Second Date Update - No Comment

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4/22/2025

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00:00Well, Joseph is confident in his date.

00:02They went to Cheesecake Factory.

00:03Great spot.

00:04And your favorite is?

00:06Avocado egg rolls.

00:07You love it.

00:08Unbelievable.

00:09But listen, they had a two-hour date, which is a good sign.

00:12That sounds great.

00:13They sat at the bar.

00:14So it's like they're hanging out, talking, and now he's kind of confused because they

00:19did talk about going on another date.

00:21Now, nothing.

00:22So we need to get a hold of her so we can find out for him.

00:26And you did get a hold of her, right?

00:28I did.

00:28Okay, we got her on hold.

00:29Let's bring her back on right now.

00:31Lisa, you there?

00:33Yes, I'm here.

00:34Hey, Lisa.

00:35Thank you for agreeing to talk to us on the air.

00:37I do really appreciate that.

00:39And the reason we wanted to talk to you was we heard that you went on a date with this

00:44guy, Joseph.

00:45You guys met online.

00:46You guys went to the Cheesecake Factory.

00:48He said the date was like two hours.

00:50You guys even talked about hanging out again.

00:52I guess since that date, he has reached out via text or phone call or whatever.

00:57Also reached out on Instagram.

00:58Hasn't heard anything from you and just is super confused.

01:02So we're trying to help him out.

01:04And any info you can give us of, you know, what happened or why you're not getting back

01:08to him.

01:09We'd love some.

01:09Yeah, so we did go to the Cheesecake Factory.

01:14The date was great.

01:15Afterwards, I was definitely interested in going on another one and I expressed that to

01:21him.

01:22Yeah, it was great.

01:24But then, like, he embarrassed me.

01:27Ooh.

01:27On the date?

01:29No, like, the date was great.

01:31I was willing to go on another one afterwards.

01:32He embarrassed me on social media, like on my Instagram.

01:35Uh, okay.

01:38Can we hear how?

01:39So, like, I posted some pictures and a friend of mine commented under it and he basically

01:46just said that, like, I looked pretty.

01:48He left a little heart.

01:49You know, friendship, love.

01:51And he, like, took to the comments and was like, she's taken, like, a back-off, you know,

01:58like, standoffish type of vibes under the comments.

02:02And I'm like, not understanding.

02:04That's my friend.

02:05We went on one date.

02:07Just one.

02:07And he's acting like I'm his girlfriend.

02:09It's just a little too much for me.

02:11Okay, so, wait.

02:13One of your friends commented on a picture of you and said you're pretty and left a heart.

02:18And then he responded to that comment?

02:19Yeah, he said she's taken, back off.

02:23Wow.

02:24Wow.

02:25Okay.

02:26I don't want to see this.

02:27Is that comment still there?

02:29Um, no.

02:29I took it down because it was embarrassing to me.

02:32Like, it's just, it's all moving too fast.

02:34I'm getting, like, a very possessive vibe after one date.

02:38And I'm just not sure that that's a vibe for me.

02:41Did your friend say anything to you about that?

02:43Um, he texted me and basically asked, like, who this person was, what was happening.

02:47He was very confused about it.

02:49Yeah.

02:49And you've never dated this friend?

02:51Is it really is a friend?

02:52No, it's really a friend.

02:53A genuine friend.

02:54Okay.

02:55Well, that would be a little bit possessive, I think.

02:57I would agree with that.

02:59It's creepy a little bit.

03:01Yeah.

03:01It's unnecessary.

03:03All right.

03:03So, I could see how you'd be embarrassed by that.

03:05Lisa, um, we actually have Joseph on the phone.

03:07I want to bring him back on because I just really want to understand where he was coming

03:10from on this.

03:10And, yeah, it does sound like a little bit too much too soon.

03:14Give me one second here.

03:15Joseph, you there?

03:16Yeah.

03:17I heard that.

03:18I mean, I don't, there's nothing creepy about it.

03:21I mean, it's not possessive.

03:22I was just showing interest.

03:24Like, you know, I don't know who that guy is.

03:26I mean, I, I don't know if you're dating around and the dude left a comment like, hey, beautiful

03:33with a heart, or you look beautiful with a heart.

03:36I mean, we all know what that means.

03:37I mean, that, you know, what does that mean?

03:38That looks pretty, like, pretty romantic, you know?

03:42I mean, I don't know.

03:43No, it was friendly.

03:44Like, he just said I looked good in the pictures.

03:46He knows all my friends.

03:47We're all friends.

03:48It was just a cordial thing.

03:50And it was just, you, you came off too strong.

03:53Like, I, I agreed to go on another date with you.

03:55Everything was fine.

03:56So, you could have asked me separately.

03:59Just commenting was just too far.

04:01Yeah, but he only mentioned your name, Lisa.

04:04And, like, and with the heart and the beautiful.

04:06I mean, I mean, I'm just showing I care and, you know, that I, that I'm interested in you.

04:12You know, it's like, and I, and you're not, like, appreciating him.

04:16See, like, the first red flag was just the possessiveness.

04:20And now the second one is, like, this manipulation that you have going on.

04:24Um, it was a friend.

04:26He's my friend.

04:27That's it.

04:28We could have spoke about it separately.

04:31Yeah, I mean, Joseph, regardless, friend or not, I mean, I feel like this is a little

04:35bit too soon and maybe not your place to say anything at all.

04:38I mean, you've only been on one date with her.

04:41But I don't know this guy.

04:42And I don't know her scenario.

04:43So I just, you know, I just didn't know.

04:45Well, instead of working it out on social media, when you go on that next date that she

04:49said that she would have gone out with you again, like, just talk to her about that.

04:53Talk to her about it then, or don't say anything about it.

04:55I mean, win her over.

04:56But I'm showing that I care.

04:58I don't know who it is.

04:59Okay.

05:00Lisa, do you, in any way, does that show that he cares or does that creep you out?

05:04No, it's scary.

05:06It's scary.

05:07Okay.

05:08Scary.

05:08So I think you trying to show her that you cared really kind of backfired on you, man,

05:13because that did come off a little strong.

05:15And I have to say that I do kind of agree with her on that.

05:19I mean, I don't know.

05:20This probably isn't worth fighting for.

05:22It's like, it's not worth it.

05:23Well, we're going to find out right now.

05:25Lisa, I mean, would you be willing to go on another date?

05:27Or have you said, no, I'm good?

05:30No, I think I'll pass.

05:32Okay.

05:32All right.

05:34Now you know what's going on, Joseph.

05:35And maybe don't come on so strong so soon.

05:39You see how she interpreted it.

05:41Do you, man?

05:42But it's just not going to work out between you and Lisa.

05:45Yeah.

05:46I totally get it now.

05:48Not worth it.

05:49All right.

05:50Thanks for coming on, Lisa.

05:51Thanks for your time.

05:51You guys have a great day.

05:54All right.

05:54Bye-bye.

05:55I mean, first of all, Lisa sounded very timid.

05:58She did.

05:58So I could see how she would get freaked real quick just by her voice.

06:02I'm just saying.

06:03Yeah.

06:03And, you know, Joseph did seem a little bit more like, hey, what's going on?

06:07That was.

06:08That's bizarre.

06:09That was a little weird.

06:10Like, that's a lot.

06:12I would have.

06:12You haven't even been on a second date with the person.

06:14I would have.

06:15If anything, if I cared at all about that and I've been on one date, I might text her on

06:19the site like, hey, who's this guy?

06:21Is this someone that you're dating to or whatever?

06:23If I was really worried about it.

06:24That's fine.

06:25That's fine.

06:25But what he did is not fine.

06:27Not being public like that.

06:28It's time to ask you, QYK family, deal breaker, a little scary, or was he just doing his due

06:34diligence?

06:35We want to know.

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06:37800-992-1099.

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