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Second Date Update - Not So Picture Perfect

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00:00All right, Ben's on the second date update with us this morning here, commercial-free

00:03new country, 99.5 QIK.

00:05Very confused on what's going on here.

00:08Well, yeah, Ben and Andrea met online and they went down to Harpoon Harry's downtown

00:12and he said that they had a good date, even kissed after the date.

00:16They were texting.

00:17He said it got kind of flirty and all of a sudden she just shut him down.

00:21So I was like, all right, did you go out with another girl?

00:23Did you start dating somebody or put something on social media?

00:25And he was like, no, I don't know what's going on.

00:28So that's why he's calling us.

00:29And he kissed.

00:30So that's good.

00:31Yeah, that is good.

00:32All right.

00:32So we actually do have her on hold right now.

00:34Let's see if we can get some answers out of her.

00:36She's heard what we had to say already.

00:38Andrea.

00:40Hi.

00:41So you heard us just talking about your date with Ben.

00:43Yeah.

00:44Yeah.

00:44So we're just kind of confused on what's going on here.

00:47I mean, this is a guy that seems really smitten about you.

00:52Yeah.

00:52Well, I mean, you know, he started out great.

00:55Like the date was actually amazing.

00:57And we were texting, you know, that night.

01:01And then after the date, we were texting like, you know, a couple of days.

01:04And then like things went weird pretty fast.

01:08Okay.

01:09Well, how so?

01:09He wanted to, you know, trade photos.

01:13Like, you know, he wanted to send, we want, like, he wanted me to send him like pictures.

01:20Okay.

01:21So he asked for pictures.

01:23So I sent him a picture of what I was doing right then and there.

01:26And then he was like, you can show more skin than that.

01:30And I was like, okay.

01:32Those kind of photos.

01:34Yeah.

01:34So I was like, okay, that's where we're going.

01:36And then it got weird.

01:38And he was asking like all kinds of stuff.

01:41And I was like, I'm out.

01:42Like, I'm not sending that stuff to anyone that like I've been on one date with, but I don't even know.

01:48Like, he could be a total weirdo.

01:50Like, I don't know.

01:52Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:53Andrea, I'm not a weirdo.

01:55I'm not a weirdo.

01:56Okay.

01:56Andrea, just want to let you know we have Ben on the phone.

02:00Oh, hi.

02:01Hey, hey.

02:03Okay, well, let's back up.

02:05I mean, yeah, I mean, we were sending photos.

02:07I mean, I sent you some.

02:10And I was hoping that you'd want to, like, send some back, you know.

02:14I mean, we were flirting.

02:16And I just thought that's where we were going with it.

02:19Yeah, but I didn't ask for those pictures.

02:22Okay, well, hold on.

02:23But you commented on them.

02:24Like, you said a little, like, fire emoji.

02:26Like, I thought, like, yeah, you liked it.

02:28Well, yeah, what was I supposed to do?

02:30But I didn't ask for them.

02:32So, like.

02:33Well, you didn't.

02:34Well, you didn't say, like, stop.

02:36I mean, like, there they were.

02:37I mean, boom.

02:38I thought you were going to send them back.

02:40I thought we were just going to be, like, boom, boom.

02:41Like, that's it.

02:42Boom, boom.

02:43I mean, the point is I'm not sending you anything.

02:47Like, you don't, like, ask a girl on a first date and then, like, ask for those kind of photos immediately after it.

02:55Like, I'm not into that.

02:57I'm sorry.

02:58Okay, okay, wow.

02:59All right, right, right, right.

03:00All right.

03:01Wow.

03:01Like, okay, like, so you're not that kind of girl.

03:04No, I dated a guy for a year and I don't even think he has a photo of me like that.

03:08So, no, no way.

03:10Wow.

03:11Okay.

03:12So.

03:14Yeah, Ben, I don't know if you should be sending unsolicited photos.

03:16I mean, you've only been out on one date.

03:18Yeah, dude.

03:19But we were flirting and that's just what, that's what we were, I thought that's what

03:23we were doing.

03:24I mean, I just, okay, like.

03:25Apparently a bad read.

03:26But that's what it was.

03:27Okay, bad read.

03:28Good.

03:29I mean, I was never that strong of a reader, I guess, in school, but whatever.

03:32Well, that's what I was talking about.

03:34I mean, is that the next step where it goes?

03:36You make out and then all of a sudden you send photos?

03:39Apparently for Ben.

03:40I don't know, fire emoji this.

03:44I mean, I don't know.

03:44I just, I thought that was a signal of like, yeah, okay.

03:46Like, keep it coming.

03:47I don't know.

03:48Andrea, let me ask you a question.

03:50You know, you did say you had a good time on the date.

03:52I mean, now he's saying that he gets the point and he understands.

03:55Is this something you could look past and maybe go on another date with him?

03:59No, thank you.

04:00Sorry.

04:01I'm sure this time we'll do that and they're all over TikTok, but that's not me.

04:05So.

04:06Wow.

04:06Okay.

04:07I think we can leave it there.

04:08Yeah, I guess, I guess we're going to leave, we're going to leave it there.

04:11Okay.

04:12All right.

04:13Well, Ben, now you know why she wasn't getting back to you.

04:16It is what it is.

04:16Yeah.

04:17I mean, there's really nothing for us to say about that.

04:18I mean, that's not what she was into.

04:20There's some girls that love taking pictures of themselves and some girls that don't.

04:24Yeah.

04:24That's rough.

04:25All right.

04:26Well, Ben, thanks for coming on.

04:28Andrea, thank you for your time as well.

04:30You guys have a great day.

04:32Thanks.

04:33Yeah.

04:35You know what I think?

04:36What?

04:36I think she doesn't want to go out with him after seeing some of the photos.

04:40I think that she saw something.

04:41Maybe she was just like, no, I'm out.

04:43I don't know.

04:44I just don't think she was that type of girl that one of those type of photos.

04:48And to be honest with you, Ben sounded a little weird.

04:51Just was kind of a strange guy in general.

04:53There are girls that love taking pictures of themselves.

04:56That is true.

04:57It just wasn't her.

04:57All right.

04:58So we want to know how you would have handled this.

04:59All right.

05:00If you were Ben or if you were Andrea, 800-992-1099.

05:05800-992-1099.

05:06800-992-1099.

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