- 6/18/2025
She made out with him out of pity
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00:00Hello. Hi, can I speak to Marcy, please? This is she. Hey, Marcy, how are you? This is Jubal from the radio show Brooke and Jubal in the morning. Okay. Okay. How did you get my number? I have everybody's number on speed dial all the time. I got your number because like a prank call or something. No, no, it isn't. Okay. One of our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could get in touch with you. Okay. His name is Adam.
00:30And you guys went out on a date the other day. Oh gosh. And we do a segment on our show. That's called the second date update. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up blowing them off after they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. So Adam emailed us, told us a little bit about your date and also is confused why it seems like you don't want to go out with him again. Oh my gosh. Are you serious? Nope. This is all joke. Prank call. I'm a hundred percent serious. Oh gosh.
01:00I mean, I just, I don't know what to say. I feel bad.
01:03He said a lot of nice things about you and about your guys' date. It sounds like you guys really had a connection.
01:09I don't know. I just kind of thought the whole night was a little weird.
01:12Well, I can understand that. I mean, he told us about the date and how he got a call in the middle of it that his grandpa had died. That would make things weird, I would think.
01:22Yeah. Yeah. And I feel so bad. It did sort of put a damper on everything.
01:27Was that the part where things got a little weird was when he got upset and cried about his grandfather passing?
01:34No, it wasn't. I mean, I, I hate to say it, but I kind of knew pretty early on into the night that I just wasn't really feeling it with him.
01:43And I can't really explain it. Like, I don't think it was anything that he actually did or said.
01:51He said you guys made out. Like, I feel like he obviously did not interpret.
01:57I mean, I know I shouldn't have done that. I really shouldn't have done that.
02:01Yeah, that was going to be my question. If you weren't feeling him, why make out with the dude?
02:05Well, because I was pretty much gearing up in my head how to tell him that, you know, I'm not really feeling it.
02:12And I was literally like about to do it. And then he gets this call and he gets a call from his mom.
02:18And I'm not, I'm just sort of sitting there and I can really see that something she's telling him really bad news.
02:26He starts crying, find out that his grandfather passed away.
02:30And at that moment, I couldn't tell him that I wasn't into him.
02:36That would be a tough situation to be to be like, I'm gonna tell this guy that I don't like him.
02:40Oh, now his grandpa just died.
02:42I was literally about to tell him because I'm not that type of girl.
02:45I really am not that type of girl to try to lead someone on.
02:48And I, I really knew from the get go, I just wasn't feeling it.
02:52I was going to tell him he gets this call.
02:54And all of a sudden, then I was just sort of like, oh gosh, like I have to be nice.
03:00Marcy, you do understand that being nice and then going back to somebody's place and making out with them are really two different things.
03:07I mean, I don't know your definition of nice.
03:09I know, but like, I didn't want to make his night any worse than what it was.
03:14So I just went with it.
03:16And I, I don't know.
03:17What didn't you like about him?
03:19I'm telling you, like, I can't really explain it.
03:21I just wasn't feeling it.
03:23Yeah.
03:23I mean, we all go out with people where for whatever reason, you just don't really like them.
03:27They're not even, it's not that they're unattractive necessarily.
03:29They're just like, they just.
03:30Yeah.
03:30I don't know.
03:30I think in the very beginning, it was just the conversation fell a little flat and I didn't feel that spark.
03:37I didn't feel that.
03:39Yeah.
03:39I mean, yeah, we get, we get all that, but why make out with him?
03:43I can't even believe he told you about that.
03:45I mean, it's terrible of me, but it was sort of out of pity.
03:53So basically when he leaned in to kiss me, I just didn't stop him.
03:58I would get, I would, you know, like it's easy to be judgy about that, but in the same vein, I feel like everyone in this room has made out with somebody that they weren't actually that into.
04:07Oh, I've done it for years in some relationships.
04:11For sure.
04:13You're so wrong.
04:15Oh my God.
04:16I don't know, guys, like as much as I knew that I really shouldn't be doing this and it's so out of character for me and I was not trying to take advantage of him in any way, but at the same time, I just witnessed this guy that I hardly know get told that a very close family member of his passed away.
04:36I just didn't have it in me to not please him a little bit.
04:42I don't know.
04:43Wasn't there any moment, like there was a one moment where you were like, oh, maybe I was wrong.
04:49Maybe I could do this.
04:50Maybe I could be into him.
04:52No.
04:53Not at all.
04:55I was looking for hope there, Marcy.
04:57Well, Marcy, I do want to let you know that Adam is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you.
05:01No.
05:02Oh, are you serious?
05:03Yes.
05:04No.
05:04Yes, I am.
05:05Oh, my.
05:06What more can you guys do to me?
05:09Adam?
05:10Adam.
05:10Oh, gosh.
05:11Yeah.
05:12Hey, Marcy.
05:13Hey.
05:14Summer.
05:16Hey.
05:17Oh, my gosh.
05:19So, I mean, that whole thing, was that a pity?
05:22I mean, I just didn't want to hurt your feelings.
05:26I don't know.
05:26You had already been hurt enough that night, and I just really felt so bad.
05:33As hard as it was for you, it was hard for me, too, because I was stuck in this, like, rockin' a hard place, you know?
05:40I mean, like, we got pizza together after, like, that was just out of pity?
05:48Like, is it a pity pizza?
05:50I mean, man, I don't really know what more I can say.
05:56But, I mean, did you give me, like, clear signs that you weren't interested?
06:00It seemed like you made out with me because of pity?
06:04I mean, pretty much.
06:08Yeah, I'm just being honest with you now.
06:10I mean, you called the radio tape.
06:12It is worse.
06:13I don't know what more.
06:14It's worse.
06:14I just.
06:16I mean, you used a lot of tongue for a pity kiss, right?
06:20Oh, my.
06:21Okay.
06:22Yeah, I mean, you know, Marcy, a pity kiss has a certain amount of tongue.
06:25Were you going overboard on the tongue with your pity kiss?
06:28It was not a noncommittal makeout session, you know?
06:32Like I said, I felt really bad.
06:35I had to do something to, like, make your night a little bit better.
06:40And I don't know what else I can say.
06:43Wow.
06:44I mean, you are a very talented actress, then.
06:48Because you, you know, this performance and what you did the other night, like, I can't tell what's real and what's not anymore.
06:57Honestly.
06:59I mean, what's real is that I think you should just try to move on.
07:04Oh.
07:05Just because I did that, I really, I don't think it means that I have to go out with him again.
07:09I, it was just.
07:10A second one would be another pity.
07:12Yeah.
07:12It was like two pity dates, basically.
07:14Yeah.
07:15And I, now we've gotten in too deep.
07:17You know what I mean?
07:18It's, it's.
07:18I mean, I can't believe you would do that.
07:21If that happened to you and one of your relatives died, I would do the respectable thing and just walk away.
07:27Just get out of there.
07:28Okay.
07:29Okay.
07:29Leave you alone.
07:30Yeah.
07:31Guys, like, I don't really, this is getting to be too, I tried to be nice.
07:35I really did.
07:37I'm really sorry.
07:38Okay.
07:38Well, don't be sorry just yet because I do have to ask you if you'd like to go on another date with Adam.
07:42We will pay for it.
07:43Would you like to go on a second date?
07:45No.
07:46Okay.
07:46I thought that was coming.
07:47Adam's like, I didn't even want you to ask that question anymore.
07:51Marcy, you are a real piece of work just like leading a guy on like that.
07:57That's unbelievable.
07:58Seriously?
07:58Okay.
07:59This is taking me back so much.
08:01I was literally just trying to be nice to you.
08:03I was trying to support you.
08:05I mean, is there anybody here that can back me up on this?
08:07Am I crazy or something?
08:09I was just trying to be nice.
08:11No, they're not going to back you up.
08:13Okay.
08:14Guess not.
08:15Well, either way, Adam, you didn't get your second date and at least you know why now.
08:20And Marcy, thank you for taking the time to talk to us about it.
08:22I appreciate it.
08:23Yeah.
08:23Now I feel a hundred thousand times worse.
08:27Well, I want both of you guys to think about this.
08:29That night when you guys were making out, Adam's grandpa was watching you.
08:33Think about that.
08:35Oh, man.
08:35Oh, man.
08:36I'm sorry.
08:36Oh, man.
08:37Oh, man.
08:37Oh.
08:38Oh, man.
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