Second Date Update - The Basics

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4/23/2025

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00:00Well, Tommy was pretty straightforward with us here on the Second Date Update.

00:03We're trying to match him back up on another date with Sarah.

00:06And they just went to something casual.

00:08They did a happy hour, had a good time there.

00:11He felt confident that things went well.

00:13And now he's super confused on why he hasn't heard from her.

00:16Yeah, but Kevin was able to get her on the phone.

00:18So I think we should find out what's happening with this.

00:22All right, let's do it.

00:22We got Sarah on the phone with us.

00:24Sarah, good morning.

00:25Hi, good morning.

00:27Hey, thank you for coming on the phone with us.

00:28We appreciate it.

00:30Yeah, actually, I appreciate you calling.

00:32Because now that I've heard what you have to say, I really think he needs to be called out.

00:37And I think a lot of guys need to hear this.

00:40So, yeah.

00:41Why do you want to call him out?

00:43Yeah, what happened on the date?

00:44Well, he did something that I keep seeing a lot of guys do.

00:48And I think that they need to realize that this is not acceptable.

00:52He needs to realize this is not acceptable.

00:54He had no manners.

00:56Like, none.

00:57He was clueless.

00:58I don't know how he was raised, but he just, he didn't do any gentlemanly things whatsoever.

01:06Well, give us some examples of what stuff that he was missing.

01:09Yeah.

01:09What do you mean?

01:10Okay.

01:10Well, first, he didn't, he didn't offer to even pick me up.

01:13He didn't even open the door of the restaurant.

01:17Oh.

01:17Yeah, yeah.

01:18He didn't pull out a chair.

01:20He didn't even compliment me.

01:22Like, I spent a lot of time, like, getting to look good for him and, like, nothing.

01:27Just the basic guy manners were thrown out the window.

01:30Well, yes.

01:32Yeah.

01:32All these guys just seem to think that, like, you can put all this effort in and go out and

01:38then they can just, like, get another date after, like, not doing anything to show they

01:42appreciate you.

01:43And it's like, I'm not going to waste my time with that.

01:46Like, why would I?

01:47Hmm.

01:48All right.

01:48Well, I mean, it's pretty straightforward why you felt a little slighted and felt like you

01:52weren't appreciated.

01:54I will say this, Sarah, I did, or I did say this.

01:57I appreciate you coming on with us.

01:59I will tell you that we have Tommy on the phone with us as well.

02:03That's how we got your number.

02:04Is it cool if we brought him back on and asked him some questions as well?

02:08Yeah, I think he needs to hear this.

02:10Absolutely.

02:11Well, he heard it.

02:12Yeah, he's already on the phone.

02:14I'm here and I'm, I'm shocked.

02:16Like, I didn't really need to be coddled like that.

02:19Like, I'm, I'm just shocked.

02:20I'm not surprised that you're shocked because you seem to have no clue as to any manners.

02:26So, I mean, I'd actually be more shocked if you were like, oh yeah, because you just

02:32do not seem to know any, like, etiquette one-on-one.

02:35I, I don't seem to know etiquette one-on-one.

02:37Like, you seem like you need to be treated with kid gloves.

02:40I don't understand.

02:41But you didn't even hold the door for her?

02:43Yeah.

02:44He just, like, walked in front of me.

02:46He, like, just opened, like, Elmo, and he, like, released it.

02:49So, like, I had to catch a door from, like, hitting me.

02:52That's, that's being a little dramatic.

02:54You can't even open a door for yourself and now you're making it sound like I, like, assaulted

02:58you with a door.

02:58That's, like, you're being dramatic.

03:00No, I can open a door for myself, but it's the polite thing to do is to hold a door and

03:06let, and let a lady walk through, or any person.

03:09I think you're making a big deal out of nothing.

03:11I have manners.

03:12I think you're just, you know.

03:14Well, I sure didn't see any of them.

03:16Wow.

03:16Tommy, do you think there's any, I mean, I guess we'll ask you, do you think there's

03:19any places you could have, you know, improved, improved on this?

03:24No.

03:24I think, like, I was perfectly social, perfectly cordial.

03:29Like, I think she's just, she seems to need a little extra, and that's not okay.

03:35You know, you snap your fingers.

03:36Like, that's just gross.

03:38Like, I just, I don't even know where to begin, honestly.

03:42Like, there were so many, so many things.

03:45I mean, you said to us, I will tell you that he did say to us that you were very pretty.

03:50I mean, you didn't bother to tell her that, though, on the date?

03:53Nope.

03:54I mean, obviously I'm going out with her, so I think she's pretty.

03:58Like, I don't need to say it every second.

04:01But when you saw her, you weren't like, oh, wow, you look great, or anything like that?

04:06I, I mean, I, I, I, I'm sure I said something like that.

04:10I guess you didn't.

04:11No, I mean, if I didn't, it's, it's, it's, it's not important.

04:14We're getting sidetracked by the unimportant things here.

04:16Why is that?

04:18The fact that I took her out, that I paid for her drinks, and that I was perfectly cordial.

04:22I mean, it wasn't a business lunch, and at a business lunch, I would expect you to have

04:26more manners.

04:27Like, it's, you just need to learn this.

04:30Well, let me ask you this, Sarah, if he were to do more of these things, which, I don't

04:35know if he will, but if he were to do more of those things that you're asking, I mean,

04:39would you be willing to go back out with him?

04:42Honestly, he needs way too much work.

04:44Um, no.

04:46He smacked his fingers.

04:47He, like, licked them.

04:48I mean, that little, oh, I just, I can't.

04:52Okay.

04:53I mean, yeah, holding a door open, I mean, that's just basic stuff.

04:59Basic.

05:00All right.

05:01Well, Tommy, you now know what's going on, and you know why she's not getting back to

05:05you.

05:05I'll give you the last word here.

05:07I mean, I'll tell you what's basic.

05:09You are.

05:10Okay.

05:11Wow.

05:11Oh, my gosh.

05:12Maybe I shouldn't have given my last word there.

05:14My bad.

05:14I don't know.

05:15All right.

05:15Well, Sarah, Tommy, it's not going to be a match for you guys, obviously.

05:19No.

05:19So, I appreciate your time this morning, and I hope you guys have a great day.

05:23And good luck in the future.

05:25Maybe you can learn a thing or two.

05:27I don't know.

05:28Okay.

05:29All right.

05:29Now it's just getting mean.

05:30Yeah.

05:30Gotta go.

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