Second Date Update - Wild Child

4/23/2025

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00:00But right now, we are in our second date update, and we're trying to hook Kayla back up on another date with this guy, Mark.

00:05She's had no luck.

00:06We're going to see if we can help her out.

00:08We do have Mark on hold with us.

00:10Kevin and Scott, I'm on hold.

00:12Mark, you there?

00:14Yeah, I'm here.

00:15Hey, man.

00:15Appreciate you doing this with us and coming on there.

00:18I know it's a weird ask, but I do appreciate it so much.

00:21And we're just going to jump right into it.

00:23You heard us talking a little bit about this girl, Kayla, that's really into you.

00:27We heard you guys went to the Green Lemon.

00:28I guess it was a three-hour date.

00:30She said you checked all the boxes for her, but apparently she didn't check some box for you because you haven't talked to her since that date.

00:38So what's going on?

00:40Yeah, I appreciate it, guys.

00:42But, yeah, like, yeah, Kayla's just too much for me.

00:46Oh, too much?

00:47What happened?

00:49I don't know.

00:50Nothing exactly happened.

00:52But, like, at the date, like, she was telling me about this trip to Cabo with her friend she went on recently.

00:57And how she was in a wet t-shirt contest.

01:00Oh, my God.

01:02Oh, sorry, sorry.

01:03Hold on.

01:03I'm in the bed.

01:04Yeah, what's wrong?

01:04I mean, that's a bad thing?

01:07Well, I don't know.

01:09Like, I'm not judging her for doing it or anything.

01:11But, like, I don't know if that's, like, the type of person I want as a girlfriend or whatever.

01:15And so right away that kind of, like, you know, shook me or whatever.

01:19And then, you know, I went home and I was looking on her Instagram and stuff.

01:23And then just every post she's got, like, a beer in her hand and at a party doing shots.

01:28So she just seems, like, kind of like this wild and crazy girl that isn't exactly my type, I guess.

01:33Oh, too much of a drinker for you?

01:35It's not necessarily the drinking.

01:37It's just more of she just seems wild.

01:39Sometimes those are the fun ones, though.

01:43And the crazy ones.

01:45Yeah, it's not, like, you know, everyone, you know, has fun every once in a while.

01:48But, like, this girl looks like she's having a lot of fun a lot of the time.

01:53So she just told you that on a date that she was in a wet t-shirt contest?

01:57Yeah, and that's another thing.

01:58Like, it was the first date, you know, I get, like, getting to know each other and sharing stories and stuff.

02:03But, like, to be, like, I don't know, talking about how you're up on stage, you know,

02:07in a wet t-shirt contest in front of, like, who knows how many people.

02:11I don't know if, like, that's exactly appropriate to talk about on a first date, but I don't know.

02:15Probably not.

02:17That's cool.

02:17Quite the conversation.

02:19Yeah, serious.

02:19But, you know, you guys were hanging out for three hours.

02:21Sometimes you run out of things to talk about.

02:22There you go.

02:23All right.

02:24Well, Mark, we do have Kayla on the phone with us.

02:28And I want to bring her back on because we want to know more.

02:30There's no doubt about that.

02:31But she wanted to go out with you again.

02:33She likes you.

02:33Yeah.

02:34Hold on one second.

02:35Kayla, you there?

02:37I'm here.

02:38So was that kind of the conversation?

02:40And maybe not just specifically that, you know, topic, but are you kind of on the wild

02:46side a little bit?

02:48Not even.

02:49I'm really surprised.

02:50Like, I mean, I'm single.

02:53When you're single, you can have some fun.

02:55It doesn't mean that that's what I'm going to be like when I'm in a committed relationship.

02:59But if I'm single and I'm in a cabbo and they, you know, it was a dare from my friend.

03:05And so, like, what do I care?

03:07I'm in a bikini.

03:07I've won a thousand dollars.

03:09Hey.

03:10So much fun.

03:11Yeah.

03:12A thousand dollars.

03:14It was just stupid fun.

03:16And so, like, of course my Instagram shows me having fun.

03:19Like, I'm single.

03:21That's what you do.

03:22Well, I can't argue with you there.

03:23I'm single, too, but I don't go crazy every day of my life either, though.

03:28But how is drinking and partying going crazy?

03:32Like, it's just having a good time.

03:34I was in a committed relationship for five years.

03:37Now I'm, you know, having a bit of independence and freedom.

03:41I'm going to take it.

03:42I mean, you don't, like, have a good time sometimes?

03:46We have a good time sometimes.

03:47But also, I think, like, we're both kind of in our mid-30s right now.

03:50And, you know, I got other responsibilities.

03:52And, like, no.

03:53So I'm not going out doing shots, you know, every night and, you know, partying.

03:57And, you know, I definitely haven't been in a wet t-shirt contest.

04:01No, man.

04:01You haven't lived.

04:03Yeah.

04:04I don't know.

04:05Like, why would you think I go out and drink every night?

04:08I just have a good time.

04:10I mean, you kind of sound like a nerd.

04:12Oh, whoa.

04:13Well, let's take a try.

04:14You don't have to get personal.

04:15I'm not trying to offend you or anything.

04:17I'm just saying, like, it's not something I'm looking for, you know, in a, you know,

04:22someone I want to be in a relationship with.

04:25You seem like you're actively currently looking for someone, you know, to have a serious relationship in.

04:30And, like, when we go out on a first date, like, what do I have, you know, to gauge you by other than, you know,

04:35how you behaved before your relationship is kind of like where I'm at.

04:39I don't know.

04:40I think you sound pretty rigid and you need to let loose and live a little.

04:45And just because I have a few drinks or win a thousand dollars in a bikini doesn't mean I'm, like, a crazy wild child.

04:52It just means that I'm single, living life, loving life.

04:57Mark, she sounds like a fun person to be around.

04:59I mean, is this going to be too much, though, for you?

05:01Is this going to be a deal breaker?

05:02You're not going to want to see her again?

05:04Well, to me, it sounds like she really enjoys being single.

05:08So I think that's what's best for her right now.

05:10Like, I don't honestly think she's ready to settle down with someone.

05:13For me, when I was in that stage of my life, I wasn't ready to settle down and I was enjoying that kind of stuff.

05:18But now I don't enjoy that kind of stuff because I'm ready to settle down.

05:21And I think that's where I'm at right now.

05:24That makes sense, though.

05:25Two different places.

05:26I get it.

05:27Well, Kayla, you heard what Mark had to say.

05:29I'm sorry.

05:29It's not going to be another date.

05:31That's fine.

05:31He sounds a little too rigid and stuck up for me anyway.

05:35Oh, okay.

05:36Here we go.

05:37All right, guys.

05:37Well, you guys take care.

05:38Thanks for coming on.

05:39We appreciate it.

05:40No problem.

05:42I mean, she did sound fun.

05:44Yeah, she's not wrong.

05:45She's having a good time.

05:46She's single.

05:47She's just...

05:48But he's not wrong either, saying when you're single and looking for a relationship, you're

05:52kind of...

05:53You guys are both kind of auditioning for each other on a first date.

05:56And if you're bringing up, oh, yeah, by the way, in Cabo, I got a little wild.

05:59And here's what happened.

06:00Start telling Cabo stories.

06:01Well, she's been being truthful.

06:03At least he found out now, rather than a year down the road, like you were doing what?

06:07Two months before we were dating?

06:08All right.

06:08But I don't think she's doing anything wrong.

06:10All right.

06:10So this has been a deal breaker for you.

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