Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 3
Open House The Great Sex Experiment S3E03
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00:00So nervous, are you?
00:04We're just like a normal average couple from a small town.
00:10I want to keep the spice alive and feed together for life.
00:15We are looking to bring another girl into the equation.
00:19I'm worried maybe Johnny being with someone else,
00:23maybe she'll turn him on more than I do.
00:25We've talked about this for a long, long time, obviously opening up.
00:28We just don't know how to make that first move.
00:31You can't close the deal as they say.
00:33Yes!
00:36What's at stake?
00:37Everything really, isn't it?
00:39Your relationship's at stake.
00:41To lose it would be to lose everything.
00:43I'm so stressed.
00:46It's absolutely bonkers, literally.
00:49Like, what are we doing?
00:58In the retreat summer garden, a masked ball is in full swing.
01:11And the sexually liberated residents are eagerly awaiting Sarah and Johnny's arrival.
01:16I am known as Orgy Jen.
01:20Very known for orgies.
01:22Generally for us, the more the better, really.
01:26That's kind of how we live our non-monogamous way.
01:29Yes.
01:34We can do this.
01:35Finally here.
01:37I'm going to bring this off.
01:40After years of trying to open up, Sarah and Johnny are hoping tonight's the night
01:45they finally find the courage to invite a woman into their bedroom.
01:49When you get into that social, what do you need to do?
01:51Don't be afraid to approach people and be confident
01:55and ask the person to see if they'd like to spend some time with us
01:58because that's what we haven't done before.
02:00Yeah.
02:01Ready?
02:02Let's go.
02:04I approached Johnny first about opening up our relationship.
02:06I've given him so much reassurance that everything's going to be okay.
02:10Eventually, he was like, yes, this is like a dream of true!
02:17Hi, guys!
02:18Are you okay?
02:20You guys look good.
02:21I can see you again.
02:22Hi, Libby.
02:23Are you okay?
02:24Very good.
02:25Are you okay, Monique?
02:26Oh, what's my drink?
02:28How are you doing?
02:29Okay, Johnny.
02:30Nice to meet you.
02:32I think you're taking my mask off because I know...
02:34Oh, yeah.
02:35It's definitely...
02:36You know what?
02:37I won't get it on if I take it off.
02:39So, tell us anyway, like, what brings you guys to open house?
02:41Well, I think we're looking for a girl to join us, really.
02:43Yeah.
02:44The person have connection with you two at the same time.
02:46Yeah.
02:47Sometimes, you know...
02:48It could be a bit hard for two people.
02:49It is.
02:50It is.
02:51What advice I will give to this couple?
02:54Keep something intimate for you, too.
02:58It can be kissing, it can be anal sex, it can be...
03:02Nobody touch my feet except my husband.
03:05You know, just a little, like, thinks it's yours.
03:10Where's that accent?
03:11Is it French?
03:12Oh, yes.
03:13French.
03:14Oh, it was, yeah?
03:15Yeah.
03:16It's very strong.
03:17We've all been drooling over it.
03:18Very, very sexy.
03:19Very sexy.
03:20Very sexy.
03:22Right, we'll get in there.
03:23Nice.
03:25By all means, we're around.
03:26If you have a look for a chat.
03:27But yeah, get to know.
03:28Cheers.
03:29We will.
03:30Cheers.
03:31Cheers.
03:32Cheers.
03:33Enjoy yourself.
03:34Hi, guys.
03:35Hi.
03:36Hi.
03:37Sarah and Johnny's focus is to try and find a female to join them tonight.
03:42But as the couple work the floor, they catch the attention of married couple Jem and Daz.
03:49We've been together ten years.
03:51Wow.
03:52We've been in the scene five, but we took it really slowly.
03:55Yeah.
03:56Just did a bit of soft swapping to start with, with couples.
03:59Same room.
04:00Sort of swapping.
04:01Always same room.
04:02Always.
04:03Yeah.
04:04We really enjoy it that way.
04:05We do.
04:06Yeah.
04:07We will do a bit of everything really.
04:10Guys, girls, groups.
04:12All of it.
04:13Good to meet guys like you, you know.
04:16Yeah.
04:17It'll be really interesting too.
04:18Yeah.
04:19And be couples like yourselves.
04:20We can help.
04:22Join us.
04:23Join us.
04:26I can see why it would be easier as a couple for another couple.
04:30You know, three is an odd number.
04:32And it is always a worry.
04:33Is one person going to feel left out?
04:35No, no.
04:36Not sure about that.
04:37Like you too.
04:40Thank you so much.
04:41Can't do well now.
04:42They seem like a lot of fun.
04:44They seem like our kind of people.
04:46We'd love to spend some more time with them and just see if that builds some more.
04:51Just come over here.
04:52But Johnny wants to stick with the plan and continue pursuing a threesome with one of the female residents.
04:59Go on.
05:00Look at me.
05:01French.
05:02I can't remember her name though.
05:03I can't remember her name though.
05:04I can't remember her name.
05:05Is it Marie?
05:06Marie.
05:07French Marie.
05:08Oh God.
05:09French Marie.
05:10There's the accent I think of her.
05:11It's going to be hopeless.
05:14In the past, when we've been in situations where we've had, you know, it's been there on a plate, we just can't between us just do it.
05:21It's like, she's too good looking for us.
05:23I'm just going to put myself out there.
05:25I'm going to step outside my comfort zone.
05:27I'm getting goosebumps just thinking about it.
05:31Hello.
05:32Hi.
05:33I'm teaching her some friends.
05:35I've noticed.
05:36I hear.
05:37It's only bonjour that I know.
05:39I know.
05:40Bonjour.
05:41So Marie, we were just having a little chat.
05:43Okay.
05:44And we have a mutual attraction to you.
05:47Oh, okay.
05:48We were just wondering if you'd like to spend some time with us.
05:50I'm feeling like I don't have the connection.
05:57We understand that.
05:58Thank you so much.
05:59It's okay.
06:00It's very nice.
06:02Sweet to see.
06:05Okay.
06:06Yeah.
06:07We can't get another one.
06:08Yeah.
06:11I wasn't ready for that.
06:13Sarah and Johnny, for me, it's not the right things to do.
06:17Because I didn't have any physical or brain connection with them.
06:22I'm feeling my bride.
06:23I'm all right.
06:24It's lovely how you do it.
06:26Yeah.
06:27Yeah.
06:28No, you're fine, mate.
06:29Thanks so much.
06:30Cheers.
06:31What are you doing?
06:32I'm not sure.
06:33I'm not sure.
06:34I'm not sure.
06:35Oh, God.
06:36Shit, shit, shit, shit.
06:37How you feeling?
06:38Yeah.
06:39I'm not sure.
06:40I'm not sure.
06:41Oh, God.
06:42Shit, shit, shit, shit, shit.
06:44How you feeling?
06:45Yeah.
06:46Fun.
06:47No, I'm a little bit nervous.
06:48But when I went skydiving, my hands a little bit clammy.
06:49Yeah, I'm pretty good.
06:50Yeah.
06:51I'm pretty good.
06:52Next into the retreat are builder Claude and full-time mum Amy.
07:10When we first met, I just thought, this woman is perfect for me.
07:17Yeah.
07:18All I can think about is how much I want to be there forever.
07:20So, yeah.
07:21I kept saying, you can ask me to marry you.
07:23Yeah.
07:24And then, yeah, he did.
07:26Between them, Claude and Amy have six children.
07:31Two children together and four from Amy's previous marriage.
07:35Our home life is busy.
07:37It's actual chaos.
07:38So, I try to live in every single moment.
07:41The chaos, the ups, the downs, the shouting, the laughter.
07:44But it doesn't stop them from having fun.
07:47I think mine and Amy's sex life is fantastic.
07:49For me, it's the best.
07:51We don't have all of the time in the world.
07:54So, the opportunity arises, we'll take it.
07:57We'll fit it in with chores.
08:03Amy is no stranger to the world of non-monogamy.
08:06So, I was introduced to the lifestyle when I was in my late teens.
08:09Those were the best times of my life.
08:12So, when I did get with Claude, I made it clear I'd like to bring other people into our relationship.
08:17And now she wants to return to non-monogamy with her husband by her side.
08:22I want multiple people in my life at all times.
08:26I think I was spoiled as a child.
08:29I just want it all.
08:31Not just sex.
08:32Something more serious.
08:33It's like a fairing island.
08:35Yeah.
08:36It's expanding your family.
08:39I'd like to have more people to love.
08:43Opening up the relationship was definitely Amy's idea.
08:46I'm still a bit, like, in the air of what I want.
08:50Like, worst case scenario happened and I realised I didn't want any of this lifestyle and she still did.
08:55I would be gutted and I'd be heartbroken.
09:01Oh, my God, these guys are stunning.
09:04Since I've been in open relationships, I'm probably the most confident now that I've ever been in my life.
09:10What part of the lifestyle do you think you enjoy the most?
09:14Anal.
09:16Oh, my God.
09:19She's cute.
09:20Yeah.
09:21Hey, guys, welcome.
09:23My first impressions of Amy and Claude, they seem to be owning it and they looked really good.
09:28We've got a good vibe about them.
09:29How are you doing?
09:30Nice to meet you.
09:31Lovely to meet you.
09:32How are you feeling?
09:34Hi.
09:35I'm Naomi.
09:36Lovely to meet you.
09:38They had a very mellow vibe.
09:39That intrigues me.
09:40Like, that makes me want to get to know them more.
09:42Amazing.
09:43Come on.
09:44We'll see you guys later.
09:45See you later.
09:48He sounds so cool.
09:50Like, I'm Claude.
09:52My name's Claude.
09:53Like, wow.
09:57How do you feel?
09:59Yeah, I'm fine.
10:00Yeah.
10:01I'm excited.
10:02Yeah.
10:04Bringing somebody in long-term is a huge thing for me.
10:08It's a deal-break.
10:09If I couldn't achieve that with Claude, it would definitely be something for me.
10:12It would definitely be something that put a spanner in our relationship.
10:17I love all you.
10:21Aimee, I think, is brilliant.
10:22She's an amazing mum.
10:23She's an amazing wife.
10:25So, losing her, I would be lost.
10:32Claude and Aimee.
10:33Hi, I'm Effie.
10:34Come in.
10:35Here to help Claude and Aimee navigate the complex world of non-monogamy is relationship coach, Effie Blue.
10:41You too.
10:42Come in.
10:43How are you feeling?
10:44Good.
10:45Really good, thank you.
10:46Excited.
10:47I am curious.
10:48What brings you here today?
10:50We want to build on our family, but in a relationship way.
10:54Like, you have multiple people to trust and take care of and they take care of you.
10:59Okay.
11:00So, you're curious to find out if polyamory is right for you.
11:03Polyamory is really about having multiple loving ongoing relationships as a relationship structure.
11:08Claude, what does it mean to you to have multiple relationships?
11:12For me, the thought of it sounds amazing, but maybe in practical terms, it ain't as good as it sounds.
11:21Where do you think it might fail?
11:23You don't feel like you can love anybody else, do you?
11:26Yeah, not the way I love you.
11:29That's huge, right?
11:30Yeah.
11:31Because I've been monogamous my whole life, doing something with another woman, even with consent,
11:37makes me feel like it's wrong.
11:42I would really, really enjoy if he'd gone out and just done something by himself with someone I don't know about.
11:48Okay, wow.
11:49But he has a lot of guilt.
11:51Okay.
11:52And is there any infidelity in your past?
11:54No.
11:55No.
11:56At all?
11:57Okay.
11:58So, what are the whispers in the back of your mind that is keeping you worried about Amy?
12:04Even though it's all consensual, it still makes me feel, like, a bit guilty.
12:08Mm-hmm.
12:09Do you know where it's coming from?
12:10Probably just the way, obviously, everyone grows up thinking monogamy is the only way to be.
12:15Yeah.
12:16Do you really want this?
12:17Everything about it seems like a man's perfect dream, I guess.
12:26Not every man's.
12:27Yes, you're right.
12:28No, you are right.
12:29Not every man's.
12:30Yeah.
12:31Is it your dream?
12:32That's what we're here to find out, I guess.
12:34Yeah.
12:35So, we're going to organize a social, in order to go and check in with yourselves, and then
12:42separate.
12:43Claude, I want you to see if you can push through your guilt.
12:46Lean into the connections with another woman, and see if you can escalate it to inviting
12:51the person to your bedroom.
12:54Amy, I know I don't need to tell you, but this is the same.
12:58Have fun.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Have fun.
13:01Brilliant.
13:02The invitation for you is the same.
13:04Yeah.
13:05Hopefully, this experience will give us insight.
13:08All right.
13:09Thank you so much.
13:10Nice to meet you.
13:11Have fun.
13:12It was lovely.
13:14Not being together is a strange thing for us.
13:19Yeah, yeah.
13:20I understand that Amy wants this lifestyle.
13:23She wants it to happen.
13:25So, I don't understand it, why I still feel guilty.
13:28I'm excited.
13:30Yeah.
13:31It's going to be fun.
13:33But hopefully, after this, I won't feel like that anymore.
13:36I'm just going to see.
13:38Let's see what happens.
13:39Yeah.
13:40I've asked him, is it what you really want?
13:42I do ask him a lot, and he's always said yes.
13:47He is my soul mate, but I don't ever want to lose me.
13:52And to open up the relationship, it's a massive part of who I am.
13:55I don't know.
13:56I don't know.
14:14Despite finally gathering the courage to take the first steps towards opening up,
14:18Sarah and Johnny have been knocked back by resident Marie.
14:23What did we do?
14:24I'm not sure.
14:25It is what it is.
14:27She's lovely, but it can't happen, and it's fine, isn't it?
14:30We've got our own options open.
14:32At least we've put it out there.
14:33That's something we haven't done before.
14:35That's massive progress.
14:37I haven't got it, really, because it's been a long time since I've been rejected.
14:41I'm not used to my confidence being knocked.
14:43It just hit me a little.
14:45Whilst Johnny is still recovering from the sting of rejection,
14:48Sarah shakes things up by re-approaching Jem and Daz.
14:52How are you?
14:53I'm still in this jacket.
14:54It's chilly.
14:55I wish she had one.
14:56I know.
14:57You've lucked out, though.
14:58I know.
14:59At least I'm not wearing it today.
15:01Well, if you did want to get to know us a bit better, we think you're great.
15:06So, just to say, if you did fancy jumping in the hot tub, we'd be more than happy to.
15:12We wouldn't have to do anything, but, you know, you and me could have a little kiss.
15:17Yeah!
15:18Can we have a little chat and we all get back to you?
15:20Sure, yeah.
15:21No worries.
15:22All right, guys.
15:24See you later.
15:25Bye.
15:26A couple swap is definitely something we've discussed, but I worry of Johnny getting really
15:32upset and maybe thinking, you know, is she enjoying this more than she enjoys us being together?
15:39So, a couple was not what we were.
15:42No.
15:43Not what we were.
15:44Not what we talked about, no.
15:46But, she's beautiful.
15:48Yeah.
15:49And she's, they're so, they just get her.
15:51Yeah, yeah.
15:52Am I right by saying that you're nervous, like, in case I go near a man or?
15:56No.
15:57What is it?
15:58Because I can see, I know you're into my house, Johnny.
16:00And I know right now there's something you just feel a little bit uncomfortable about.
16:04Is that right?
16:05Yeah.
16:06It just wasn't what we talked about.
16:07No, it's not.
16:08But nothing goes to plan, I mean, does it?
16:10No.
16:11Let's be honest.
16:12It wouldn't hurt to just go in the hot tub with it.
16:15Yeah.
16:16To see what happens.
16:17Yeah.
16:18Are you sure?
16:19Yeah.
16:20All right.
16:21It is going to be tough to have a man in a sexual setting.
16:25Obviously, it's my alpha male that comes out and I'm like, oh, do I want another man
16:29around my girl?
16:30Hey!
16:31We're back, we're back.
16:32Yeah.
16:33You're back!
16:34We're back!
16:35We would like to spend some more time with you.
16:36Yeah.
16:37I just think it'd be nice.
16:38Yeah, I think it'd be really fun.
16:39We'd love to.
16:40Yeah, thank you.
16:41Cool.
16:42Oh, cool.
16:43I'm excited!
16:44Oh, great.
16:47Are you there?
16:48Bye!
16:49Bye!
16:50Bye!
16:51See you guys!
16:52Bye!
16:53Bye!
16:54Bye!
16:55Are you okay?
17:00It's a big shock, isn't it?
17:01I just, like...
17:02Just don't worry, okay?
17:04I love you.
17:05Honestly, there's no other man there or anywhere that I found someone on you.
17:11Okay?
17:12Yeah.
17:13So, please, just don't feel insecure or...
17:15I've got you, you've got me, okay?
17:17I can tell that Johnny's a bit nervous about potentially seeing him.
17:22Kiss another guy.
17:23But I really want him to relax.
17:25I want him to enjoy it.
17:26I want him to enjoy the experience.
17:28I feel like you...
17:29I don't know.
17:30What, Mum?
17:31I don't know.
17:32I'm worrying about you.
17:33My mum.
17:34My mum.
17:35Are you okay?
17:37Yeah.
17:38I'm just...
17:39You're just using you or you're about me.
17:40I'm worried about you.
17:41It's my woman, isn't it?
17:44And I protect her with everything I do, so...
17:47No, I'm not jealous.
17:50But, you know, I am protective of my girl.
17:55The whole thing is, like, I don't know.
17:58It's difficult, isn't it?
17:59It's different, like, what I thought and imagined, so...
18:02We came here to open our relationship and play with a girl.
18:10So to be diving straight into a couple is not happy.
18:15But now it's quite much time.
18:27I don't know how many people...
18:29You look...
18:31Retreat newcomers Claude and Amy are getting ready for their first social.
18:36I think I should have my hair up or leave it in a ponytail.
18:38In a ponytail, absolutely.
18:42They'll be joining some of the retreat's residents
18:45for a burlesque evening in the grounds.
18:48Cheers!
18:52Amy's dream is to live a life with multiple partners
18:55and she wants her husband Claude to get on board.
18:58What if I, like, go with a girl when you are upset about it?
19:03We've not done it before, so do it and find out.
19:07I'm a little bit apprehensive.
19:09We're going to push ourselves to be uncomfortable.
19:11Let's go.
19:12Tonight's challenge is for Claude and Amy
19:14to socialise with residents separately
19:16and escalate any connections to the bedroom
19:19without the comfort of each other.
19:26Amy definitely knows what she wants more than I do.
19:28Like, I'm still a bit, like, in the air of what I want.
19:36The couple take their first steps into unknown territory.
19:41So my preference is always above three
19:43or foursomes and upwards
19:46or not together.
19:48Like, Claude goes off and finds someone he likes
19:51and I do the same.
19:56Whoo!
19:57Whoo!
19:59Hello!
20:01Oh, I did try and play.
20:03All right, let's do it.
20:05Love you.
20:06Mwah!
20:07Amy heads straight for single resident Georgie,
20:12who's been exploring the world of non-monogamy for ten years.
20:16Shall we touch him?
20:18He's running.
20:20He's running off.
20:22Claude has, like, a guilt thing in his head.
20:26So he's trying to push just going off on his own
20:28and seeing how it feels.
20:30So you look amazing as well.
20:31I was meant to be in a lingerie set, but I'll show you later.
20:35Yeah.
20:36And I'll show you.
20:37Non-longeray.
20:38Ooh!
20:39That's nice.
20:41What do I love in the bedroom?
20:42Well, like I said, I'm quite greedy.
20:44My favourite is definitely threesomes.
20:47Do you think you would ever, like, join a couple?
20:48That is my dream reality is to be part of a triple
20:50because I'm very much bisexual.
20:52Yeah.
20:53If you didn't know.
20:56Georgie is fun.
20:57I love it.
20:58I love her energy.
20:59She makes me feel really comfortable.
21:00So that's, like, a really key thing for me.
21:03Sometimes I say to Claude,
21:04I feel like I might be a lesbian with a husband.
21:07Whilst Amy gets comfortable,
21:09Claude sparks a conversation with single residents Holly and Gracie.
21:13Hey!
21:14How are you?
21:15How are you? I love the shirt.
21:17Fantastic.
21:18Nice.
21:19So how have you settled in?
21:21You all good?
21:22I'm much more nervous than Amy was, so...
21:23Yeah, really?
21:24Yeah, definitely.
21:25So is this your first time, like, trying out the lifestyle?
21:27Yeah.
21:28Turning up is the first time.
21:29Exactly, yeah.
21:30Turning up is the first time, so...
21:31Yeah.
21:32So how long have you still been in, like, this sort of lifestyle?
21:34About nine years ago, I was with my first boyfriend.
21:37We introduced a girl.
21:38They're a couple, and...
21:39Did you come into any, like, problems because of that?
21:41Um, yes, we did because I...
21:44We ended up playing with this couple and it was really awful
21:47and then I ended up leaving my guy for him.
21:50I really regret it, but, you know, I did learn from it, so...
21:55Mm-hm.
21:56Everything's a learning curve.
21:57This is definitely an out-of-my-comfort-zone feeling.
22:00It's definitely weird for me.
22:01Yeah.
22:02So what is it that brings you guys to open house?
22:04For me, it's getting past that process of, like,
22:07going out and meeting girls separately.
22:10I feel nervous about not being with Amy.
22:13I just enjoy being with her all the time.
22:17I miss her.
22:18I even know she's so close.
22:19So...
22:20We won't keep you because we could chat all night.
22:22Yeah.
22:23So, yeah, work the room.
22:25But, yeah, we'll see you around.
22:26Yeah, see you later.
22:27See you later.
22:28See you later.
22:31Whilst Claude tries to find someone to bond with,
22:34Amy's found a kindred spirit.
22:36I've navigated non-monogamy, polyamory specifically,
22:39for eight years.
22:40Wow.
22:41As a mum, as well.
22:42How many children?
22:43I've just got one.
22:44Oh, I've got six.
22:45Oh, well done you, you little saint.
22:46I have a wonderful partner,
22:49who has been my partner in rock for eight years.
22:53My co-parent.
22:54I also have a beautiful relationship with a man in the US.
22:58I'm happy, and I just thank small people to love.
23:01I've just got too much love for one person.
23:03Yeah.
23:04Yeah.
23:05That's so nice.
23:06I think the most difficult thing about polyamory
23:08is determining who you're going to spend your nights with,
23:11who you're going to have dinners with,
23:12and it's just getting used to managing separate lives.
23:16I didn't think I was going to find anybody
23:18who had exactly the same sort of mindset,
23:21so it's nice.
23:22It's really nice.
23:23Yeah.
23:24I think it's rare.
23:25My entire polyamory journey,
23:28I've never met someone who just understood
23:31everything I was saying and reciprocated.
23:34For me, if I connect with a couple, I want to know,
23:36OK, the connection is so real that they don't mind
23:38that I'm not willing to go or jump into it.
23:40Yeah.
23:41She's definitely on my wavelength.
23:42It's so nice to talk to someone that feels the same.
23:44I've not really thought about Claude.
23:47He could have met someone and been like,
23:49yep, that's the one.
23:50I just don't know.
23:51Or what?
23:52Yeah.
23:53On TV.
23:54Like, I'm just not.
23:55Yeah.
24:01Are you guys OK?
24:02Yeah.
24:03Should I give you a moment?
24:04Yeah, should I have a second?
24:06Are you going to go back away with me?
24:07No.
24:08No.
24:09No, why?
24:10I don't know.
24:11You're in a good connection.
24:12Yeah, we do.
24:13Yeah.
24:14But I feel like it's maybe more of a real connection.
24:18Like, she's someone that potentially would like a future.
24:24Met anyone you like.
24:26Yeah.
24:27Well, there's a few girls that are obviously nice looking,
24:29but no one I've had that connection with yet.
24:32Yeah.
24:33But you should go and completely finish off your adventure.
24:37I don't know.
24:39Yeah, maybe.
24:41Claude will overthink.
24:42He'll be like, should I do this?
24:45Can I do that?
24:46For him to be able to go off and have sex with other women,
24:49that's really a big thing for us.
24:52All right.
24:53Where are you going?
24:55I don't know.
24:56I'm going to go up there.
24:58From there.
24:59Back to your reaction.
25:00I love you.
25:03I love you.
25:16How do you feel about it, though?
25:19Despite entering the retreat seeking a threesome with a girl,
25:23Sarah has invited resident couple Jem and Daz to the hot tub
25:27for a potential foursome.
25:29Tell me what's going for your heart.
25:31But her partner Johnny is not happy.
25:34It's not catching my buttons, if I'm honest, like.
25:37No.
25:38No, I'm going to be honest, no.
25:41I didn't say this before.
25:43It's just not fair.
25:45The couple thing, I don't know, I don't know.
25:48It's not what we had in mind, but...
25:51We never came here for a couple swap.
25:53Hey, guys.
25:54Hey, guys.
25:55Hey, guys.
25:56Is it hot?
25:57Well, no.
25:58Is it?
25:59Amazing.
26:00How are you feeling?
26:01I'm OK.
26:02Are you shitting your pants?
26:03Is it really not in my face?
26:05Is it hot?
26:10Well, no.
26:11Is it?
26:12Amazing.
26:20How are you feeling?
26:21I'm OK.
26:22Are you shitting your pants?
26:24Is it really not in my face?
26:26No.
26:27Cheers, guys.
26:28Cheers.
26:29Cheers.
26:30So, for you guys, obviously you wanted a girl.
26:34Yeah.
26:35Has that always been the only thing you've thought about?
26:38Is there something about couple slopping that makes you uneasy?
26:41Um...
26:42Yeah, tell us.
26:43If you think about it too much, it could be a right job.
26:45Yeah, you can't overthink it.
26:47I think it definitely, the males make Johnny a bit insecure.
26:50Massively, massively.
26:51I'm exactly the same.
26:53For me, you don't want it to become competitive.
26:55No.
26:56Like it does with guys.
26:57I do feel like that.
26:59Yeah, bored.
27:00You don't want to be in that situation and kind of being like,
27:03this guy's doing some moves.
27:04Yeah.
27:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
27:06You've got to be comfortable enough to be like,
27:08hey, Van, do your thing while you're doing.
27:10Yeah, yeah.
27:11I suppose that comes with experiences as well, doesn't it?
27:14Yeah, exactly.
27:15What's your reasoning for wanting to open up your relationship?
27:18I think when we met, we'd both come out with really serious relationships
27:22and really unhappy relationships.
27:24And plus, you know, I haven't experienced anything with a girl,
27:27so I am a bit curious as well.
27:28Don't worry, I can help you with that.
27:29So it just makes sense.
27:34I don't know, so you guys are going to kiss.
27:37Yes.
27:54Wow!
27:55That was it for you guys.
28:00Oh, I did it!
28:01And you're going to remember it.
28:05I'm definitely going to remember it.
28:08Oh, wow.
28:09I love you too.
28:10Yes, I'd love you too.
28:11Would you like to care?
28:12Do you like to care?
28:13And I got over.
28:23How was it?
28:24I like it.
28:25How did you feel?
28:26I like it.
28:27It's hot.
28:31Do you want to take it to the next level?
28:39Don't think I'm ready.
28:40That's fine.
28:41That's fine.
28:42I'm so sorry.
28:43I'm so sorry.
28:44No, it's all about...
28:45I just don't feel ready yet.
28:46No, that's fine.
28:47I just didn't feel like I was ready to take that next step.
28:52You guys have helped us.
28:53You have helped us so much.
28:55You put us at ease.
28:56Oh, yeah.
28:57So pleased.
28:58He's a cool guy.
29:00Yeah, I know.
29:01I appreciate the way you are.
29:02Aw.
29:03It takes a lot.
29:04You know, it's a big, massive, like you said, it's a massive thing.
29:07Trust me.
29:08You're a cool guy, yeah.
29:09Guys, we're going to leave you now because we've had loads of fun and I think you should
29:13have a little moment.
29:15A little hot tub solo time.
29:17I'm going to have another little kiss.
29:19Have a great day.
29:20Have a great day.
29:21Have a great day.
29:22Have a great day.
29:23Have a great day.
29:24Have a great day.
29:25Have a great day.
29:26See you later.
29:27Being in the hot tub with Gemma and Daz has really changed my thoughts on things.
29:31They've really put my mind at ease.
29:33Yeah, it's been really good.
29:34My God.
29:35How'd you feel?
29:36My head was all over the gaff before.
29:37I was literally ready to fucking go right over and fucking see you later.
29:40See you later.
29:41Is it that far?
29:42Did you believe it?
29:43No, I wouldn't leave you.
29:44I'd have told you when I dragged you in.
29:45The night hasn't gone as we originally thought it would go.
29:58I'm so happy.
29:59Good.
30:00So we've got some talking to do.
30:02See what tomorrow brings.
30:04Do we want to push the boat out that little bit more?
30:07Who knows?
30:15Despite her husband Claude's uncertainty, Amy wants to bring new partners into their relationship.
30:25I'm Emily.
30:26Hi, Emily.
30:27Yeah.
30:28Tonight, they have been tasked with going it alone.
30:31But Claude has struggled to connect with any of the female residents.
30:35Unlike Amy, who is very much at ease.
30:38Like if I really think deep inside myself, I want to love multiple people.
30:42I want to open up my home, people coming in and out.
30:45Yeah.
30:46But what about you?
30:47So yeah, like polyamory was like my first introduction to this lifestyle.
30:51Right now, single.
30:52Yeah.
30:53And just sort of exploring the lifestyle, like going to parties and stuff.
30:57Me and Amy come from that idea of just like loving everyone and sort of just making people family that aren't your stereotypical family.
31:07It's obviously quite unique, but fun.
31:11But you're open to actually joining a relationship rather than just the sex and the fun.
31:15Yeah.
31:16100%.
31:17Six babies, eh?
31:18Yeah.
31:19It's crazy ass.
31:20Busy household.
31:21Yeah, it's a crazy, crazy ass.
31:23For the love though.
31:24Yeah.
31:25100%.
31:26Very close family.
31:27Georgie, she's definitely a vibe.
31:29Like she seems fantastic.
31:30She seems fun.
31:31Being without Amy, for me, like we've been together like 24-7 for like the last four years.
31:37How to make you feel?
31:38Like I'm missing something.
31:42I think, have you found it all right?
31:43Yeah.
31:44Yeah, have you?
31:45No, no, no.
31:46I've found it more difficult.
31:47Well, do you want to have a quick chat with me?
31:48It's all right.
31:49Are you okay?
31:50We're going to go up here and have a little chat.
31:51Did you struggle?
31:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
31:53I think.
31:54With Claude unable to fly solo, Amy has a plan.
31:58I would like to carry on with Emily talking and stuff.
31:59Me and Emily, I have the same sort of upbringing that like community, like family.
32:13So what, do you want to go?
32:15Yeah, we'll go together.
32:16Yeah, that sounds perfect.
32:17What about the other one?
32:18Do you want to bring her as well?
32:19I do, but I feel like to get a better connection with her, it would be a longer, a much longer
32:28process.
32:29And George is obviously just a fantastic vibe.
32:31She's definitely a vibe.
32:32If you want to carry on with George, then we can just see how it goes from there.
32:38This is the ideal scenario for me.
32:41Like, what's the point in going separately when we can go together?
32:46The couple join forces and ramp things up a notch.
32:51Would you like to come to the hot tub with both of us?
32:55That sounds really good.
32:57I'd like to hang out with both of you guys.
32:58Yeah, maybe spend some time alone.
33:00Yeah.
33:01Get a bit warmer.
33:02Yeah.
33:03It'll be nice and cosy.
33:04We just won't get out of the hot tub.
33:06Yeah.
33:07Ever.
33:08Ever.
33:09Okay.
33:10We might be going to the hot tub.
33:11Would you want to go?
33:12Okay.
33:13Yeah, yeah, down.
33:14Yeah.
33:15I understand that the dynamic thereafter is more of an emotional connection.
33:21I've been in this world for a long time and for me it has just been the physical
33:25and I'm definitely looking for something deeper and meaningful and it looks like they're
33:29looking for it too.
33:30I just want to see if there's anything more both of them want.
33:41For me, like, I haven't got that connection with them yet.
33:44But I feel like sometimes I have, like, it's good when you talk to someone and then you're
33:48like, kiss and then you feel like, oh yeah, it's, it is there.
33:51We're coming.
33:52This is the first time we've done anything like this.
34:03I'm a little bit apprehensive.
34:04Oh yeah.
34:05Oh God, that's really nice.
34:06Really?
34:07It's lovely.
34:08Toasty.
34:09Toasty.
34:10Toasty.
34:11To your youngest baby, is it one?
34:12One.
34:13One.
34:14Wow.
34:15How old are the children?
34:16I don't know if I've got it right.
34:17So how old are my children?
34:19I don't know if I've got it right.
34:20Twelve, eleven, nine, seven, three, one.
34:26I'm definitely in a weird spot.
34:27I think I'm on a leg rest.
34:28Yeah, I feel like I'm just hovering.
34:29I'm like hovering.
34:30Maybe if I sit there, is that okay?
34:31Yeah.
34:32Yeah.
34:33Should we have a little kiss, Guy?
34:36Oh my god.
34:37What's that?
34:38That's cute.
34:39That's just nice.
34:40Wow.
34:41That was so, like, soft and gentle.
34:43It was fun.
34:44For me, seeing my name with another woman is.
34:53I'm sorry.
34:54I'm sorry.
34:55You're fine.
34:56You're fine.
34:57I'm sorry.
34:58You're fine.
34:59You're fine.
35:00I'm sorry.
35:01You're fine.
35:02I'm sorry.
35:03I'm sorry.
35:04Yeah.
35:05It's definitely out of my comfort zone.
35:08You enjoyed that? I got the tingles.
35:11Oh, well, I'll kiss you all the time.
35:14All right, yeah, fine.
35:23I think the only thing that is holding him back
35:26is how much he loves me
35:28and that society tells us that this is just not the normal.
35:32In the back of his mind, he's like,
35:34if I hurt her, I can't undo what I've done.
35:48I think if Claude was like, OK, this is not the lifestyle for me,
35:53it would definitely be something that, you know,
35:56stopped us moving forward.
36:02I can't get past ten. I've fucking only got ten fingers.
36:16Hey, I haven't got ten fingers.
36:18Sarah and Johnny have woken up eager to see what their second day brings.
36:22If it goes really well, we'd like to have a non-monogamy relationship.
36:26Ideally, that's where we'd like this to go to.
36:28And just for me to gain the confidence to be able to live a non-monogamous life.
36:34Your toes, it's 20. I can't see my toes.
36:37I've got one, you've got... See my knickers underneath.
36:39You've got 11 toes.
36:41All right, love. We haven't actually, I've got...
36:46You have? We've got ten and a camel toe.
36:48Last night, Sarah was keen to invite a couple to the hot tub.
36:55Right, let's go. Just one more look in the mirror.
37:00Much to her partner Johnny's initial discomfort.
37:03Come on.
37:05So they're hoping a chat with the retreat's non-monogamy coach Effie will iron out some confusion.
37:12Hello.
37:13Hello. Welcome, welcome. Come in.
37:15Jump on the couch, get comfy.
37:18So your first, first date retreat.
37:20Yes.
37:21How was it?
37:22So, well...
37:23Surprising really, isn't it?
37:25Okay, tell me all.
37:26It shifted a little bit.
37:27We actually met a really nice couple.
37:29Okay.
37:30Yeah, and so we ended up having a bit of time with a couple.
37:33With Johnny, I could tell he just completely froze.
37:36I was ready to go.
37:37Uh-huh.
37:38And what was scary?
37:39It's an alpha male thing, isn't it, you know?
37:41Okay.
37:42Are you competing with another man while...
37:43Yeah.
37:44You know, it's like, that's how I feel about it, yeah.
37:46Okay, okay, kind of...
37:47Yeah.
37:48Man-to-man alpha competition.
37:49Yeah, it's like, it's a man thing, I'd say, yeah.
37:51I've stuck with my guns, and I, yeah, I'm glad I did.
37:54I'm proud of him, I am really proud of him.
37:55I'm really proud of him.
37:56I'm a bit emotional, yeah.
37:57It does make me emotional now, because it's just such a big thing.
38:00What's coming up for you now?
38:01I don't know.
38:02They're not sad tears, they're just like, yeah, relief tears, if anything.
38:07Okay.
38:08What's the relief from?
38:09That we've finally made that step in the right direction.
38:12And, yeah, what's to come, it's just like, I'm excited,
38:16but I'm obviously still a bit apprehensive, but nervous as well.
38:19Okay.
38:20Tell me more about that.
38:21Um...
38:22So, obviously, last night, it was just a kiss and stuff.
38:25Because a guy was never the plan, so, you know, in a short space of time,
38:29we're sort of getting our heads round that I could possibly be kissing a guy later,
38:33or even take it further, and it just makes me a little bit nervous.
38:36Okay.
38:37First of all, you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
38:39No, I know that, yeah.
38:40Uh-huh.
38:41Um, and at the same time, you are here to push boundaries and have these experiences
38:46and this beautiful, safe space that we create for you.
38:48Yeah.
38:49What do you think that you might want to explore going forward?
38:52For the first time, I actually feel maybe it was that a couple was best for us.
38:57Actually, I find more the merrier.
38:59I think when, as the numbers get bigger, the pressure goes down a little bit,
39:05because the attention kind of spreads.
39:07Yeah.
39:08Does that make sense?
39:09Yeah.
39:10And what do you think about the idea of a moresome or a potentially...?
39:12Scared to shit, obviously.
39:13Yeah.
39:14Okay.
39:15I think it's a bit much, actually, to get my head round.
39:18Yeah.
39:19A little.
39:20Just a little baby steps.
39:22Sure.
39:23So, it just depends.
39:24Yes, baby steps, but towards what?
39:25Right, is the question.
39:26Yeah.
39:27Yeah, I don't, I'm not sure.
39:28Yeah, no.
39:29Okay.
39:30Okay.
39:31Keep it in your mind.
39:32Keep having conversations.
39:33We want you to at least mentally be prepared for all the different things that happen...
39:37Yeah.
39:38...that you can get involved in.
39:39Just don't be one-track minded.
39:40Exactly.
39:41Yeah.
39:42And it's really up to you which path you go down on.
39:44Okay.
39:47One of Effie's suggestions was that possibly more people joining the experience would be easier.
39:53Go forward, have fun.
39:55Take care.
39:56Take care.
39:57We're not quite sure about that, are we?
39:59It sort of freaks us out a little bit.
40:01It scares us, doesn't it?
40:09How do you feel the bikini, Dad?
40:11I don't know.
40:12How do you feel?
40:13I feel confident.
40:14I'm going to try the bikini now, because I don't feel amazing.
40:17Sarah and Johnny are getting ready for their second social.
40:22A poolside barbecue with a mixture of both single and coupled up residents.
40:28We're really looking forward to the pool party today.
40:30We are here for a reason, because we do want to push our boundaries and have experiences.
40:35Because it's really important for us to keep our sex life exciting.
40:41You look beautiful.
40:44I think if we don't do it now, then I don't think we're ever going to.
40:47We're going to go in and we're going to just be ourselves, be confident and just let our hairs down a bit.
40:52Let your hair down, haven't we?
40:54Look at that.
40:58Hi, guys.
40:59You look amazing.
41:05Hi, Josh.
41:07How are you?
41:08How are you?
41:10I'm taking you over here.
41:12You're staying with the last.
41:13See you.
41:15Hi, dear.
41:17You look so good.
41:23It's difficult for me because I've not done it before with seeing my message with another man.
41:27I'm just like, how do you guys?
41:29The first time you dealt with it, you know?
41:31I was worried how I'd feel, you know, seeing it initially, seeing it happening.
41:36But no, I immediately loved it.
41:39Did you?
41:40It doesn't mean me and Jen love each other any less.
41:42Yeah, yeah, yeah.
41:43It just really works for us.
41:44If we were to delve into, like, couple swapping, I always think in my head, I'm like, I'm with the other girl.
41:50And am I going to be with that other girl but thinking what's going on over the...
41:54Do you know what I mean?
41:55That type of thing.
41:56You want her to have a good time.
41:57Just don't focus on it, you know?
41:59Enjoy the moment.
42:00Yeah, yeah.
42:01And just stop thinking it in a negative way.
42:03Some burgers.
42:04Look at them, bad boys.
42:05Here we go, girls.
42:06Who wants the burger?
42:07Burger boys.
42:08Is that like a banger boy?
42:12Should we like to play a game?
42:14It's not long before the residents suggest a game of spin the bottle.
42:18Who wants to start?
42:19Oh, I think...
42:20Go on, Sarah.
42:21Give us a good spin.
42:23Bye.
42:24Bye.
42:25Bye.
42:30If Sarah does kiss someone, it's something new to me so I'm not sure how I'm going to feel.
42:36But we are here to push ourselves.
42:38Yeah.
42:39Good one.
42:40Hey there.
42:41Okay.
42:42Are you okay, babe?
42:43It's alright.
42:44I've got to share it.
42:45So how are you guys feeling?
42:47Yeah, really good, you know?
42:48We're really having fun, aren't we?
42:49Yeah.
42:50That's our aim.
42:51We're on a high right now, aren't we?
42:52Yay!
42:53Yay!
42:54Cheers, guys!
42:55Cheers!
42:56Cheers, guys!
42:57Cheers!
42:58Cheers!
42:59Cheers!
43:00Cheers!
43:01Cheers!
43:02Cheers!
43:03So where do you want to take it now?
43:04So, yeah, we don't want to call it a night yet, do we?
43:05No.
43:06Not really called it.
43:07No!
43:08Let's go have some fun, guys!
43:09I know, I know of a lovely year to come.
43:10Yeah, Effie suggested why don't you guys like go into more of a more people setting.
43:16So, yeah, we don't want to call it a good night yet, do we?
43:19No, we're not going to call it.
43:20No! Let's go have some fun, guys!
43:23I know of a lovely year to call it.
43:29Yeah, Effie suggested,
43:31why don't you guys, like, go into more of a...
43:35..more people setting?
43:36You know, we're open-minded and we're going to go with the flow, yeah?
43:41Yeah.
43:43Things might start to progress with everyone,
43:45and if they want to join in, they can.
43:48I'd answer them, I think they're hot.
43:49Yeah, and I'm also...fancy her, yeah.
43:55Ta-da! Oh, wow!
43:57This is gorgeous!
43:59Whoa! Oh, I love it!
44:03Oh, yeah! It's down!
44:05Oh! Shit, look at the most home!
44:07You got in four and small for a grand!
44:10We're going to play some fun, naughty games, aren't we?
44:13Oh, wow! Yeah!
44:14We're going to play some fun, naughty games.
44:18Who is it?
44:19Hello!
44:20Oh, God!
44:22Oh, God!
44:23Oh, you're doing it!
44:25Oh, you're doing it!
44:27Yay!
44:29Yay!
44:30Yay!
44:31She's a good sport!
44:34What the fuck?
44:35I'm going to play some fun!
44:36I'm going to play some fun!
44:37That's awesome.
44:38Right!
44:39Yeah!
44:40Nipple!
44:41Oh, bro!
44:42Great!
44:43Great!
44:44You guys can fight more!
44:46This is fun!
44:47And on the clitoris couch!
44:49The clitoris couch!
44:50Clitoris couch!
44:52Come on, we're going to have a lot of time, though.
45:11Yeah, come on.
45:12Might as well.
45:13See you again.
45:14See you soon.
45:15See you in a bit, guys.
45:18So, right now, I know Johnny's not himself.
45:20He's anxious.
45:21He's so tight.
45:22He's worried about potentially what's going to happen.
45:25All right, Dave.
45:27How are you feeling?
45:28Yeah, I'm good.
45:29I'll tell you how I'm feeling.
45:31Tell me how you feel.
45:32It's overwhelming for all the people there.
45:35Yeah.
45:36I'm just like, what?
45:37It's too much for me, you know?
45:39I'm struggling with it.
45:40And it's just hit me.
45:41It's just hit me.
45:46Next time on Open House...
45:49I feel like I made a mistake last night.
45:54I never want to see her upset.
45:58I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman.
46:03Are you okay if I, like, put my hand on you, like...
46:07Yeah, I've seen women as more of a threat.
46:10I don't understand why it is an issue, but it is.
46:13We have a tour.
46:14Can we rather, like, have a few less people, so...
46:17That's fair enough.
46:18It is weird, isn't it?
46:20Fuckers!
46:21Fuckers!
46:22Fuckers!
46:23Fuckers!
46:24Fuckers!
46:25Fuckers!
46:26Fuckers!