When Nature Calls

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00:00He described his date and his connection with Tia as beautiful.

00:05Yes, he did.

00:06So they actually were set up by mutual friends.

00:09Which is always good news.

00:11Usually.

00:12Usually, yes.

00:12If your friends know you.

00:14That's always a good one.

00:15That's true.

00:15Set up by some mutual friends.

00:17They went to Bar Lily for the first date.

00:19Then those mutual friends actually had a holiday party.

00:21Got invited to that.

00:22They went together.

00:23All good.

00:24And she was the DD for the night, so she dropped him back off at home.

00:28And that was it.

00:30So now he has heard nothing from her since that holiday party.

00:34So something went down.

00:35At the holiday party.

00:36That's what I'm saying.

00:37Has to.

00:37It's got to be.

00:38But he has no idea what it was.

00:40He said that she's just easy to be around.

00:41So we're going to see.

00:42We actually have Tia on the phone right now.

00:44We've tracked her down.

00:45She's on hold.

00:45Let's bring her back on.

00:47Tia, are you there?

00:48Hi, yeah.

00:49Hey, Tia.

00:50I appreciate you agreeing to come on the air with us.

00:52Thank you so much.

00:53I know this is a random phone call.

00:54We wanted to ask you about Brett.

00:56We know you guys got set up by some mutual friends.

00:58You went to Bar Louie on your first date.

01:00He said that went great.

01:02And then you guys actually had a second date being this holiday party that your friends

01:06were throwing.

01:07And he had a really great time with you.

01:08I mean, he called your guys' connection, quote unquote, beautiful.

01:11Yep.

01:11Which I think is a, we don't hear that a lot from guys on this show.

01:15So we thought that that seemed like a good sign.

01:19And now I guess he's been reaching out to you, trying to set up a third date and can't

01:23get a hold of you or you're not responding.

01:25And we kind of want to know what's going on.

01:28Yeah.

01:29So we went to the holiday party and he asked me to be the designated driver, which, you

01:35know, should have been the first telltale sign.

01:38And kind of throughout the night, he was floppy.

01:42He was rude.

01:43He embarrassed me.

01:45And essentially, he just drank too much.

01:48You know, it was embarrassing.

01:49I've been around guys like this before.

01:51So I'm sitting there having PTSD.

01:53I'm having flashbacks of exes that I don't need.

01:57And, you know, quite honestly, it's just a huge turnoff.

02:00Okay.

02:01So I kind of thought maybe that was a possibility that he might have got a little bit too tipsy.

02:07Yeah.

02:08I mean, it got worse.

02:09So we're walking out to the car and he didn't get in the car right away.

02:14And instead, he pees in our mutual friend's bushes.

02:18What?

02:19And I'm like, are you kidding?

02:20You could have gone back in the house and use the restroom and come back out to the

02:24car.

02:25Oh, my goodness.

02:26To him, I guess it seemed easier to pee in the bushes.

02:29I mean, it was mortifying.

02:31Did you say anything to him right then?

02:34No.

02:35So he got in the car and he was just so out of it.

02:37Instead, I just kind of looked at him like, what are you doing?

02:40And he didn't get the hint.

02:42Were you the only two outside?

02:44Or was there everybody else out there watching this?

02:47No, they were inside, thankfully.

02:49But I mean, could have at any point, a neighbor could have walked out.

02:52They could have walked out.

02:53I mean, it's just in and of itself, it's an embarrassing thing to do.

02:57Okay.

02:58I get that.

02:59Wow.

02:59This makes a lot of sense.

03:01Tia, we did not hear that side from Brett.

03:03Brett actually sounded like a very mellow guy, but it sounds like he kind of turns it up

03:06a little bit.

03:08Yeah, I don't want to be his babysitter.

03:10Yeah, I get it.

03:11Don't want to be a babysitter.

03:12I totally get that.

03:14Well, Tia, we actually have Brett on hold.

03:16I want to bring him back on because he did not tell us that.

03:18Uh, Brett.

03:19Oh, my God.

03:20Oh, my God.

03:21I'm, I don't even know where to start.

03:23I am so sorry, Tia.

03:25I, I cannot believe that happened.

03:27I don't even really remember that.

03:29I mean, that's, that's kind of a big red flag.

03:31You don't even remember.

03:33I don't, I don't remember it.

03:35But you are so right.

03:37Uncalled for and gross.

03:39And, and I really, really apologize.

03:42I, I'm embarrassed.

03:44Yeah.

03:44I mean, you should, you should be.

03:46I mean, Brett, is this something you, I mean, honestly, are you a guy that drinks quite a bit or?

03:52No, actually, that's what's kind of messed up about this is I don't really even drink.

03:57It's just like, you know, on a first date, I had a couple of cocktails.

04:01Uh, but then we went to a holiday party.

04:03So I was like, oh, I'm going to, you know, cut loose a little bit.

04:06Uh, I guess I cut loose a lot of it.

04:08And I'm, I'm really sorry.

04:09Yeah, you know, you were a gentleman on the first date, but on the second date, it's really

04:15telling when someone starts to drink and it shows really the truth.

04:20And I don't want to see that again.

04:22I can tell you that, um, this is not me.

04:25This, like I just said, I don't, I don't really ever drink.

04:28It's maybe like two or three events per year.

04:31And this just happened to be one of them that you were there to witness.

04:33And I'm, I'm so sorry for that.

04:36I don't know.

04:36Like for me, when people show you who they are, you have to believe them the first time.

04:41Oh, I had no idea that this was the issue.

04:44Now that I know I'm, I'm deeply embarrassed and I'm very sorry.

04:48And if there's any way you could, you know, find it in you to give me another chance, that

04:54would be awesome because I'm not a drunk guy who pees in bushes all the time.

04:58That's not me.

04:59And I'd like the chance to show you that.

05:03That's good.

05:05That's a start.

05:07I mean, Tia, is this something you'd be willing to do is give him a second chance?

05:10I mean, he does sound remorseful.

05:11I'll give you that.

05:13Yeah.

05:13But out of one, one of two days, he peed in the bushes.

05:16So right now he's 50, 50.

05:20Yeah.

05:20You know what I mean?

05:22So it could potentially escalate.

05:24And I don't really want that to be a part of my life.

05:26So I'm pretty hesitant to go out with him again.

05:29I give you my word that will not happen again.

05:32Oh, look, I think we had a really good time the first time.

05:36And if you're saying that we don't have to drink, that might be more of, you know, of

05:42something that I could I could potentially do.

05:46Well, OK.

05:47All right.

05:48Yeah.

05:48Would you be OK with that?

05:49I mean, maybe taking the alcohol, the equation here, Brent.

05:53That is fine by me.

05:54I don't even need it.

05:55All right.

05:55Hey, here we go.

05:57All right, guys.

05:58All right.

05:58Well, here's what we'll do.

06:00Tia, I think that's very cool of you to give him a second chance.

06:02Brett, obviously, you know why Tia was a little bit thrown off on a first date.

06:07That would throw me off or second date, I should say.

06:10So let's do this.

06:10I'll put you guys both on hold.

06:12We'll get all your info and we'll set you guys up on another date and we'll pay for it.

06:16Thank you so much.

06:17Yeah.

06:18All right.

06:19Very cool.

06:19Hang on, guys.

06:21Well, here we go.

06:21Those guys are going back out.

06:22I like that.

06:23I'm shocked.

06:25Are you shocked?

06:26Yeah, I am.

06:28I mean, like she said, one out of two dates.

06:30He did that.

06:31A lot of people have been there where it's like, well, that was definitely not me last night.

06:34Sorry about it.

06:35But it sounds like he likes to cut loose a little bit.

06:38So a little.

06:40Yeah.

06:40Let's see what you think about this.

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