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00:00Okay, now I'm getting bugs.
00:10En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.
00:15It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?
00:21Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.
00:25We've known each other for 16 years.
00:27Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.
00:34Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.
00:39Look at that rock on your finger.
00:41She just makes me, basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.
00:45The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.
00:50I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.
00:55Tom fully understands what I'm like and, to be honest, joins me.
01:00Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.
01:04The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.
01:11I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.
01:17We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.
01:22Hmm. Yeah.
01:24I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.
01:31Here they go!
01:41With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.
01:49How you guys doing, alright?
01:51Hey!
01:52They're a good-looking couple.
01:53Yeah.
01:54You look lovely.
01:55Very lovely.
01:56Hi, guys.
01:57You alright?
01:58Hey!
01:59Come on, long little shirt.
02:00We're almost matching.
02:01Yeah, these guys look fit.
02:04One girl, bit of you.
02:06I'm excited, but nervous.
02:07Oh, I'm nervous now.
02:08Yeah.
02:09Definitely nervous now.
02:10I'm so excited to be here.
02:11I really am.
02:12I am like, come on.
02:13Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need.
02:26It's just a real big push.
02:29Guiding couples on their journey.
02:32Hello, come in.
02:33Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.
02:37Take a seat.
02:38I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.
02:41So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.
02:44I was terrified, but brought up the conversation with him about going open.
02:49Mm-hmm.
02:50I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other, that I wasn't complete.
02:56We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.
03:06Okay.
03:07Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?
03:09I panic when it comes to actual performing.
03:12Mm-hmm.
03:13I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.
03:20When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.
03:24If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all.
03:32And then that's, for me, game over.
03:34I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.
03:47I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?
03:51There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.
03:56I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.
03:59Party.
04:00When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?
04:05I can't take the top off.
04:07I absolutely hate looking at myself.
04:10I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.
04:14When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.
04:18Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.
04:24It was terrifying.
04:26The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.
04:33It was so, so scary.
04:35He got really down.
04:37He obviously put on a lot of weight because he wasn't allowed to work out.
04:40Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that is basically, well, it just went down the drain.
04:52You have a terrible relationship with your body.
04:55Yeah, definitely.
04:56Definitely.
04:57It's like you're not going to get a hard on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.
05:04Hey, you're okay?
05:05Yeah, I'm good.
05:06I wasn't expecting that.
05:07Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?
05:19The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path and just let myself go.
05:25So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up, which is kind of what Lauren wants.
05:40And I imagine you feel the pressure of that.
05:42It's what I want as well.
05:46Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?
05:51I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap. And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.
06:01And the same for women as well. But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.
06:08Sure, yeah, no, exactly. Hopefully, here is the place where we can help you get over those things, starting with a good old party.
06:15Tonight is about taking the lead. Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?
06:21I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.
06:31This is about sensuality. That's about cuddles and touches.
06:36I want you to focus on one person, and I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.
06:47Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.
06:55And then, be open to things escalating.
07:01That's the part that I get a bit, wow.
07:04When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight sex.
07:08Yeah.
07:09Right.
07:10It sounds really exciting.
07:11Yeah, okay.
07:12Beautiful.
07:13Yeah.
07:19Tom has a bit of work to do because his issues are mostly in his head.
07:26So, the exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.
07:33If you could just think about that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.
07:40Oh, wow.
07:43Wow.
07:44I do worry for me and Lauren, because if I can't do the whole open relationship, I feel like we go our separate ways.
07:55I'm hoping it won't get to that stage.
07:58Finally, on Open House.
08:08Ultimately why we're here is to bring in another couple, but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
08:17I'm so scared.
08:19What's at stake is Alanis' feelings and emotions.
08:22I've been cheated on quite a lot.
08:25I've seen women as more of a threat so we kind of want you to face that threat
08:32Would you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome? That scenario wasn't in my head
08:38I don't want to do it like I want to live
08:42If this is gonna work it has to be the right person
08:47Who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie. She's gorgeous
08:50Would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us if it does go wrong?
08:59Is it something I'd be able to get over?
09:09I did not think this is where we're gonna be on like our first night
09:13This would have literally been my worst nightmare really if someone was like how would you feel about doing this up like no
09:18You we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub with me
09:24How would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss?
09:33How do you feel? I'm okay. Yeah
09:36In that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss
09:48I thought oh no
09:50I think you feel like fine. I was like yeah look always bit turned on by it
10:18I really want you on me
10:24I can't believe this
10:26Are you proud of me?
10:27Yeah
10:27Like what the hell
10:30Yay
10:31I've never seen Alana kiss another woman
10:42I knew it's part of her life like long long ago, but to see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn on for me to see that
10:49It was like very hot
10:52Oh my god
10:54I'm obsessed
10:55Stop it
10:58Can we just take you home with us?
11:01Well it all flowed very naturally
11:05You've got three weeks now
11:06Can we just take you home with us?
11:07Yeah
11:08I can't believe that we could have thought we'd have been here
11:12I honestly don't know what's happening right now
11:16I feel like this is normal
11:18I think like things are feeling good
11:22Do you maybe want to come back to our room?
11:25I would love that
11:27Yeah
11:28I would just explore things a little bit more
11:30Take the next step
11:31We'll do baby steps
11:32Let's do it
11:33I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all
11:36To bring in like a single female
11:39I thought that would be way too intimidating
11:41I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned on
11:43Yeah
11:45I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned on
11:47Yeah
11:49I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned on
11:51Yeah
11:53Yeah like this has been insane
11:55Honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change
11:58And you wouldn't can do anything and now we're inviting
12:02I asked her to come back to our room
12:03Back to our room
12:19Oh my god they're short short
12:20I don't know I did say my ass like eats them
12:23New arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night
12:33They'll be attending a sexy barn dance
12:35Where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his physical stumbling block
12:41When it comes to opening up
12:42Whenever we've dipped our toes into being open
12:49Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable
12:54They've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining them for a group experience
12:59Where the focus is only on foreplay
13:06With no pressure to perform the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion
13:11I do foresee hurdles the residents are all very beautiful
13:16The problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious
13:20If I went there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out
13:28How are you guys feeling?
13:34How are you guys feeling?
13:35Yeah great
13:37Shit scared
13:38This is out of my comfort zone. The heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room.
14:01So what we're going to do is we're going to go around and we're going to talk to them.
14:05I feel sick inside. I don't think I can.
14:07OK, so listen, there's no pressure. That's what we're saying.
14:11Let's just give it a really good go. This is what we're here for.
14:14First to meet them are married couple Jem and Daz.
14:18What are you looking for, then?
14:20That's the question. So for me, I need that conversation.
14:24Yeah.
14:25And for you, it's obviously just about feeling body-confident around.
14:28Yeah, I'm a bit, yeah.
14:29Yeah.
14:30Just lacking in confidence a little bit. That's understandable.
14:33You know, it's really nerve-wracking.
14:35If there's any environment where personality matters more than looks, it's this environment.
14:40We'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their journey.
14:44Hello, you all right? I'm Tom.
14:45How are you doing me? All right?
14:46How are you doing?
14:47I'm Gaze. This is my wife, Olivia.
14:48What's your dynamic?
14:49So we...
14:50That's a big word, that is.
14:51That's a very big word, isn't it?
14:53Dynamic!
14:54That's my favourite word, is that right?
14:55Don't have it!
14:56I love it!
14:57Why did I say we've babbled in it before?
14:58We're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling.
15:03You know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared.
15:06But when you have that, you know, responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression
15:10of the lifestyle, you want to make it the best.
15:13I used to be like really like outgoing, going gym seven days. I used to have like the abs
15:18and I'd basically comfort eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now, so...
15:22You can just like kiss and you can like, you can go down on them and you can touch them.
15:28And you don't necessarily just have the build up, but I think it is the part of mentality.
15:31You think you've got to go through that natural process.
15:34Olivia and Gage, they made me feel so like, it just felt, it just felt natural just talking to her.
15:40After a confidence boost from Gage, Tom moves on to single resident Aaron,
15:46who's no stranger to open conversation.
15:49Do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?
15:53Basically, have fun, relax and try and let my hair down.
15:57To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up,
16:01I think the best thing they can do is talk to us.
16:05You know, you've come here for the sex, but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.
16:09I'm a single guy, I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women.
16:14Oh wow!
16:15At the same time for two years.
16:16Oh wow! That's crazy!
16:17Split 50-50.
16:18Yeah.
16:19There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence.
16:23Yeah.
16:24And I'll go and play and I won't even get hard.
16:26But that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around.
16:30That's, that's what I'm, that's, this is what we're trying to get through to Tom.
16:33Speaking to Aaron, he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically.
16:41I've got my hands and I've got my tongue.
16:43And I think Lauren really likes them as well.
16:46Aaron has given me fanny flutters.
16:49So I've never had more than two men at once.
16:53So my ideal situation would obviously be more men.
17:00Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite
17:06to their sensual soiree.
17:08Aaron.
17:09Because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard.
17:12Yeah.
17:13Because I feel like he would understand you as well.
17:16Yeah.
17:17Aaron made me feel really at ease.
17:20He, yeah, he was absolutely brilliant.
17:24I'm so scared of the rejection.
17:26Mainly for Tom rather than for me.
17:28Because is he then going to be really nervous going forward?
17:32That little bit inside that if they say no.
17:35It'll feel like shit, yeah, but you know.
17:38You just have to wait and see and see what happens.
17:41We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just...
17:45Maybe some games, some teasing, some fuddling.
17:48If it escalates, it escalates.
17:49Yeah, sure.
17:50If it doesn't, it doesn't.
17:51And that doesn't run.
17:52Yeah.
17:56Okay guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play.
18:01It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point.
18:07I was surprised by Aaron because he said he didn't want to play.
18:12Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along.
18:14No.
18:16Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea.
18:18But for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process.
18:23It's like rejection.
18:25I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked.
18:26Right, move all the things with the beds.
18:27Put them all on the here.
18:38In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie.
18:43Are we going to be weird and go, are you okay if we get protection just in case?
18:48We'll just have it on the side.
18:51They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap, by having a threesome.
19:00I don't know how this is going to go, seeing Alex being with another woman.
19:07With where we are now, look, I'm definitely open to just seeing how it goes.
19:14But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him because he's going to potentially be with another woman.
19:24This is all new and it's starting to feel very real.
19:28So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel.
19:35I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be.
19:43Hello, come here, come here.
19:46Oh, it's so nice.
19:49It would be, it would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure.
19:54So much better. Okay, cool, okay.
19:58This is a bit more chill.
19:59Yeah.
20:00If you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum.
20:03No, I like that.
20:04Let's just pick up when we're left though.
20:09The sexual chemistry was insane.
20:18The fact that I could like, just let go of everything and just really,
20:23enjoy it.
20:24Push my hands.
20:28I never thought that would have happened in this experience.
20:33Oh, my goodness, that shit.
20:34Yes!
20:35Oh, my goodness.
20:36Oh, my goodness, that shit.
20:37Yes!
20:39What's going on in taste?
20:40Oh!
20:42Oh!
20:43Oh!
20:44Oh!
20:45Oh, my goodness, that shit!
20:46Yes.
20:48Oh, my goodness, that shit.
20:49Yes!
20:51Going on in taste.
20:52Oh!
20:53Oh, no!
20:54But as play between Ilana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.
21:03I think, like, I was overwhelmed.
21:15It was, like, from zero to 100, and it caught me off guard, really.
21:20Although I was, like, turned on an idea, I wasn't, like, turned on.
21:37Fuck!
21:42I can't quite match that right now.
21:50Yeah.
21:57I've had, like, the best evening, like.
22:00Yay.
22:01Give me a little kiss.
22:02Yeah.
22:03Bye.
22:09I'll see you soon as well.
22:11Yeah, we'll see you soon.
22:12Bye.
22:13Bye.
22:18I love you so much.
22:20I loved it.
22:21I genuinely loved every minute of that.
22:23There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or, like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.
22:29Like, I literally loved every single second of that.
22:33Did you enjoy it?
22:34I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:37I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.
22:39Yeah.
22:41I loved it.
22:46Why do I always seem to get the wet patch?
22:48Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.
23:06At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.
23:10It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.
23:35You're so quiet.
23:36Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel there was something a little bit off.
23:55What are you thinking about?
23:59I'm just thinking.
24:01Processing.
24:02Are you sure you're okay?
24:06Yeah.
24:10When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.
24:18I knew Alex was in his head a little bit.
24:24Even at home, like, he can go a bit quieter sometimes, but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.
24:29Hello, come in.
24:30Hello.
24:31Take a seat.
24:32Take a seat.
24:33Take a seat.
24:34Get comfy.
24:35Yeah, you're right.
24:37How was last night?
24:38Like, I'm really happy.
24:39Yeah.
24:40It just, it felt right.
24:41Beautiful breakthrough.
24:42Absolutely.
24:43I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like, would you be okay if I kissed Alex?
24:59She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.
25:02And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it, which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.
25:09What are you thinking, Alex?
25:12I don't, I don't know.
25:14I don't want to take away because I loved last night.
25:16Sure.
25:17It was incredible.
25:18I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.
25:23Okay.
25:24Yeah, tell me about that.
25:25I don't know, like, I don't think I was, I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like, so that's what I'm confused at the moment about.
25:32Okay, okay, okay.
25:35The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again, I don't know if I go all the way, so.
25:39Okay.
25:40Hmm.
25:41That's where, I think that's why I've been quiet this morning because I wasn't sure.
25:43For me, there was, like, something missing and I don't know what it was.
25:46I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection based, like, when it comes to sex.
25:50Mm-hmm.
25:51Like, deep, deeper connections.
25:52Sure.
25:54Intimacy?
25:55Is that what you're seeking?
25:56Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?
25:59I do find it better if there's a connection.
26:03And that's where I am right now, like, I'm trying to figure that out.
26:07The thing that I want to understand is, how do you feel about that?
26:11Um, I don't feel comfortable with that.
26:20Sure.
26:21Now, like, I do see that as threatening.
26:24Like, what if you build, like, this really great connection with someone else that you then feel is, like, better?
26:34That's never ever going to be the thing.
26:40You okay?
26:41Yeah.
26:43It's okay.
26:46You're really challenging some of the things that you're the most afraid of and stuff is coming up.
26:49Yeah.
26:50Like, that's all about that.
26:51So that's scary to you right now.
26:54So let's just look at it in the face.
26:56Tell me, what do you mean by connection?
26:59Let's just, like...
27:00I think it's definitely not, like, deep connection with what I have with you.
27:04It's a lot less than that.
27:06Okay.
27:07It's more familiarization.
27:08Like, you almost want to be friends with that person before it...
27:10Yeah.
27:11Okay.
27:12I've never been, like, a one-night guy, if you know what I mean?
27:15To be fair, like, yeah, even we didn't sleep together, like, straight away.
27:19Mm-hmm.
27:20So I get that.
27:21I know that's not necessarily, like, how you work.
27:25Mm-hmm.
27:26So what would that look for you in terms of you guys dating couples?
27:29Like, do you want to have, like, one couple friend that you date and play with?
27:36Or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?
27:40Like, what does that look like for you?
27:41We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like, one couple that we're, like, best friends with.
27:46Mm-hmm.
27:47And we get on really well with them and, like, play together as well.
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:51So what I have in mind is I want you to have a taste of the couple experience that you want.
27:58But I feel like the next challenge for you is to navigate the connection piece.
28:03For you to actually go there and start making a connection.
28:06And for you to feel, like, to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.
28:10And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.
28:12And then once you feel like you have a connection in place, then you can escalate things in your own time.
28:19And take it from there and you see how it goes for you.
28:21How does that sound?
28:22No, that sounds good.
28:23You happy?
28:24Okay.
28:25Good.
28:26Okay.
28:27I think that the biggest thing on my chest was what we've spoken about now.
28:32That was, like, just something I needed to understand.
28:38You're welcome.
28:39You're welcome. Enjoy.
28:42I'm excited to meet some couples today.
28:49but um this moment i i don't know if i can go all the way we'll have to see
29:01we love each other right yeah we do
29:03at the sexy barn dance lauren and tom are coming to terms with being rejected by resident aaron
29:25let your hair down let my hair down i'm gonna make you like that i'm not that is not happening
29:33oh my god
29:47i used to do quite a lot of dancing with lauren it's what i used to really enjoy so i feel a lot more
29:52comfortable yeah
29:57when i was around tom we had a little mini dance battle and like the fact that he was just
30:04busting out the robot and like just having so much fun with it and i was like let's do this
30:08let's do that and he was just like yeah let's do it the last
30:16i'm i'm buzzing i'm literally buzzing from how happy he is
30:19he's so relaxed now
30:28rejection behind them thoughts return to their objective finding residence for a sensual after
30:34party i feel a lot more comfortable yeah so i think it's a lot more easier to invite
30:39people and to see if they say yes or no you lead the way
31:01but it was basically we're just wondering if um if you'd like to be
31:05to like come back with us and just basically cuddle kiss touch
31:12well i'm ready whenever you guys are i'll be at the bar i wasn't expecting that i wasn't expecting
31:18the fact that i was actually waiting for a note as tom's confidence grows and i was just wondering
31:25if you guys want to come back yeah yeah yeah oh wow yeah yeah so does the after party wondering
31:33if you want to come i love that that's quick that's so easy thank you
31:40and the guest list swells to five we were pleasantly surprised
31:45and it actually feels kind of like nice like feeling i know it sounds weird but wanted
31:51i would say i'm definitely attracted to him for sure
31:54they're a vibe 100 i'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more
31:58lauren and tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet as the five residents will be joining
32:06them to attempt to help tom overcome his performance anxiety and successfully open up
32:12we're basically we're going back to the bedroom and basically see what happens
32:21not promising anything i've still got them hurdles i've still got them body confidence and all that
32:26the worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out
32:43having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up
32:46alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples
32:53oh this looks so cute we're just looking for like good vibes obviously going into the couple
33:00scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different
33:05people then we'll see you know if it's the right people then it'll it'll be there
33:16hello hello joe lovely to meet you lovely to meet you how are you doing you all right
33:23both alex and alana really want to get to know them don't we yeah they're definitely they're super hot
33:29who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then i think coming here might have been
33:34more me so did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady what were you initially
33:42looking for connections with couples yeah yeah is where we were looking at the hardest part was
33:47obviously for me to kind of go over like insecurities with having another female like being physical
33:54and like smash that on the first night so we're like yeah
34:01one thing i'd say is oh i'll do three some because it's easiest you guys have actually
34:04done probably one of the harder things like foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something
34:08to do hi i'm alana hi alana lovely to meet you today tonight you're looking for a couple swap
34:20yeah just trying to like find our way into it though it's definitely been a space it's just
34:24finding our like place big thing letting someone else into your relationship but it's it's nice
34:31because like you say everyone's like scenarios are different well it's about you guys that's the thing
34:36it's like you're not here to please someone else yeah it's what's best for you i didn't know how i was
34:42going to feel about it yeah um but actually like i shocked everyone ended up being absolutely fine with
34:49it alex and alana were quite attractive actually there was definitely a vibe there i think we'd
34:56definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us
35:01like it's been nice to speak to couples today like obviously that was what we wanted to do
35:28for me i feel like um jem and daz just feel like they would be like a really great couple to get
35:34to know i feel like they've got a similar vibe to us how are you feeling is there anyone that you
35:41felt like might have had a connection with
35:44i've like um honestly at the moment i just don't know right now if i can go any further
36:05okay how do you how are you feeling about that um
36:10um yeah like i'm a little bit surprised um
36:18what is it that's making you feel that way is it that you don't feel like
36:22you want to go any further at all or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit
36:28too much too soon like it's just got a bit overwhelming
36:34mate i don't know like
36:35like it's more of a me thing this now
36:43for like for now but that's as far as i can go you've hit like a bit of a wall with it yeah okay
36:53i do want to revisit this okay
36:55okay that makes me happy
37:10with alex unable to continue the couple stay at the retreat has come to an end
37:16going forward i do think open up the relationship is for me and alana but it's going to take time
37:28it will take more time for me
37:42um i don't know i feel like emotional now
37:55what just happened then i don't know
38:00it's just the whole thing's like just very overwhelming isn't it like
38:03what's it i don't know because i don't like i don't know what to say
38:14it's just like a very emotional few days isn't it
38:18the future will at some point be a full open relationship but at the moment it's baby steps still
38:25it's just been a very overwhelming process but um i don't want to keep crying but like i'm actually
38:38really proud of myself
38:43opening up our relationship is a lot harder than i first thought like i really thought it was going to
38:48be a straight line but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it it's not easy but like
38:54we've absolutely got the ability to do it i actually love you to pieces and i'm happy and glad and i love you
39:03so much i love you so much
39:16just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it however
39:20if you hadn't then why is everyone saying yes
39:24lauren and tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the residence playroom
39:31even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff
39:34it doesn't mean like you know they see me and go actually no what the is that
39:38it's what goes to my head
39:40i know so that's why we're gonna go take it one step at a time
39:45okay yeah
39:46yeah no pressure they hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay tom will manage to get an erection
39:56a stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up
39:59i'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that i don't have to worry about um for for my dick not to hug
40:12i don't quite know how i'm feeling right now uh
40:34uh being shocked to be fair my biggest concern is obviously making sure tom is comfortable because
40:41i will get naked and run around like i am the complete opposite of tom
40:50i know i want to be open and i'm not planning on changing that
40:54i'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's tom that is
40:58wait should we make the lighting a little bit more sexy guys oh yeah let's do it
41:02it's all over it like just put blindfold on and nice nice nice nice is there any areas that you
41:10genuinely want us to avoid it's basically just taking the top off
41:14it feels weird that i can't see either i definitely want to make lauren happy
41:23we'll try anything like jump this hurdle basically
41:27but once it's in my head i can't before i freeze once i'm in that rut i can't get out of the rut
41:34how are you doing mate it's weird but you're getting worshiped you're getting all the attention
41:41this is my favorite thing
41:45despite effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay tom lets the ladies lead
41:52just let us know if it gets a bit too overwhelming
41:57it was putting shivers down my spine i could feel everything
42:12i feel absolutely petrified and sick
42:28next time on open house are you ready for the next level
42:32i feel absolutely petrified yeah is it okay to kiss it's two guys back another
42:47i have identified as gay today i don't know i've been feeling very nutty never had any experience with
42:57it's gaming before but worst case no it would be it
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