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00:00I've just fallen in love with someone from a different country.
00:13Everyone thinks it's our holiday romance.
00:18But he's so hot.
00:20I'm about to fly out to Brazil for love.
00:26Everyone just falls in love with this man.
00:29He makes me feel amazing.
00:31She's perfect for me in every single way.
00:33She's beautiful, she's smart.
00:37I am really excited now.
00:39Hello. Oh my God.
00:48We are the party people.
00:50We're really, really party people.
00:56It's true love.
00:59What could go wrong?
01:01Shit.
01:04I'm not ready to be a stepdad.
01:06The idea actually makes me feel a little bit sick.
01:09I just want everyone to be happy.
01:11Are we supposed to live together if you can lie?
01:13Oh, come on.
01:14Don't even bother.
01:15It's almost game over, isn't it?
01:17Do you think she's real?
01:19Maybe she's stringing me along.
01:20What if this ain't real?
01:21Is your sister really your wife?
01:25I'm a Muslim.
01:26She is Christian.
01:27You don't drink alcohol.
01:29I've got nothing to hide.
01:36You don't open the phone.
01:39It's a suspect.
01:41I didn't answer the phone to Jay because I was just trying to avoid another row.
01:45It is still in my head.
01:56This is it.
01:57I'm going out to meet Sandra and I'm so excited.
02:01Hugging her feels like the first time all over again.
02:05I will be now spending so much time with the kids.
02:08This is all new.
02:09He does not want to be a stepfather of your kids.
02:12How are you going to deal with that?
02:14They need a father.
02:15Abraham's been keeping secrets from me.
02:18He said he never had one.
02:20Look at his friends on Facebook.
02:22Do you know her?
02:23No.
02:24I'm going to go to the Gambia and get these questions answered.
02:27I'm worried that she's going to be heartbroken.
02:29Have you got the social media or not?
02:31No.
02:32You're lying, man.
02:33You're single.
02:34It's just a joke, man.
02:35Ain't really no joke.
02:36And I ain't happy about that.
02:37Babe.
02:38It's a joke, man.
02:39Come on.
03:03Oh, hi, Abraham.
03:04You all right?
03:05Hi, babe.
03:06I'm all right?
03:07Mm-hmm.
03:08Yeah.
03:09Have you thought about what's happened, the deception?
03:12Well, I left the room to have a bit of space for Abraham because he's put single in his
03:19social network.
03:20I don't know if he's the man who he says he is.
03:24Is he playing me?
03:25You know, I don't know what to think at the moment.
03:28Yeah, I'm sorry you were upset.
03:31Mm-hmm.
03:32The last time you left, she said I should leave you alone.
03:36So that's why I tried to go on Facebook and try to annoy you and try to convince you to
03:43come back to me.
03:44I did it as a joke.
03:48It doesn't seem a very good sort of joke, does it?
03:51Why did you say you didn't have social media?
03:54Yeah, because it was temporarily, I don't know, one month or something like that.
04:00So it was not there permanently.
04:03Or maybe I didn't delete it properly.
04:06It does sound a bit cock and ball.
04:10I'm not very good on the phones and you check and see.
04:13Yeah.
04:14No social media there.
04:16No, really, I don't have anything to hide.
04:20You see?
04:23Nothing there.
04:24Oh, it has gone then.
04:26Oh, good.
04:27It's a trust thing now, so how do I know I can trust you in the future?
04:31Yeah, you can trust me because...
04:33How do I know though?
04:34You put a doubt in my mind now and it's upset me a lot because I really love you and I don't
04:40want to jeopardise my time, my effort, my energy into you if you're not trustworthy.
04:48Yeah, of course, forgive me for these times.
04:51I think I will because I'm a forgiving person and I think we should start afresh from now on.
04:57What do you think?
04:58Yeah, of course, that will be okay.
04:59But I will be keeping an eye out.
05:01If there's any more inaccuracies with any social medias then you could be in a lot of trouble.
05:08Trouble.
05:09So be careful.
05:10I need to confront Ibrahim about these disgusting photos that I found on his social media of women scantily clad.
05:21Now, I was holding off because these photos are my prime ammunition and as a woman I'm a little bit devious and I always hold back the best till last.
05:34So, I'll be confronting them about that at the right time. We'll wait and see.
05:40I don't want to be in any trouble again. Tomorrow I'll take you to the village, to the family, to try to convince you to forgive me and then we go back to good times.
05:50Yeah, that would be good.
05:52Ibrahim's taking me to meet his family and that does mean a lot.
05:56I'm going to enjoy my time in the village but I'm also going to be looking for any other discrepancies that might come to light.
06:20One of the best moments of my life has definitely been reconnecting with Sandra.
06:34When I first met Sandra 17 years ago there was a spark but I never thought that spark would stay alive.
06:41And now I'm in Brazil after spending eight months apart so this trip will be a real test for me and for her.
06:49It's going to be the first time that I'm going to be beating all of her extended family.
06:54Embarrassing.
06:56It's also the longest time that we'll be together.
07:00Hey, saved one.
07:02Come on then.
07:03Let Julia play.
07:04Sandra's sister was meant to be looking after the kids but somehow we've ended up looking after her kid.
07:10Buy two get one free.
07:14And straight at me.
07:19Come on.
07:22It's good.
07:23What's this name?
07:24What's his name?
07:25It's so scary to me to be a parental-like figure.
07:28But if that's what Sandra wants, I'm ready to give that a go.
07:32One, two, three.
07:34Three.
07:35I should count and import skis.
07:36Uno, dos, tres, cuatro.
07:39Quick.
07:40Five.
07:41So I'll try and embrace it and we'll play a game of hide and seek.
07:45That's all I can think of.
07:47They're not here in the washing machine.
07:49Hopefully not.
07:50No.
07:51Could one of them fit under?
07:53Oh, that was good.
07:54Oh, you hid behind there.
07:56So you won.
07:57Well, you're meant to stay.
07:59You're meant to hide.
08:00My turn will win.
08:02Running around with the kids in a tiny apartment.
08:05It is chaos.
08:07It's just exhausted me.
08:10And I've got to ask myself, do I want this life?
08:16We've had two hours of this and I guess it makes me miss some aspects of normal life.
08:22It's normal for me.
08:24I think I've sort of numbed myself to it and just, you know, a bit stoic about everything.
08:30Finn's being over the top.
08:33He needs to do things like stepfather.
08:41I didn't choose this.
08:42This is the reality.
08:43There we go.
08:44Done.
08:45I chose the love of Sandra, sure.
08:47But I didn't choose anything else that came with it.
08:52Could I do this day to day?
08:53The answer is definitely not.
09:15Good morning.
09:16Good morning, darling.
09:21Me and Mete have got a fiery relationship.
09:24We argue, we make up.
09:25We argue, we make up.
09:27That's us.
09:28But I'd like to have less arguments.
09:31There's just a lot of tension this morning.
09:34Mete's being so quiet.
09:36I can tell he's still thinking about me not picking up the phones, Jay.
09:40I just want to get this resolved once and for all.
09:46I need to apologize.
09:47I should have just answered the phone.
09:49But I just worry.
09:50I want you to get along.
09:51I want you to be good.
09:53Maybe this morning we call Jay.
09:56If you want, darling.
09:58I don't want to make you upset.
10:00My first priority to you, we can talk.
10:04I do worry about the doubts that could be in Mete's mind.
10:07But I just want to prove to him that I've got nothing to hide.
10:11Let's talk.
10:13Okay.
10:14If you want, you talk first.
10:18No problem.
10:19We talk together.
10:21And I think the best thing to do is just call Jay and get this over and done with.
10:26Hello.
10:27Hello.
10:28You good?
10:29Yeah, Mete is here.
10:31Hello.
10:35Yeah.
10:38Erm.
10:39It has upset me what you think about me.
10:50Oh, yeah.
10:51Yeah.
10:56How awkward is this?
10:58Do I really have to be here?
11:00I don't think about the visa any time.
11:03You know, it was only out of concern for Shannon and making sure that she was all right.
11:09Jay, I don't understand why you worry.
11:14Shannon is my girlfriend.
11:15It is my work.
11:17It is my job.
11:18I am worried about Shannon.
11:20Why would he want the visa to come to England anyway?
11:22Look.
11:23Just looking out for you.
11:24Appreciate it.
11:25I need to explain myself.
11:27You think me wrong.
11:30Shannon my priority.
11:33I don't want to get upset Shannon.
11:36I love really Shannon.
11:37Yeah.
11:38You know, I...
11:39Obviously, I've...
11:44To be honest, that sounds really nice.
11:48Seeing that makes me go, yeah, everything's fine.
11:51Yeah.
11:52Everything's good.
11:53It's that not knowing bit which would get to see you sometimes.
11:56Yeah, that's it.
11:57Like, no one's ever met him.
11:59Same time, you and Shannon are really good friends.
12:03I don't want to damage your friendship.
12:07I want everyone is happy.
12:10Yeah.
12:11All we needed to really do was sit and talk and we've done that and it's been great.
12:16I feel better.
12:17I am explaining myself.
12:19You can't talk about me this style now.
12:21We're gonna get off.
12:23Have fun.
12:24Thank you very much.
12:25All right, see you.
12:26Bye.
12:27Bye.
12:28Now, we forgot about everything.
12:31Shannon seems now happy.
12:34Okay, if you're happy, I am happy.
12:36I love Shannon.
12:37I once spent all my life together.
12:41Now, I know what I do.
12:43It is the really big decision of my life.
12:49I am asked her.
12:50Shannon, will you marry me?
12:53It is what I want.
12:56It's a nice smiley face.
12:59I'm hoping we can just put all this behind us now and enjoy our time together.
13:04Mete's planned a little trip for us, so it'll be nice to get away for a few days.
13:09Let's go get packed.
13:11Let's go, let's go, let's go.
13:13But there are a few worries.
13:15We've managed to communicate better today, but who knows how long that's gonna last.
13:20Do you pack the bags?
13:21I am coming.
13:22What the fuck?
13:23I unpack the bags.
13:24Help me.
13:26I know we've managed to resolve this issue with Jay, but we need to keep this up.
13:30If me and Mete keep arguing, I don't know how we're gonna move forward.
13:34We can't sustain such a rocky relationship.
13:37Really, look, everything yours here.
13:40Not everything mine.
13:41Really, what's your problem?
13:43No problem.
13:44The tree doesn't get a tree.
13:51The tree don't have a tree.
14:01My name is Andrew, I'm 36 years old and I'm from Watford.
14:25I'm a software engineer.
14:27Sorry, can I stop a second?
14:30I've got a really boring job, so I don't know how to spice that up.
14:41My job definitely doesn't suit my personality.
14:45I love flying drones, I love being around nature, out in the wilderness.
14:51Any chance I get to have an adventure, I'm always up for it.
14:56I'm probably a bit crazy, impulsive.
15:00I actually spent a year as a busker, but it's worth all of the risk for the adventures that
15:07I've had.
15:09We are recording, so...
15:12Nice.
15:13Welcome, everybody.
15:14How are you doing, Andy?
15:15Yeah, I'm not too bad.
15:17My job may be boring, but my podcast is bonkers.
15:20How many bones would you have to guess that you've broken it?
15:23I've lost count.
15:24I have brittle bones.
15:26They x-rayed my spine once and I had 118 micro-fractures.
15:31The podcast is really just two idiots in wheelchairs.
15:35Talking about everything from dating and relationships.
15:39I literally spent like a whole weekend with this girl, and then she told me she was a
15:43lesbian.
15:44Shit!
15:45To the mad adventures we've had together.
15:47Like, when was the last time you've broken a bone?
15:49Went to the bar, got my two rum and cokes, and as I was walking back, tripped over my own
15:54feet.
15:55Now, here is slightly drunk Andy's logic.
15:58I've got a skeleton that could break very easily.
16:00What am I going to save?
16:01Obviously the rum and cokes, so I like supermanned, as I felt, to try and balance these drinks.
16:08Landed face first on the floor, I don't really walk anymore.
16:12My condition hasn't held me back in life, but it's definitely held me back in finding
16:16true love.
16:21I wanted somebody to share my life with, and I started thinking about these memories
16:26of being in hospital with these amazing Filipina nurses who were just the kindest, most caring
16:30people.
16:31So I went specifically on a website that was for meeting Filipino people.
16:35And then I met Ara.
16:37The first thing I noticed was her deep brown eyes.
16:42I just thought she looked really beautiful.
16:44There was something that pulled me in.
16:47And when we started talking, she was genuinely interested in who I was.
16:50She was asking me loads of questions about my life, about my job.
16:56I told her about my disability, and her first response was, I don't care.
16:59And she was okay with it, which is, I've never experienced that before.
17:06It was very unexpected.
17:07I mean, I wasn't sure if it was genuine or just catfishing me or something.
17:11There were all these different thoughts going through my head.
17:13How are you?
17:14How was your day?
17:15Fine.
17:16What are you up to now?
17:18Nothing.
17:19But I really have fallen hard for Ara.
17:20So I have to just trust her.
17:21Your mum okay?
17:22Um, yeah, I'll be going there once this fall.
17:23As I did.
17:24Yeah.
17:25Yeah.
17:26We've never met in person before.
17:27We've only known each other just a short amount of time.
17:42But completely in love with her.
17:44All right.
17:45Okay.
17:46Mm-hmm.
17:47You wanna go?
17:48I need to take care of my mum outside.
17:51All right.
17:52How about beautiful?
17:53Okay.
17:54I love you.
17:55I told my friends and family as little as possible.
17:58A few of my close friends, I didn't know.
18:01I told my friends and family as little as possible.
18:03A few of my close friends, I didn't know.
18:06I told my friends and family as little as possible.
18:12A few of my close friends, I said that I'd met this person and I kind of downplayed it.
18:18Today, I'm meeting with my friend, Abby.
18:21Hey.
18:22Hey.
18:23You all right?
18:24How are you?
18:25Good to see you.
18:26I really value Abby's opinion.
18:28Thanks so much.
18:29Goodness for you.
18:31How have you been?
18:32Busy.
18:33Yeah.
18:34Yeah.
18:35How's Ara?
18:36She's good.
18:37Yeah, she's amazing.
18:38Like, when you first said that you were dating someone online from the Philippines, we were
18:44a bit like, oh, is this okay?
18:47Yeah.
18:48Like, a bit worried.
18:49A lot of people thought that, I think.
18:50Yeah.
18:51I've watched a lot of, like, catfish TV.
18:53Yeah, me too.
18:55Yeah.
18:56It does make me a little bit worried.
18:59Everyone's saying that.
19:01So, do you think she's real?
19:03I mean, I was a bit worried.
19:04Really?
19:05Yeah.
19:06I just thought, like, what if this person doesn't exist?
19:08But, you know, I just saw her and I thought, this is the person for me.
19:13So, I'm going to go out to the Philippines to meet her in person.
19:20Yeah.
19:21I don't know if it's brave or stupid.
19:23Uh-huh.
19:24I mean, going out to the Philippines, it is objectively mental.
19:30How long's the flight?
19:32In total, it's about 30 hours of travel.
19:3530 hours?
19:36Yeah.
19:37Andy.
19:41So, Andy and I both have brittle bones.
19:43We have had similar issues with our spines and, personally, I would never, ever go on a 30-hour flight.
19:50What's the axis like?
19:52It's not great.
19:55I can't imagine going there and just trusting someone that I've never met before.
20:00I have often been worried about Andy because he does make reckless decisions and he takes risks.
20:07I just feel like all of this is happening very quickly.
20:10I mean, it's kind of what I've always been like.
20:13I know.
20:14Yeah.
20:15I think she's understandably a bit worried that I'm travelling 30-plus hours across the world on my own in a wheelchair to go and meet somebody that I've never met in person before, but...
20:30So much that could go wrong and so many risks.
20:35Is it worth it?
20:37Yeah.
20:38I know that sounds crazy, but...
20:41Yeah.
20:42If you love somebody, you love somebody.
20:44You can't help that, no matter how crazy it is.
20:46I think tonight will be fun though.
20:47Did you get a cake?
20:48I think I also got a cake.
20:49That's good.
20:50Tonight, we're going to a family barbecue.
20:51It's her sister's birthday.
20:52I'm gonna be beating lots of family members for the first time.
20:53I do have some nerves here because I've got to try and speak some Portuguese.
20:55I know very little.
20:56I am really worried about it and I don't want to let you down.
20:57That's the main thing.
20:58That's the main thing in the whole world.
21:00I do have some nerves here because I've got to try and speak some Portuguese.
21:04I think tonight will be fun, though.
21:06Did you get a cake?
21:07I think I also got a cake.
21:09Tonight, we're going to a family barbecue.
21:11It's her sister's birthday.
21:13I'm going to be beating lots of family members for the first time.
21:16I do have some nerves here because I've got to try and speak some Portuguese.
21:20I know very little.
21:22I am really worried about it, and I don't want to let you down.
21:25That's the main thing in the whole world.
21:29I really love Sandra.
21:30She brings an awful amount of joy, happiness, and I want to impress Sandra's family.
21:37Ten minutes, and we'll be there.
21:39Ten minutes.
21:40Si.
21:42When coming here, I want him to spend time with my family and my kids.
21:50Hello.
21:52At the end of this trip, I hope he can decide this is the place he wants to be.
21:58Hello.
21:59Good to see you again.
22:00Good to see you.
22:01Hello, hello.
22:02I have a huge family.
22:05I wish him all good luck.
22:08Wow.
22:17What are they singing?
22:27it's her birthday yes
22:30that's everyone right there's no one else oh it's another one going to appear to the walls
22:40it's just a sea of people i don't know the place i don't know the language
22:49this is totally not my world whatsoever and breathe
22:54it's unusual this that's a lot of people should we sit down
23:01i'm just gonna hide here when i'm with my family i like to spend time with him i and fin just sit
23:12on the sofa i don't want to do that what's the uh wi-fi password and he is here in brazil
23:19he needs to communicate with my family he needs us too much
23:24the brother yeah erasmus he is full on and we've got a whole night of this
23:38i'm staying on this couch i'm staying right here
23:51absolutely humiliating i didn't expect it i didn't want it and the sooner we forget about that the
24:10can you stay for a little bit it's quite hard work this i'm really not feeling comfortable enough to
24:22interact with everyone so far our brother's come along he's picked me up there's a lot just dealing
24:27with him i just need to take stuff and breathe yes i know but at this stage it's difficult saying that
24:36now i can't just learn portuguese in a night i'm in the city i'm really struggling because i need you
24:44like i've never needed you so this is how it's gonna be
24:49can you do that no but i don't think i have a choice yes i'm sorry just stay for a little bit
24:57because really my heart rate is still going there's a lot going on finn's being very dramatic
25:03he didn't try and i didn't like that
25:07honey this is how my family is it's either sink or swim and and at the moment i'm sinking
25:13don't leave me i'm properly scared i use laughter as a defense mechanism when i feel uncomfortable
25:20i laugh when i think something's funny i laugh there's no difference
25:23i want to go there eat deal with my family oh dear
25:29sandra's just run away which is genuinely annoying because gotta fend for myself
25:36i'm annoyed with sandra that she's just done that i need her
25:40if i could get off this sofa now and run i would
25:45oh my days oh everyone rushing late i'm so busy oh my days we're on the ferry to meet
26:14ibrahim's family i'm meeting them for the first time so i'm really excited
26:19but i'm also on a mission looking for anything that would lead me to believe that he's not
26:25been honest with me
26:26i can't wait to see my room my room that you made for me because i'm excited
26:31ibrahim's built me a room in his house and i think that's really sweet and i can't wait to see it
26:46it's going to be amazing
26:59as you can see it's still not really really a lot of things to do
27:07but god is great maybe very soon i'll able to finish it
27:12he shall
27:13oh isn't it lovely oh look
27:22i'm glad we're here it's a long journey on that boat
27:31does your family speak english though english no
27:34oh wow this is good
27:40i've never had such a warm welcome
27:55they seem so lovely
27:56where shall i sit
27:58i can see my family they are very happy to see zena
28:05and i think she will like it in the village
28:10so can i give you a photo
28:12yes
28:13yes definitely
28:16let's have a look
28:17let's go ahead yeah
28:18not many boyfriends would build a room would they for their girlfriend
28:22i'm really excited to see my room i can't wait
28:26where is it
28:27let's go that's it there
28:28what this one
28:29yes this one
28:31oh are you joking
28:33is that it
28:36sorry it's not ready
28:38when it's finished it's going to be perfect
28:42i'm upset
28:46i am a bit it's just like a shack
28:49why hasn't it got a roof
28:51why hasn't it even got a window
28:53is it going to have a window
28:55of course yeah
28:56i wasn't expecting buckingham and palace or anything like that but
29:01when are you going to get it finished
29:04when
29:06it looks like ages
29:09finances was the main issue man
29:17i know
29:18we'll see what we can arrange financially
29:19maybe
29:21i still need
29:23two thousand pounds
29:25windows roof
29:27yeah
29:27the bathroom there behind
29:29what ensuite
29:30i think she can help me a bit there to finish the room
29:35you're just going to have to get your finger out and get it finished
29:38asap because this is a huge disappointment for me
29:42oh
29:42very sorry babe
29:44can you show me where the toilet is
29:49yeah follow me
29:50okay
29:51is it a long way
29:53no
29:53oh that's the toilet
29:56toilet yeah
30:00oh
30:01you're joking
30:03what do you think
30:04no
30:06i can't
30:08this is a local trolling man
30:11local
30:11why did
30:12if i sit down i won't be able to get up again
30:15what if a gecko comes crawling around
30:18nibbling up my bum
30:19what do i do then
30:21first impression
30:23no
30:24didn't know it was like this
30:25man
30:26okay
30:26i like authentic
30:27but that's
30:28i'm thinking of what is going to be my backup plan
30:32really my best bet would be for me to go wee in a jug
30:35because i can't sit down or stand over that
30:38i would need a jug
30:39wee in a jug
30:41and tip it down
30:41so have you got a jug
30:43a jug
30:45a jug
30:45you know like a jug what you cook with or you tip with
30:48if i'd have known i'd have brought one with me
30:50i am a lady of a certain age
30:52and i don't know how i'm going to manage
30:56because i will need to go to the toilet more than once in the night
30:59i'm not feeling it
31:02no
31:06it's pissing it down
31:26it's not a really good start to the trip
31:29me and messe are going on a trip
31:32he's organized it all so i have no idea what he's got in store for us
31:36i am scared
31:39i love all-inclusive hotels spas all that kind of thing
31:44i'd love to be on a beach right now sipping a cocktail in the sun
31:49just went where is he
31:51oh
31:52hello
31:59i love it
32:04oh my god look at this
32:08she's absolutely like the caravan this is the really good way the holiday amazing amazing
32:15yeah can i see inside
32:17yeah okay
32:21oh my god
32:24this is not my cup of tea
32:26small though how we had together this space
32:31we're gonna have to keep each other happy and positive
32:34if we have an argument there's nowhere to go
32:38no problem darling we make good holiday together
32:42let's go co-pilot
32:49please don't crash this caravan
32:51why you say it in our negative just i want this holiday we make the good holiday you don't
32:57make me arguing
32:58i make us arguing i don't make an argument i don't we don't argue this this trip okay promise
33:04promise promise yeah okay okay we see
33:09be careful i am careful
33:15i don't think you understand this map
33:19i don't think you understand this map
33:21how you know
33:22how you know
33:23bad
33:24right
33:25you just say turn right here
33:28okay okay you are the boss i am listening you and you say to turn around do this do this do this
33:35do this
33:36methe is not helping me at all
33:38okay look the fucking map
33:39methe i don't know
33:41i don't know
33:42he's not listening to me
33:44really you fuck this map
33:47okay
33:48at this rate i don't think we're ever gonna get there
33:52oh
33:54what
33:55ah
33:56if you don't look this map really don't hear this map
34:00hey who is that the arguing first i am glad i am glad i am glad i am glad
34:14maybe we find a good idea here we look here
34:17no one here
34:18no what yeah we don't need any water
34:21um
34:24uh
34:25this campere looks really great
34:28fishing jump
34:30amazing will calm no anyone here
34:35just shannon and me
34:37okay
34:38okay
34:42when i imagined the caravan trip in turkey i thought of beaches sun
34:48this isn't what i thought of at all
34:50oh it's tiny in here shannon going the mood slowly slowly because smaller they are she's
35:04stressed now if you know if we booked the hotel they already make the bed come down darling we
35:11are here just on the nature calm relax please you don't like the camping life if there's no rain
35:18it's not muddy really good I don't like the rain I'm coming to Turkey for no rain
35:41I'll just eat behind here this barbecue has gone from bad to worse so I'm just
35:48left me to fend for myself I'm really struggling
35:54he needs to communicate with my family and my sister wants to have a chat with him
36:01she wants to know what he's really intention with me
36:06hey hello can I have a conversation with you depends what about
36:10I'm a little bit worried because she gonna tell him a lot of things that he doesn't want to hear
36:17you know I'm very protective with Sandra right I just wanted to be sure that what do you want with her
36:28this is Sandra's closest sister and Heloise are coming in like that it's now put me right on edge
36:34you don't like kids and she has two kids well I think my reservations around having kids are
36:42just so many
36:46I've never had that desire or drive like I would never see myself as Lorenzo and Elisa's dad
36:54what's that father I don't think I would want that either but you need to accept her with her kids
37:02you are going to be responsible for them as well
37:07the most important thing is to think about that she has kids but I don't know if he's going to embrace
37:12this it's not only about you
37:14I feel like this is becoming a grilling and I'm not ready for this I'm very worried about how it would
37:22pan out there's also culture difference as a language I don't see too much effort for me to
37:28learn you only speak in English yeah even with my family I'm really worried about it you know our
37:35history right yes and my mother had nine nine children and so I think Sandra would like to have
37:43more kids with you really has she said I don't yes she did that's a surprise to me yeah but she said
37:55I feel like I've signed up to something I didn't know I'd been signed up to the impression I got is
38:00it's just different I don't think I can make any decisions now this relationship has taken a step back
38:07Heloise has put a lot of doubts in my head they've been with her for two years
38:13and you did not sure about what you really want but you are in doubt but I think that I can't give
38:20what everyone wants straight away because it wouldn't be realistic I can't be rushed in a
38:24situation like this and I feel like the more people that rush me the worse it will get it will push me
38:29away Sandra is more decided that's why I want her to suffer there is no there is no rule book for this it's
38:37small stages need to more efforts if you cannot I don't think our family will accept you okay
38:47you're not convincing us my family and I that you really accept our culture Sandra's kids
38:54it's not a relationship I don't believe in this guy to be honest I don't believe him
39:00think about
39:07this feels like judgment day she's saying that I've made no effort tonight and that's tough because I
39:15think I've put in enough the biggest thing that's come from all this is Heloise drops the bombshell
39:22that Sandra actually wants more kids there's a lot to think about and if I'm honest I'm not
39:28sure how I feel about where this relationship is going to go
39:43you think this rain it is the fire
40:01it's raining the sky's gray it's miserable and depressing
40:06I just feel like I'm back in England what do I look like the barbecue breakfast no maybe you
40:12watch anyone here we go again why is everything got to be an argument oh fire stop it is dying
40:21just die because you are really talking too much
40:27medium medium yeah medium you think you are in the steakhouse yeah oh my god oh my god really
40:35Shannon going to stress darling what are you doing one's a boot one's a shoe really good idea
40:43I think this is hard for Shannon it is really wet it is really cold it is coming on
40:51but we are together now cheers we will be happy do you know would you rather no
41:02basic one would you rather have bad sex all your life when you want yeah other one what is the other
41:11one i am choosing
41:15or best sex of your life really amazing sex
41:21every five year
41:25can we make cheating me and mette have so much more fun when we're not arguing
41:30i wish it would always be like this
41:35car coming
41:39he has flashed his light look look look look yeah you know what this mean in england no
41:46we call dogging in england
41:50dogging what really i don't know i am think just dogs woof woof
41:56this mean car sex that's lighter than the sex any yeah we're not doing that
42:02now i am show you my flashing light better than your flashing light
42:09we don't want to join them turn your light off it means that we want to join them
42:13you want the chamois no good turn off our light that's meaning turkey not the sex anything
42:23just we are doing the doggy
42:25does it count if it's in a caravan
42:34really cold now maybe we draw inside this
42:38you don't want to make no i don't want to make
42:52you turn off this light that's mean that what does mean this huh
42:57it's not we're not doing that tonight yeah turn off
43:13you don't want to make no way to do it
43:21today i'm flying halfway across the world to the philippines
43:26aaron and i have never met
43:30i'm terrified but i need to know if it's real
43:36the accessibility in the philippines outside of manila is not great
43:44all right gov he throw yeah it's a less developed country very provincial
43:52the roads are barely good enough for cars they're definitely not good enough for wheelchairs
43:56ever been to the philippines before uh okay i think a lot of people were very cautious and i've
44:04never had that in me the kind of life i've lived with having a disability and everything you sort of
44:09take chances when you can because you don't know when your next chance is going to be
44:20i can't wait to be there my parents were always worried because of my condition and they don't
44:25want me to have any fractures or accidents away from home but i think as i've got older they've learned
44:30that they can't really stop me from going anywhere so i'm coming to the philippines
44:40this is all a bit mad i have no idea if aaron's going to be there when i get there
44:45well i don't know what i'm going to do if she's not there
44:47actually i've probably sort of missed through a bit when we follow jackson played
44:52bless me that
45:17It's taken me forever to get through customs and baggage.
45:24The airport's insane.
45:30It's noisy, chaotic, and I can't find her anywhere.
45:39Nothing, and there's no Wi-Fi at the airport.
45:42My phone won't connect to any of the networks.
45:45No free Wi-Fi, no signal.
45:51So I can't call her.
45:53Absolute nightmare.
45:57What's she in here?
45:59What if this ain't real?
46:06I've been on two planes and nearly 30 hours of travel.
46:13Um...
46:16Yeah, I can't see her.
46:20I have no hotel.
46:23I am...
46:26screwed, basically.
46:27I can't see Ara.
46:29I'm really worried that she's not going to show up.
46:31Maybe she was stringing me along the whole time.
46:33What happened?
46:34Shorna, don't respect me.
46:35Like a partner, like a boyfriend.
46:36She's so fucking rude.
46:37This is extremely hard for me at the moment.
46:38I don't want to lose, Adnan.
46:39For me, everything is done.
46:40What are you doing?
46:41Saying to you, stop!
46:42I am really angry.
46:43Mete doesn't listen to me.
46:44My toes nearly under the wheel.
46:46If you don't have the good communication,
46:47I can't ask her, will you marry me?
46:48What does your nephew call you?
46:49He called me Farah.
46:50What the fuck?
46:51He called me Farah.
46:52He called me Farah.
46:53What the fuck?
46:54He called me Farah.
46:55What the fuck?
46:56He called me Farah.
46:57What the fuck?
46:58He called me Farah.
46:59What the fuck?
47:00He was stringing me along the whole time.
47:01He was nearly under the wheel.
47:02If you don't have the good communication,
47:04I can't ask her, will you marry me?
47:06What does your nephew call you?
47:08He called me Farah.
47:09What the fuck?
47:10Certain things I don't think are adding up.
47:13Oh, I'm struggling.
47:16Oh, mate.
47:17Ah!
47:18There's a cockroach.
47:19That could have gone right up my vagina.
47:31The croach.
47:32The flaach.
47:33The fast.
47:34Oh, my bad.
47:37Yes, its heaven Shawn, the fash.
47:39Ouch.
47:40Oh, my love.
47:41There's a diiance.
47:42Oh, my Lord.
47:44There's another man who thinks he says,
47:45Where else your nephew call you.
47:47All right.
47:48There's a rigorous dab.
47:49There's a little bit.
47:50Something that exists...
47:51There's a lot.
47:53All right.
47:54Thatlliarn.
47:55I, normal.
47:56Got nothing.
47:57Never.
47:58Why was my nephew here?
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