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Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 3

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00:00So nervous, are you?
00:04We're just like a normal average couple from a small town.
00:10I want to keep the spice alive and be together for life.
00:15We are looking to bring another girl into the equation.
00:19I'm worried maybe Johnny being with someone else,
00:23maybe she'll turn him on more than I do.
00:25We've talked about this for a long, long time, obviously opening up.
00:28We just don't know how to make that first move.
00:31You can't close the deal as they say.
00:33Yes!
00:36What's at stake?
00:37Everything really, isn't it?
00:39Your relationship's at stake.
00:41To lose it would be to lose everything.
00:43I'm so stressed.
00:46It's absolutely bonkers, literally.
00:49Like, what are we doing?
00:58In the retreat summer garden, a masked ball is in full swing
01:11and the sexually liberated residents are eagerly awaiting Sarah and Johnny's arrival.
01:16I am known as Orgy Jen. Very known for orgies.
01:22Generally for us, the more the better, really.
01:25That's kind of how we live our non-monogamous way.
01:34I'm not going to blame myself.
01:40After years of trying to open up, Sarah and Johnny are hoping to night's the night
01:45they finally find the courage to invite a woman into their bedroom.
01:49When you get into that social, what do you need to do?
01:51Don't be afraid to approach people and be confident and ask the person to see if they'd like to spend some time with us
01:58because that's what we haven't done before.
02:00Ready? Let's go.
02:03I approached Johnny first about opening up our relationship.
02:06I've given him so much reassurance that everything's going to be okay.
02:10Eventually, he was like, yes, this is like a dream come true.
02:15Hi, guys.
02:17Hi. Are you okay?
02:19You guys look good.
02:21Hi, lovely. Are you okay?
02:23Very good.
02:24Are you okay?
02:26Oh, what's my drink?
02:28How are you doing?
02:28Okay, Johnny. Nice to meet you.
02:31I'm definitely taking my mask off.
02:33Oh, yeah.
02:34Do you know what? I won't get it on if I take it off.
02:38So, tell us anyway, like, what brings you guys to open house?
02:41Well, I think we're looking for a girl to join us, really.
02:43The person has a connection with you two at the same time, which is sometimes, you know...
02:47It could be a bit hard for two people.
02:49It is.
02:50What advice I will give to this couple?
02:54Keep something intimate for you two.
02:58Can be kissing, can be anal sex, can be...
03:01Nobody touch my feet except my husband.
03:05You know, just a little, like, thinks it's yours.
03:10Where's that accent?
03:11Is it French?
03:11Oh, yes.
03:12French.
03:12Oh, it was, yeah?
03:13It's a French.
03:15It's very strong.
03:16Yeah.
03:17We've all been drooling over it.
03:18Very, very sexy, very sexy.
03:22Right, we'll get in there.
03:23Me.
03:25By all means, we're around, if you want to call for a chat, but, yeah, get to know.
03:28Cheers.
03:28We will.
03:29Cheers.
03:29Click, click, click, click.
03:30Cheers.
03:32Enjoy yourself.
03:35Hi.
03:35Sarah and Johnny's focus is to try and find a female to join them tonight.
03:41But as the couple work the floor, they catch the attention of married couple, Jem and Daz.
03:48We've been together ten years.
03:50Wow.
03:51We've been in the scene five, but we took it really slowly.
03:55Yeah.
03:55Just did a bit of soft swapping to start with, with couples.
03:59Same room, sort of swapping.
04:01Always same room.
04:01Always.
04:02We always play together.
04:03We really enjoy it that way.
04:06We will do a bit of everything, really.
04:09Guys, girls, groups.
04:12All of it.
04:14Good to meet guys, like, you know.
04:16Yeah, it's been really interesting.
04:18We've been the envy couples like yourselves.
04:20We can help.
04:21Join us.
04:25I can see why it would be easier as a couple for another couple.
04:29You know, three is an odd number.
04:32It is always a worry.
04:33Is one person going to feel left out?
04:35No, no.
04:36Not sure about that.
04:38Like you two.
04:39Thank you so much.
04:41Can't do well now.
04:42They seem like a lot of fun.
04:44They seem like our kind of people.
04:46We'd love to spend some more time with them and just see if that builds some more.
04:49But Johnny wants to stick with the plan and continue pursuing a threesome with one of the female residents.
04:58Go on, tell me.
05:00French.
05:01I can't remember her name.
05:02I can't remember her name.
05:03Is it Matt?
05:03Matt?
05:04Matt?
05:04Marie?
05:04Yeah.
05:05Marie?
05:05Matt?
05:06Oh, God.
05:06French Marie?
05:07Yeah.
05:07It's the accent, I think.
05:10It's going to be hard, this.
05:13In the past, when we've been in situations where we've had, you know, it's been there on a plate, we just can't between us just do it.
05:21It's like, is she too good looking for us?
05:23I'm just going to put myself out there.
05:25I'm going to step outside my comfort zone.
05:27I'm getting goosebumps just thinking about it.
05:31Hello.
05:33I'm ditching her some friends.
05:34I've noticed.
05:37It's only bonjour that I know.
05:38I know.
05:40So, Marie, we were just having a little chat.
05:43Okay.
05:44We have a mutual attraction to you.
05:47Oh, okay.
05:48We were just wondering if you'd like to spend some time with us.
05:51Um, I'm feeling like I don't have the connection.
05:57We understand that.
05:58Thank you so much.
05:59It's okay.
06:00It's very nice.
06:04Speak to you.
06:05Okay, yeah.
06:06We can't get another one.
06:08Yeah.
06:10I wasn't ready for that.
06:13Sarah and Johnny, for me, it's not the right things to do.
06:17Because I didn't have any physical or brain connection with them.
06:23I'm feeling like I'm all right.
06:24I'm all right.
06:24Yeah.
06:25It's lovely how you're doing.
06:26Yeah.
06:29Yeah.
06:30Nice.
06:31Tell me.
06:33Thanks so much.
06:35Cheers.
06:37I'm all right.
06:38What are you doing?
06:39I'm not sure.
06:41Oh, God.
06:43Shit, shit, shit, shit.
06:54How are you feeling?
06:56Yeah.
06:56But...
06:57No, I'm a little bit nervous.
06:59Like when I went skydiving.
07:00My hands a little bit clammy.
07:01Yeah, I think you did.
07:06Next into the retreat are builder Claude and full-time mum Amy.
07:14When we first met, I just thought, this woman is perfect for me.
07:18All I can think about is how much I want to be there forever.
07:20So...
07:21I kept saying, you can ask me to marry you.
07:24And then, yeah, he did.
07:27Between them, Claude and Amy have six children.
07:31Two children together and four from Amy's previous marriage.
07:35Our home life is busy.
07:37It's actual chaos.
07:38So I try to live in every single moment.
07:40The chaos, the ups, the downs, the shouting, the laughter.
07:43But it doesn't stop them from having fun.
07:46I think mine and Amy's sex life is fantastic.
07:49For me, it's the best.
07:51We don't have all of the time in the world.
07:54So the opportunity arises, we'll take it.
07:56We'll fit it in with chores.
07:58Amy is no stranger to the world of non-monogamy.
08:06So I was introduced to the lifestyle when I was in my late teens.
08:10Those were the best times of my life.
08:12So when I did get with Claude, I made it clear I'd like to bring other people into our relationship.
08:18And now she wants to return to non-monogamy with her husband by her side.
08:22I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:26I think I was spoiled as a child.
08:28I just want it all.
08:30Not just sex.
08:31Something more serious.
08:34It's like a fairy garden.
08:36Yeah.
08:36Real good.
08:37It's expanding your family.
08:39Like to have more people to love.
08:41Opened up the relationship was definitely Amy's idea.
08:46I'm still a bit like in the air of what I want.
08:50Like worst case scenario happened and I realized I didn't want any of this lifestyle and she still did.
08:56I would be gutted.
08:57I'd be heartbroken.
08:57Oh my God, these guys are stunning.
09:03Since I've been in open relationships, I'm probably the most confident now that I've ever been in my life.
09:10What part of the lifestyle do you think you enjoy the most?
09:14Anal.
09:16Oh my God.
09:19She's cute.
09:20Yeah.
09:21Hey guys, welcome.
09:23My first impressions of Amy and Claude, they seem to be owning it and they looked really good.
09:28Got a good vibe about them.
09:29How are you doing?
09:30Nice to meet you.
09:30Lovely to meet you.
09:32How are you feeling?
09:33Hi.
09:34Hi.
09:34I'm Naomi.
09:35I'm Claude.
09:36Lovely to meet you.
09:37They had a very mellow vibe.
09:39That intrigues me.
09:41Like that makes me want to get to know them more.
09:42That's amazing.
09:43Come on, Claude.
09:44We'll see you guys later.
09:45See you later.
09:48He sounds so cool.
09:50Like I'm Claude.
09:51My name's Claude.
09:53Like wow.
09:56How do you feel?
09:58Yeah, I'm fine now.
10:00Yeah.
10:00Yeah.
10:00I'm excited.
10:01Yeah.
10:04Bringing somebody in long term is a huge thing for me.
10:08It's a deal break.
10:09If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something that put a spanner
10:15in our relationship.
10:17I love all you.
10:20Amy, I think, is brilliant.
10:22She's an amazing mum.
10:23She's an amazing wife.
10:25So losing her, I would be lost.
10:27I'm happy.
10:31Claude and Amy.
10:33Hi, I'm Effie.
10:34Come in.
10:34Here to help Claude and Amy navigate the complex world of non-monogamy is relationship coach
10:40Effie Blue.
10:41You too.
10:41Come in.
10:42How are you feeling?
10:43Good.
10:44Really good, thank you.
10:44Excited.
10:45Good.
10:45So I am curious, what brings you here today?
10:50We want to build on our family, but in a relationship way.
10:54Like, you have multiple people to trust and take care of and they take care of you.
10:59Okay, so you're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you.
11:03Polyamory is really about having multiple loving, ongoing relationships as a relationship
11:08structure.
11:09Claude, what does it mean to you to have multiple relationships?
11:12For me, the thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good
11:20as it sounds.
11:21Where do you think it might fail?
11:24You don't feel like you can love anybody else, do you?
11:26Yeah, not like, yeah, not the way I love you.
11:29That's huge, right?
11:31Yeah.
11:32Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with
11:37consent, makes me feel like it's wrong.
11:42I would really, really enjoy if he'd gone out and just done something by himself with
11:47someone I don't know about.
11:48Okay, wow.
11:49But he has a lot of guilt.
11:51Okay.
11:52And is there any infidelity in your past?
11:54No.
11:55No.
11:55At all?
11:56Okay.
11:57So, what are the whispers in the back of your mind that is keeping you worried about Amy?
12:05Even though it's all consensual, it still makes me feel like a bit guilty.
12:09Do you know where it's coming from?
12:10Probably just the way, obviously, everyone grows up thinking monogamy is the only way
12:14to be.
12:15Yeah.
12:15Do you really want this?
12:22Everything about it seems like a man's perfect dream, I guess.
12:25Not every man's.
12:26Not every man's.
12:26Not every, yes, you're right.
12:28No, yeah, no, you are right.
12:29Not every man's.
12:29Yeah.
12:30Is it your dream?
12:31That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
12:33Yeah.
12:34Yeah.
12:35Okay.
12:36So, we're going to organize a social.
12:37We're going to go and check in with ourselves and then separate.
12:42Claude, I want you to see if you can push through your guilt, lean into the connections with another
12:47woman and see if you can escalate it to inviting the person to your bedroom.
12:53Amy, I know I don't need to tell you, but this is safe.
12:58Have fun.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Have fun.
13:01It's brilliant.
13:02The situation for you is the same.
13:03Yeah.
13:04Hopefully, this experience will give us insight.
13:07All right.
13:08Thank you so much.
13:09Nice to meet you.
13:10Have fun.
13:11It was lovely.
13:13Not being together is a strange thing for us.
13:18Yeah.
13:19Yeah.
13:20I understand that Amy wants this lifestyle.
13:23She wants it to happen.
13:24So, I don't understand it why I still feel guilty.
13:28I'm excited.
13:30Yeah.
13:31It's going to be fun.
13:32But, hopefully, after this, I won't feel like that anymore.
13:36I'm just going to see.
13:37Let's see what happens.
13:38Yeah.
13:39I've asked him, is it what you really want?
13:42I do ask him a lot, and he's always said yes.
13:47He is my soul mate, but I don't ever want to lose me.
13:51And to open up the relationship, it's a massive part of who I am.
14:12Despite finally gathering the courage to take the first steps towards opening up, Sarah and Johnny have been knocked back by resident Marie.
14:21What are you doing?
14:23I'm not sure.
14:24I'm not sure.
14:25It is what it is.
14:26She's lovely, but it can't happen and it's fine, isn't it?
14:29We've got our own options open.
14:31At least we've put it out there.
14:33That's something we haven't done before.
14:34That's massive progress.
14:36Yeah.
14:37I haven't got it really, because it's been a long time since I've been rejected.
14:41I'm not used to my confidence being knocked.
14:43It just hit me a little.
14:44Whilst Johnny is still recovering from the sting of rejection, Sarah shakes things up by re-approaching Jem and Daz.
14:52What are you doing?
14:53I've stolen his jacket because I'm a bit chilly.
14:55I wish he had one off.
14:56I've taken it.
14:57I know you've lucked out there.
14:58I know.
14:59I guess I'm not wearing it tonight.
15:00Well, if you did want to get to know us a bit better, we think you're great.
15:05So, just to say, if you did fancy jumping in the hot tub, we'd be more than happy to.
15:12We wouldn't have to do anything, but you know, you and me could have a little kiss.
15:17Have a lovely little chat and we all go back to you.
15:20Thanks, guys.
15:21All right, guys.
15:23See you later.
15:24Bye.
15:25A couple swap is definitely something we've discussed, but I worry of Johnny getting really
15:31upset and maybe thinking, you know, is she enjoying this more than she enjoys us being
15:37together?
15:38So, a couple was not what we were.
15:41No.
15:42Not what we were.
15:43Not what we talked about, no.
15:45But she's beautiful.
15:46Yeah.
15:47And she's, they're so, they just get us.
15:50Yeah, yeah.
15:51Am I right by saying that you're nervous, like, in case I go near a man or...
15:55No.
15:56What is it?
15:57Because I can see, I know you're inside out, Johnny.
15:59And I know right now there's something you just feel a little bit uncomfortable about.
16:03Is that right?
16:04Yeah.
16:05It just wasn't what we talked about.
16:06No, it's not.
16:07But nothing goes to plan, I mean, does it?
16:09Yeah.
16:10Let's be honest.
16:11It wouldn't hurt to just...
16:12Yeah, we could.
16:13Go on the hot tub with them.
16:14Yeah.
16:15See what happens.
16:16Yeah.
16:17Are you sure?
16:18Yeah.
16:19It's going to be tough.
16:22To have a man in a sexual setting, obviously it's my alpha male that comes out and I'm like,
16:27I think I want another man around my girl.
16:29Hey!
16:30We're back.
16:31Yeah.
16:32You're back!
16:33We're back!
16:34We would like to spend some more time with you, wouldn't we?
16:36Yeah.
16:37I just think it'd be nice.
16:38Yeah, I think it'd be really fun.
16:39We'd love to.
16:40Yeah, thank you.
16:41Cool.
16:42How exciting!
16:47See you there!
16:48Bye!
16:49Bye!
16:50See you guys!
16:51Bye!
16:52Bye!
16:53Are you okay?
16:55Just a big shock, innit?
16:56I'll just like...
16:57Just don't worry, okay?
16:59I love you, so honestly, there's no other man there or anywhere that I'll phone for
17:10you.
17:11Okay?
17:12Yeah.
17:13So please just don't feel insecure or...
17:16It's you, you got me, okay?
17:18I can tell that Johnny's a bit nervous about potentially seeing me kiss another guy,
17:24but I really want him to relax. I want him to enjoy it.
17:27I want him to enjoy the experience.
17:28I feel like you... I don't know.
17:30What, ma'am?
17:31I don't know. I'm worrying about you.
17:33I'm worrying about you.
17:35I'm worrying about you.
17:36Are you OK?
17:37Yeah.
17:38I just want you to seriously worry about me.
17:40I don't worry about you.
17:43It's my woman, isn't it?
17:44And I protect her with everything I do, so...
17:49I'm not jealous, but, you know, I am protective of my girl.
17:54The whole thing, it's like, I don't know, it's difficult, isn't it?
17:59It's different, like, what I thought and imagined, so...
18:06We came here to open our relationship and play with a girl.
18:10So, to be diving straight into a couple is not happy,
18:15but now it's crunch time.
18:24I don't know how many people...
18:27You look...
18:29Retreat newcomers, Claude and Amy, are getting ready for their first social.
18:34Do you think I should have my hair up or leave it in a ponytail?
18:37In a ponytail, absolutely.
18:39They'll be joining some of the retreat's residents
18:43for a burlesque evening in the grounds.
18:46Cheers!
18:48Amy's dream is to live a life with multiple partners,
18:55and she wants her husband, Claude, to get on board.
18:58What if I, like, go with a girl when you are upset about it?
19:02I've not done it before, so do it and find out.
19:05I'm a little bit apprehensive.
19:07I'm a little bit apprehensive.
19:09We're going to push ourselves to be uncomfortable.
19:11Let's go.
19:12Tonight's challenge is for Claude and Amy to socialise with residents separately
19:16and escalate any connections to the bedroom without the comfort of each other.
19:25Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
19:28Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air of what I want.
19:32The couple take their first steps into unknown territory.
19:41So my preference is always above three, or foursomes and upwards,
19:47or not together.
19:48Like, Claude goes off and finds someone he likes, and I do the same.
19:59Hello!
20:00I did try a thing last year.
20:03All right, let's do it.
20:05Love you.
20:10Aimee heads straight for single resident Georgie,
20:12who's been exploring the world of non-monogamy for ten years.
20:16He ditched.
20:19He's running off.
20:21Claude has, like, a guilt thing in his head,
20:25so he's trying to push just going off on his own and seeing how it feels.
20:29So you look amazing as well.
20:32I was meant to be in a lingerie set, but I'll show you later.
20:36And I'll show you non-laundere.
20:39That's nice.
20:40What do I love in the bedroom?
20:42Well, like I said, I'm quite greedy.
20:44My favourite is definitely threesomes.
20:46Do you think you would ever, like, join a couple?
20:48That is my dream reality, is to be part of a triple, because I'm very much bisexual.
20:52Yeah.
20:53If you didn't know.
20:56Georgie's fun.
20:56I love it.
20:57I love her energy.
20:58She makes me feel really comfortable, so that's, like, a really key thing for me.
21:02Sometimes I say to Claude, I feel like I might be a lesbian with a husband.
21:06Whilst Amy gets comfortable, Claude sparks a conversation with single residents Holly and Gracie.
21:12Hey.
21:14Hello.
21:14Yeah, we're good.
21:15How are you?
21:15I love the chat.
21:16Fantastic.
21:17Nice.
21:19So, how have you settled in?
21:20You all good?
21:21I was much more nervous than Amy was, so.
21:22Yeah?
21:23Really?
21:23Yeah, definitely.
21:24So, is this your first time, like, trying out the lifestyle?
21:27Yeah.
21:28Turning up is the first time.
21:29Exactly.
21:29Turning up is the first time, so.
21:31So, how long have you been in, like, this sort of lifestyle?
21:34About nine years ago, I was with my first boyfriend.
21:36We introduced a girl.
21:37They were a couple.
21:38Did you come into any, like, problems because of that?
21:41Um, yes, we did because I, we ended up playing with this couple and it was really awful that
21:46then I ended up leaving my guy for him.
21:50Really regret it, but, you know, I did learn from it, so.
21:54Mm-hmm.
21:55Everything's a learning curve.
21:57This is definitely an out of my comfort zone feeling.
22:00It's definitely weird for me.
22:01Yeah.
22:02So, what is it that brings you guys to open house?
22:04For me, it's getting past that process of, like, going out and meeting girls separately.
22:11I feel nervous about not being with Amy.
22:13I just enjoy being with her all the time.
22:17I miss her.
22:18I even know she's so close.
22:20So, I won't keep you because we could, we could chat all night.
22:23Yeah.
22:23So, yeah, work the room.
22:25But yeah, we'll see you around.
22:26Yeah.
22:26See you later.
22:27See you later.
22:28Bye.
22:30Whilst Claude tries to find someone to bond with, Amy's found a kindred spirit.
22:35I've navigated non-monogamy, polyamory specifically, for eight years.
22:40As a mum, as well.
22:41How many children?
22:42I've just got one.
22:43Oh, I've got six.
22:44Oh, well done you, you little saint.
22:46I have a wonderful partner, who has been my partner in rock for eight years.
22:53My co-parent.
22:54I also have a beautiful relationship with a man in the US.
22:57I'm happy and I just think, small people to love.
23:01I've just got too much love for one person.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Yeah.
23:04That's so nice.
23:05I think the most difficult thing about polyamory is determining who you're going to spend your nights
23:10with, who you're going to have dinners with, and it's just getting used to managing separate lives.
23:15I didn't think I was going to find anybody who had exactly the same sort of mindset.
23:21So it's nice.
23:21It's really nice.
23:22It was nice.
23:23Yeah.
23:24I think it's rare.
23:25My entire polyamory journey, I've never met someone who just understood everything I was saying
23:32and reciprocated.
23:34For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know, okay, the connection is so real that they don't mind
23:38that I'm not willing to go all the same.
23:39Jump into it.
23:40She's definitely on my wavelength.
23:42It's so nice to talk to someone that feels the same.
23:45I've not really thought about Claude.
23:47He could have met someone and been like, yep, that's the one.
23:50I just don't know.
23:52On TV.
23:53Like, I'm just, I'm just not.
23:55Yeah.
24:00Are you guys okay?
24:01Yeah.
24:02You have a little jacket.
24:03Shall I give you a moment?
24:04Yeah, shall I have a seat?
24:06You're going to go back, are you really?
24:07No.
24:08No.
24:09No, why?
24:10I don't know.
24:11Same.
24:11You're in a good connection.
24:12Yeah, we do, yeah.
24:13But I feel like it's maybe more of a real connection.
24:18Like, she's someone that potentially would like a future.
24:24Met anyone you like.
24:25Yeah, well, there's a few girls that are obviously nice looking, but no one I've had that connection with yet.
24:31Yeah. But you should go and completely finish off your adventure.
24:37I don't know.
24:39Yeah, maybe.
24:41Claude will overthink.
24:42He'll be like, should I do this?
24:44Can I do that?
24:46For him to be able to go off and have sex with other women, that's really a big thing for us.
24:51All right.
24:52Where are you going?
24:54I don't know how I'm going to go up there.
24:58From there.
24:59Fractal in action.
25:02I love you.
25:15How do you feel about it?
25:16Yeah, that would you like.
25:19Despite entering the retreat seeking a threesome with a girl, Sarah has invited
25:24resident couple Jem and Daz to the hot tub for a potential foursome.
25:28Tell me what's going for your heart.
25:31But her partner Johnny is not happy.
25:35It's not catching my buttons, if I'm honest.
25:36No.
25:37No, I'm going to be honest, no.
25:41I didn't say this before.
25:43Well, it's just not fitting.
25:45The couple thing, I don't know, I don't know.
25:47It's not what we had in mind, but...
25:51We never came here for a couple swap.
25:57Hey, guys!
25:58Hey, guys!
26:06Is it hot?
26:09Well, no.
26:10Is it?
26:11Amazing.
26:20How are you feeling?
26:21I'm OK.
26:22Are you shitting your pants?
26:23I'm not.
26:24Nice.
26:24Is it written all in my face?
26:26No.
26:26Cheers, guys!
26:27Cheers!
26:28Cheers!
26:29Ah, it's lovely fun.
26:30So, for you guys, obviously you wanted a girl.
26:34Yeah.
26:34Has that always been the only thing you've thought about?
26:37Is there something about couple slopping that makes you uneasy?
26:41Um...
26:42Yeah, tell us.
26:43If you think about it too much, it could be a right job.
26:45Yeah, you can't overthink it.
26:47I think definitely the rails make Johnny a bit insecure.
26:50Massively, massively.
26:51I'm exactly the same.
26:52For me, you don't want it to become competitive.
26:55No, yeah.
26:56Like it does with guys.
26:56Oh, yeah.
26:57How do you feel like that?
26:58Yeah, yeah.
27:00You don't want to be in that situation and kind of being like,
27:02shit, this guy's doing some music.
27:04Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:06You've got to be comfortable enough to be like,
27:08hey, can I do your thing while you're doing that?
27:10Yeah, yeah.
27:11I suppose that comes with experiences as well, doesn't it?
27:14What's your reason for wanting to open up your relationship?
27:18I think when we met, we'd both come out with really serious
27:21relationships and really unhappy relationships.
27:24And plus, you know, I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
27:26so I am a bit curious as well.
27:28Don't worry, I'm going to help you with that.
27:30So it just makes sense.
27:35I don't know, so you guys are going to kiss.
27:37Oh, that was it for you guys.
27:55Oh, I did it.
28:01And you're going to remember it.
28:05I'm definitely going to remember it.
28:07Oh, well, would you like me to kiss?
28:09I love that.
28:10Yes, I'd love you to.
28:11Do you want to like to kiss?
28:12Do you want to like to kiss?
28:13Until I go over.
28:23How was that?
28:24I like it.
28:25How did you feel?
28:26I like it.
28:27It's hot.
28:31Do you want to take it to the next level?
28:38I don't think I'm ready.
28:40That's fine.
28:41That's fine.
28:42I'm so sorry.
28:43I'm so sorry.
28:43No, it's all about...
28:44I just hope you're ready yet.
28:45No, that's fine.
28:47I just didn't feel like I was ready to take that next step.
28:52You guys have helped us down.
28:53You have helped us so much.
28:54You put us at ease, definitely.
28:56Yeah.
28:56I'm so pleased.
28:57That's what I should be.
28:58Hopefully...
28:59He's a cool guy.
29:00Yeah, I know.
29:01I appreciate the way you are.
29:02Oh, God.
29:03It takes a lot.
29:04Yeah, you know, it's a big massive, like you said, it's a massive thing.
29:06It's a cool guy, yeah.
29:08Guys, we're going to leave you now because we've had loads of fun and I think you should
29:13have a little moment.
29:14A little hot tub solo time.
29:16I'm going to have another little kiss.
29:18It's a great pleasure.
29:20I'm going to want to see you.
29:21You're gorgeous.
29:22It's beautiful.
29:23Absolutely gorgeous.
29:24Thank you for your time.
29:26See you later.
29:27Being in the hot tub with Gemma and Daz, yeah, has really changed my thoughts on things.
29:31You know, they've really put my mind at ease.
29:33Yeah, it's been really good.
29:39My God, how do you feel?
29:41My head was all over the gaff before.
29:43I was literally ready to fucking go right over and I'll fucking see you later.
29:48See you later.
29:48Is it that bad?
29:49Did you believe it?
29:50No, I wouldn't leave you.
29:51I'd have told you when I dragged you.
29:54The night hasn't gone as we originally thought it would go.
29:57I'm so happy.
29:58Good.
29:59So, we've got some talking to do, see what tomorrow brings.
30:03Do we want to push the boat out that little bit more?
30:06Who knows?
30:07Oh, no.
30:18Despite her husband Claude's uncertainty, Amy wants to bring new partners into their relationship.
30:25I'm Emily.
30:26Hi, Emily.
30:28Tonight, they have been tasked with going it alone.
30:31But Claude has struggled to connect with any of the female residents.
30:35Unlike Amy, who is very much at ease.
30:38Like, if I really think deep inside myself, I want to love multiple people.
30:42I want to open up my home, people coming in and out.
30:45Yeah. But what about you?
30:46So, yeah, like, polyamory was, like, my first introduction to this lifestyle.
30:51Right now, single and just sort of exploring the lifestyle, like, going to parties and stuff.
30:57Me and Amy come from that idea of just, like, loving everyone and sort of just making people
31:04family that aren't your stereotypical family. It's obviously quite unique, but fun.
31:11But you're open to actually joining a relationship rather than just the sex and stuff.
31:15Yeah, a hundred percent.
31:17Six babies, eh?
31:18Yeah.
31:19It's a crazy house.
31:20Yeah, it's a crazy, crazy house.
31:22Full of love, though.
31:23Yeah, a hundred percent.
31:24Very close family.
31:25Yeah.
31:26Georgie, she's definitely a vibe.
31:28Like, she seems fantastic.
31:30She seems fun.
31:31Being without Amy, for me, like, we've been together, like, 24-7 for, like, the last four years.
31:37How does it make you feel?
31:38Like, I'm, like, I'm missing something.
31:46I think, have you found it all right?
31:47Yeah.
31:48Yeah, have you?
31:48No, no, no.
31:49I've found it more difficult.
31:50Well, do you want to have a quick chat with me?
31:55Are you OK?
31:56We're going to go up here and have a little chat.
31:57Did you struggle?
31:58Yeah, yeah, yeah.
32:00With Claude unable to fly solo, Amy has a plan.
32:03I would like to carry on with Emily talking and stuff.
32:08Me and Emily, I have the same sort of upbringing.
32:10That, like, community, like, family.
32:13So, what, do you want to go?
32:15We'll go together.
32:16Yeah, that sounds perfect.
32:17What about the other one?
32:18Do you want to bring her as well?
32:20I do, but I feel like to get a better connection with her, it would be a longer,
32:25a much longer process, and George is obviously just a fantastic vibe.
32:30She's definitely a vibe.
32:32If you want to carry on with George, then we can just see how it goes from there.
32:38This is the ideal scenario for me, like, what's the point in going separately when we can go together?
32:45The couple join forces and ramp things up a notch.
32:51Would you like to come to the hot tub with both of us?
32:55That sounds really good. I'd like to hang out with both of you guys.
32:58Yeah, maybe spend some time alone.
32:59Yeah.
33:00Get a bit warmer.
33:01Yeah, it'll be nice and cosy.
33:04We just won't get out of the hot tub.
33:05Yeah, ever, ever, okay?
33:08We might be going to the hot tub. Would you want to go?
33:11Okay, yeah, yeah, go.
33:16I understand that the dynamic thereafter is more of an emotional connection.
33:21I've been in this world for a long time, and for me, it has just been the physical,
33:24and I'm definitely looking for something deeper and meaningful,
33:27and it looks like they're looking for it too.
33:29I just wanted to see if there's anything more both of them want.
33:41For me, like, I haven't got that connection with them yet.
33:44But I feel like sometimes, like, it's good when you talk to someone and then you're, like,
33:48kissed and then you feel like, oh, yeah, it is there.
33:51We're coming.
33:59This is the first time we've done anything like this.
34:03I'm a little bit apprehensive.
34:05Oh, yeah.
34:06Oh, God, that's really nice.
34:08Really? It's lovely.
34:08Toasty.
34:10So your youngest baby, is it, what did you say, one?
34:13One.
34:13Yeah, she's one.
34:14How old are the children?
34:15I just want to know if I got it right.
34:17So how old are my children?
34:18Yeah, I just want to know if I got it right.
34:19Twelve, eleven, nine, seven, three, one.
34:25Oh, I'm definitely in a weird spot.
34:27I think I'm on a leg rest.
34:28Yeah, I feel like I'm...
34:29I'm, like, hovering.
34:30Maybe if I sit there, is that OK?
34:31Yeah, go for it.
34:32Can I kiss today?
34:33Should we have a little kiss, guy?
34:36That'll be cute.
34:44Wow, that was so, like, soft and gentle.
35:02For me, to see a name with another woman is definitely out of my comfort zone.
35:08You enjoyed that?
35:09I got the tingles with that.
35:11Oh, well, I'll kiss you all the time.
35:14All right, yeah, fine.
35:22I think the only thing that is holding him back is how much he loves me
35:27and that society tells us that this is just not the normal.
35:32In the back of his mind, he's like, if I hurt her, I can't undo what I've done.
35:44I think if Claude was like, OK, this is not the lifestyle for me,
35:52it would definitely be something that, you know, stopped us moving forward.
35:57I can't get past ten. I've fucking only got ten fingers.
36:16Hey, we've got ten fingers.
36:18Sarah and Johnny have woken up eager to see what their second day brings.
36:22If it goes really well, we'd like to have a non-monogamy relationship.
36:26Ideally, that's where we'd like this to go to.
36:28And just for me to gain the confidence to be able to live a non-monogamous life.
36:33On your toes, it's 20.
36:35I can't see me toes.
36:37We've got one, you've got...
36:38See my knickers underneath?
36:39You've got 11 toes.
36:40All right, love.
36:43You haven't actually, I've got...
36:45You have?
36:46You've got ten and a camel toe.
36:52Last night, Sarah was keen to invite a couple to the hot tub.
36:55All right, let's go.
36:57Just one more look in the mirror.
36:59Much to her partner Johnny's initial discomfort.
37:03Go again.
37:06So they're hoping a chat with the retreat's non-monogamy coach Effie
37:10will iron out some confusion.
37:12Hello.
37:12Hello.
37:13Welcome, welcome.
37:14Come in.
37:14Jump on the couch, get comfy.
37:17So your first date to retreat?
37:20Yes.
37:21How was it?
37:22So surprising, really, isn't it?
37:24Okay, tell me all.
37:25It shifted a little bit.
37:27We actually met a really nice couple.
37:29Okay.
37:29Yeah, and so we ended up having a bit of time with a couple.
37:32With Johnny.
37:33I could tell he just completely froze.
37:36I was ready to go.
37:38What was scary?
37:38It's an alpha male thing, isn't it?
37:40You know, are you competing with another man?
37:42Well, you know, that's how I feel about it.
37:46Okay, kind of man-to-man alpha competition.
37:48It's a man thing, I'd say, yeah.
37:51I've stuck with my guns, and I'm glad I did.
37:53I'm proud of him, I am really proud of him.
37:55Yeah, yeah.
37:56I felt a bit emotional.
37:57Yeah, it does make me emotional now,
37:59because it's just such a big thing.
38:00What's coming up for you now?
38:01I don't know.
38:02They're not sad tears.
38:03They're just like, yeah, relief tears, if anything.
38:07Okay.
38:07What's the relief from?
38:08That we've finally made that step in the right direction.
38:12And, yeah, what's to come, it's just like...
38:15I'm excited, but I'm obviously still a bit apprehensive,
38:18a bit nervous as well.
38:19Okay.
38:20Tell me more about that.
38:21Um, so, obviously, last night, it was just a kiss and stuff.
38:25Because a guy was never the plan, so, you know,
38:28in a short space of time, we're sort of getting our heads around
38:31that I could possibly be kissing a guy later,
38:33or even take it further, and it just makes me a little bit nervous.
38:36Okay.
38:37First of all, you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
38:38No, I know that, yeah.
38:40Uh-huh.
38:41And at the same time, you are here to push boundaries
38:44and have these experiences in this beautiful, safe space
38:47that we create for you.
38:48Yeah.
38:48What do you think that you might want to explore going forward?
38:52For the first time, I actually feel maybe it was that a couple was best for us.
38:56Actually, I find more the merrier.
38:59I think when, as the numbers get bigger,
39:03the pressure goes down a little bit because the attention kind of spreads.
39:06Yeah.
39:07Does that make sense?
39:08Yeah.
39:08And what do you think about the idea of a moresome,
39:11or a potentially...
39:12Scared of shit, obviously.
39:14Okay.
39:14I think it's a bit much, actually, to get my head round.
39:17Yeah.
39:18A little, just a little baby steps.
39:21Sure.
39:22So it just depends.
39:23Yes, baby steps, but towards what?
39:25Right, is the question.
39:26Yeah, I don't...
39:27I'm not sure.
39:28Yeah, no.
39:28Okay.
39:29Okay.
39:30Keep it on your mind.
39:31Keep having conversations.
39:32And I want you to at least mentally be prepared for
39:35all the different things that happen that you can get involved in.
39:38Just don't be one-track minded.
39:40Exactly.
39:40Yeah.
39:41And it's really up to you which path you go down on.
39:44Okay.
39:47One of Effie's suggestions was that possibly more people joining the experience would be easier.
39:53Go forward, have fun.
39:56We're not quite sure about that, are we?
39:59It sort of freaks us out a little bit, scares us, doesn't it?
40:01What do you think the bikini is better?
40:10I don't know.
40:11How do you feel?
40:12Do you feel confident or not?
40:14I'm going to try the bikini now because I don't feel amazing.
40:17Sarah and Johnny are getting ready for their second social.
40:22A poolside barbecue with a mixture of both single and coupled up residents.
40:28We're really looking forward to the pool party today.
40:30We are here for a reason because we do want to push our boundaries and have experiences
40:35because it's really important for us to keep our sex life exciting.
40:40You look beautiful.
40:43I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
40:47We're going to go in and we're going to just be ourselves, be confident and just let our hair down a bit.
40:52Let your hair down anyway.
40:57Hi guys.
40:58Hey, are you okay?
40:59Hi.
40:59Oh, you look amazing.
41:05Say hi.
41:05Hi, glad you're good.
41:06Hi.
41:07Yeah, how are you?
41:08It's lovely.
41:08You look amazing.
41:09Right, I'm taking you over here.
41:11Okay.
41:11You're staying with the lad.
41:13See you.
41:13Hi, dear.
41:14Hi, dear.
41:15You look stunning.
41:17Oh, thank you.
41:18It's difficult for me because I've not done it before with seeing my message with another man.
41:27I'm just like, how do you guys?
41:29You know, the first time you dealt with it, you know?
41:31Yeah, I was worried how I'd feel, you know, seeing it initially, seeing it happening.
41:36But no, I immediately loved it.
41:39Did you?
41:39Yeah.
41:39It doesn't mean me and Jen love each other any less.
41:42Yeah, yeah, yeah.
41:43And it just really works for us.
41:44If we were to delve into, like, couple swapping, I always think in my head, like, I'm with the
41:49other girl, and am I going to be with that other girl, but thinking what's going on over the...
41:54Do you know what I mean?
41:54That type of thing.
41:56You want her to have a good time.
41:57Just don't focus on it, you know?
41:59Enjoy the moment.
42:00Yeah, yeah.
42:00And just stop thinking it in a negative way.
42:02Some burgers.
42:03Look at them bad boys.
42:05Here we go, girls.
42:06Who wants the burger?
42:07Burger boys.
42:08Is that like a banger boy?
42:11Shall we, like, play a game?
42:13It's not long before the residents suggest a game of spin the bottle.
42:18Who wants to start?
42:20Go on, Sarah.
42:21Give us a good spin.
42:23Bye.
42:24Bye.
42:29If Sarah does kiss someone, it's something new to me, so I'm not sure how I'm going to feel.
42:36We are here to push ourselves.
42:37Yeah, good woman.
42:39Hey there.
42:40Okay.
42:43Are you okay, babe?
42:53It's alright.
42:55Got to share it.
42:58So how are you guys feeling?
43:01Yeah, really good, you know.
43:02We're really having fun, aren't we?
43:04Yeah.
43:05That's our aim.
43:06We're on a high right now, aren't we?
43:08Yeah.
43:08Amazing.
43:09Hey, cheers, guys.
43:10Nice.
43:11Cheers.
43:14So where do you want to take it now?
43:16So, yeah, we don't want to call it night yet, do we?
43:19No, we're not going to call it.
43:20No, let's go have some fun, guys.
43:23I know of a lovely year to go.
43:29Yeah, Effie suggested, why don't you guys, like, go into more of a, more people sat in.
43:39You know, we're open-minded and we're going to go with the flow, yeah?
43:41Oh, my God.
43:43Things might start to progress with everyone and if they want to join in, they can.
43:48I fancy them.
43:48I think they're hot.
43:49Yeah, and I'm also fancy her, yeah.
43:55Oh, wow.
43:57This is gorgeous.
43:59Whoa.
43:59Oh, I love it.
44:03Oh, man.
44:04It's down.
44:05Oh, shit.
44:07Well, what have you got in for the store for us, guys?
44:10We're going to play some fun, naughty games, aren't we?
44:13Oh, wow.
44:13Yeah.
44:13We're going to play some fun, naughty games.
44:18Who is it?
44:19Hello.
44:23Are we doing it?
44:32She's a good sport.
44:34What the fuck?
44:37Oh, my God.
44:47And on the clitoris couch.
44:49The clitoris couch.
44:50The clitoris couch.
45:07Come on, we're going to have a lot of time, though.
45:11Yeah, come on.
45:12Might as well.
45:13See you guys in a bit, guys.
45:15See you in a bit, guys.
45:15See you in a bit.
45:18See, right now, I know Johnny's not himself.
45:20He's anxious.
45:21He's uptight.
45:22He's worried about potentially what's going to happen.
45:26All right, babe.
45:27How are you feeling?
45:28Good.
45:29Yeah, I'm good.
45:29I'll tell you how I'm feeling.
45:31Tell me how you feel.
45:32It's just overwhelming for all the people there.
45:35Yeah.
45:35I'm just like, what?
45:37It's too much for me, you know?
45:38I'm struggling with it.
45:40And it just hit me.
45:41It's just hit me.
45:42Next time on Open House.
45:49I feel like I made a mistake last night.
45:55I never want to see her upset.
45:59I've got to be OK with Alex being with another woman.
46:04Are you OK if I, like, put my hand on you, like?
46:07Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
46:10I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
46:14We had a talk, and we'd rather, like, have a few less people, so...
46:18That's fair enough.
46:19It is weird, isn't it?
46:21Fuckers!

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