- 01/07/2025
A.R. and Brittany met a year ago when she was on the hunt for a new apartment and he was her attentive leasing agent. The pair met up a few times to find Britney her dream place, then once she had left her old rental, they officially started dating. Britney said she had never met anyone like A.R. before and was smitten instantly. A.R. felt the same, and said that straight away, Brittany accepted him for who he was. He explained: "The type of assumptions people make is just that I'm gay. It doesn't faze me, it doesn't affect me. People can say what they want. We're still in love." Throughout A.R.'s whole life, people questioned his sexuality, since he expresses his feminine side. Recently, he's been going viral because he's chosen to play into this to help his partner's business. Brittany runs her own beauty brand, and A.R. has been promoting her lip gloss by wearing it himself. "I have the perfect canvas for it", he said. "She loves my lips, that's one of the things that she told me on the first day. One day, I'm just like, you know what? Let's put this on social media." Since then, their comment sections have been bombarded with comments critiquing the validity of their relationship, such as "He's deff going to be somebody's boyfriend soon", "he wanted a reason to show his true colours", and "that's crazy. The rainbow is from here to Paris." For Brittany, the judgment doesn't impact how she feels about her boyfriend. "A.R. wearing my lip gloss has helped boost my brand. People could see how pretty the product is, and it's different when it's more showcased on a man because people are not used to men wearing makeup." Her friends and family have mostly been supportive of the relationship, apart from her cousin. "Jason wasn't sure if A.R. is 100% straight. He doesn't think that A.R. is the right man for me because I need an 'actual man' and he feels like I don't need somebody that's wearing my lip gloss", she said. In this episode of Love Don't Judge, A.R. confronts Jason about his opinions on their relationship, leading to an explosive argument.
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00:00I'm not gay for wearing my girlfriend's lip gloss.
00:02Did you overline my lips?
00:03Is Def gonna be somebody's boyfriend soon?
00:05Of course, it's all the gay comments.
00:07It's a lot.
00:09It's a lot.
00:10My cousin, if AR is 100% straight,
00:14he doesn't think that AR is the right man for me.
00:16Let me ask you a question.
00:17When she get out of the line, how you gonna check her?
00:20Like, at the end of the day, bro, mind your business.
00:24Come on.
00:25What are you doing?
00:26So what's up?
00:27So what's up?
00:28Yeah, I'm gonna do this in front of my cousin.
00:29Exactly, like, I'm done, I'm done.
00:31Take this mic, I'm done, I'm done.
00:33Babe, can you help me with my makeup?
00:35Yeah, sure, you know I always got you.
00:38Smile for me.
00:39Hi, my name's AR Dash.
00:41My name is Brittany.
00:42A year ago, we met actually at my job.
00:45I'm a real estate professional.
00:46He was actually leasing this apartment that I was looking for.
00:49The first day we met was when we realized
00:52that we were attracted to each other.
00:53And you gotta do the other side.
00:55Finish what you thought of.
00:57I know what I gotta do.
00:58I first started experimenting with makeup three years ago.
01:00I was a retail sales manager at Ulta, the makeup store.
01:03And I fell in love with just making my skin look flawless.
01:08I didn't think AR doing makeup was weird.
01:10He's an artist, and he does my makeup very well.
01:13I'm like, look at this concealer.
01:15I know he has that.
01:16Contour.
01:17It's my woman, so like, I've been looking at her face every morning for this past year.
01:22And I really enjoy doing her makeup.
01:24I've been with men that were more masculine.
01:27A lot of men can't tap into their emotional side.
01:30Him being a little bit more feminine, he could understand me better.
01:33All right.
01:34All done.
01:35What do you think?
01:36It looks good.
01:36It looks so pretty.
01:37You look good.
01:38You look beautiful.
01:40All right, my turn.
01:41The makeup that I wear is very natural, seamless, doesn't look like I have anything on really.
01:48It only was when I started wearing her gloss that people started to say out-of-pocket things.
01:55They say, like, he's gay.
01:56They tell me denial is a river in Egypt.
01:58I'm in denial.
01:59I have a feminine vibe about myself.
02:01I have a feminine look, and I've heard it before all my life, walking down the street in school.
02:08It doesn't faze me anymore.
02:09I'm comfortable in my skin, and I think that's the most important thing.
02:13All done.
02:15Oh, wow.
02:17Wow.
02:18It's so glittery.
02:20Did you overline my lips?
02:22Yeah.
02:23You like it?
02:24It's really pretty.
02:25They look big.
02:26I like it.
02:27My friends and family reacted quite positively, except for my cousin Jason.
02:34When Brittany first got together with AR, it was kind of, like, not what I thought she
02:39really wanted in a man, so it kind of threw me off a little bit.
02:44She's always been saying that she wants a masculine man.
02:46She wants somebody that's going to take care of her, lead her, guide her.
02:49He's far from that.
02:50A lot of, you know, feminine energy.
02:54What's up, Kasia?
02:55What's up, Kasia?
02:56What's up?
02:57How you been?
02:58I've been all right.
02:59How's the business?
03:00I've been all right.
03:01How's the business?
03:02Business is really good.
03:03Like, you know, we've been collaborating and doing a lot of things with my boyfriend,
03:07and I know your concerns and stuff like that with the lip gloss content you've been seeing.
03:14Yeah.
03:15Very concerning.
03:16Yeah, but that's my man.
03:17I'm going to stick beside him.
03:18My thing is, it doesn't make no sense.
03:20You haven't been asking for this.
03:21You've been asking for a man.
03:22He is a man.
03:23Doesn't act like one.
03:24So what does a man act like to you?
03:25A leader.
03:26I see her take more initiative than you do.
03:28You see that?
03:29Yeah, all the time.
03:30In every little way.
03:31They don't even got to be the big things.
03:34Am I being wrong?
03:35You are.
03:36I'm not trying to be in the middle of anything, because I'm literally in the middle.
03:51This is my cousin, and I want what's best for my cousin.
03:55It's kind of like a slap in the face when you hear somebody that you care about always
03:58asking for something, and then they get the complete opposite.
04:01I think she's just trying to get a bag, in my opinion.
04:04She a businesswoman herself.
04:05She could get it regardless.
04:06He helps out a lot, and I feel like he could understand me.
04:10What's funny, Jason?
04:11I didn't tell him to stop staring at me like that.
04:13I'm like, what?
04:14How it stands.
04:15We're going to be together forever, so I'm not sure how that fits in your life.
04:23Hey, I don't have no problem with you.
04:25You as a person, you can do whatever you want.
04:28I respect you.
04:29But you don't want me to do it with him, though.
04:32Exactly.
04:33I don't.
04:34So you date her?
04:35That's buddy.
04:37Exactly.
04:38So my thing is, who are you to tell her who she can and cannot date?
04:45I understand your concerns and all these issues, but let me tell you something.
04:52You don't know what goes on behind closed doors.
04:54I'm not sure if Brittany tells you everything that goes on behind closed doors.
04:57I don't need to.
04:58I need you to take a step back and just watch.
05:01What we're doing right now is to build a brand.
05:04We're working.
05:05Okay.
05:06Maybe if you do a little bit more work, you will have less to say.
05:09All right.
05:10All right.
05:11All right.
05:12I love both of y'all, but you can't be speaking to me like that.
05:14Respect, respect.
05:15That right there proves my whole point.
05:17Like you're making smart remarks like a woman, like women.
05:21And it's not making no sense to me because, you know, as a man, you would just state your mind and keep pushing.
05:26My opinion is that you should mind your business.
05:29No, you should, you should go date someone and you'll be the man for them that you expect the man to be.
05:35You'll be that man for them.
05:36I'm going to be the man that I am.
05:38And that was able to catch Brittany and to captivate her and to have her fall in love with.
05:44First of all, let me tell you something.
05:46Let me tell you something.
05:47Before you came around, there were dudes that she was saying already complained too much like a female and she didn't want them.
05:55And she said she wanted a man that's masculine.
05:59Okay.
06:00No, no, no.
06:01I'm not done talking.
06:02Okay.
06:03I mean, do you see that?
06:04I don't think you understand.
06:05That's a man putting his foot down.
06:06You need to understand that she has been asking for a man.
06:10And now that she has got what you are.
06:14Right?
06:16What does that mean?
06:17What does that mean?
06:18You're saying that she's been asking God delivered.
06:21It may not be what you think God should have delivered, but God delivered me.
06:25And I want you to understand that I'm here to stay.
06:28Nothing that you say will get in the way.
06:30That's what's nice.
06:31But it's crucial that you mind my business.
06:36Your business.
06:37Oh, yeah.
06:38Okay.
06:39If I'm being real, I just personally think that Brittany just settled.
06:43That's all.
06:44Do you want me to revert back to the other guy's house?
06:46I want you to continue doing what makes you happy.
06:49There's a lot of other guys out there.
06:52What is it that I'm not doing for Brittany that you would like me to do?
06:57Bro, this is what I'm talking about.
06:59You asking me a question about what a man should be doing for his girl.
07:02And you sitting next to her with your legs crossed over like this.
07:05Sunshine.
07:06And you're open.
07:07I don't care if it's her brain.
07:08You rubbing lip gloss.
07:10Answer what.
07:11It's not lip gloss.
07:12It's lip oil.
07:13Oh, wow.
07:14It makes it even much better.
07:15Huge difference.
07:16Like at the end of the day, bro, mind your business.
07:20Mind your business, period.
07:21It shouldn't have to be an issue where I need to like dim my light to make you feel all right.
07:29Like what?
07:31I ain't never make it about me.
07:33It is about you.
07:34I feel.
07:35I this.
07:36I that.
07:37You not manly enough.
07:38At the end of the day, we're happy.
07:41Let me ask you a question.
07:42When she get out of the line, how you going to check her?
07:44It's communication and solid, solid understanding.
07:46Communication.
07:47How are you talking about communication and you're talking over somebody when you're speaking?
07:50Because I really could care less about what's coming out of your mouth right now.
07:53Whoa.
07:54The facts hit you that you are not in the right position.
07:57All right.
07:58So I'm done talking.
07:59So what do you want to do?
08:00Yo, you want to take it there?
08:01We could take it there.
08:02Yo, you could be 20 feet tall.
08:03I don't really both care.
08:04I don't care.
08:05So what do you want to do?
08:07That's what I thought.
08:08Bro, we can take this outside.
08:10I mean, it's up to you.
08:13You take the lead, Mr. Man.
08:15Come on.
08:16What are you doing?
08:17Come on.
08:18Take your steps.
08:19Let's go.
08:20Let's go.
08:21At the end of the day, it ain't nothing.
08:23I'm right here in front of you.
08:25At the end of the day, the day going in.
08:26At the end of the day, the day going in.
08:27At the end of the day, the day going in.
08:28So what's up?
08:29So what's up?
08:30I'm talking to you right here.
08:31So what's up?
08:32Exactly.
08:33I'm done.
08:34I'm done.
08:35Take this mic.
08:36I'm done.
08:37I'm not about to sit here and deal with this.
08:38I'm not.
08:39I'm not.
08:40You crummy.
08:41You crummy?
08:42Ha!
08:43I'm just done.
08:44I'm done.
08:45I'm done.
08:49I wish it would've went better.
08:50Jason's going to have to get with the program.
08:52I don't know what he going to do.
08:54I feel exactly the same before we sat down.
08:57A little bit more angry.
08:58It sucks that it turned out the way that it did, but you know, you don't have to like me.
09:03So this is a video of you when you were, was wearing my lip gloss for the first time.
09:07Yeah.
09:08He's definitely going to be somebody's boyfriend soon.
09:11He wanted a reason to show his true colors.
09:14That's crazy.
09:16The rainbow is from here to Paris.
09:19We should go to Paris.
09:20Of course, it's all the gay comments, all that stuff that I've already heard all my life.
09:24You know, you may be in denial, sis.
09:27Do you feel like I'm in denial?
09:29No.
09:30Girl, he's gay.
09:31Look at his eyes.
09:32Do I have gay eyes?
09:35I got too many things to focus on.
09:38Like me.
09:39Exactly.
09:41I love you, babe.
09:42I love you too.
09:43So why do you guys think your relationship works?
09:49Women, ladies first.
09:50Okay.
09:51I think our relationship works only because he's just so supportive of everything I do.
09:55I got actually so many sales from just our videos because people did support him.
10:01They think he's beautiful.
10:02They think his eyes, his eyelashes, his lips, he's so beautiful and handsome.
10:06We're very driven, business oriented, and we're going to take over the world.
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