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  • 21/06/2025
26-YEAR-OLD Eden was born with a rare condition that affects roughly one in a million people. Ullrich congenital muscular dystrophy (UCMD) has weakened every muscle in Eden’s body over time and she relies on 24/7 support from a team of PAs to go about her everyday life. On top of that, the condition has severely affected Eden’s breathing - so she relies on seven machines to keep her alive. From the ventilator rigged to Eden’s wheelchair which delivers oxygen through a mouthpiece, to a suction machine and a cough assist machine - with all the medical equipment on hand, Eden’s dad Rod describes their home as a “mini hospital.” And Eden is acutely aware of how critically important her devices are, as she told Truly: “I can get really anxious thinking about how reliant I am on machines. If a machine was to break at the wrong time, my life could be at risk.” However, her family have put in place safeguards, with backups in place for the most critical machines - “and in some cases there’s a backup for the backup” - and this has enabled Eden to live life to the full. She runs her own business from home and also creates content, raising awareness online around her condition. But she has faced backlash after disclosing that she was going through fertility testing to find out whether she would be able to have children in the future - receiving comments like: “If you can’t look after yourself, how do you expect to look after a child?” Nevertheless, Eden is determined to shift perceptions around young disabled people like herself and help others understand that she has “the same wants and needs” as anyone else. So as Eden hosts a TikTok Live Q&A around her desire to become a parent in the future, what will the response be and how will she handle the trolls if they come out in force?

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00:00I have seven machines that keep me alive. Without them I wouldn't be able to breathe.
00:04If the machine was to break at the wrong time, my life could be at risk.
00:08When you're talking about supporting someone's breathing, that is key.
00:12Currently I'm going through fertility testing to see if I can have children in the future.
00:17It's a huge conversation, but even strong. It's very strong.
00:22People online say I'm selfish and they say that I shouldn't have kids because of my condition.
00:28Today I'm going to host a live TikTok to a label outlet to clap back at the haters.
00:33Right, it's time to educate the trolls.
00:35Reggie, comment?
00:36Yeah.
00:38The day today I need help with most things, physically especially.
00:42So getting locked, getting dressed, crushing my teeth.
00:46This is Freya and she's one of my PAs.
00:49She helps me do everything I need to do physically throughout the day to live my life basically.
00:57Sit up and out of bed, it can take anywhere from three to four hours.
01:02Can get frustrated, but I think I've been doing it so long that I just get so used to it.
01:07I have Ulrich busting a dystrophy and that affects all my muscles including my breathing.
01:14So that's why I use a ventilator and also a wheelchair.
01:19Your PAs don't just come like your family.
01:21I know your deepest, darkest secrets.
01:23That's true, I know yours, I know yours.
01:29I think this is the biggest trust.
01:31Yeah.
01:32The mascara.
01:34I mean, I have poked Eden in the eye a couple of times, but...
01:37That's a chore, sir.
01:40My condition is an aggressive condition, but when I was a child I was stronger.
01:45And I could never walk, but I could sort of go around on my knees.
01:50And then as I got older I definitely got weaker.
01:53I am obsessed with shoes.
01:57I've probably got over a hundred pairs, not even joking.
02:00And that's ironic, because I can't even walk.
02:07You all right?
02:07Yeah.
02:08You got any plans today?
02:09Yeah, you do.
02:10Yeah.
02:11Take the dogs, take the dogs.
02:13Yeah.
02:13Growing up in my condition I never actually saw myself with a disability.
02:19As a child, nothing was going to stop me.
02:23If I wanted to do something, I would find a way to do it.
02:26And my parents, they never said, no, Eden, you can't do that.
02:32So one of the important things for Eden is it's her window to the world, is her phone.
02:37So that's why we came up with this bracket.
02:39So if Eden needed to make an emergency call or whatever, you've got it all there on your phone, haven't you?
02:45And more importantly, if she wants to take texts from one of her mates.
02:48Yeah.
02:49That's more important than anything.
02:50So you've got your wheelchair there, you've got your ventilator on the back of the wheelchair.
02:55I can't breathe by myself anymore.
02:59So I use this ventilator, which has been a lifeline for me.
03:05Next to her bed, Eden has a ventilator which she has overnight and a humidifier.
03:12This just makes the air that she's breathing nice and moist.
03:15I have seven machines that help support my breathing and live my life.
03:20I've got a SATS monitor, so that monitors like oxygen levels.
03:25And I've got suction machine, which allows me to keep my airway clear.
03:30This is Eden's travel suction machine that goes out wherever Eden goes, even on a walk out of the house.
03:36I've got my cough assist, which looks quite scary.
03:39This actually instigates a cough, Eden, because Eden doesn't have the power to cough deep.
03:45So I can get really anxious thinking about how reliant I am on machines.
03:51If the machine was to break at the wrong time, my life could be at risk.
03:55Every piece of medical equipment Eden has, there is a backup for that.
03:59And in some cases, there's a backup for the backup.
04:02So, you know, it might seem a little bit over the top.
04:04But when you're talking about supporting someone's breathing, that is key.
04:08I have to remind myself, I've got the backup.
04:11I've got my PAs.
04:13They know what they're doing.
04:14If I need it, they'll sort it out.
04:16I'm going to do a live on TikTok today about my, like, fertility and looking into, like,
04:24being a parent in the future and see what they've got to say about it.
04:27Recently, I've been sort of speaking to doctors and doing some various tests about fertility
04:33and all around that, because I'm 25 now and I just want to make an informed decision
04:41whether I want to decide to freeze my eggs.
04:45We don't know how, if it's at all possible physically,
04:50and there are other means of having a baby.
04:53So it's a huge conversation and a huge journey.
04:58But Eden's strong. She's very strong.
05:04Do you want your ring light?
05:10I am nervous about the comments that I might get surrounding it,
05:14because people are brutal on the internet, especially when it does the parenting.
05:20I've done a few videos on this subject before, and the comments weren't all great.
05:27Someone said,
05:28vegetables can't be choosers.
05:30So that's quite nice.
05:31Someone else has said,
05:32if you're trying to talk to yourself, how do you expect to care for a child?
05:36That's child neglect.
05:38Well, it wouldn't be.
05:40I'd make sure that child has got the right care in place.
05:44Someone's like, you shouldn't bring someone else like you into the world.
05:48You should never have been born, all of that.
05:52I like to believe that's doing liability, because people don't understand what having a disability is.
05:59And actually, you can have connections with people.
06:03It's just in a different way.
06:05Right, it's time to educate the trolls.
06:07Welcome in.
06:08Hi, hi.
06:11Oh, scrunched up.
06:13Someone's gone, Larry me.
06:15You're all right, thanks.
06:16Do you think you'd have children?
06:19So the answer is, I don't know, yeah?
06:21I need to find out if my disability needs to be passed on to a child.
06:26Oh, veggie comment.
06:28Veggie, yeah?
06:30With the bad comments, there's always a good comment.
06:33I've even had someone offer to do my sorority.
06:36It's really important to me to keep putting videos out there.
06:40Ask me whatever you want, and educate people in a nice way.
06:45See you later, guys. Thanks for watching.
06:47I hope people took away from that, that, you know, I am just like everybody else.
06:52Disability is the only minority group that anyone should look out of at any time in their life.
07:00So saying that I can't look after a baby, well, that could happen to anyone at any point.
07:08I always say I'm lucky to be born with my disability.
07:13I've actually been asked if that was a cure, would you take it?
07:18And I've actually said no, because that's not who I am.
07:22I am Eden, with my disability, and I am who I am because of that.
07:27Oh, yeah.
07:32Good afternoon.
07:33Hello.
07:34I am very, very proud of Eden in all that she does.
07:37All our friends, the one thing they've always said to us is that she's an absolute inspiration,
07:44because they do view her on TikTok, I believe, or whatever, but it's the truth.
07:50She's our favourite granddaughter. She's the only one, but she's our favourite granddaughter.
07:55I'm extremely proud of Eden. She is constantly surprising us,
08:00but just a very positive, determined young lady. I feel very, very tall when I walk out with her.
08:07I hope that people will take away from my story that disability isn't that different.
08:13You have the same wants and needs. You just do it a different way.
08:25And it's why I do it a terrific way.
08:30I think that we need to be.
08:32We need to be.
08:33I think that we need to be happy for you.
08:37Oh, thank you very much.
08:38I'm very happy.
08:40This is why I'm very happy.
08:41This is why I can't say.
08:45I'm so happy to be happy with you.
08:47I'm happy with you.
08:49I'm happy with you.
08:51You just want to be happy with you?

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