes that he could spend more
37:40time with me we've bettered our relationship yeah yeah I think we have bettered our relationship
37:44it did make me well up a little bit actually you know because it made me feel that I've I've got a
37:51lot of what I wanted to from this experience tonight Ellie and chaos are going on a social together
38:10hey you look gorgeous and based on their preference only women are invited to the party I really like
38:21your tattoos oh thank you you have your tattoos yourself yeah I've got a few random ones to be
38:27honest if anything was going to happen in our relationship it would be together so it's good to
38:33experience this with Ellie and this is the ideal scenario for me so I'm happy I love touch what's
38:39your favorite tattoo that you have I would say my favorite one is this one here because my granddad's
38:45from Barbados and he passed away so I think he's enjoying himself yeah and talking to the girls and
38:50he wouldn't they're looking for someone to invite on a date and potentially have a threesome with I just want to get in the pool
38:57exactly I love I like go on my back when I do that as well okay and all anyone to see the boobs is very
39:10like and it looks like chaos has made a connection with precious you should get in the hot tub is what
39:22really have you been in the hot tub same in these two spaces I mean precious is an attractive woman
39:29I would say physical attraction was yeah it was definitely there so ladies our lovely couple have
39:37made a decision on who they'd like to spend the night with precious what attracted me to precious is
39:47that she was just we had stuff in common and she was just easy to talk to and she's been an open
39:52relationship before so I think Ellie will definitely feel a little bit of jealousy as that's just her
39:58ladies let's go I think if everything goes well we have a good you know couple of drinks have dinner
40:05the chemistry is there who knows what could happen no we've never done a joint date so you know that's
40:10going to be in itself something new obviously she's lovely so that's my maybe where like jealousy might
40:17come in Ellie and chaos came to the retreat to see if they could open their relationship to another
40:32woman and tonight they are on a date with precious oh you've got a neck tattoo oh I did what do your
40:42tattoos have any meaning um it just means I'm a gift to be fair I mean precious gift you know it's just
40:50it's just that yeah I'm excited a little bit nervous because I have no idea what to expect and obviously
40:58it's going to be a bit intimidating at first I'd say the best case scenario is that Ellie's comfortable
41:04to bring precious into our relationship you're a boob man aren't you I think you like bums but I think
41:12you like big boobs you also I mean I like you like both but if I choose I would go bum over boobs oh yeah
41:19yeah I think the emotions were just running high with me because I got the feeling that she wanted us to
41:24dive in and try more but the wobble came from just me not wanting to do anything precious who's been
41:34in multiple open relationships is worried Ellie might not be entirely comfortable with the situation
41:39so when a girl kisses you know do you go oh yeah well that's never hasn't happened so so if I kissed him
41:49you would get upset I don't know oh you see if you asked me yeah you'd be like I don't care exactly
41:56so like I don't know exactly so then that makes me think like I might then you know then you aren't
42:01I think I overthink it why are you so reserved about I was scared about it I don't know because I feel
42:06like I feel like I'd get jealous yeah you're stunning and you seem like you've got your confidence
42:12yeah right the person who ever kisses your boyfriend it's not going to take him away
42:15he's yours she's still insecure about sharing her boyfriend her partner with somebody else
42:24and she's concerned that he will then get more attached to the other person
42:31okay well I'm gonna pop I'm gonna go I think
42:34it's hard to imagine you know your partner getting someone
42:37on a sexual level I don't know what it is I feel insecure like
42:41I know Ellie was upset but obviously this is a hard thing to do because we
42:46are emotionally invested in each other we love each other
42:49last night Ellie and KS's date ended prematurely
43:01hey you all right yeah you're comfortable
43:04now Dr. Laurie wants to help the couple work through what happened
43:08how was last night
43:10um I wasn't like comfortable with doing like things with other people I guess
43:18right my own insecurities and jealousies yeah it was a difficult thing to go through
43:23if you had to put a name to those insecurities what what are they like how would you describe them
43:30um like not feeling good enough
43:36in general or or with him no like myself in yourself so when you look at the world
43:42that's how you feel yeah so have you compared yourself to other people
43:47yeah definitely yeah and yet you're a gorgeous woman right
43:54and he clearly adores you
43:57correct yeah well I'm yeah and I'm seeing that as well so
44:02what's come out of this is that considering opening up and considering non-monogamy has brought
44:07up your feelings of of not being good enough
44:10yeah you know it's not it's not a jealousy I don't know um it's hard to explain but
44:17you're not describing jealousy what you're saying is that you end up feeling uncomfortable because
44:21you don't feel good enough and the fear then is I'll be replaced and so coming here has highlighted
44:29that yeah so you can actually go away and work on that particular bit you know non-monogamy is like
44:35difficult you're not yet ready to open up you're just not there yeah you've got work to do on your
44:41own and as a couple to be in a place where you will be able to open up and feel strong enough in the
44:47relationship it's been wonderful to have you here as our guests I've really enjoyed
44:52meeting you thank you it's been so good meeting you as well I think you'll do fine thank you very much
44:57cheers
44:58we're all very good at hiding our vulnerabilities and it's only when things are out of our control
45:06or out of our comfort zone that these vulnerabilities surface it's really hard to
45:12know if non-monogamy will work for you or not until you try it we thought we would test like dip our
45:20toes in the waters and see what we think of it but speaking about it and then doing it is a
45:25completely different thing we're so happy that we did it really I think that it's something great
45:29that like everyone if they could have a go you all right with that yep all good you got that yes
45:41this process has definitely brought us closer as a couple
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