Second Date Update - In The "Works"

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4/22/2025

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00:00Well, this can get a little dicey.

00:01Steven and Rebecca worked together.

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00:06It's our second date update.

00:07But things seem to really go well on their date.

00:10Yeah, there was a kiss at the end of the date.

00:13So that is a good sign.

00:15And then he said when he saw her at work,

00:18they hung out and talked in the break room a couple of days after that.

00:22So everything was fine.

00:23But then now the communication has stopped.

00:25And he feels like she's avoiding him a little bit.

00:27Right.

00:28All right, so we actually have her on hold right now.

00:30Let's bring her back on with us, see if we can get some answers.

00:32Rebecca, are you there?

00:34Yeah, hi.

00:35Hi.

00:36I know this is probably confusing, but we want to talk to you about Steven.

00:40I think we mentioned that to you off the air.

00:42Yeah.

00:43So we want to ask you about that date you went on with Steven.

00:46We heard you guys went to Grillsmith in Sarasota.

00:50And we know you guys worked together.

00:52And he said that the date even ended with a kiss.

00:56And that seemed to go well.

00:57Then he saw you at work a couple of days later.

00:59And you guys were bantering and everything seemed to be normal.

01:03But now it feels like you're avoiding him.

01:05And we want to know if that's true.

01:07And also, if so, why?

01:10I mean, I can't believe this is happening right now.

01:14I mean, you know, he's having you guys call and ask.

01:18You know, basically, Steven, he represented himself differently.

01:22I just, I found out some things from co-workers and it was honestly a huge turnoff.

01:29What kinds of things?

01:31Like, I don't know if he told you.

01:34We work for the same company.

01:36We're on different floors.

01:37We're not in the same department.

01:39But I found out, actually, that I am not the first girl he asked out at work.

01:45And I found this out by going, you know, and telling some other girlfriends at work.

01:50And I went on a date with, you know, Steven, et cetera.

01:53And they were all like, you're kidding me.

01:56Ew.

01:56Oh, my gosh.

01:58He asked out so-and-so and so-and-so.

02:01And I was like, wait a second.

02:03That's so weird.

02:04Like, because I've been there longer.

02:06And I just feel as though, oh, so I'm like the third or fourth choice.

02:10You know, I don't know how many others that he asked out.

02:14It's really weird.

02:16And it just turned me off completely.

02:21I have no romantic feelings for him.

02:24And all of this after the date, even though you had a good time and kissed him on the date?

02:29Yeah, it's just like, oh, my gosh, I'm the third choice or fourth choice.

02:33Or maybe I'm the fifth choice at work.

02:35And it's just like you're just going around, like, asking every girl out.

02:39Is he going out with all these girls?

02:42No, they turned him down.

02:43Oh, they turned him down and you didn't.

02:47They turned him down.

02:48And I didn't.

02:49And I was just like, oh, weird.

02:51So he's just kind of making his way down the list, I feel like.

02:55All right.

02:56Well, Rebecca, I can see how that would be an awkward conversation to have with your co-workers, for sure.

03:01We have Stephen on the phone with us.

03:03I want to bring him back on.

03:04Shocker.

03:05Stephen.

03:07Yeah.

03:07I'm just going to let you talk to Rebecca there.

03:09It sounds like maybe you have a little bit of a reputation.

03:12Serial dater at work?

03:14Honestly, I never went out with other people at work.

03:18I'm a single guy.

03:19I've only been working there a little bit.

03:22And I'm just kind of honestly trying to make friends.

03:26I'm not trying to just, like, go out with girls to date them.

03:28I'm trying to, like, I'm new in town, as I told you.

03:31And where you work is, like, your network.

03:34And I'm just asking people to be friends.

03:36This guy's just trying to look for friends.

03:39Yeah.

03:39Yeah, that you kiss at the end of the night.

03:41It's just so weird.

03:42Okay, so first of all, I never actually, no one ever actually followed through with me.

03:49I might have asked people to hang out, but I never went out with anybody.

03:53The only person I've ever kissed in that building is you.

03:56Oh.

03:57Lucky you.

03:58And you know what?

03:59It's like, when I found that out, it kind of made my stomach turn quite a bit.

04:03And I just, I have zero interest in going out on another date.

04:07And honestly, I ask you if you could please just, you know,

04:11obviously we work for the same company, you know,

04:14let's just keep things coothed and you're a nice guy.

04:19But like I said, it was just, I just, it was kind of a deal breaker when I found that out.

04:24But like, you're going around asking all the girls out at work.

04:27And I don't know.

04:29I just have zero interest.

04:30I just ask you, please, please just, you know, I'm not asking you, actually.

04:36I'm telling you, leave me alone.

04:37Wow.

04:38Wow.

04:38Okay, well, I apologize if you were offended, but that was not my intention.

04:45And that's it.

04:46I apologize.

04:48No, yeah, no.

04:50Apology accepted.

04:51I just don't know if it bodes well for you professionally to be, you know,

04:56going around the office asking girls out.

04:58It just.

04:59Well, look, if you want to talk about this over some Froyo, let me know.

05:03Froyo.

05:04I don't know that's going to happen.

05:08Yeah.

05:09I can.

05:10It's just, I have zero interest in going on another date.

05:14And I, you know, wish you well.

05:16And it's, it's, I think it worked out that like we're on different floors and, you know,

05:22I know what it's like to not have big network yet or big community yet.

05:26But, and I think maybe some outside activities, like outside the office.

05:32All right.

05:32Okay.

05:32I don't need a, I don't need a therapist.

05:34I just wanted to get some, some food.

05:38All right.

05:39Well, here's the deal, guys.

05:40I'm going to jump in right here and say, Rebecca, you've made your feelings known.

05:44And, Stephen, we're going to, got to respect that and, you know, keep things all good at

05:50work and not awkward or anything.

05:52And so I appreciate you coming on with us, Stephen, Rebecca, thank you for your time as

05:56well.

05:56And I wish you both luck.

05:58Yeah.

06:00All right, guys.

06:01Now, Lana, let me ask you, would that bother you if you found that out?

06:05My first husband and I worked together, so obviously not.

06:09Had he asked out other people in the office though?

06:12He dated other people.

06:14He in the office?

06:15At the station, yeah.

06:16Wow.

06:16Oh my goodness.

06:18And now I'm hearing it.

06:19I'm like, yeah, I should have never gone out with them.

06:24All right.

06:24Well, let's see.

06:25I mean, did Stephen do anything wrong?

06:26We want to know.

06:27800-992-1099.

06:29800-992-1099.

06:31Would you have reacted the same way as Rebecca did or not?

Second Date Update - In The "Works"

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