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00:00I can't believe you do all this by yourself, no wonder you're in the shower for so long.
00:04I can do more than that by myself.
00:06After 23 years of marriage, things are starting to crumble.
00:09In case you can't tell, I've had...
00:11I sure as hell am not going to live like this anymore with you.
00:13Terry, I'm not going to talk to you about this anymore.
00:15Why are you starting this again?
00:18With nowhere else to turn...
00:20What are you doing?
00:21Wenda and I are seeking professional help.
00:23Where is that coming from, Huck?
00:24When it is verbally suggested, maybe we should just be divorced.
00:27So the words were spoken?
00:28Yeah.
00:29Will this marriage counselor have the answers we need?
00:32You're using your wish day to its fullest.
00:34Or could this be the end of the Hogan's?
00:36If our love is dead, it doesn't really matter at all.
00:45Yo.
00:46Uh-huh.
00:47Hold on.
00:47Yo, Wenda.
00:48Did you call the kids?
00:51Nick.
00:52It's Mom.
00:53Where are you?
00:54Good.
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01:05Where is everybody?
01:11Hogan knows best.
01:19What's going on with you, man?
01:20You look like you're about to short circuit.
01:23I'm just so stressed out, Brooke, right now.
01:25I can't even think about everything that I've got to do.
01:29Go, Mom.
01:30I'm ready to pull out in front of a friggin' bus.
01:34What?
01:36Terry, I'm not going to talk to you about this anymore.
01:39Why are you starting this again?
01:42I'm hanging up.
01:45You guys argue way too much.
01:49I know.
01:50It's not about anything either, which is weird.
01:53He just knows how to, like, push my buttons.
01:55He calls me up, and he just says something that he knows is going to just tick me off,
01:59and he says it anyway, and he just has no finesse about it.
02:02What did you guys just argue about?
02:04I don't even remember.
02:05I don't know.
02:05It's just how you talk to each other.
02:07Yeah.
02:08You make each other mad.
02:10I just wish that we could agree on some things, but I have to be so right, and he has to be right,
02:15and then it's just from one extreme to the other, and then we get to the point where we hate each other.
02:19I just don't want to talk to him.
02:21You know, we walk past each other like two ships in the night, and I'm just like, I don't want to look at him.
02:26You need to seriously figure out a way to stop arguing, because it's really unhealthy.
02:30It stresses me out, stresses Nick out, because it's kind of like when you and Dad are fighting,
02:34the whole world collapses, you know?
02:36Would you be happy or divorced?
02:37I don't know.
02:38No, you wouldn't be.
02:39How do you know?
02:40Because he's the love of your life.
02:42Okay, Henry, we'll call you back.
02:51What's up?
02:52I can't live like this, Terry.
02:53Every day, it's drama.
02:55It's just ridiculous.
02:56In case you can't tell, I've had it, okay?
02:59I'm spent.
02:59I got it.
03:00I don't want to make it work anymore.
03:01I'm like, over it.
03:02I'm done with it.
03:03I'm telling you what, it'd take me about two seconds to pack up my friggin' closet and be gone.
03:10Again?
03:10Yeah.
03:11Again?
03:11For good.
03:15It's just to the point where we cannot keep doing this.
03:18I really don't care, because I sure as hell am not going to live like this anymore with you.
03:21If we don't get counseling, or at least try to get something to talk to us.
03:25Some 30-year-old woman or 30-year-old guy is going to tell me how to live my life?
03:29I don't know, Terry.
03:30I don't know.
03:31But at this point, if we don't do that, I know what the next step is.
03:34Because I don't care anymore.
03:35You set it up, I'll go.
03:37But I don't know what's going to happen.
03:38I'm pretty much over this crap.
03:44My name is Norma Ross.
03:45Hi, Norma.
03:46How are you?
03:46Hi.
03:47Good to see you.
03:47Hi.
03:47Hi.
03:48Hi.
03:49So, what brings you here today?
03:51The last six months have just been, like, really bad fights.
03:54There's just stuff erupting every day.
03:57Between her and I, there is just all this unhappiness.
04:02It's kind of like, wow.
04:03And it's just hard for me to understand how we get to this point.
04:06Is there a time for just getting out to dinner in Miami?
04:09Just the two of you?
04:10Yes.
04:11We do go out to dinner, and we do try to do things together.
04:14But it really, it's not like a set-aside special time.
04:18Because when we go out to dinner, it's just, we're on the hunt for food.
04:21You're tired?
04:22Yeah.
04:22It's weird because the whole family's in the entertainment business.
04:26It's 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
04:28And cell phones, I think, is a huge problem.
04:31I mean, mine isn't as bad, but his, he's on it, like, eternally.
04:34And then that can escalate into an argument.
04:36Because it's like, you know, he hangs up and he's in a rotten mood, or he's in a great mood.
04:40I think it's all about communication.
04:42Part of our argument is, you know, we both have different levels of physicalities.
04:48And, you know, as far as a sex drive goes, you know, I'm very attracted to her.
04:53When I approach her, it's hard to get a positive, reinforced response from her.
04:58It just never, ever happens.
05:00I'm just never in the mood anymore.
05:02It should just be something that's a little bit more eased into it or something.
05:05I don't know how to ease into it any other way.
05:07I just need, like, my five minutes to read a magazine or something else besides going straight to that.
05:13Right.
05:13So, can we just have a couple homework assignments of what I think might help you until we meet again?
05:19Take a page and write down the other person's likes, dislikes, fears, worries.
05:26And once you put it on paper, sometimes it really makes you think about what that person's feeling that moment.
05:33And I think the last piece of homework is the wish day.
05:35We're going to set aside a wish day, Linda's, where you just do whatever he wants without analyzing it.
05:42A wish day.
05:43If Linda is wishing for you to do something special, Hulk, can you just do it?
05:49If it means making things better with her, I can do any wish.
05:52It was a pleasure meeting both of you.
05:54Nice to meet you, too, and we'll see you next week.
05:56Yes.
05:56Thank you very much.
06:00Was that interesting?
06:01Yeah, it was very good, wasn't it?
06:03Yeah.
06:03It was great.
06:06Hey, babe.
06:07Yo, yo.
06:08So nice outside.
06:09You want to go for a walk with me?
06:10Oh, my back is killing me.
06:12What if I just ride my Segway real slow?
06:14All right.
06:14This is going to be cool.
06:15I'll walk you roll.
06:17Walk and roll.
06:19Oh, my God.
06:20What a dumb joke that was.
06:25All right.
06:25So we're out.
06:26We're walking.
06:26It's a beautiful day, and we're not supposed to talk about anything stressful.
06:30Or business.
06:31Our cell phones are off.
06:33So what do we talk about?
06:34Oh.
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06:55Huh?
06:57Did you say something?
06:59No.
07:00I'm trying to think of something.
07:01There's nothing.
07:02I know.
07:04yo linda yes today's my wish day i hope you're ready i'm sitting down here i'm ready
07:16probably need to come upstairs here in a couple minutes all right i'll be up in a few minutes
07:20all right love you bye yeah love you too bye well she's in for a surprise
07:25pray for me goodbye magic genie wish grantor do i get three wishes too
07:33i'm here what my first wish was to shave my back it's gonna get all over my outfit no you have to
07:41put a bikini on that is not part of the wish day part of my wish i am not putting a bikini on
07:47my back with a bikini on you're already breaking the rules bikini or top was your choice
07:52if you want to make your marriage work that's what the doctor ordered
07:57do this thing
08:01wait till i get my wish day
08:06i'd love to shave you down baby
08:08i'm not talking about shaving
08:11all right get her done
08:13so why are you having me do this
08:17i'm going to take you back to the beginning when you used to really be in love with me
08:21you used to ask me all the time do you want your back shaved you want your back shaved
08:24all right
08:28i can't believe you do all this by yourself no wonder you're in the shower for so long
08:35i do more than that by myself
08:37you're done
08:40am i finished
08:41are you good
08:42do you need a towel
08:43i'm gonna go back downstairs is that all
08:55no i got my second wish
08:56what
08:57i want to go lay on the roof with you
08:59just you and me but nobody bothered
09:01okay
09:02when there's a verb we suggested maybe we should go our separate ways or maybe you should get a lawyer
09:07and maybe we should just be divorced
09:09the words were spoken
09:10yeah
09:11and was that frightening for both of you
09:13hogan knows best
09:18it's gorgeous mama
09:25yeah this is really nice up here
09:27you look very nice too
09:29thank you
09:30where have you guys been
09:32you made me shave his back in the shower
09:34we're gonna run out to lime or something grab some lunch real quick
09:36you are all right
09:37nice to see you guys relax
09:39thank you
09:40yeah
09:41it's nice to be relaxing
09:43and you guys aren't fighting
09:44actually no
09:46thank god
09:47okay brookie lunchtime
09:48enjoy your wish day dad
09:50oh
09:51i'm gonna tell you something
09:56now
10:02clear heels too
10:04you're very sneaky
10:08you're using your wish day to its fullest
10:12hello again
10:28okay so how's it been going since i saw you last tell me
10:33good
10:33we actually just kind of stopped and just had some fun
10:36i know we had discussed about some homework assignment where you were going to talk about each other's dislikes concerns your goals
10:45linda do you want to stay in the first question what couple of things make terry happy
10:52spending time quality time like we did yesterday like on his wish day and the other little thing would probably be sex
10:58i've got this huge attraction to her and i've got this huge attraction to her and i have always had it and physically you know
11:04yes i i heard that last time you spoke
11:07if she's working out the yard and she's been sweating all day and she comes in her hair is up there's something about her just being her being linda
11:14it's more exciting
11:15oh
11:16you're just being so personal
11:18it doesn't have to be this barbie doll face put on and all dressed up and now i'm linda because i'm perfect she's
11:24very attractive when she's like crazy and messed up
11:27it is nice that he actually has you know an optimistic vision of me i guess
11:32the way he sees you now it's that i think you see yourself differently which we need to talk about
11:36but i think he really sees you exactly the way you are right now
11:41what are your answers
11:43what couple of things make linda happy
11:46spending time with her animals who loves animals more than people
11:50linda is that true
11:51well i do love my animals but not more than people
11:54next question
11:56what is terry's biggest stress right now
11:59me
12:01perfect
12:02true
12:03i think he's just kind of immobilized with fear
12:06he wants his career
12:07and he wants stability
12:09and he wants me right there with him again
12:11but yet he's afraid to make a decision to do that because i might defect
12:15my decision i think means a lot to him
12:17i hope it does anyway
12:18yeah i mean if you're in the equation it does
12:21if i'm in the equation
12:22you know i kind of get to the point where i realize that you may choose not to be in the equation
12:28anymore and you may decide to take your ball and go home
12:30where is that coming from hulk
12:32it's coming from the fact that some of our arguments have been so intense that when it is verbally suggested maybe we should go our separate ways or maybe you should get a lawyer and maybe we should just be divorced
12:41so the words were spoken
12:44yeah
12:45and was that frightening for both of you
12:47for me it was
12:48i guess when you get to the middle age like you know he's 53 and i'm 47
12:51you start thinking like well if i don't do what i really wanted to do pretty soon
12:56you know when am i going to do it
12:58when i hear eye out of her mouth pertains to a single person
13:02my thoughts are my life is like all four people so i can't think of why would i want to go ride horses by myself unless
13:10all the other people were with me so that's hard for me to understand that
13:13all of a sudden there's all these things in her life that she wants to do by herself
13:17let's go to the next question
13:21what is terry's goal for the future
13:23i put down to be financially secure and still be happily married
13:28my opinion is that your goal for the future is to be happy
13:31California
13:32when you went to california the last time and you came back telling me how much you hated it
13:36you paraphrased the whole thing with i just can't be happy anywhere
13:39i don't even think being in california is going to make me happy
13:42so it made me realize it's not really california
13:45but you're trying to find somewhere where you're going to be happy
13:48maybe what we're really saying is we're trying to find you
13:52you know who you are
13:57yeah maybe that's what it is
13:58happy anywhere
13:59i don't know maybe we need another session on this one
14:02so we'll set up a time for next time
14:05yeah
14:06thank you
14:08thank you so much
14:10okay hopefully the next time won't get quite as heavy
14:13we'll be on the uh...
14:15shh
14:16that's interesting
14:18bye
14:19bye
14:20i really don't understand
14:22at all how we got here
14:24out of touch
14:25out of love
14:26and out of place
14:27losing you would be like living without ever seeing my children's face
14:30hogan knows best
14:34hogan knows best
14:36knows best
14:41it's my wish day today
14:43would you bring me some breakfast in bed
14:45is that a wish
14:47yes it is
14:48you're very cute
14:50you just like my sexy jimmy
14:52no not that just your face is cute
14:54how do you feel about me really
14:56i just woke up
14:59he's not real good at saying what i feel
15:01you know
15:02why don't you just write it all down
15:06put it into a little poem
15:09and then read it to me at dinner tonight
15:12jibody
15:13hey daddy
15:14what's up dad
15:16what are you doing
15:17today's your mom's wish day
15:20what are you gonna do for her
15:21i'm making her breakfast in bed
15:23oh
15:29jackpot
15:38brother
15:40yeah
15:42i need some help
15:44with what
15:45i'm trying to write a poem for your mom
15:47but it's not coming out that great
15:48what did you come up with so far
15:50you ready
15:51okay
15:53the first time i saw you
15:54i saw your feet first
15:56and then i saw you
15:57in the end
15:58we would turn out to be more than friends
16:00so i did a knee bend
16:02so we would stay together till the end
16:04i love you too
16:05so what you gonna do
16:07i don't know about saying something about her feet
16:09it's funny but i don't know about saying something about a bigger feeder
16:12i don't like any of it
16:13i don't like any of it
16:14no i like
16:15i like most of it
16:16come here give it to me
16:17dad
16:18starting over
16:19i asked you to dance but i want to take a chance
16:22of you making a fool out of me
16:25that's cute
16:26i like the first night we met
16:28the first night we met
16:29i knew you wouldn't regret
16:31marrying a little meathead like me
16:34you're so cute
16:36dad you ought to do a hulkamania version
16:39let me tell you something melinda
16:41i don't know i gotta think about it
16:44alright
16:46i gotta put it in my own words
16:48yeah it has to be from you
16:50thanks anyway
17:02what are you doing
17:03i have your towel for your bath
17:05you did that for me
17:06just for you
17:07can i go see
17:08yeah
17:09oh my god
17:11that's beautiful
17:15i can tell you're a little stressed
17:17oh
17:19oh
17:20this is just what i needed baby
17:21you're just
17:22so nice
17:24what are you doing
17:25i keep getting in
17:27huh
17:28i think you did this so i could soak and relax
17:31you don't want me in there
17:36i'm sorry you go ahead and have your own bath
17:39it's okay
17:41just made a mistake
17:47daddy you aren't gonna eat
17:50oh yeah a little bit
17:51you pass a napkin honey
17:53yeah
17:54thank you
17:55well i'm glad that we are all
17:57here together today
17:59because of all the
18:00craziness
18:01your mom and i have been really working hard trying to regroup and
18:04get back on track the way we've been our whole marriage
18:07well i just have to tell you guys that i've seen a humongous improvement already
18:12with you guys just going to this
18:14lady at it's been helping
18:16so it's your wish day
18:17you want to hear what i
18:18wished for my final wish of the day
18:20oh no
18:21i asked your dad
18:22to
18:23to
18:24kind of like write down
18:26how he felt about me
18:27let's hear it
18:28alright let's hear it dad let's hear it
18:29so here's kind of like how i really feel
18:31alright i'm listening
18:33i really don't understand
18:35at all how we got here
18:37why we love so much and still might fail
18:41out of touch
18:42out of love
18:43and out of place
18:44losing you would be like living without ever seeing my children's face
18:48i stand here before you
19:00i stand here before you embarrassed and ashamed
19:03asking you to love me makes me feel i fell
19:06from grace
19:09it's up to you if our
19:12it's up to you if our love rises or falls
19:15but right now it doesn't really matter at all
19:18if our love is dead
19:24i finally bow my head
19:26because being in love with you
19:28only if for a second means
19:30i'll never live to regret it
19:32that's so nice
19:41i'm sorry for all the arguing
19:49that's so beautiful
19:51i don't like these meetings
19:53these meetings suck
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