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05:59Yeah, it was a really nice night, really nice
06:02I feel really lucky to have met him, really lucky
06:06He's just...
06:41I don't think they're going to be as good, but I always show them how it's done
06:45After a game, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good, good game this week guys, cheers, cheers.
07:09I deserve that.
07:16My mate, Che, is...
07:18He's like a big brother.
07:20You know, the door's always open.
07:21Like, you can come round when you want.
07:23I always count you as one of my closest friends.
07:25And I just see you as someone I know.
07:28You know I love you?
07:30Yeah.
07:30You could come round a little bit more.
07:32I know, I should do.
07:33But then, cos I'm in a relationship that's long distance,
07:37I want to FaceTime him and spend time with him.
07:39But the jealousy thing is a big issue.
07:42Yeah.
07:45Mete gets quite jealous about other boys.
07:49It is really just being around lads.
07:51That's going to cause some problems.
07:53Especially when I talk about Jay.
07:55How would Mete feel about you being out with me tonight?
07:59Yeah, that.
08:00Mete's not the biggest fan of my and Shannon's friendship.
08:03It's probably just because we're so close.
08:06I've known you for five years.
08:08I was here first.
08:09But then, I do actually really love him.
08:13Yeah.
08:14Yeah.
08:14You're going to make me handsome, yeah?
08:38Hi, guys.
08:42I am Mete.
08:43I am the 32.
08:44I am from Turkey.
08:49I'm the positive person.
08:51I like the smile because life is short.
08:55We don't need the stress.
08:57Hello, my friends.
09:00I love boxing.
09:02I love all the sports, actually.
09:08But boxing works to all our muscles.
09:15I work to a lot of hotels with entertainment team.
09:19We have a really good time.
09:21We are the party people, really, really party people.
09:28I used to go out with my friends.
09:32But now, not too much.
09:35Because I meet Shannon.
09:41Shannon, my love, darling.
09:44She is coming to the reception.
09:49All my work friends say, oh, good, beautiful girl coming now.
09:54I am saying, guys, it is mine.
09:57But Shannon, not like other English girl.
10:01You want to come, go out, drink?
10:04She say, no.
10:05Everyone try.
10:06No, no, no, no.
10:08But eventually, she said yes to me.
10:17Me and Shannon, really similar.
10:19We both like the travel.
10:21Oh, my God.
10:23We both like the history.
10:24We both like the onion and garlic.
10:27Do you know, too many people don't like the smell, but we both like the onion.
10:33I love everything about Shannon.
10:35Very hard ways, guys.
10:36Sometimes, argument is really, really big because I am jealous.
10:45What does make me jealous?
10:47Everything makes me jealous.
10:49Anyone interested in my girlfriend, I am jealous.
10:52My girlfriend, who had really, really sexy, I am jealous.
10:57Going out with the guys, I am really jealous.
11:01We have later a big problem.
11:06I love showing off, and I love looking perfect, and I love mirrors.
11:19But sometimes when I look in the mirror, I think, I wish I was born rich instead of beautiful.
11:25But you can't have it all, can you?
11:26Yeah.
11:32My name's Zena, and I live in Oxford, Surrey.
11:34And Oxford, Surrey's a very nice place to live.
11:37My favourite music is reggae music.
11:49I listen to classical music.
11:51I listen to soul.
11:54I listen to jazz.
11:57I just love music, full stop.
12:01I mean, look how old she is.
12:06I've known Lisa about 48 years.
12:10I'm waiting to get my teeth screwed in.
12:12Oh, God.
12:13I've had the screws put in.
12:14Very painful, very painful.
12:16I'd rather give birth ten times than have them screws in.
12:19I've had a few procedures, you know, boob job, tummy tuck, nose job.
12:24I'm just about getting screw-in teeth, so I'm a bit of a bionic woman.
12:29You're like next Kris Jenner.
12:31I'm sure.
12:34Any more surgery on the cards?
12:37Bum lift, fanny tuck?
12:39I thought about a design of a vagina, but I did go and see a doctor,
12:44and on examination he said, no, no, no, you can't do nothing with it.
12:47No.
12:49You're glamorous.
12:51You are, you're in good nick.
12:52Trust me, you are.
12:53A fella could meet you in here tonight,
12:55and you fall in love and live happily ever after.
12:57Yeah, but I don't really fancy men my own age.
13:00Yeah, I'm 65.
13:01You don't look it.
13:06Men in their 60s, I'm not attracted to.
13:09They're all bald and got big fat guts.
13:11They're like washed up coleslaw now, I don't like them.
13:14And I don't really fancy young men either, so I like an in-between.
13:18A lot of young men have got auntie fetishes.
13:20Shut up.
13:21No, it's true.
13:22I've never heard that.
13:23Yes, you can Google it.
13:24Google it.
13:25Google it, yeah.
13:26Now, please go through my phone.
13:27Ha!
13:29I have met someone.
13:30Right.
13:31And it's really nice.
13:32Any pictures of him?
13:33Look on my phone and see if you can find Ibrahim.
13:37I can't find him.
13:39E?
13:40Yeah, E.
13:41E-B-R-I-H-A-M.
13:43Oh.
13:45Oh, my God.
13:46Ha, ha, ha!
13:47How old is he?
13:4844.
13:50Your daughter's older than that?
13:52Yep.
13:54Never mind tit procedures and neck lifts.
13:56You need to get that sorted.
13:58Does he work?
13:59He's a waiter in a hotel.
14:01Where?
14:02In the Gambia.
14:03Ibrahim lives in the Gambia, and I met him when I was in Africa on holiday.
14:13He asked me out a few times, and I thought, oh, he's rather nice, he's tall, he's handsome.
14:18And we had a few dates, and we've had a relationship ever since.
14:22Zina.
14:23Hmm?
14:24You're travelling halfway across the world for a bit of cock.
14:26Ha, ha, ha!
14:28You not, huh?
14:29Hi, Ibrahim.
14:30Looking well.
14:31What have you been doing?
14:32Ibrahim's 20 years younger than me, so there is an age gap.
14:33I'm missing you.
14:34Are you missing me?
14:35Of course.
14:36But I don't really see it as an age gap, because he has a very high intellectual
14:54out-view on life.
14:55Still hot there, then?
14:56Yeah, it's hot.
14:57He speaks Arabic, French, English, and Gambian.
15:02Very good, very good, we like this one.
15:05And he's extremely fit, and so yes, I'm very attracted to him.
15:10When I put a few posts up on my social media, a lot of people said, oh, you're just a visa
15:17vagina, you're just a sex tourist.
15:20Bye-bye, then.
15:21Love you, bye-bye, bye-bye, bye-bye.
15:23No, I'm not a sex tourist.
15:25Because if I wanted to get sex in England, I could.
15:28Even at my age.
15:30Hello, Mum, it's me.
15:35I've got your shopping here.
15:37I'm going to see my mum.
15:39Yeah, I've got you some milk and bread and, you know, odds and ends what you have ham.
15:43That's what I want.
15:44That's what I want.
15:45Mashed potato.
15:46I've got to take her shopping.
15:48Oh, I'm gagging for me cup of tea.
15:49Yeah.
15:50I've done myself a wine.
15:51Have a little chat with her.
15:52See, let me put it down.
15:53Okay.
15:54She's going blind.
15:55She's 95, so she can't really do her own cleaning.
15:59So, later on in the evening, I'll clean all her flat for her.
16:04Are you still seeing Mushteen, Gambier?
16:07Ibrahim, his name is, he's nice.
16:09He's such an ugly bloke, Xena, when I see his picture.
16:15Mum's really rude and a lot of people say she might have dementia, but she's got no dementia whatsoever.
16:21It's just always the way she's been.
16:24I think he's good looking, myself.
16:25Oh, yeah.
16:26Well, you must be bloody blind then.
16:28You must have shit in your eyes if you think he's nice looking.
16:31That's rather rude.
16:33Ibrahim is definitely not my mum's type.
16:36My mum only really likes men that are English or men that she's known all her life, really.
16:44I would like you to meet Ibrahim, Mum, because you've got the wrong idea of him.
16:48He's a very, very, very nice man.
16:50I'm 20 odd years older, but he treats me like a queen.
16:55He does everything for me.
16:57Age is no...
16:58What's the name nowadays?
16:59I don't take any notice of age.
17:01Look at all the old ladies, got young men.
17:03Yeah.
17:04Wish I could get one.
17:05Well, come to Africa and you can get one.
17:07No!
17:08The only thing you've got to be careful of is if you did go there,
17:10is you get a lot of geckos running across your feet.
17:13What are they?
17:14I don't know, they're like rubbery and they run across your feet like that.
17:17Are they alive?
17:18Yeah, they're alive.
17:19Good.
17:20So when are you going back then?
17:21Soon.
17:22Soon as I've sorted all the flights out on that.
17:25I'm going to miss you if you go.
17:27I really will.
17:29I've got to go and see it through.
17:32You think you'll marry him?
17:34I hope you don't, but...
17:36Well...
17:37I love him.
17:38No!
17:39I can read between the lines.
17:43She says she loves him and all that, but...
17:46I don't think she does.
17:48Not really.
17:49Nothing won't come of her with him.
17:52I hope it does for her sake.
17:54I really do.
17:55Because I love her.
17:56I love her to bits.
17:57But...
17:58Nah.
17:59Hi, I'm Shona.
18:00I'm 45.
18:01Age is just a number.
18:02I don't feel like I'm going to be my son.
18:03I don't know.
18:04I feel like I'm going to be my son.
18:05I love her.
18:06I love her.
18:07I love her.
18:08But...
18:09I love her.
18:10I love her.
18:11I love her.
18:12I love her.
18:13Hi, I'm Shauna, I'm 45.
18:28Age is just a number.
18:30I don't feel like I'm in my 40s.
18:33The secret is going to the gym,
18:36eat healthy, don't drink, don't smoke, and a lot of water.
18:43When I have my daughter at the age of 21,
18:45it looked like I was 15, 16,
18:48so I used to get all the looks,
18:50I'm like, I'm actually old enough to have a child.
18:58Aww, I'll be there soon, don't worry.
19:02I met Adnan on holiday.
19:04He's from Albania but working in Greece.
19:07I went to Kos last year
19:09and the hotel that we stayed in, he worked there.
19:12I had problems with my keys to get in
19:15and he came over, he helped me.
19:17From there we start texting and stuff like that.
19:20You look so beautiful.
19:22Oh, thank you, babe. Thank you.
19:25This is something I would never do
19:27but we went out together in town.
19:29He was so warm, loving.
19:31He hold my hands right throughout
19:33and I've begun to have feelings for him.
19:36I know it sounds strange though
19:38in that short time period
19:40but yeah, it does happen.
19:42Love you.
19:44It was the best time of my life.
19:49We were all over each other.
19:50We were touching, kissing, hugging.
19:53There's a lift to get to the rooms
19:56and every time we go in that lift
19:57and we get up to stuff in the room.
20:00In the room.
20:02Our relationship was quite physical
20:05because obviously he's young, he's 25
20:08but love is love, doesn't matter the age.
20:12It just felt real.
20:18Myself and my daughter, Kayla,
20:20we're like sisters.
20:23You are a MILF.
20:25I love my mum.
20:26It's my mum.
20:27Can't change your mum.
20:28But, you know...
20:29If you could change me, would you change me?
20:31Be honest.
20:33I would change things about you.
20:34You're like the girl with a banging body.
20:37She's not sure about Adnan
20:39but they would like her to support me
20:41with the person I love.
20:42Women over 40 do have a life.
20:44Of course, I never said that.
20:46Why can I not take a chance in love?
20:48Because he's 25.
20:50OK.
20:51Age is just a number.
20:53OK, sugar mama.
20:54Sugar mama?
20:55How am I a sugar mama?
20:56You're going to be his sugar mama.
20:57To be honest, I don't care about the age.
20:58I've never felt this way about anyone else before.
21:01Even... Yes.
21:03Oh.
21:04And even though he's young, I don't see age.
21:06I see his personality.
21:07When's the last time you saw him?
21:09August, last year.
21:10August.
21:11You think that he's been syllabate from August to now?
21:13Of course.
21:14Yes, he has.
21:15Yes.
21:16How do you know?
21:17Because we speak every day.
21:18I just think that you're living in a fairytale.
21:23I'm being serious.
21:24I just think there's going to be drama
21:25because he doesn't know the real you.
21:28What is the real me?
21:30Like, the real you.
21:32Be prepared.
21:33He might have some secrets.
21:34When you meet someone for the first time,
21:36they're always going to be their best version of themselves.
21:39Or, you know, he could be a murderer.
21:41You don't know that, though.
21:42You don't know nothing about him.
21:43Do you know what I mean?
21:44This is what happens, people.
21:45You hear it all the time on TikTok.
21:47You might be hiding something.
21:49Because you're hiding something.
21:58Hey, Ben.
21:59How was your day?
22:00It's been really hard because a long-distance relationship
22:02can be quite tedious.
22:03Have you had something to eat?
22:06To me, this is not enough.
22:08Yeah, I eat spaghetti.
22:11Something inside me wanted more
22:13and I realised that Adnan couldn't fill that void.
22:16And...
22:18I've met someone.
22:22It's just, like, different feeling.
22:27He protects me.
22:28He shows me unconditional love.
22:32And I know that he's there for me all the time.
22:35Who is he?
22:40He's God.
22:42I'd become a Mormon.
22:50He will lose the bands of death
22:52and bear sins of his people.
22:55Those who repent are baptised.
22:58I want a church that was family-orientated.
23:00And one day I was on social media
23:02and saw this post from the Mormons
23:04and they kind of draw me in.
23:08Filthiness cannot inherit the kingdom of God.
23:12To be a Mormon,
23:13I had to re-evaluate my life.
23:17Oh, it was fun being a party girl.
23:20Drinking, the attention,
23:23my bum, tits, everything on show.
23:27But my days are part and it's over.
23:30The Mormons believe that we have to just keep our body pure.
23:36We can't have alcohol.
23:39Cigarettes.
23:41And I have to keep my chastity.
23:43I have to keep my chastity.
23:52Obviously, I'm in a relationship with Ivan,
23:55but he's not aware that we can't have sex anymore.
23:59I'm in.
24:00I need to tell Mete that I was out with the lads last night,
24:14and I am getting a bit nervous.
24:27Last night felt like a dream.
24:30I had a good time.
24:31Yeah, well, it's nice to see you.
24:32I know, well.
24:33Did you tell Mete that you were out with the lads last night?
24:37No.
24:39Right.
24:41It shouldn't be an issue.
24:43Well, no, you should be able to go for a pint with your mates.
24:46Yeah, exactly.
24:49Howard?
24:50Oh, he's calling.
24:51I'm just going to...
24:53I'll be back in a bit.
24:55See you in a bit.
24:56See you.
24:59Are you OK?
25:00We live next door to each other.
25:03Yeah, I can hear you breathing from your bedroom.
25:05Stop listening to me breathe, you big weirdo.
25:08I'm good. How are you, darling?
25:11Well?
25:13Yeah, how's your day going?
25:15Really good. Your day? How is your going?
25:18Really good, darling.
25:20Really good.
25:22When Mete and I first met,
25:24his English wasn't as good as it is now.
25:26He's definitely improved loads since we first met.
25:30What are you doing?
25:32I am sitting on the coffee, darling.
25:34I think he's just got comfortable with talking English to me.
25:37You miss my face.
25:39True, darling.
25:41Where have you been before?
25:43We are... I'm just in the J's.
25:47What happened?
25:49Nothing, darling.
25:50Why? What's wrong?
25:52Did I say anything wrong?
25:54No, darling.
25:55I'm wondering if his mood's off
25:57because I've just left J's house, maybe.
26:00What did you do last night, darling?
26:03Last night, we all just go play the football.
26:06Anything else?
26:09No.
26:10I don't really want to cause an argument,
26:13so I'm not going to mention I was with a load of guys.
26:16You want to say anything?
26:18I don't think so, darling.
26:20You don't think so?
26:22I think so, darling.
26:26Jealousy is obviously a big part in long-distance relationships.
26:31You're not with that person.
26:33You don't know what they're up to, what they're doing.
26:35What happened last night?
26:37We all go to pubs, celebrate.
26:39With the girls?
26:42I am just with the lads.
26:44Eh?
26:45With the boys' team.
26:50Not good.
26:53Really cold on the football.
26:57It.
27:00It comes with the long distance.
27:02If you don't want to talk to them, you close the phone,
27:03or if you don't want to reply to the message, you don't reply.
27:07You're not just in front of that person.
27:09You have to confront it.
27:11In four days, I'm going back.
27:13I do think this trip is going to be really important.
27:16If me and Mete can't work on our communication,
27:19I don't know how this is going to go forward.
27:33If I feel stress, I am boxing with my cousin.
27:43His name is UÄŸur.
27:45Also, he is my best friend.
27:47Good training today, guy.
27:50How is your English girl?
27:52Shannon.
27:54She is good, but I am jealous.
27:55I am jealous.
27:56Tipic Türk erkeği işte.
27:58Do you trust your friends?
28:00Shannon.
28:02Yeah, I am trusting Shannon, but I am not trusting other people's.
28:06My girlfriend going out just different male.
28:10Sorry, I can accept this.
28:13You know me, I am the Türk.
28:16We say in Turkey,
28:18because the bin kişi ister, bir kişi alır.
28:22That's mean, one girl,
28:24one thousand people want this girl,
28:27just one man take this girl.
28:29Last time she called me,
28:31she had a football match,
28:33and later they have to celebrate.
28:35That's problem.
28:37Absolutely, I have trusting problem all the people's.
28:44Shannon beautiful girl.
28:46If she go out,
28:48just sitting the male friends,
28:50I make a problem.
28:52We don't make a problem.
28:54If I don't love her,
28:56I am not jealous.
28:58Shannon the same, Shannon jealous me.
29:00It is just love.
29:02It is relationship rules.
29:07I have big rules.
29:09She has rules.
29:11Last summer,
29:13Shannon get really jealous.
29:16She said, I don't want you work in entertainment.
29:19She don't want,
29:21I am meet the different girls,
29:23English girls.
29:25I say, okay, no problem for me.
29:27I am leave this Marmaris work.
29:28I am come to live in Istanbul,
29:30and don't go out.
29:32But now, I don't know.
29:36I couldn't stop Shannon going out,
29:40meet friends.
29:42But if she go out with her friends,
29:45I am going out with my friends,
29:47the party boys.
29:49I am going out with my friends,
29:51the party boys.
29:52Sachma.
29:53Ridiculous.
29:55I go out,
29:56and she couldn't stop me.
29:58Hey!
29:59Hey!
30:00You alright?
30:01Yeah, I am good.
30:02How are you?
30:03Yeah, I am good.
30:04How are you?
30:05Yeah, I am good.
30:06I am good.
30:07When I talk to my friends about Adnan.
30:09Oh, that looks lovely.
30:10Look at that.
30:12They were like, what are you doing?
30:15So you don't think he is genuine?
30:18Um, no.
30:19I don't.
30:21What?
30:22Look at that, aren't we a lovely couple?
30:24friends about Adnan. Oh that looks lovely, look at that. They were like what are you doing?
30:29So you don't think he's genuine? No, I don't. What? Look at that, aren't we a lovely couple?
30:41You might think that the connection that you two have is perfect, however...
30:48No one can tell me how to live my life. People are going to have opinions, they're going to say stuff.
30:59He'll be in the UK before you could even blink. That's good though, isn't it? No, it's not good.
31:05You don't know Adnan, you don't know a relationship, so I just don't care.
31:11How does he feel about the religion side? Oh, he doesn't know.
31:16No. What? You haven't told him? He doesn't know about that.
31:20Adnan doesn't know that become a moment. We just have to wait and see when I tell him.
31:27Obviously we can't have sex. You've been talking to him for months and you haven't
31:30brought that up in the conversation. No, I'm scared.
31:34What do you think he's going to say when he finds out? I don't know.
31:37He's not going to like it. 100%. He's 25. So when you go and see him...
31:42We can't live in the same household.
31:44What do you mean? Because we're not married, so we cannot be together in the same house.
31:49To say in the same house or to say in the same bed?
31:52Same house, we have to be married, yeah.
31:58I think he wants to go up and down in the lift. Up and down in the lift.
32:00You... Up and down, up and down, up and down.
32:03We are allowed to date. You can hold hands, but we're not allowed to kiss,
32:07because obviously kissing can lead on to other stuff.
32:09Up and down, up and down, up and down. He's going to be... He will hate it.
32:14Tell him about the religion. Tell him what to expect.
32:20You need to try and get things, um, made clear.
32:24I'd rather tell him face to face, rather than do it over the phone.
32:27It's something that's so sensitive that I have to rather go and see him and say,
32:32because of my faith, we can't have sex.
32:35So you're going to go to Greece?
32:37Yeah. Oh, okay.
32:38Yeah.
32:45Good luck.
33:02So, I am Adnan. I am 25 years old.
33:14I am Albanian, and I live in Greece.
33:18Greece has a special, uh, special place in my heart, because I meet my love here.
33:26But it's my dream to live and create life in the UK.
33:29Most of the young people are moving from Albania.
33:34We dream of the UK because money is good, uh, standard life is good.
33:40I would love to take some pictures in London Bridge, in Rochard.
33:44I would love to go in the stadium to see Arsenal.
33:49I would love to use the bus because it looks nice.
33:54I've never been, but I heard about Nando's chicken,
33:57and I would like to go.
33:59My dream, yeah, life in the UK.
34:03And now that I meet Shorna, I will come.
34:08I miss her.
34:09I miss her smile.
34:11I miss her hugs.
34:12I miss her cook.
34:14Yeah, everything.
34:16Just give me a second.
34:20Giuliano is calling me.
34:21Oh, what a star.
34:25I will smoke you.
34:29Never mind, never mind.
34:30I never did that.
34:31My best mate, Giuliano.
34:33Are you looking forward to seeing Shorna?
34:34Yeah, yeah, yeah.
34:35He was saying to me, you can find a lot of beautiful girls here.
34:38So what are you doing?
34:40Are you in love with Shorna?
34:42Unfortunately, yes.
34:44Unfortunately?
34:44Yeah.
34:45Why is that?
34:45Because she is more older than me.
34:49I like an older woman.
34:52Shorna has a sexy body.
34:54First, I saw her from behind.
34:58We have a lot of kisses, hugs, and of course a lot of sex.
35:10Cheers.
35:11If you move to London, I will go soon.
35:17So you're welcome in their house?
35:19Of course, yeah, yeah.
35:20What will be the first thing that you do there?
35:22In London?
35:23Yes, sir.
35:24Just I will go walking around.
35:26I will enjoy the town, you know.
35:30I will go on the shore.
35:31Yeah.
35:33I will eat some Nandos.
35:34Nandos?
35:34Yeah.
35:35Nando chickens.
35:35Spicy.
35:38After I will spend a lot of time with Shorna.
35:41Yeah, we will be close.
35:46Shorna is super hot.
35:50She's a good kisser.
35:55Can't wait for her.
35:57Something special will happen.
35:59Like what?
35:59Like maybe any children.
36:05Maybe any baby boy.
36:06I can't wait to spend time with Shorna.
36:13First, I will hug and I will kiss her.
36:15And in future, I will move.
36:18I will go in UK.
36:27So you packing them?
36:42I am.
36:44I've not got a suitcase big enough.
36:45How have things been?
36:49Things were looking good.
36:50Yeah.
36:50And then they've kind of...
36:52Since my phone call with Mete,
36:54he's messaged saying he now wants to spend some more time with his friends,
36:58which he hasn't done for a long time.
37:00It's just a bit childish, really.
37:03You'll get to go see your friends.
37:05I'm going to go see my friends now.
37:07Shouldn't be like that.
37:08It's almost like tit for tat.
37:09Yeah.
37:09Like, Shorna doing it, he's specifically going out and doing it.
37:13Yeah, which is just like...
37:14It's not great, like...
37:15As long as it's not a bunch of girls.
37:18Well...
37:19Being devil's advocate here.
37:21Could you not think that, you know, maybe something could have happened?
37:27But the more he tells me,
37:28oh, I'm worried about this, I'm worried you're doing this,
37:31the more I...
37:31You worry about him doing it.
37:33Yeah.
37:33Yeah.
37:34He's not answering my calls.
37:35He's not answering my texts.
37:36Maybe it's to make me jealous.
37:38Yeah.
37:39I know he is Matthew Marmaris, obviously.
37:41I know he...
37:42He worked the bar scene and, like, we've seen this, like, social media group.
37:47It's called Love After Marmaris.
37:48It outs, like, cheaters and scammers and, like, basically just, like,
37:52names and chains them.
37:53So it's like, if you just, like, have a look, like...
37:55I'm not interested.
38:00No, look.
38:01That's fine.
38:02He's not like that.
38:04But...
38:05I don't think he would be on there.
38:07Like, I don't think he's that kind of guy.
38:09I know he did the entertainment thing,
38:11but that was his first season in Marmaris,
38:13so it's not like he's got this big, like,
38:16backstory that I don't know about.
38:17He's left Marmaris as well, so, like, enough.
38:20Okay.
38:21You know, I don't want you to think I'm...
38:23Just leave it.
38:23Yeah.
38:24Just leave it.
38:26I'd describe you as, like, a little sister.
38:28Yeah.
38:29I'm there for you when you need me.
38:31Yeah.
38:32It makes you think and makes you realise, you know,
38:34how many people are out there, like,
38:38like, scamming and, you know, looking for a visa and...
38:41Yeah, that was a thought that I had, but I really don't think that he's in it for a visa at all.
38:49I do want to get him a visa to come here, at least visit him.
38:53Maybe he comes here and he finds a nice English girl and he runs off and doesn't come back.
38:59Like, what, anything's a possibility, isn't it?
39:02Yeah.
39:03You know, anything could happen.
39:04I mean, I don't think there's...
39:07I just want you to be careful and I want you to know what you're getting into.
39:11Mm-hmm.
39:12Um, yeah, just, just, you know.
39:17I'll see.
39:22Be good.
39:23Of course.
39:23And I hope you have a wonderful time.
39:25Oh, I will.
39:26Bye.
39:26Bye.
39:28Bye.
39:28Shannon, good luck.
39:32You're gonna need it.
39:39Do you think we're gonna make it on time?
39:41I'm not sure.
39:43My relationship's on the line and it's fucking snowing.
39:48Mete's got my flight details, but he's not done through my calls or texts.
39:53I'm...
39:54I'm so stressed.
40:02No answer.
40:04How far away are we?
40:05We're, er, we're getting closer now.
40:07It looks like it's stopped now.
40:17I don't want to say it's a message.
40:18I go and edit it.
40:20Mete is not answering my calls.
40:22Not hearing from him before I get on this plane is giving me heaps of anxiety.
40:29All I can hope for is that when I land, we can finally talk about the things that we need to.
40:33Oh, yeah, it's nice in here, isn't it?
40:40Oh, yeah, it's nice in here, isn't it?
40:55You've been here before?
40:56You've been here before?
40:57I've had three relationships long-term.
41:01I'll sit here.
41:02I've got four children, all grown up.
41:04That's it.
41:05Ooh, lovely view.
41:07I've got seven grandchildren and I've got one great-granddaughter.
41:11Does your boyfriend have a beach near his house?
41:14No, he lives more or less in the bush.
41:16He has to get a boat for an hour and a half to where he works,
41:19and then he's got the beach there.
41:20Where he lives, they're very poor.
41:23They don't even...
41:23The children don't even wear clothes for their boy or girl.
41:27They just wear anything.
41:27Sad.
41:28Yeah, but Ibrahim's not got kids, has he?
41:30No.
41:30Don't you think he might want kids?
41:32Well, I won't be able to have kids.
41:33Will I?
41:33Well, exactly.
41:35Do you think that's...
41:35How old is he?
41:36You could donate an egg.
41:37I don't think none of us are donating.
41:39You're crazy.
41:40How's he stayed single all this time?
41:42He's not...
41:43Because he said he hasn't got any money,
41:45so he can't have a wife or a child,
41:47because he doesn't want to have a child if he can't provide for it.
41:50No, but how do you know this relationship isn't all, you know,
41:53to get money out of you?
41:56I am a generous person, and if I think someone needs money or something,
42:00I'll give it to them, because, you know,
42:03you can only keep so much for yourself, can't you?
42:05I bought him an iPhone only because that we could contact each other,
42:09and I bought him a mattress because he was sleeping on a concrete floor,
42:13and I did send him money for his birthday and Christmas.
42:17To me, it doesn't seem like he gets a lot out of this, apart from money.
42:20Like, he doesn't have to see you for months on end.
42:22He could be doing anything out there.
42:24He's a young guy, you know, looking for women.
42:29I think that he's sort of possibly maybe even targeted you.
42:32You've got him a mattress, you've got him a phone.
42:34Where, what will you be getting him a car next?
42:39He could have four ladies exactly like you, all sending him money.
42:44He might live in a mansion in the middle of the Gambia,
42:46and he's got this little house that he's bringing you all to,
42:49doing the Poor Me Act. He could be a fraud star.
42:51That's far-fetched. What, you mean like a stage?
42:55Yeah, I'm serious, you don't know.
42:56You could be one of four.
42:58He knows I haven't got any money, because I told him.
43:01There's a lot of Gambian men that are like hustlers, and they do that.
43:05And they get a lot of women, and they get all the gifts and all the monies,
43:08but Ibrahim's not like that.
43:09I've sent Ibrahim probably about £400, but he hasn't asked for it.
43:15I volunteered to give it to him.
43:17He never asked for his mattress, but I offered.
43:20He doesn't ask for food, but I offer. He doesn't ask.
43:25I've always trusted your instincts.
43:27You are a bit of a witch sometimes with these things,
43:30but, you know, there's always that one person that gets through our guards.
43:36You can tell the hustlers, he could be one in disguise.
43:38You don't never know, do you?
43:40But I hope he's not, and I don't think he is.
43:42Let's hope not.
43:43I don't think she's thinking straight, but I hope, for her sake,
43:57he's going to, you know, prove us all wrong.
43:59If he does ask for money, that is definitely a red flag.
44:04Dear Heavenly Father once again, we come in your presence to worship and praise you.
44:14Dear Heavenly Father, once again we come in your presence to worship and praise you.
44:26I find it very soothing to read the Book of Mormon.
44:31We thank you for giving us the strength and wisdom to be where we want to be today.
44:37It just teaches us never lose faith. Whatever problems I have, I just put it to God's hands
44:42and then he will just pave a way for me.
44:51I'm getting ready, getting packed to go and see Adnan.
44:55In terms of intimacy, that's not going to go well.
45:01He's a very romantic person and it's going to be really upsetting for him.
45:08But it's about suppressing those feelings.
45:12Hopefully he can come around and understand.
45:16That is my new faith.
45:18He's Muslim, but he doesn't practice Islam.
45:24So, that's a great start for me.
45:28Because I can easily convert him to Mormonism.
45:40I'm pretty confident that he will convert to Mormonism.
45:45What is the problem?
45:47So, what have you got to say?
45:49I'm just not going to say it because I think that you are delusional.
45:54I do value Kayla's advice because in the day she's my daughter.
45:59I'll take it on board and I'll reflect on it.
46:03Just be honest.
46:04You don't take anything I say.
46:06If you listen to what I said, I said I will take it on board.
46:09I didn't say I will follow through.
46:11So, you are going to jump on a plane?
46:13Yes.
46:15And make Adnan change his God?
46:18Yes.
46:19Good luck.
46:23Christ will be born of Mary.
46:25Those who repent are baptized and keep the commandments.
46:31Now I say unto you that he must repent and be born again.
46:35For the Spirit saith, if he are not born again,
46:39he cannot inherit the kingdom of heaven.
46:44Amen.
46:49I live in a retirement flat, so a lot of people are in their 70s and even older.
47:17Oh, get out, you bastard.
47:21I am the youngest one and when I first moved there,
47:24I don't think they really liked me because I had a bit of loud music planned
47:28and I had friends in making a lot of noise.
47:30And so, they moaned about me.
47:33But since I took up the gardening,
47:35the Ellsville people really love me because they know that I keep their garden really nice.
47:39Right.
47:40Oh, hi, Ibrahim.
47:51How are you?
47:52Hi, how are you?
47:53How are you doing?
47:54Not bad, you?
47:55It's fine.
47:57Listen, your internet is going down a bit.
47:59It's always a struggle to speak to Ibrahim in the Gambia because the Wi-Fi is not really that good.
48:05Is the electricity still all right in your house?
48:08Yes.
48:09Yes, it's working.
48:11My old friend from Newcastle, you've got a speech for me.
48:14Oh, that's good.
48:15When I come, I can put all my wine in it.
48:18You should stop drinking alcohol now.
48:20I am going to stop.
48:22Yeah, I've been reading the Koran, so I might stop.
48:25I'll see.
48:26Ibrahim is a practicing Muslim, which I accept.
48:30I mean, he could have four wives and four sex slaves if he wanted to.
48:35I miss you as well, babe.
48:37It's lonely on my own here.
48:39But Ibrahim says he never would because he couldn't really put up with all the trouble that goes with it.
48:45And I forgot to tell you about earning the money to buy a taxi.
48:55How much do you need?
48:57Can I have £3,000?
49:01What?
49:04£3,000 to buy a taxi for business.
49:11Is it OK?
49:12No.
49:13A business.
49:15I told you before.
49:16I know you did.
49:17£3,000 is a lot of money to me.
49:20And even though I look like I've got money, I haven't got any money.
49:24I would like to give you the money, and I really would.
49:27It's just that, will it be a good business?
49:30Of course, yeah.
49:32How do you know?
49:33It's just a commercial taxi.
49:37Mm-hmm.
49:38Is that all right?
49:39Well, I would like to help you with the money.
49:43OK.
49:44But I don't know if I can raise it.
49:47If Ibrahim would guarantee that he would pay me back, then I might consider getting a loan and giving him the money.
49:54But if I get a loan in my name, and he doesn't, then I've got to pay it all back, haven't I?
49:59I haven't got the money at the moment.
50:04Oh.
50:05But...
50:06It's cutting off again.
50:07No, it's not.
50:08Oh, it's breaking down again.
50:09Now you're going dark and I can't see you.
50:13Wait, wait.
50:15It's cut off now.
50:16I would really like to help him, but once I've handed over £3,000, then that's gone, isn't it, from me forever.
50:28And I'd need that for my retirement, because I haven't really got much source of income coming in, so I am a bit dubious.
50:34But I would really like to help him.
50:40I definitely would.
50:55Today has been really stressful.
50:59I just want to see Mete now.
51:04This relationship means everything.
51:13Yeah, it means everything to me.
51:16I love him lots.
51:18I really love him.
51:20And I just want everything to be okay.
51:23Where is he?
51:34He's not here.
51:41It's just going to voicemail.
51:42I've called him so many times now, I can't even count.
51:48Oh, my phone's going.
51:50Hello?
51:51Hiya.
51:52He's not here.
51:53My God, that's really bad.
51:58I'm really angry.
52:00I'm really upset.
52:01But I really love him.
52:02I know, but I'm just...
52:04Connection's gone.
52:06I'm so pissed off.
52:09Humiliating.
52:10It's embarrassing.
52:12I wouldn't do that to anyone.
52:14Just leave them in a foreign country by themselves.
52:19Like...
52:21Yeah, it's...
52:23I'm trying to think of what I'm going to do, because I'm just full of anxiety.
52:27I can't even...
52:30I don't know what I'm going to do.
52:34Yeah.
52:48I just want to be happy.
53:02She has had a jealous side.
53:04We don't want that anymore.
53:06You're not convincing us.
53:08It's small stages.
53:10I don't think our family will accept you.
53:14I'm happy about that.
53:16Fuck, so...
53:18I'm travelling 30 hours across the world to meet somebody I've never met.
53:22I'm thinking that he wants to propose you.
53:25It's too rushed.
53:28She don't respect me.
53:30Loser! Loser!
53:32Are you for real?
53:34I'm reading the Quran, learning your religion, and then you're here.
53:41Make us flash these lights.
53:43This means they'll be moving.
53:45Woof woof.
53:47Oops, sorry, darling.
53:50Come on, kissy, kissy.
53:52No.
53:54Bad.
53:56Disgusting.
53:58I'm so sorry.
54:00What did your nephew call you?
54:01Frodo.
54:03Things I don't think are adding up.
54:05This could be my last chance for love.
54:07Why don't you just go...
54:09We can't have sex.
54:11What the fuck? You are joking.
54:12No.
54:13I don't know how to show affection the way that you want.
54:16Maybe he's your next door darling.
54:19I wanna go to my best friend and my boyfriend like you.
54:22I don't like you.
54:30Welcome to the day job.
54:32Will do.
54:33No.
54:37No.
54:39No.
54:41No.
54:43No.
54:45No.
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