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00:00British couples are increasingly questioning monogamy.
00:04The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
00:10But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:14It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:18These curious couples are about to find out.
00:21Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:23They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:25Hello, you all right?
00:27Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:31Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:36...and a group of single, available and sexually liberated residents...
00:41It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:46They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:50Oh, jeez!
00:52...can become a reality.
00:54It would be like the idea of group sex.
00:57I was just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
00:59...and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos...
01:04Ah!
01:05I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
01:10...and have sex with other people.
01:12Oh, my God! Ah!
01:14Wow, I was not expecting that.
01:17Wow.
01:18This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:28Already staying at the retreat are Alex and his girlfriend Liddy.
01:32Hello, you all right?
01:33Hi, guys, you OK?
01:34Who came hoping to spice up their love life...
01:37OK, talk to me.
01:38Aw, that's cute.
01:39...by exploring sex with other people.
01:42But I am quite dominant, that's the thing.
01:45The couple agreed to strict rules where any form of emotional connection was banned.
01:50To be fair, I don't think we've got on this field, did you?
01:52No, it's crazy.
01:54...and kissing outside group games forbidden.
01:58We've had our rules, silly breaks and then it's a massive no.
02:02But while Alex dated Holly...
02:04I think I've crossed the line already.
02:07...Liddy spent the night alone.
02:09It's the morning after.
02:15I'm worried that he's got a bit carried away cos he's getting all the attention and he's broke one of the rules.
02:22I'll be able to tell by his face as soon as he walks in.
02:27Hello.
02:33Hello.
02:34Hello.
02:35Stranger.
02:36Stranger.
02:37What's the matter?
02:38Nothing, what?
02:39You feel like I've been crying?
02:40No.
02:42Break any rules?
02:43No.
02:44No.
02:45So I don't buy myself?
02:47Kiss anyone?
02:48Yeah.
02:49I replied.
02:50I replied to spin the bottle.
02:51So you kissed more than one?
02:53Yeah.
02:54Did you chat about feelings or how you felt about each other or anything like that?
02:58Was anything deep?
02:59No, it was deep but it wasn't all that deep, that sort of deep.
03:02Honestly, she's great, like...
03:04Yeah, but do you think you could get feelings for her?
03:10No.
03:11That's such a lie?
03:12No.
03:13I'm not lying.
03:14You just went...
03:15No, I'm...
03:16You know if you would or not.
03:17I'm collecting my thoughts in my head and you're thinking I'm, like, hesitating and I'm not.
03:23I don't know how I feel in the regards of jealous.
03:26I feel something inside me but I can't pinpoint what it is.
03:31It's a feeling of anxiousness.
03:34She seems to have got a bit of the ick with me.
03:39Even if I stick by the rules, she's still seeming to get upset.
03:43I'm a bit annoyed that she's acted like that.
03:46Jealousy is a common theme in open relationships.
03:50And coming back together after the first night apart with another person can be a crucial moment for the couple to understand and learn how to deal with any emotions raised.
04:00Come in.
04:04Hello.
04:05Hello.
04:06So, did you have a good time last night?
04:08Yeah, I had a great time.
04:09I didn't think I'd click with someone like that.
04:12I've never laughed so much in my life.
04:15How is that for you?
04:16My main rule is no emotional connections.
04:18It's pretty clear he's picked one girl, got to know a potential romantic connection.
04:23For me, that's the biggest thing to me I didn't want.
04:25So I do feel like the rule's been broke.
04:30An open relationship, for me, it'd be more sexual than emotional.
04:35So we're completely opposite on it.
04:36But I know for a fact I would never be in an open relationship with emotion.
04:40You say it like these things are cut and dried.
04:43Yeah.
04:44You know, and they're not.
04:45In consensual non-monogamy, you can have different kinds of emotional relationships.
04:48Most people who open their relationships don't have no feelings at all.
04:52And having a small feeling doesn't diminish your feelings for your partner.
04:56OK.
04:57Within the rules, I'm open for anything at this.
04:59Brilliant.
05:02In a few hours' time, it will be Liddy's turn to enjoy a social with the retreat's sexually open men.
05:08I'm feeling quite excited for the social now.
05:10I think it's nice that it's kind of my day tonight.
05:13I think I know how far she'd go with things.
05:17She might go past the rules.
05:19I don't know.
05:20But we'll see.
05:25It's a complete mystery, the whole thing.
05:27This is it.
05:28We don't know what to expect.
05:29It's OK.
05:30It'll be all right.
05:31Making their way to this unique retreat are married couple Jasmine and Al from Surrey.
05:38Al is very funny.
05:41Very cheeky.
05:42He's just hilarious to be around.
05:44What do I like about Jasmine the most?
05:46Her tits and arse.
05:48Oh!
05:50God, you're so grotty.
05:53Just think of it as a few days away where you don't have to do the washing, the ironing and the cleaning.
05:58Aww.
05:59I've got it made.
06:00You have.
06:01Within the dynamics of our marriage, we are very conventional, man and woman.
06:05I do the cooking and the cleaning.
06:06I occasionally clean and cook.
06:08When it suits you darling.
06:09Yes.
06:10After eight years in a committed and faithful relationship.
06:14Am I enough man for you?
06:15You're starving.
06:16There we are.
06:17Al and Jasmine are keen to discover whether opening up their marriage could enhance their love life.
06:23Show me any man that's stopped window shopping and I'll show you a liar.
06:27The biggest contraceptive known to man is wedding cake.
06:32But also we're very confident in a relationship which is why we're happy to go and do this.
06:38Wow.
06:39Get me my new Hefner red robe and a cognac.
06:42What a lovely place, my goodness.
06:44And this is stunning, isn't it?
06:46Here we are.
06:49Here to welcome them are long-term open couple, Tom and Jess.
06:56Hi guys.
06:57Hi.
06:58Nice to meet you.
06:59Nice to meet you.
07:00Hello.
07:01Nice to meet you.
07:02Nice to meet you.
07:03Nice to meet you.
07:04Welcome.
07:05Meet the game.
07:06Hi.
07:07How you doing?
07:08You alright?
07:09We're ready for whatever comes up next.
07:10Put us in.
07:11Dive in the deep end and see if you can swim.
07:13We're in the rabbit hole.
07:14We're going down the coal mine.
07:16Like what is next?
07:17I'm excited to find out.
07:19Hi guys.
07:20Come on in and grab a seat.
07:21Hi.
07:22Hiya.
07:23Nice to meet you.
07:24You too.
07:25So what brings you here now?
07:27Curiosity.
07:28Yes.
07:29We've been to a torture garden.
07:31We went there as spectators.
07:34It was very amusing.
07:36When we went to Berlin we found ourselves in a lot of very similar clubs.
07:41So fetish clubs.
07:43Yeah, that type of thing.
07:44Just basically watched rather than participating in anything.
07:47Yeah.
07:48I think it's always good to push your boundaries and find out about other people's...
07:52Bored in your horizons.
07:53Exactly.
07:54We went to torture garden.
07:56There was a situation between a chap and a woman that was going on.
08:01And we were kind of watching it from the bar.
08:04And he's caught us watching it.
08:06And he's like...
08:07And we just was like...
08:08Ran away like scared children.
08:12So tell me a bit about you.
08:13How would you characterize your sex life?
08:15Life got in the way a lot recently.
08:17So that's not really lent itself to it.
08:19Oh, I completely agree.
08:20I think very much life has taken over.
08:22We slither into bed at 10, 11 o'clock.
08:25I'm looking horrendous with no makeup on.
08:28Wearing some awful pajamas.
08:30He's there in the bed exhausted.
08:33Doing something to do with work.
08:34We kind of look at each other and just kind of grunt.
08:36I'm not someone that wants to sit and only have sex on birthdays and we do it missionary.
08:41If you're in a traditional marriage, you're in this for the long haul, right?
08:44Well, for sure.
08:45Yeah.
08:46And one would hope that you're gonna have a good sex life for the long haul.
08:51I think that's very important.
08:52Yeah.
08:53Okay.
08:54Yeah.
08:55Okay.
08:56Part of exploring consensual non-monogamy is understanding where your choices are so that
09:01you don't have non-consensual non-monogamy because infidelity damages not from the sex.
09:07So, part of, like, being able to talk about this is that it is about keeping your relationship
09:13tight, even if you don't act on anything.
09:15Do you think both of you are equally driving coming to this experience?
09:20I am probably more open to it than Jasmine, by the sounds of things.
09:25But equally, I have zero interest in letting her down.
09:29Zero.
09:30What about you?
09:31I'm a prude British person and I've lived my life.
09:34And the thought of non-monogamy just springs up all sorts of emotions.
09:41So, tonight, you both are gonna go on socials.
09:46You will have the option to have one-on-one time with somebody.
09:50And what you do with them is entirely up to you.
09:53But I'm encouraging you to jump in and push your boundaries.
09:55Because you'll get the most out of this experience if you really step outside your comfort zone.
10:00Yeah, we'll just have to see how it goes.
10:02Thank you very much.
10:03My pleasure.
10:04Have fun.
10:05See you later.
10:06Bye.
10:07Bye.
10:08It's clear to me that Al is more interested in opening up than Jasmine.
10:14But he doesn't want to do anything that would jeopardize their relationship.
10:18They're gonna need to come to a comfortable place individually and as a couple if this is to have any chance of working.
10:25Am I allowed to snog?
10:26Do you want to?
10:27I love Alan.
10:28He's my husband.
10:29I think we'll learn things about how to make our relationship better and stronger and just be happy essentially.
10:40What if I do pecky cheeks?
10:41Pecky cheeks.
10:42Pecky cheeks.
10:43You can do peck back.
10:44I'm committed to Jasmine.
10:46She's my wife and being married to Jasmine and keeping her happy is more important to me than fulfilling the lust.
10:55But Dr. Laurie wants us to push our boundaries.
10:58Oh, God.
10:59What have we let ourselves in for?
11:02What next?
11:04We are firmly down the rabbit hole.
11:07Oh, yeah.
11:08We're in.
11:25In the bedroom, she's sharing with her boyfriend, Alex.
11:29So how are you feeling about tonight?
11:31Excited now.
11:33Liddy is getting ready for a social with the retreat's sexually adventurous men.
11:38I've never done anything like this before.
11:41I mean, if I'm single, I won't even go on a date.
11:43I'll just meet someone on a night out.
11:44And so for me, it is crazy.
11:47Sorry.
11:49Have a good night.
11:50You have a good night.
11:51I will.
11:52You have a good night.
11:54Liddy will see if she can create a sexual connection with any of the retreat's men and then invite one on a romantic date.
12:03I'm excited now that I'm aware of the boundaries and I feel like I feel more comfortable doing it and especially now that it's Kiss Girls and Games, I feel like I'm open to Kiss Boys and Games.
12:13By the pool, it's party time.
12:23Host Jess introduces the new guests to the retreat's sexually liberated male residents.
12:29What's happening, Liddy?
12:30Hello, are you okay?
12:31You all right, yeah?
12:32Yeah, good, thank you.
12:33How are you doing, girl?
12:34Good.
12:35You all right?
12:36How are you doing?
12:37You all right?
12:38Good, thank you.
12:39My sex life in the past has been very wild.
12:41I've been very open to experimenting, trying new things, meeting new people.
12:46I think everyone is a little bit kinky.
12:48Like, I'll say I like sex, right?
12:50And I'll say I just do normal things.
12:52However, then someone will suggest something like, hey, would you be interested in swinging through the window in a Tarzan outfit with your dick out and I'd be like, let's try it.
12:58You look nice, mate.
13:00If it was a vegetable, girl, you'd be a cute cumber.
13:03Do you know what I'm saying?
13:04Do you know what?
13:05You just got to wear that, innit?
13:06I like that.
13:07I like that.
13:08I'd be nervous here, mate.
13:09Brownie points to you.
13:10Just enjoy yourself.
13:11Oh, I'm definitely going to enjoy myself.
13:12Yeah, of course.
13:13You already got a cocktail.
13:14It's always gone too.
13:15That's what I'm saying.
13:16Pardon?
13:17Shettled in all right now.
13:18Well, I'm not going to lie.
13:19He dipped his toe in, I'm going to put my foot in.
13:21I like that.
13:22See you later.
13:23See you later.
13:24I think it's nice, it's kind of my day.
13:26It's like loads and loads of single lads and it's like I am the chicken to a roast dinner.
13:31Not met you before.
13:32Nice to meet you.
13:33Nice to meet you.
13:34Pleasure.
13:35Pleasure to smile.
13:36So, how old are you?
13:3722.
13:38How old do you reckon we are?
13:39I don't know if you're one of those who look older than what they are.
13:42Oh, thanks mate.
13:43That's not a good start.
13:44Or you're one of those who are older but younger.
13:47I want to say 27.
13:48There was nothing good about what you just said then.
13:50How old are you?
13:5143.
13:52Oh yeah.
13:5331.
13:54I was like...
13:55But he sounds better now because I said 31 months.
13:57There you go.
13:58I think he's fit.
13:59Like, geez, she's a good looking girl.
14:01Like, I get on the same sort of wavelength as that.
14:04Obviously he's good looking but I just think his personality, like, I just think he's really
14:08funny and I feel like we get each other quite well.
14:11The boys introduce a game of truth or dare to spice things up.
14:15Truth or dare?
14:16Okay.
14:17Interesting.
14:18Truth or dare, big man.
14:19Fuck it, I'll be a first up.
14:20Dare you to give Lydia a kiss?
14:21Alright.
14:22Lydia's only ever kissed Alex since they started dating over a year ago.
14:26That's fine but you can come to me.
14:27Of course.
14:28Hey, there we go.
14:29I want to expect you to get up.
14:30I can't get up, I can't get down.
14:31I'll help you out there.
14:32It's your order.
14:33It's your order.
14:35No tongues, yeah?
14:36I'm just easing myself into it.
14:39I've had such a good time, I'm not going to lie.
14:42A little kiss.
14:43It was nice and kind of, I don't care who's watching.
14:45Alright, let's move on.
14:46Truth or dare?
14:47Truth or dare?
14:48Truth.
14:49Who do you fancy the most there?
14:53Probably.
14:54Big man Lewis.
14:55Really?
14:56And I think I'm just doing what Alex has done and I think that's okay.
15:01I feel like now that it's me doing it, I understand more about how things can happen in situations.
15:08I think it's okay to let each other do that.
15:11Truth or dare?
15:12Yeah.
15:13Right, dare you to kiss.
15:15Give me a kiss.
15:16What, you come here?
15:17Come on.
15:18You come here, because you make all the boys come to you.
15:20Oi.
15:21Do you know what, hold my glass, I'll take that one.
15:23I've got you in here, you do that.
15:24Yeah, stand up though, because I ain't bending over.
15:26Is it proper kiss?
15:27Not yet.
15:28Wait, wait, let me get ready.
15:29Shaking off, babe, shaking it off.
15:33Good effort.
15:34Go on, Big Lou.
15:36Sorry, I love you.
15:38Having the boys tea, one is always good.
15:40He made me feel really comfortable and, like, made jokes and stuff.
15:43And he was quite touchy in the way, like, his arm around me straight away, like, here we go.
15:47Which I quite like.
15:49Game's over.
15:50Liddy has asked Lewis for some one-on-one time.
15:55This way?
15:56Yeah.
15:57I'll have to do it.
16:00We both have the same kind of crack.
16:02I like he's quite confident, he's quite smooth.
16:04Because he's a lot older, I feel like he's got that lived life, this is how I am kind of vibe.
16:08So I'm actually buzzing, to be honest.
16:09But by her own rules, Liddy mustn't kiss anyone outside of a game or form any emotional connections.
16:16I just didn't expect to kind of connect with someone, even, like, just personality-wise so well.
16:21Yeah.
16:22I can see us vibing really, really well.
16:24Do I think anything would happen?
16:25I don't know.
16:26But, you know, who's to say?
16:28I'm up for anything, really.
16:29Where do I go?
16:30Yeah, I'll go for...
16:32Oh, my God.
16:33Oh, what is that dude in there?
16:35What are the chances?
16:36I'm actually up on this right now.
16:38Yeah, go on.
16:39Do you want some funny story?
16:40Go on, tell me.
16:41Fucking apes that go.
16:42You're saying now to massage?
16:43Go on, then.
16:44You have to go first, though.
16:45I have to massage you first.
16:46That against it.
16:47It's in our rules.
16:48I'd snuggle you right now, but I can't because you...
16:49It's not part of your thing.
16:51You're very respectful.
16:52But if you dare me to.
16:53Yeah, I would do it.
16:54I thought you don't want to do the truth or dare.
16:55Okay, well, maybe.
16:56Yeah, I don't know.
16:57Just to get a kiss off the air.
16:58Just to get a kiss off the air.
17:19Do you know how angry I was?
17:21How angry I was this morning that I heard that Alex connected?
17:23I was like, my rule was no emotional connection.
17:26You can't make that...
17:27No, I know.
17:28Because it's how someone feels.
17:29Because now look...
17:30Yeah, exactly.
17:31Yay.
17:32Is there the same problem?
17:33No.
17:34So you're not emotionally connected?
17:35Like, there's nothing here, no?
17:36Would you say you was?
17:37No, that's not what I asked.
17:38Is there a spark?
17:39Yeah, I'm asking you.
17:40Would you say there was?
17:41Obviously there is.
17:42So you can't give him shit when you get the same thing.
17:43No, I know, but then I wasn't in the experience.
17:45Nah.
17:46I gave him shit for something that I don't think would happen to me,
17:48and now I completely get how it has happened.
17:50Correct.
17:56I'll just give me a few drugs at the end, but...
17:58That's just me pushing the boundaries.
17:59I'll give you some drugs if you give me a kiss.
18:06I feel like I had a good connection with someone
18:09that I didn't expect to happen.
18:11Did I push the boundaries?
18:12Yes, maybe a little bit.
18:16The next morning, Alex has woken up alone.
18:30I think the journey into the non-menogamy is a crazy one.
18:34I don't really know what to expect, to be honest.
18:37But I think if Lyd had an emotional connection with another boy,
18:41it would be quite hypocritical, considering what she said before.
18:46I feel like I was a massive hypocrite, and I wasn't in the right to tell you you couldn't have a connection with someone.
18:58Right.
18:59I won't lie, he did kiss me outside of the challenge I didn't pull away.
19:02But I do start to think that game's just a code word, because I do feel like you've kissed girls multiple times.
19:09I kissed one in the game, pushed him away, because I just didn't fancy him, and kissed one over.
19:12So...
19:13Yours was outside the game, mine wasn't.
19:15I wouldn't say I feel guilty as such about last night, because I don't feel like it's a massive rule break.
19:22Like, in the respect of if we agreed no kissing, and I'd kiss him and I'd get it.
19:26But obviously he's kissed girls multiple times.
19:29I don't feel like he really has a leg to stand on.
19:32Buzz sounds a bit late.
19:33No, I don't.
19:34Buzz sounds a bit.
19:35No, no, I'm not.
19:36Very quick to say things to me, and have an assumption like this, that, and the other,
19:40and get annoyed about things really easily.
19:42But, but then when you're in the situation, you think it's fine.
19:46If you didn't have the rules there, would you do things differently?
19:49I wouldn't do anything out of respect.
19:52Whenever something happens, I've always got you in the back of my head.
19:55Yeah.
19:56I just feel like, sometimes, not all the time, it's just not reciprocated.
20:01Yeah, she just followed the rules, but she did get emotionally connected with someone.
20:05She kissed someone.
20:07It's definitely double standards.
20:09It makes me feel annoyed.
20:11Yeah.
20:18Keen to address the issues from last night is Dr. Laurie.
20:26Hello.
20:27Hey.
20:28Good night.
20:29Grab a seat.
20:32So, it's been a while since I've seen you and a lot's happened.
20:35So, what was your date like?
20:38You know how yesterday I was very close off to everything?
20:40Yeah.
20:41I feel like now I kind of understand because I had a connection with someone.
20:44I think there's definitely a bit of romance there, which was my main rule not to.
20:47Yep.
20:48I'm such a hypocrite.
20:49Before I experienced it, I had all these rules and I just think I was a bit out of order
20:55and I didn't give it a go.
20:56You found somebody attractive and you kissed them, own it.
20:59Yeah.
21:00So, how are you feeling about the fact that she did something she said she wasn't going
21:04to do?
21:05I'm surprised to be fair.
21:08I'm surprised.
21:09You're surprised that she did?
21:10Yeah.
21:11Because you were so on about me sticking to the rules and I just had a bit of hypocrisy
21:18with it.
21:19So, when she broke the rules, it wasn't great.
21:23Okay.
21:24So, I'm encouraging you to think about being a little bit more open than that.
21:30Because it's better to talk about it and have permission now than it is to be asking
21:34forgiveness later.
21:35Yeah.
21:36Okay.
21:37So, I'm going to throw out no rules and then we can just see what people do.
21:41Yeah.
21:42I think this scenario is always going to go one or two ways though.
21:45Yeah.
21:46Okay.
21:47I want you to go on separate dates and forget about the rules.
21:52Just have fun.
21:55See you soon.
21:57Have fun.
21:58Couples can often get hung up on their own rules.
22:02The whole point of consensual non-monogamy is to have fun and because everything's out
22:06in the open, you're not worrying about deception.
22:10I like your eyes, they're bright.
22:14They're as bright as a bright blue thing.
22:19I think as of today, the rules are more open and free.
22:23So I just want to feel loose and like I can have a good time, enjoy myself.
22:28You can tell a lot of someone by looking into their eyes.
22:32I'm excited. After being with Lewis yesterday,
22:35I do generally feel like he's someone that makes me feel comfortable.
22:38So I'm feeling quite good.
22:40Quite mesmerising, actually.
22:49You are magnificent.
22:50Thank you, Tony.
22:52Jasmine and Al are at the retreat
22:54to find out whether opening up their marriage to other sexual partners
22:58will spice up their love life.
23:00When you see a lot of couples that have stayed together,
23:02think that they've probably got quite good sex lives.
23:06Generally, I think that's something you've got to work on.
23:09We're here to learn.
23:10Yeah, we're here to learn.
23:11I might go into this and find that Jasmine wants to steer off
23:14and become a full-time swinger.
23:16And I'm completely against the idea.
23:18I think this is a nicer look.
23:20Yeah? Yeah. Definitely. Yeah.
23:22Dr Laurie has arranged for the couple to go on separate socials.
23:26Do you want to kiss lips on my cheeks so everyone knows I'm taken?
23:30She wants them to meet members of the opposite sex.
23:32Love you. Love you too.
23:34Let's go.
23:36Make a connection and invite someone on a romantic date.
23:40Excited and nervous to find out what it's all actually about.
23:43Have fun.
23:44You too.
23:45Jasmine's going off on a social with men.
23:48I'm going off on a social with women.
23:50That's a huge leap.
23:51We're here to make our relationship better and stronger.
23:54And I am willing to take part in any activities.
24:00And, you know, who doesn't like fucking to have some young men?
24:03Hey.
24:04Well, hello.
24:05How are we doing?
24:06Look at you.
24:07Al Social, hosted by Tom.
24:08Cheers.
24:09The hot tub party.
24:10The hot tub pie.
24:11Yeah.
24:12I mean, wow.
24:13Is brimming with the retreat's sexually adventurous female residents.
24:26Modern relationship is whatever you fucking want.
24:29And if that's shagging fucking everyone or not shagging everyone or shagging someone in front of everyone,
24:35then, yeah, that's a modern relationship.
24:38Oh, you have lovely eyes, by the way.
24:41Yeah, they're very mesmerizing.
24:42Yeah.
24:43I like to explore in the bedroom, for sure.
24:45It's not necessarily just about having one partner for the rest of your life.
24:49And the hat vibe.
24:50Feeling it.
24:51That was $2.99 down Sainsbury's.
24:53Bone.
24:54Match.
24:55Yeah, we have to.
25:01Oh, God, you look amazing.
25:03How you doing?
25:04While Jasmine Social, hosted by Jess, is in the drawing room and jam-packed with sexually liberated
25:11men.
25:12You look gorgeous.
25:13Oh, bless you.
25:15So do you.
25:16Well, I suppose it took you a long time to look at you.
25:18I don't do.
25:19Yeah, I don't wake up like this, literally.
25:20You wouldn't even recognize me.
25:21Really?
25:22It's a big transition.
25:23I'm sure that's not true.
25:24You don't mind me asking, how old are you?
25:2937.
25:30Okay.
25:31You look good.
25:33Yeah, I'm low mileage.
25:34What's your type and why are you kind of right here?
25:36So to speak.
25:37Yes, yes, yes.
25:38Yes.
25:39Okay.
25:40I'm like Augustus Gloop going into the sweetie garden.
25:43Right?
25:44And then, you know, like the next thing you know, I'm in the chocolate river and we all
25:48know how that ended.
25:50Ice broken.
25:51Oh, my God.
25:53Oh, my God.
25:54Al begins to find his stride.
25:57You have the South, the South American look.
25:59Yeah, yeah.
26:00Oh, yeah.
26:01You are owning that.
26:02Definitely.
26:03The hot tub party is fantastic.
26:05So what do you normally like in the bedroom?
26:08It's quite normal to be flirtatious, to be honest.
26:16You know, it's only women that were all like, ow, ow, ow.
26:20What's the temperature like?
26:22It's hot.
26:23It'll be hotter when I get in there.
26:25What are we talking about?
26:29On the other side of the property.
26:32I'm from South West London.
26:33Where are you?
26:34Yeah.
26:35Putney area.
26:36Oh, yes.
26:37Yeah, yeah.
26:38We have a TW postcode.
26:39Jasmine is trying to flirt with men for the first time in eight years.
26:43We live on the same road as Hampton Court.
26:44What's Hampton Court?
26:45Remember I'm a novanova?
26:46Hi, it's Henry VIII.
26:47He's once the king of England.
26:49I don't know who he is.
26:50I just don't know where he lived.
26:52It was awkward at times because it was a completely unfamiliar environment.
26:56My goodness.
26:57What made you actually come try something like an open relationship?
27:01You don't get presented with these opportunities very often.
27:03Yeah.
27:04Am I going to like it?
27:05I don't know.
27:06But then, if I was invited down a coal mine, would I like it?
27:10No.
27:11Would I still want to go?
27:12Yes.
27:13I don't know if I was down a coal mine at the moment.
27:15Whether I carry on being a coal miner when I'm back half in the open air.
27:19Who knows?
27:22At his social...
27:23Hot stuff!
27:24Hot stuff!
27:25Hot stuff!
27:26Hot stuff!
27:27Hot stuff!
27:28Hot stuff!
27:29Al's going in deep.
27:32Cheers, ladies.
27:33So, sex in the sea or sex on the beach?
27:40Beach all day long.
27:42Really?
27:43Salty, hard work, waves coming in and out.
27:46No, that's stressful, man.
27:48Tied up for being a tie-er.
27:50Oh, no.
27:51That's a good one.
27:52What about you?
27:53Um, I like to tie someone up.
27:56Match.
27:57Match.
27:58The girls in the pot tap were all great.
28:00I see potential with all of them.
28:03Would you rather giving all sex or receiving all sex?
28:08Giving.
28:09Giving.
28:10Oh, yeah.
28:11Well, that puts you in the good zone.
28:12Cheers!
28:13Wow!
28:16They're just great girls.
28:18Up for a good time.
28:19I could tell that.
28:20I've got good vibes back from them.
28:22Oh, okay.
28:26There was a connection of fun.
28:28A hot tub, beautiful women.
28:30What more could you want?
28:31Okay, so would you rather somebody licking your balls or your bum licks?
28:39I'm going to say balls because all of you clearly don't want to lick my asshole.
28:43We all like him and he's attractive.
28:47Yeah.
28:48Yeah.
28:49Ian heightens all our cheeky sides because he's so cheeky.
28:51So I feel like that's where the vibe is.
28:53Yeah.
28:54We all just want to have fun and so does he.
28:55At her party.
28:56Well, that's a massive.
28:57The necklace.
28:58That's well nice.
28:59They're big diamonds.
29:00They're not diamonds unfortunately.
29:01Still though.
29:02They look good though.
29:04I like that honestly.
29:05Resident Rishi tries to bring Jasmine out of her shell.
29:07How long have you been with your partner?
29:08Eight years.
29:09Yes.
29:10What you married?
29:11We are.
29:12Are you really?
29:13Yes.
29:14Is the sex still good?
29:15Oh my god.
29:16I'm just wondering.
29:17It's eight years in it.
29:18We have a lovely, loving intimate relationship.
29:19We do, yeah.
29:20But is it good?
29:21Oh my god.
29:22The set up is incredibly liberating.
29:23You've come to the sensible corner, innit?
29:24Literally.
29:25Like my prude Britishness is absolutely higher.
29:28Beep beep beep beep beep beep.
29:29Never been in a situation like it before.
29:45I was hit with a wall of the scent of man.
29:49Pheromones were really going up the nose.
29:52My goodness.
29:53I see my youth has faded away.
29:54I'm just an aged old hag now.
29:56Now that I'm over 30.
29:57I can't say that.
29:58That's an absolute lie.
30:00What kind of music do you like?
30:02I like everything.
30:03On my playlist, I'll have anything from Mozart all the way to drum and bass or whatever.
30:08I'm one of those people.
30:09I might even have some bloody country music.
30:11I love country music.
30:12You do, actually.
30:13Yeah, country's great.
30:14So what would you like, if you were going for a dance, where would you go?
30:17Out to six, kind of late night thing.
30:20I haven't done that in a long time.
30:22No?
30:23I feel like I need to revisit those days.
30:24I'll take you there.
30:26Let's go.
30:27Yeah?
30:28Just leave right now.
30:29I'm not joking.
30:30Let's go.
30:31No?
30:36As the evening draws to a close, Al's decided to invite not one, but three girls on a private date.
30:45I picked Tallulah, Precious and Grace.
30:48They're just great girls.
30:50To go any further with anything, you need to be relaxed.
30:54And those girls make me feel relaxed.
30:56Collectively, we're going to wear sexy lingerie.
30:58Right?
30:59If it's going to be all free of us, we might as well make a treat.
31:02I don't know if you work out, you look like you've got a figure that shows you do.
31:07Booze, bags, late nights.
31:08Really?
31:09Yeah.
31:10Sort of, sort of me.
31:11Sounds like a party.
31:12Well, Jasmine's picked Josh.
31:14So I've wondered if you'd like one-on-one times.
31:16Oh my God, I feel special.
31:17Oh, you are.
31:18Lovely.
31:19Okay, great.
31:20I feel like we got on really well.
31:22She's absolutely stunning.
31:23And, um, yeah, if she is open to things, then, I mean, I'm most certainly open to things.
31:29I'll pick this up later.
31:30Yeah?
31:31Yeah.
31:32All right, let's go.
31:33Come on.
31:34I've been with Al eight years.
31:36A boyfriend before that was six and a half years of dating is a really alien thing for me.
31:41So it's really strange having this kind of thrust upon me.
31:50I've been waiting for you.
32:06Married couple Jasmine and Al are going on dates with other people for the first time in eight years.
32:13After you.
32:14Oh my goodness.
32:15How cute.
32:16Jasmine has invited Josh to join her for dinner.
32:19Oh, so charming.
32:20He's nice and he's easy to talk to and I think we'll have fun.
32:24Can we get the drinks started tomorrow?
32:26Definitely.
32:27Let's get the bubbly going.
32:29It's going to be fun.
32:31And Al has invited Grace, Precious and Tallulah to join him for some fun.
32:37Hello.
32:38Welcome.
32:39Oh my God.
32:40Yeah.
32:41Come over dressed.
32:44By all means get undressed.
32:47Going into the yurt with three single ladies is incredibly daunting.
32:52Exactly.
32:53Boom.
32:54Welcome to your first night.
32:56It's going to be interesting so I've learned already to have no preconceptions.
33:06Go in, see how it goes.
33:09Do we need to know the limits with your wife?
33:11Kissing's allowed, right?
33:12Like...
33:13A little peck here and there.
33:14A little peck here and there.
33:15Right.
33:16Take my shirt off, blindfold me, spank me, put all on me, eat chocolate, we're in.
33:20All I'm saying is I'm totally down with that.
33:22If you feel uncomfortable, code word...
33:25Yeah, let's make a safe word.
33:26Safe word is...
33:27Beaujolais.
33:28Beaujolais!
33:29Beaujolais!
33:30Beaujolais!
33:31Yay!
33:32Beaujolais!
33:33Woo!
33:34While Al pushes the boundaries...
33:38Are you hungry to eat?
33:39Jasmine's playing it a little more safe.
33:42Kind of so nervous by this whole situation.
33:46I'm always kind of not hungry.
33:48Adrenaline's really...
33:49The adrenaline's going, is it?
33:51Yeah, for sure.
33:52Okay.
33:53I'm interested to see what your preferences are on the other side of the streets.
34:00That would tell me a lot.
34:06Yeah.
34:07You're in the tropics right now, babes.
34:09Oh, wow.
34:10Honestly, that's like being massaged by an octopus.
34:13Literally, unbelievable.
34:16Oh, my God.
34:23You're in a relationship of eight years, mode two.
34:26How do you keep that fresh, if you don't mind me asking?
34:29Do you dress up?
34:31Roleplay?
34:32Not really.
34:33No?
34:34So what are you into, then?
34:36In what sense?
34:37How do you like to be treated sexually and physically?
34:40I want to know about you.
34:42What gets you going?
34:43What makes you horny?
34:44Um...
34:45Oh, Godness.
34:46Just envision yourself in this situation.
34:48So we have the room dimmed.
34:51The baby oil comes out.
34:52And you turn, I give you a back massage.
34:55And I start at your shoulders.
34:57And I move to your arms.
34:59And I work my way down.
35:01To your waist.
35:03To your bum.
35:05To your legs.
35:07And I turn you over.
35:09And I start pressing your chest.
35:11With my tongue.
35:12As I go down to your nipples.
35:14Can you visualize that?
35:17Don't.
35:18Are you lost for words?
35:20Yes.
35:21Who else?
35:22My mind is absolutely blown, quite frankly.
35:25My goodness.
35:26Yeah?
35:29He's very nice, very open and very easy.
35:32But he was much more ready to dive into that whole kind of...
35:39Non-monogamy thing that I was, definitely.
35:42As Jasmine struggles with non-monogamy.
35:47Can I pour this on an arse?
35:48Who's arse?
35:49I don't give a shit.
35:50Go on, then.
35:52That is amazing, babe.
35:53That's dessert right there.
35:55I'm a little bit concerned that this is beyond...
35:57Oh, my God.
35:58This is beyond...
35:59No, come on.
36:00Don't be silly. Skin.
36:01Al is getting a taste for it.
36:03Good stuff, kids.
36:04Love it.
36:06I'm on my own in a tent with three beautiful women.
36:09Any man's gonna be tempted.
36:12This ain't your first rodeo, is it?
36:16I just heard, like, a dildo night.
36:18Oh.
36:19No.
36:20Nothing.
36:21You didn't hear shit.
36:22You didn't hear shit.
36:23I heard a battery-powered item.
36:25No, no, no, no, no, no.
36:26That's just the wasps.
36:34Dangerous.
36:39Ouch, shit!
36:42Tonight, committed couple Alex and Liddy are about to go on separate dates.
36:51On her first date with Lewis, Liddy struggled to keep to the agreed rules of no kissing outside of games.
36:58I feel hurt that she kissed someone else, yeah.
37:00Rules at the time were to, um, just kiss him for games.
37:03So, uh, the fact that it was outside of that, I am hurt, yeah.
37:07As a result, the couple agreed to get rid of the rules altogether.
37:11A big step in allowing this, because it was my number one no-go rule, because I don't want him to connect with someone emotionally, I'd rather sexually.
37:20There are no sexual limitations.
37:23That looks good.
37:25I'm happy my rules have changed.
37:30It's just not to be so free about things.
37:32Alex has asked Holly on a second date.
37:35Oh, look at it, cosy, isn't it?
37:36That's cute, isn't it?
37:37Look at it.
37:38I was actually quite surprised when I found out he wanted to see me again, but I think because we had such a laugh last time, I mean, why would you not want to see me again?
37:49Duh.
37:50Like your trousers.
37:51Yeah, I love your dress.
37:52Yeah, it's quite cute, isn't it?
37:53It is.
37:54Well, over it though.
37:55It is.
37:56Pretty excited.
37:57My dad with Holly, um, buzzing to get to know him more.
38:01Why did you pick me?
38:02I didn't think blondes were your type.
38:03No, they were.
38:04They weren't until you'd come along.
38:06It's different.
38:09While Liddy is reconnecting with Lewis.
38:12I mean, we've still got a dildo and a volleyball.
38:15Mate, if they made a dildo though, like, would it be a fucking year?
38:18Last night we had such a good time.
38:20I'm excited.
38:21I feel like there's going to be no awkward silences.
38:23It's just going to be laughs.
38:24Excited.
38:25I'm looking forward to seeing Liddy again.
38:27Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.
38:29Whoa!
38:34Am I talking too fast?
38:35Nah, I'm just mesmerised.
38:36Right.
38:37It's all right.
38:38Carry on.
38:39No.
38:40You're not embarrassed.
38:41No, you're not embarrassed.
38:42I'm so, like, chill.
38:44I'm not...
38:45I'm not a twat.
38:46You're flirty when you're out.
38:47You are, aren't you?
38:48Well, but see the fact that you're rubbing your eyes, smiling.
38:50I know you're talking shit, cos you're admitting.
38:52I'm not talking shit at all.
38:53But you know.
38:54No one.
38:55You know, like, you're a flirt, obviously.
38:57I like Holly.
38:58The connection's definitely there.
39:00Um, it's just...
39:01Hours just fly by.
39:03It's all right.
39:04It's all right.
39:05I'll turn that off as I do.
39:06What did you want me to say?
39:09I like to say anything.
39:11I feel like he is definitely conflicted.
39:13I think he's kind of a bit confused with the full situation.
39:17Is that you trying to kiss?
39:19No, Barbara.
39:20It is, isn't it?
39:21Is that what you want?
39:22Yeah, go for it.
39:23Hmm.
39:24Is it?
39:25Go for it.
39:27Is it?
39:28Is it?
39:29I feel like he's nice, yeah.
39:31I do like him, but...
39:32Like, I'm not going to make the first move and stuff like that.
39:34Obvious how I feel, but I'm kind of hesitant,
39:37because I'm thinking a lid all the time.
39:51I genuinely didn't expect a connection,
39:54which is what's freaking me out a little bit.
39:56I actually genuinely enjoy spending time with that girl.
40:04I have made, like, such a genuine connection
40:06in every single way.
40:07It's literally, I'd use the word perfect.
40:26Alex and Liddy were looking to enrich their love lives by exploring emotionless sex with other people.
40:38Come on in.
40:39Nice to see you again.
40:40You too.
40:41They spent last night apart, in bed, with their respective dates.
40:46So how are you feeling this morning?
40:49Yeah.
40:50Not going to lie, my head space is I just don't know what I want anymore.
40:55I didn't make a move with Holly.
40:57I was going into it last night very open and free,
41:00and genuinely, like, was going to just go for it.
41:03It just wasn't really...
41:05There was the opportunity.
41:07It just didn't, like, feel right.
41:09I'm looking forward to seeing Liddy, but I just don't have a good feeling.
41:12Hello.
41:13Hi.
41:14You OK?
41:15Yeah.
41:16Good.
41:17Hello, hello.
41:18You all right?
41:19Yeah, are you?
41:20Yeah.
41:21So, I'm going to start with Alex.
41:26How was your night last night?
41:28My night last night was pretty chill.
41:31Nothing happened whatsoever.
41:36What about you?
41:37How was your evening, Liddy?
41:38My evening was good, and I'm going to be brutally honest,
41:41as hard as it is.
41:42I feel like my connection's just grown and grown,
41:44so, like, it's mad.
41:46And I do feel like it got a bit...
41:51..and a sexual vibe, like, a bit physical.
41:54It's a connection that I've not had in my life often.
41:57I've probably had it twice.
41:58And it's not necessarily better than our connection.
42:01It's different.
42:02Yeah.
42:03Last night, I feel like I was very true to myself
42:05and went with how I genuinely felt.
42:06We literally just...
42:08..in a whole way we became one.
42:11How are you feeling, Alex?
42:13I feel let down, but I did have a feeling
42:16that something would happen.
42:18I get you feel let down.
42:20I feel like we've both let each other down in different ways.
42:22I feel like we've both explored...
42:24..yes, just because I've explored it more, like...
42:28..like in action,
42:29..you've been a lot more open to it in your minds.
42:37How are you feeling, Alex?
42:38Uh...
42:39..heh.
42:40It just definitely taught me things about us.
42:43Things that I kind of pushed aside a lot before.
42:45And I just realised,
42:46I think we've just got better connections
42:48with other people than each other.
42:49That's what it is.
42:50Yeah, I do agree.
42:52Do you believe you love each other?
42:54No.
42:55You don't think you love me?
42:56No.
42:57Is that because of what's happened, Joe?
42:58No.
42:59Because I would have had the same reaction
43:00to anything you would have done with him.
43:02And if I truly loved you,
43:03I think it would hurt and it doesn't hurt.
43:07Do you know what it is?
43:08I'm hurt.
43:09Like, I do feel like this is our break-up.
43:13It's full of this, aren't you?
43:14Yeah.
43:15It is full of this.
43:16It is full of this.
43:17It is full of this.
43:18It is just for the best of both of us.
43:21I think we can both be happier elsewhere.
43:23We came here to see if it could make our relationship better
43:26and it just made us realise that we really care about each other,
43:30but it's not a...
43:31Well, you can really care about each other
43:33and not have a romantic relationship that works.
43:36I think that's what it is as well.
43:38That's what you do.
43:39We wanted to try and make it work, but it just...
43:42Sometimes it just doesn't.
43:43Do you feel a bit like a whites off your shoulder?
43:45You can look almost like reborn.
43:48You both seem to be doing pretty well with this.
43:50Yeah.
43:51Really proud of you and you've learned a bunch.
43:54Thank you very much.
43:55It's been my pleasure.
44:00I mean, Liz, it's been my pleasure.
44:05I mean, Liz, it's been my pleasure.
44:07I mean, Liz, doing whatever she did with Lewis, it is one of this.
44:15Opening up was hard, and it's just been a whirlwind of a time.
44:19But it's been good because I didn't realise how much it would make me realise stuff.
44:24It's just going to be weird to be without you.
44:26We will miss each other.
44:28Yeah, of course.
44:29It's going to be hard.
44:30We've ended with the relationship ending amicably, and it wasn't something about this challenge.
44:36It was their relationship.
44:38This relationship didn't have the qualities that they wanted it to have.
44:43I came here absolutely fearing everything you did to do with a girl.
44:48Like, I had mad jealousy.
44:49No.
44:50Yeah, we've definitely grown.
44:52We have grown a lot.
44:53I'm definitely happy that I've explored non-monogamy, yeah.
44:57It's just opened things up.
44:59Everything's so much clearer now.
45:00I don't think this situation would have done that, but it has.
45:04Make sure you count the mass as well.
45:06Babe!
45:07Excuse me.
45:08Ain't you babe anymore?
45:09That's what I'm saying, so I don't need to listen to your shit.
45:13Honestly, I feel on top of the world with this whole experience.
45:15Even the outcomes weren't what I thought they were going to be.
45:18It makes you as a person just feel strong.
45:21Oh, yeah?
45:22Mm-hmm.
45:27You know what I do with you?
45:28I'm going to do it with you too.
45:30They had a chance to process and a chance to frame it in a way that allows them to continue to be friends.
45:38And I think if this had happened out in the world, that wouldn't have been possible.
45:44I'm leaving happier than when we both came in. We both are.
45:48The word is free. Like, we are happy. It's sad, but we are happy.
46:00Next time...
46:16Boom.
46:18...Jasmine and Al get more of a feel for non-monogamy.
46:22How's your boob massage? Lovely boob massage.
46:24...and New Arrivals, L'Oreal and Khalid...
46:26You know, I feel it in the belly because I'm wearing jeans.
46:28...are blinded by emotions.
46:32They're blinded.
46:36Foolish.
46:37What?
46:38estimating to me...
46:46...here i go, yeah!
46:48...to be aye.
46:50...i go, yeah!
46:52I wish you have.
46:54You can another one by the way.
46:56You know, look, let me know.
46:59I'm going to do wie-?...
47:00I Oops!
47:01That's a deal, Sam.
47:04Five?
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