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00:00We are completely in love, but it doesn't mean you can't screw around.
00:05British couples are increasingly questioning monogamy.
00:09The biggest contraception of knowing to man is wedding cake.
00:15But is it possible to open up your relationship without harming it?
00:19It's a complete mystery, the whole thing. This is it. We don't know what to expect.
00:23These curious couples are about to find out.
00:26Oh, that is gorgeous.
00:27They're traveling to a unique retreat.
00:30Hello, you all right?
00:32Where, with the help of a specialist relationship therapist...
00:36Life is short. Why limit sex to just one person?
00:41And a group of single, available, and sexually liberated residents...
00:46It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
00:51They're about to discover if their sexual fantasies...
00:54Oh, jeez!
00:56...can become a reality.
00:59It'd be like the idea of group sex.
01:02We were just wondering if you'd like to spend a night with us.
01:04...and whether or not they'll be able to break one of society's greatest taboos.
01:10I should have been thinking about the man that I love and how he was feeling.
01:14And have sex with other people.
01:17Oh, my God!
01:19Oh, my God!
01:19Wow! I was not expecting that.
01:22Wow! This is the most up my comfort zone I've ever been.
01:26Yeah, I've got mad butterflies.
01:37I'm not nervous. I'm more excited.
01:39The first couple checking into this unique retreat is Maddy and Nathan from Swansea.
01:45Yeah, I'd say we're Welsh and proud, yeah.
01:47The best thing about women is, like, the people. Like, no matter where you go, you can kind of, like, have a laugh, have a crack.
01:52Nathan is my first proper boyfriend. I've always wanted, like, a serious relationship since I was 16. And then, like, the minute I stopped looking, I met Nathan.
02:01My stomach's literally doing circles. I get it, like, more and more nervous, like, the closer you get.
02:07Maddy and Nathan have been committed to each other for a year and a half, and now live together.
02:14Though he's got a really hard exterior, he's a bit of a softy. I think he's got a magic power, to be honest.
02:20Women do just, like, fall in love with him.
02:24Maddy's very supportive and nurturing. And when I first seen her, she just looked good, and she's looked good ever since.
02:29Aw! That's really cute.
02:31Cor is, like, quite out of the way.
02:36Both see themselves as adventurous in the bedroom.
02:39If we do have any, like, sexual fantasies that we want to try out, or, like, new things that we want to try, like, we're very much open to trying it, which is really cool.
02:47We try almost anything.
02:48Yeah. We've got a nice sex toy collection.
02:52Like all monogamous couples, they've only ever slept with each other.
02:56Oh, wow!
02:59But now they want help to try and open their relationship, starting with their very first threesome.
03:06I think monogamy is just a social concept, like, completely.
03:10There's seven billion people in the world.
03:11It is kind of weird to think that you'd be restricted to just one person for the rest of your life, you know what I mean?
03:18Let's do it.
03:19Here to welcome them are hosts, Jess and Tom.
03:25Hi!
03:25Who are in a long-term open relationship themselves.
03:28Follow on through.
03:29It's lush.
03:29I need.
03:31We've been in an open relationship for a couple of years now.
03:35We're completely in love.
03:36I think you could be happy with one partner for the rest of your life, but there's definitely no harm in trying them all at the same time.
03:43It just multiplies the fun.
03:44The retreat is packed with experienced, sexually open residents, eager to get to know the freshman couple.
03:55It's really surreal at the minute.
03:56Because we've talked about it for so long, and, like, we're finally here and it's finally happening,
04:00it's just really exciting that we're actually going to be opening up our relationship, or trying to, anyway.
04:07So welcome!
04:08Ready to help the couple brave their first few steps into this extraordinary sexual experiment is intimacy therapist, Dr. Laurie Beth.
04:19I've got more than 30 years' experience helping couples who want to open up their relationships.
04:25And in order to do that and have it really work, the couple needs to be trusting, have fantastic communication, and be emotionally resilient.
04:34It can be incredibly successful, and I've seen couples come out actually with stronger relationships.
04:42Hiya! Grab yourself a seat!
04:49So why don't you tell me what has brought you here?
04:53We just kind of, like, just started talking about, like, inviting another woman into the relationship.
04:57We were just in bed one night, and I think the idea just kind of came to us.
05:01But, like, we definitely want to try threesomes and see if it's something that would suit us, definitely.
05:08Okay.
05:08And sexuality.
05:10I'm bisexual.
05:12He's straight.
05:13Great.
05:14What we're looking for is kind of, like, a throuple type situation where we can bring somebody into our relationship, sexually and emotionally.
05:21But we want to try threesomes first to see what would happen, and if I can handle it.
05:26As long as I'm in a bedroom with two girls, I'd be enjoying myself.
05:29I'm most excited just to find out about myself, find out about us.
05:33I'm most excited for Tets.
05:39I believe that these guys are the ones that are going to, you know, add a bit of spice to the retreat.
05:44You reckon?
05:45They seem like they're so much fun about for anything.
05:47Free spirit, yeah, definitely.
05:48They're free spirit.
05:49Would you both be interested?
05:50Mate.
05:51Yeah.
05:51Would you both be interested in going together?
05:54Because she's open to that.
05:55Right up our street.
05:57No, definitely.
05:58Do you see that he's just quiet?
05:59Like, he would, like, make his move when he needs to, you know what I mean?
06:02You're, like, at a chokehold.
06:03She'll be, like, eating your pussy, and you'll be, like...
06:05Manny, why are you looking for an emotional connection?
06:09I would find a different connection with a woman than I have with Nathan.
06:14It's me kind of pushing this a little bit more than Nathan.
06:16Okay, so what are you most afraid of?
06:20I do have a little bit of a jealousy side to me.
06:23Mm-hmm.
06:23I mean, jealousy is really common emotion, in general anyway, and certainly an open relationship.
06:29It's an emotion that comes up a lot.
06:31It often comes from insecurity in the self, so you're worried you're not good enough, or you're worried you're going to be replaced.
06:38And then somebody getting more time and attention than you're getting.
06:42And hopefully we work towards the time when you're really just getting joy out of your partner's joy.
06:50My jealousy is something I've been battling with for a year and a half, basically.
06:54So to be able to overcome that would be really, really good for me.
06:59Tonight, Maddie and Nathan will have the chance to try to arrange a threesome.
07:04Okay, this evening you're going to have a social,
07:07and then you're going to have the opportunity to choose yourself a girl to spend time with.
07:13This is the place where people do have sex with other people,
07:16and it's facilitated so you're in a safe space.
07:18Yeah.
07:19So have a blast tonight.
07:20We will.
07:21Yeah, thank you so much.
07:24Threesomes is a really popular way of opening up a relationship,
07:28but actually it's one of the hardest combinations
07:30because you don't know how you're going to feel
07:33seeing your partner pleasuring someone else until you do it.
07:37And jealousy and insecurity can be the result of that.
07:41I'm trying to think, like,
07:44my biggest concerns are my reach.
07:50Like, you've got to see me with a girl without you involved first.
07:54I feel like me and Maddie, we're about to take a big step now.
07:59I mean, if it ever is going to happen, it would be no.
08:03Maddie's jealousy issues, it has caused one or two problems in the past,
08:07but I feel like if anyone's going to be able to help with it, it's talk to Laurie.
08:10I think I do want you to kiss one of them as well,
08:13like in front of me or, like, without me,
08:15and kind of, like, flirt and stuff.
08:17I'm so excited for the socials.
08:19Thinking about going to this party with Nathan,
08:21and just to find a girl, it makes me really scared.
08:25So I think this would be really interesting to see if I can handle it.
08:29If you kissed a girl, like, would you feel like you're cheating?
08:33Maybe.
08:34Hmm.
08:35I suppose that's what we're here to find out.
08:45It's going to be good.
08:46It's going to be fun.
08:47Next to arrive at the retreat are married couple, John and Danielle, from Bolton.
08:52The north is absolutely the best.
08:54Well, they're going to say, I don't know, just prices.
08:55I don't know how people can afford to live.
08:56Not just prices at all.
08:58It is. It can't verse you for a glass of wine in that hotel the other day.
09:02It's going to go a million miles an hour,
09:04and it'll be gone and dusted in the blink of an eye.
09:07A bit like the wedding day.
09:08The pair have four children together.
09:10Scared to death.
09:11Really nervous, yeah.
09:12Yeah.
09:12And were youngsters themselves when they first locked eyes on each other.
09:17The first time I met Danielle, I thought she was absolutely fit,
09:21wearing a little white blouse and a little red tartan skirt.
09:24Was that the first time we met at the school disco thing?
09:26That was the very first time we met, yeah.
09:28Come on.
09:29Oh, my God.
09:31From the second I did start fancying him, I've never stopped.
09:34I'm gorgeous now.
09:35Like, it's weird.
09:36Now?
09:37So, we've come out for a nice family meal.
09:39Bring all the rabble.
09:41Cheers, Danielle.
09:42I love this driveway.
09:44Well, them trees, it's like a scene out of Gladiator.
09:48After 16 years and counting...
09:50Oh, that is gorgeous.
09:52...the relationship hasn't lost its spark.
09:55I think our sex life is pretty damn good.
09:58Yeah, we don't really have sex life.
09:59Sometimes it can be five times in one day.
10:01As much as we can, really.
10:03On a batting average, I'd definitely say more than 20 a month.
10:08Let's hope it goes well.
10:10And it's a bit like pulling a Band-Aid off.
10:13After the best part of two decades committed to each other...
10:16God, it's young.
10:19...the couple have come to seek help to try and open their relationship,
10:23starting by taking part in an orgy.
10:26I don't think you could ever be well prepared for this situation.
10:29I think it's one of those things that you've just got to kind of take it as it comes.
10:40You got me the wrong trousers.
10:42What do you mean?
10:43These ain't my trousers.
10:45How would you bring my wrong ones?
10:46I don't know.
10:47I'm a troll, are you?
10:48I should tidy up a little bit in case we bring somebody back.
10:56Maddie and Nathan are hoping that tonight they'll have their first ever threesome.
11:03Sorry, I'm just really excited.
11:04Sorry, I don't want to rush you.
11:05Sorry.
11:06I feel like me and Maddie, we're about to take a big step now.
11:09Threesome and two girls, it's going to be so good.
11:11More women, more pleasure.
11:12Can you see my umbrella?
11:14Let's go.
11:14The pair are attending a social.
11:25Welcome!
11:29Hosted by open couple Tom and Jess, where they can try to find someone to invite back to their bedroom.
11:35There you go, Evelyn.
11:37This is for you.
11:38You want to get to know everyone?
11:40Yeah.
11:40Just give us a shower if you need anything.
11:41You look lovely, dear.
11:43In attendance are the retreat's unique residents.
11:47All here because they believe that monogamous relationships belong in the history books.
11:52Cheers to a good night, girls.
11:53Cheers.
11:54Yeah.
11:55I think that we were raised to be monogamous, but I feel that we should actually break out of that box and make those decisions for ourselves.
12:03I love how you're wearing the red.
12:05Yeah.
12:05It's just in case I start blushing again, you know?
12:11Cheers, my love.
12:12Cheers.
12:12Cheers.
12:12I feel like exploring is what a modern relationship is.
12:17It's like being able to explore with each other or multiple people and doing all these crazy things.
12:23It's just natural to have sex with multiple people.
12:28I want to experience everything.
12:29I want to be a part of everything.
12:30I want to see different things and non-monogamous relationships is just another one of those things that's like, oh, it's interesting.
12:35Let's be a part of it.
12:35So do you have a physical type yourself?
12:38I like my terrible.
12:40That's good.
12:40That's good.
12:41That's like my thing, really, isn't it?
12:42Cheers to that.
12:46So has she ever seen you kiss another girl?
12:48No.
12:49How do you think if she did?
12:51I don't know.
12:52It could be bad.
12:53You guys are just throwing yourself in here, aren't you?
12:56Okay.
12:58To help ease Nathan and Maddie into being intimate with people outside of their relationship,
13:03Dr. Laurie has included erotic group games in the social.
13:08Beer whipped cream across your lips and then kiss your lover.
13:12Ooh, that's great.
13:13So I'm going to pick Nathan.
13:16You're okay with that?
13:17Yeah, go ahead.
13:18I don't know, like, how I'd react.
13:21To see Nathan kiss another girl in front of me, whether I can put my jealousy aside.
13:26Oh, I won't worry about it.
13:29Quick, quick, quick, quick, quick.
13:33Woo!
13:37He even closed his eyes and everything, though.
13:40Yeah, it's all right.
13:41I'm all right.
13:42Yeah, it's okay.
13:45I'm so proud of myself for not even feeling, like, a slightest bit jealous when I watched
13:49Nathan kiss another girl.
13:51It just makes me more confident and I'm just more sure that this is the right path to us now.
13:57That's the first time I've ever kissed anyone apart from Maddie in, like, the last year and
14:00a half, so it was quite nerve-wracking.
14:02The chemistry between me and Nathan in that kiss, we would just go with the flow and see
14:07where it goes.
14:09And I feel like it would go pretty far.
14:12Gently tug on your lover's nipples while offering a sensational kiss.
14:16Go on.
14:16Okay.
14:18Yay!
14:19Loose around the nipples.
14:21Hey, yes, girl.
14:23Woo!
14:24Woo!
14:24Woo!
14:24Woo!
14:24Woo!
14:25Woo!
14:25Woo!
14:26Woo!
14:27Amazing.
14:27Thank you very much.
14:28That was nice.
14:29I think seeing my girlfriend making up with hot girls, I was living more people's dreams.
14:41I mean, it's quite surreal, I can only believe it happened because I was there.
14:45When games over, the couple have decided to invite someone back to their bedroom.
14:50Can we follow you for a little chat?
14:52Yeah.
14:53We were just wondering if you'd like to spend the night with us.
14:55Yeah!
14:56That would be amazing.
14:58I'm so excited.
14:59It's just going to be a natural chemistry between us, and it's going to go off.
15:04It is our first time doing anything like this.
15:07Are you excited?
15:08Yeah.
15:08Dr. Laurie suggested to us if we did feel any, like, kind of jealousy feelings, just
15:12to kind of be really, like, open and communicative.
15:14Okay.
15:15Let's go.
15:16The thought of having sex with someone in front of my date, I might be nervous in the
15:19bedroom now.
15:20We'll hear about that tomorrow.
15:22We'll find out.
15:25Ta-da!
15:26Amazing!
15:28Look at this!
15:39Deep in the English countryside, an extraordinary experiment is taking place.
15:44So, guys, what do you think about Aino?
15:47Have you ever done it?
15:48Oh, yeah, yeah.
15:49What are your thoughts on it?
15:50Yeah, I think it's, like, turkey and ham.
15:51Like, they're both kind of, like, a source of meat, but they just kind of feel different.
15:55You know what I mean?
15:55Yeah, for sure.
15:57Yeah, they're just, they're the same.
15:58They're just kind of different textures.
15:59You know what I mean?
16:00In a luxury retreat, people are rebelling against thousands of years of tradition by opening
16:06up their monogamous relationships in a safe space.
16:10Most people often think that non-monogamy is a threat to relationships, but actually, affairs
16:17are a far bigger threat, and nearly half of marriages end in divorce.
16:23In many cases, opening up is more likely to save and improve your relationship.
16:28You've got to change your mindset, and you have to learn some skills in order for it to
16:32work well.
16:33Yeah.
16:34Married parents John and Danielle are at the retreat wanting to try out group sex within
16:40the confines of their committed relationship.
16:42Out of our comfort zones, aren't we?
16:43Properly.
16:44Outside.
16:45They want to try new things, but then they're being brave and actually trying the completely
16:47new things like this is scary.
16:49Yeah.
16:50So tell me about what brought you here.
16:52Well, we started looking into, like, sex parties and clubs like that.
16:57Group sex.
16:58Right.
16:59Because we decided that's something we wanted to try, and then that's somehow led to this,
17:03and I just like sex, you know?
17:05So, yeah.
17:06As a couple, we want to explore that opportunity together in terms of an ability to have sex
17:11with other people, but in an open and honest way.
17:16So have you, either of you had affairs?
17:20Well, I had a, I cheated like 10 years ago.
17:24I wouldn't call it an affair, it was like a one-time thing.
17:28John was living away at the time.
17:30I was living at home with two young kids.
17:33I was quite lonely.
17:34It was very public.
17:36It was very hurtful.
17:37Yeah.
17:38I was very angry.
17:39How long did it take before you began to trust her again?
17:44Um, I didn't fully recover until I had an affair more recently.
17:52I'd had, I suppose, a bit of resentment for a number of years with Danielle, and I'd been
17:58unable to kind of relate.
18:01Suddenly I could relate.
18:02So how does it feel talking about it now?
18:05It's weird.
18:06It still feels difficult.
18:07Yeah, it's still difficult.
18:09It's so much harder to open a relationship up when there's been an affair.
18:14Because the trust is broken.
18:17And it's actually the lying, not the sex, that caused the problem.
18:20So you're really asking for something hard when you want to bring another person into your relationship
18:26when you don't trust your partner because of the affair.
18:30So why now?
18:33Why are you here now?
18:35Finally, like, admitted to each other that we do still both want to have sex with other people
18:38in the future.
18:39And we need to find a way to do this.
18:41Otherwise we're not going to work.
18:42One of us is going to end up having an affair and hurt each other again in the future.
18:45And that's the truth.
18:46Because we would end up hurting each other.
18:47We will.
18:48Definitely.
18:49You're not ready for group sex at this point, in my opinion.
18:53You need to take things one step at a time.
18:56The first thing you need to do is to deal properly with the hurt from the affairs and really confront
19:04it and work it through.
19:06I don't want to open up that hurt from the first time.
19:09That's what I don't want to do.
19:11We're going to open up that hurt from the first time deliberately.
19:14Because if we don't, then you're going to have a bad experience as a result, not of
19:19what was going on then, but what was going on in your past.
19:22Before encouraging John and Danielle's plans for group sex, Dr. Laurie wants to test how
19:27the couple cope with being intimate with other people when they aren't together.
19:31I'm going to send you on separate socials.
19:33And you'll get the opportunity to spend time and meet a whole group of people.
19:38And then you'll get the opportunity to spend some one-on-one time with somebody that
19:42you choose at the end of the evening.
19:44But actual sex will be strictly off limits.
19:48We want to have some agreements about where the lines are drawn.
19:51So I'm actually going to give you an agreement for this.
19:53Yes, please.
19:54Right?
19:55I'm going to say, no full-on intercourse.
19:58So, I mean, normally I'm encouraging people to go...
20:03Further.
20:04Further.
20:05But this time I want to put in stuff there so you don't have to worry about what she's doing.
20:08I'll be worrying no matter what.
20:10Thank you very much.
20:16When a couple have had affairs and they haven't fully dealt with this, I don't recommend them
20:23having group sex.
20:25In that situation, I recommend that actually they take their time and work on reestablishing
20:31their trust before stepping out and having sex with other people.
20:37Because you want them to have a great first experience, not be triggered into the trauma
20:44that they've already experienced.
20:46John and Danielle hadn't expected to be split up from each other.
21:01OK.
21:03I'm really nervous about the separate socials, to be honest.
21:06I am just going to go with the flow and just try and jump into the experience as much as
21:10I can do, really.
21:11And I don't like really going into social events without Danielle.
21:15I want Danielle.
21:17I'm trying to...
21:19I'm trying to control my demons, let alone yours.
21:22I'll be worrying about Danielle and what she's doing and all the demons that will be in my head.
21:28But I think I've just got to throw myself into it and hope it comes out OK in the end.
21:46Yay!
21:48I love that sound.
21:50Cheers to a fun night, yeah.
21:53Nathan and Maddy are hoping to try their first ever threesome with resident Precious.
21:59Do you want to give me a kiss? Because I felt like you're a good kisser.
22:02Really?
22:03Yeah.
22:04He's a really good kisser.
22:05He is a good kisser.
22:14It's weird, like, I really genuinely thought I'd be, like, super, like, possessive and, like,
22:19wanting to stop, but I don't want you to stop at all.
22:22It's hard to watch, you know, I'm not going to lie.
22:33My vagina's just been like this. Ding, ding.
22:36I'm ready!
22:37I'm like, ah!
22:41But one of them isn't ready.
22:44Are you hot?
22:45No.
22:46Oh, OK.
22:48I think if he watches us, I think that was the only one, what do you think?
22:51Yeah.
22:52I know you don't even care.
22:53Oh, my God.
22:54I know you don't even care.
22:55Oh, my God.
22:56I know you don't even care.
22:57I know you're going to get out.
23:13Oh, yes.
23:14Oh, yes.
23:23Maddie and I really bonded well.
23:26I feel like we connected on a few levels, which is really nice.
23:33As the night went on, I ended up being a bit of a spare part.
23:36Was that good?
23:37Yeah.
23:38Come here.
23:40I don't think it was all it cracked up to be.
23:43Nathan tries to get more involved.
23:46Do you want to swap all of them?
23:48Yeah, I'm from the bar.
23:51Where is he?
23:51I'm from the bar.
23:52I'm from the bar.
23:53I'm from the bar.
23:54I'm from the bar.
23:55I'm from the bar.
23:56You're good.
23:57It's all right.
23:58It's all right.
23:59Yeah, it's okay.
24:00That's fine.
24:01It's all right.
24:02Now I'm going.
24:03So, Nathan's clogged up.
24:04It's a shame we can't, like, go off and, like, leave him sleep, you know?
24:08No, you can't do...
24:09Do you want to sleep in the bath?
24:10That's not fair.
24:11You're supposed to be in a couple.
24:12She's like, no, Nathan.
24:13See you later.
24:14It just weren't, like, a vibe.
24:15My feelings at that point didn't really matter.
24:16That's what pissed me off, really.
24:17Mmm.
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24:43Good night, Precious.
24:44Good night, baby.
24:45Good night, Precious.
24:46Good night, baby.
24:47Good night, Precious.
24:48Good night, Precious.
24:49Good night, baby.
24:50Do you want a couch?
24:51Yeah.
24:52For a little bit.
24:54For a little bit.
25:13I'm sorry.
25:14What's wrong?
25:15You want that?
25:16Ooh.
25:17You've made my face these periods of bad bloods.
25:19I don't know about that.
25:28How?
25:32I didn't.
25:40I just don't know what to say.
25:49It's like that sometimes. I know he's overtired, but...
26:04I just feel really, really bad.
26:06It has been a fantasy of ours for, like, months,
26:09but, of course, it's not a porno, it is real life.
26:12It's people's feelings can get hurt, egos can get bruised.
26:16It just really upset him.
26:19He feels like I've kind of, like, neglected him.
26:22That's how he's feeling right now,
26:24and he doesn't really want to talk about it.
26:26How are you doing?
26:32Last night, devoted couples
27:02Maddy and Nathan tried their first-ever threesome, but things didn't go to plan.
27:09Everyone's capable of being able to solve this thing.
27:13It's a whole thing. It's only new for me.
27:16We kind of went into this knowing that we're both strong enough to open up anything that happens.
27:24I don't think I know.
27:32I can't be gone.
27:38I had such a good time last night, and I'm sure Precious had a great time as well.
27:44The hardest thing, I think, is just, like, seeing how quickly it can all change just by not being fully aware of everybody's emotions and needs.
27:54At the end of the day, I thought there was going to be no negatives.
28:01Three summer two girls, it's going to be a good crack no matter what happens.
28:04But then I suppose the situation has, like, brought out a different side of the man so that I didn't know was there.
28:11Having made the best decision, maybe, like, this isn't for us.
28:13Nathan was saying, you know, he doesn't know if this, like, relationship is right for him anymore.
28:27Which he's said in the past, you know, but I feel like this time he means it.
28:32Dr. Laurie is keen to see the couple and address the fallout from last night.
28:51Opening up your relationship when you and your partner have been together forever can be really challenging because it's just been the two of you.
28:59Actually seeing your partner with somebody else can feel really difficult.
29:04But you can be helped to actually open up as long as you've got a good trusting relationship and a good bond and great communication skills.
29:16Good morning. Grab a seat.
29:19Hi.
29:20All righty.
29:23You give me a summary of last night, please.
29:26During the experience, it was quite apparent that those who were enjoying it getting, like, more intimate than I was.
29:32And they both are more into each other than into me.
29:35Right.
29:37Did feeling insignificant scare you?
29:42Just felt like, you know, let's go five minutes.
29:45Yeah.
29:45And it's like, man, is this girl's feelings really, like, more important than mine at this point?
29:49Mm-hmm.
29:49I saw a different side of Mars that I've never seen before.
29:51She was so worried about herself, about, like, being left out.
29:55I meant she would have been more, like, intuitive of the situation.
29:58To expect somebody to be intuitive in that, in that situation?
30:02Yeah.
30:02Big ask.
30:03I thought I was going to be the problem.
30:05I feel so bad because we were so focused on my jealousy and, like, how I was going to think.
30:09Like, we didn't really take the time to think about what, how you would, like, I think he was an afterthought.
30:16And I'm really sorry for that.
30:19You should have that.
30:20You need to build in check-ins.
30:23Yeah.
30:24Right?
30:24Even though that might seem awkward.
30:26This is part of the process.
30:28Just because you're having sex doesn't mean you don't talk.
30:31Yeah.
30:31You know, it's complex.
30:32Mm.
30:34But it can be amazing.
30:36Yeah.
30:37You just need the skills.
30:39Do you want to continue?
30:41Yeah.
30:41Yeah, definitely.
30:43Okay, so this evening, what I want to do is send you on a date with somebody else.
30:47Okay.
30:48And potentially spend the night with them.
30:50Yeah.
30:50Once you've selected somebody, you actually talk about what things you guys might do so that you're all on the same page.
30:56Yeah.
30:56And so there's always negotiation.
30:58There's always communication.
31:00Thank you so much.
31:02I feel so much better now.
31:04Go enjoy yourselves and I'll see you later.
31:07It's quite normal for a first threesome to go a bit awry.
31:12What matters is how the couple deal with it and how they work it through.
31:16If it happens the same way a second time, then I would be quite worried about them.
31:24Love you.
31:25Love you too.
31:26And I'm sorry.
31:27A lot of men have the dream of, oh, a threesome or two girls, it's going to be so good.
31:31Everyone is forward to it.
31:32But it's not as easy as you think it is.
31:34I'd like to hope after talking with a doctor and talking to my husband that I would be able to communicate better.
31:39But I do struggle with it, so it might be a big step for me.
31:43I always thought it was going to be complex, but not this difficult.
31:47I think it's going to make us stronger now moving forward because we've done it.
31:51We can get through it, which means we can get through anything.
31:53Married couple John and Danielle came to the retreat hoping to take part in an orgy together.
32:11I feel like I'm going to spend all night just saying, sorry, what was your name again?
32:15Sorry, what was your name again?
32:17But tonight, Dr Laurie has asked them to separate so she can test how they handle the idea of their spouse spending time with the opposite sex.
32:27I don't think it's normal to be monogamous, no.
32:30Certainly not from our perspective, anyway.
32:33For us, it's more group sex, friends.
32:35Playing with people together.
32:37Yeah.
32:38Threesomes and stuff, yeah.
32:39Yeah, well, and group sex, like, yeah, yeah.
32:43The couple will be mingling with the retreat's sexually liberated residence.
32:48What's going on?
32:49I've never seen you.
32:51And although Dr Laurie has banned actual sex, she wants them to try kissing other people.
33:00Well, I can tell you now, you look absolutely fucking mint.
33:05It feels so weird, like, saying to you, you look lovely when you're going out and seeing somebody else, but you have.
33:09You do look lovely.
33:09I'm going to go now.
33:10Well, you are.
33:11We actually can both be really jealous, can't we?
33:13Absolutely.
33:14I get very possessive and jealous.
33:16You in particular.
33:16I get very possessive and jealous.
33:17Yeah.
33:17I don't like not knowing either.
33:20Yeah.
33:20I almost want to know every detail in my head of everything.
33:24not to control the situation, but because then I don't manifest things in my own mind and make a situation worse in my own mind.
33:33Literally, you're going to be snogging people for the next two hours.
33:35I'm nervous and a lot of anticipation.
33:41I'm sure if there's a drink, I'll feel better after I've calmed my nerves.
33:45I've not gone out on my own for 16, 17 years to meet guys, so it feels very weird.
33:49And I'm really nervous about John getting jealous.
33:53That's the worry for me.
33:54You ready for this?
33:55No.
33:56Yes.
33:56I love you so much.
33:58I love you.
33:59I'll be over here.
34:01I love.
34:02I'm always after.
34:04So long.
34:10Right, I shall see you after the social.
34:13Love you.
34:14Have fun.
34:15You too.
34:16I'll see you.
34:17Bye.
34:17You in a bit.
34:17Love you.
34:18Bye-bye.
34:18Bye-bye.
34:26Danielle's social is in the courtyard.
34:33She want a party?
34:34Oh, wow.
34:37Hi, gorgeous.
34:39That's best.
34:41Are you OK?
34:43While John's party is by the pool.
34:46Look who's up.
34:47Hey.
34:48Hello.
34:48Hello.
34:49Welcome.
34:51Hello, everybody.
34:52How are you doing, Danny?
34:53You look lovely.
34:54Host Jess is on hand to make sure things run smoothly.
35:00It's me and you.
35:02The big-ass sausage party.
35:04Oh, that's a good night.
35:06How have you been?
35:07Nervous as hell.
35:08You're looking good.
35:09You have beautiful eyes.
35:11Thank you very much.
35:12Allow yourself to have some fun, yeah?
35:13And then she's not supposed to.
35:15You guys look amazing.
35:16On his first date for the best part of 20 years,
35:20John is keen to make a good impression.
35:22Your inner wife came for...
35:24Uh, generally, we like the idea of group sex.
35:28Ah.
35:28So...
35:29More than three, though?
35:30More than four, more than five, more than six, more than seven.
35:33Hey, what about...
35:35More than Mary.
35:37Super friendly.
35:38They're all really nice to speak to.
35:40Really nice to get on with, to be honest with you.
35:42So many beautiful girls up there, like, it's mind-blowing, really.
35:45I've not gone out on that guy separately for, like, 17 years.
35:53You're not shitting your pants?
35:54Yes.
35:5417?
35:55I've been together for 16 years.
35:57So, yeah, so it's...
35:58It's a trial test.
36:00And even then, I never really went out on dates.
36:01It was always friends and groups.
36:02When you're younger, that's how you meet people, isn't it?
36:04Well, you're on perspective, I see how it's scary.
36:05Yeah.
36:06It's an unusual situation to go in and not know anyone.
36:08So, it's a bit of a completely new experience, so...
36:12I'm really nervous.
36:13So, what do you want from this, then?
36:15What? Extra man, extra woman?
36:17Everything.
36:18I want it all.
36:18All of you guys will fight.
36:20Let's go back to the room.
36:21Let's go.
36:21We're done, guys.
36:22Cut.
36:23Wrap this up.
36:26Hi.
36:26Pleasantry's over.
36:28Dr. Laurie is looking to put this couple's emotions to the test
36:31with an intimacy game.
36:33We're going to play a little game called Suck and Blow.
36:38Oh, it's not me, don't they?
36:44Blow, just blow, blow, blow, blow.
36:46Now, stop, now, stop.
36:46Oh!
36:47Oh!
36:48Oh!
36:54Kissing another woman, it's a hard thing,
36:58but once the busyness stops, see how the night takes us, really.
37:04And then, Cliff.
37:05And then the thought of kissing somebody else,
37:07it's terrifying, really.
37:09I have not been out and dated other guys for almost 20 years.
37:13It's ridiculous.
37:13So the thought of doing that is scary.
37:18Dr. Laurie wants to gauge the couple's ability
37:21to be intimate with other people
37:22and also to not worry what their partner is up to.
37:26Oh, damn!
37:27I didn't think you had that in you.
37:29I didn't think you had that in you.
37:29Really quite kissing, going really good to be honest with you.
37:33The girls are all absolutely stunning.
37:34I'm rolling with it.
37:35I'm rolling with it.
37:36I'm rolling with it.
37:37Social was fun.
37:39Enjoyed it.
37:40Best bit was getting snuck loads of hot guys.
37:42It was always a winner.
37:43I'm rolling with it.
37:44Oh, OK.
37:50I think it's all good, isn't it?
37:51I'm just going to hide my boner.
37:53Sorry, guys.
37:54Don't mind me.
37:56For now, the couple seem to have passed Dr. Laurie's test.
38:00I'm really hoping John's not jealous.
38:02I just keep, like, thinking, oh, I hope he's OK.
38:04And I hope it's going well for him.
38:05I hope he's having a good time.
38:07So, my mind's a complete wash, really, in terms of everything.
38:10And I don't know.
38:12Everything's going at a million miles an hour, really.
38:15I think she'll have a good time.
38:19I think I just need to try and get out of my head
38:21and not think about it.
38:30Do I, um, see, I like this?
38:34Maddy and Nathan are preparing for a romantic rendezvous.
38:39There we are.
38:40Don't know why it's doing that.
38:41Stay.
38:42In the hope that this time they'll enjoy a successful threesome.
38:47I'm still a little bit nervous about spending the night
38:49with someone new, because, I mean, it didn't quite
38:51go as planned last time.
38:52Don't think it can go much worse than it did last night,
38:55really.
38:56So, excited to try again, restart, and go from there.
38:59Are you excited?
39:01Yeah, I am excited.
39:03What about you?
39:04Yeah, super excited.
39:05I feel like Madison's taking things on board.
39:08I've taken things on board.
39:09And I think if communication stays key,
39:11we'll be able to have a good night tonight.
39:14OK, let's go.
39:22The couple have asked dancer Grace to join them
39:25in the hot tub, and she agreed.
39:27I think we've definitely decided on Grace, haven't we?
39:29We really got on with her in the social.
39:31We nearly picked her.
39:33Yeah, so I think she's just a great fit, I think.
39:38I'm very excited they picked me.
39:39Personality-wise, they nail it.
39:42They're definitely my type.
39:44And then physically, they're both beautiful.
39:46All right, what are we cheering to?
39:48We are cheering to new experiences.
39:52I like that.
39:53Chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin, chin.
39:56Ooh, how exciting.
39:57What do you, like, actually enjoy?
40:02Like, is it just penetration for you that's, like, the biggest thing?
40:04Yeah, pretty much just penetration.
40:06I don't need to be kind of, like, two of you working on me.
40:09Like, I'm not into that.
40:10Yeah.
40:11What position is it that makes you climax?
40:12What is it?
40:13I think it's missionary.
40:14It's missionary, but in a certain degree.
40:15But it's the right angle.
40:16Yeah, because he's got, like, quite a curve to it.
40:18So I feel that the curve is in the right place.
40:20Oh, you're Captain Hook.
40:21Captain Hook.
40:22Captain Hook.
40:23OK, cool.
40:24Yeah, and it fits well, I think.
40:26Yeah.
40:27From my experience, curved dicks are, like, the best dicks.
40:31Yeah.
40:32So that's really nice to know.
40:33Yeah.
40:34Room for a good night, clearly.
40:35Like, you might be a tired guy after today.
40:38Yeah.
40:39Should we continue us in the bedroom?
40:53Like, by all means.
40:55Let's go.
40:56Let's do it.
40:58I am very excited about tonight.
41:01I feel like it's just going to be really natural, which is great.
41:04I think tonight might be a little bit different than last night
41:07because Grace is very much into Nathan,
41:09whereas he wasn't really feeling that before.
41:11I'm hoping this is going to be the redemption of last night.
41:14And, I mean, you'll see in the morning, but it's good vibes so far.
41:28Chin-chin.
41:29Chin-chin.
41:30Cheers.
41:31Oh, I missed that.
41:32See you in a minute.
41:34Couple Maddy and Nathan have invited Grace to their bedroom for a threesome.
41:41I hope something happens.
41:42Yeah.
41:43I hope my neck works.
41:44Yeah.
41:45I thought me and Grace had a really good connection,
41:47so I think it's going to be a great night for all involved.
41:50Your turn.
41:52Asking Grace to spend the evening with us was, like,
41:55kind of, like, the next step, I guess, on our journey.
41:57Oh, yeah, just so excited.
42:00Let us know, like, what you want us to do.
42:02That will help.
42:03Make it easier for you.
42:06Last time around, Nathan struggled to perform.
42:10Do you do in swap positions?
42:11Like, I can't.
42:16Yeah.
42:17Not tonight.
42:18Oh, shit.
42:19As good as me.
42:20Yes.
42:22Oh, shit.
42:35Oh, my God.
42:40Oh, my God.
42:41Fuck.
42:43Like, you said you're going to have trouble,
42:44but I'm having a great time of your day.
42:48I hope you're in the gym.
42:50Wow.
42:51I was not expecting that.
42:54He's really good to me.
42:56He is.
42:59How do you feel?
43:00Yeah, how do you feel?
43:01Fucking exhausted.
43:05I absolutely loved that.
43:09Cheers to your sex.
43:10Yeah, cheers.
43:13You guys sleep well.
43:15Wow.
43:16It's awesome.
43:17I'll sleep for a week.
43:34Come on, then.
43:38Hey, come on in.
43:39Hey.
43:40Grab a seat.
43:42Hi.
43:43How are you guys doing today?
43:44Yeah, amazing.
43:45Much better.
43:46Uh-huh.
43:47Quite elated.
43:48Okay.
43:49I mean, it was night and day experiences,
43:51because you didn't feel jealous,
43:52because there was constant communication,
43:53and then, because I was communicating more,
43:55I felt more comfortable.
43:56Yeah.
43:57Yeah.
43:58How are you feeling about all this at this point?
44:00I feel like, after the way the second night went,
44:03I think I'm definitely looking towards the future,
44:05and perhaps opening it up.
44:06Yeah.
44:07Yeah, definitely.
44:08I mean, yeah, 100%.
44:09100%.
44:10It's been such a good experience.
44:12We've learned so much about ourselves and our relationship as well.
44:15And I feel like, I feel so much closer to you.
44:17I feel like I trust you more.
44:18Yeah.
44:19I feel like our relationship's better for it.
44:21So do you want to open up your relationship based on your experience here?
44:25Yes.
44:26Yes.
44:27Definitely, I think.
44:28Yeah.
44:29That's brilliant.
44:30Yeah.
44:31I hope you have a wonderful time.
44:33I hope so too.
44:34Take care.
44:36Lovely to meet you.
44:37You too.
44:40Aw, bless.
44:47My views at the start with consensual non-monogamy was,
44:50it was just all going to be good.
44:51I mean, there was going to be no downsides.
44:52It was going to be more women, more pleasure, more enjoyment.
44:55But obviously, you can get double the stress,
44:57because it's double the people.
44:58So it doesn't necessarily mean it's going to be a good thing,
45:01but it can also be double the joy.
45:02Yeah.
45:03I mean, we've definitely come in leaps and bounds, haven't we,
45:05from when we arrive.
45:06Yeah.
45:07Like, it's benefited our relationship by bringing somebody else in.
45:13I feel like we're a stronger couple for it.
45:16I'm looking forward to see where the future holds.
45:18I mean, we're better than we were.
45:19Yeah.
45:20So we've grown.
45:21It's not just a little thing.
45:23We had sex with other people.
45:24Yeah.
45:25To come out really positive about it,
45:27and looking forward to the future in consensual non-monogamy.
45:31It's just exciting.
45:32It's just really exciting.
45:33It's just really exciting.
45:34It's just very exciting.
45:35It's just a little bit.
45:36And now, I'm gonna get to the future.
45:37It's just really exciting.
45:38In the future, I'm gonna get to the future.
45:40Next time, John and Danielle opened their relationship and some old wounds.
46:10Stop trying to calm me down, because you can't undo what's already been done.
46:16And retreat newbies Jess and Mike.
46:19We've never done anything like this. Excited for it, to be honest.
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