- 5/27/2025
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00:00The word virgin, people see it as a joke, it's quite obsessing.
00:13In a world where sex is everywhere, the truth is surprising, there are more adult virgins
00:20than ever.
00:21Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:25Social media.
00:26Dating apps.
00:27TV shows.
00:28Porn.
00:29It's just everywhere.
00:30Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:33Now?
00:34Yeah.
00:35At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:41She's a miracle worker.
00:43Woohoo!
00:44Like that?
00:45I like that.
00:46To help Britain's virgins lose the one thing they feel is holding them back.
00:54I want to lose my virginity.
00:56It's now or never.
00:59But when the moment arrives...
01:01Would you like to move to bed?
01:04Who will be ready...
01:05I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:08To go all the way.
01:16Yes.
01:23The last few days on Virgin Island have brought firsts for many.
01:28I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever.
01:33While Charlotte bared all...
01:34How does it feel?
01:35It's refreshing.
01:36Ben has been held back by his fear of nudity.
01:39I'm basically, like, pretty dressable in all of you put together.
01:42I like clothes.
01:43Clothes are a work of civilisation.
01:46Zach's impatience led to a rift.
01:48I'm just not feeling that desire from you.
01:51OK, that's enough for today.
01:53But reconciliation led him to opening up like never before.
01:58I want to be more vulnerable.
02:00I want to share that with you.
02:04Dave continued to progress.
02:05I had a little orgasm.
02:06And his aim is clear.
02:07I would like to be a virgin again.
02:08Yay!
02:09As the final phase begins...
02:10Watch at me.
02:11Time is running out for the group to get the most out of each other.
02:12I want to be more vulnerable.
02:13I want to share that with you.
02:14Dave continued to progress.
02:15I had a little orgasm.
02:16And his aim is clear.
02:17I would like to be a virgin again.
02:18Yay!
02:19As the final phase begins...
02:20Watch at me.
02:21Time is running out for the group to get the most out of each other.
02:22I want to be more vulnerable.
02:23I want to share that with you.
02:24Dave continued to progress.
02:25I would like to be a virgin again.
02:26Yay!
02:27As the final phase begins...
02:28Watch at me.
02:29Time is running out for the group to get the most out of each other.
02:30I want to be more vulnerable.
02:31I want to share that with you.
02:32Dave continued to progress.
02:33I would like to be a virgin again.
02:34Yay!
02:35As the final phase begins...
02:36Watch at me.
02:37Time is running out for the group to get the most out of each other.
02:38I want to be more vulnerable.
02:39I want to share that with you.
02:40Dave continued to progress.
02:41I want to be more vulnerable.
02:42I want to share that with you.
02:43I want to be more vulnerable.
02:44I want to be more vulnerable.
02:45I want to share that with you.
02:46I want to be more vulnerable.
02:47I want to be more vulnerable.
02:48I want to be more vulnerable.
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03:00I want to be more vulnerable.
03:01I want to be more vulnerable.
03:02I want to be more vulnerable.
03:03I want to be more vulnerable.
03:04I want to be more vulnerable.
03:05I want to be more vulnerable.
03:06I want to be more vulnerable.
03:07I want to be more vulnerable.
03:08We're getting into the really big stuff, aren't we?
03:10I can't even guess what they're going to do.
03:13Oh, God.
03:14This final phase, it's a way for them to kind of celebrate
03:18their sexual power and all the learning they've done so far.
03:23For each member of the group to achieve their individual goals,
03:27Celeste and Danielle want to keep up the intensity.
03:31Escalation. What does that mean?
03:33It means taking it to the next level.
03:35Scary.
03:36Yeah.
03:38Let's go.
03:40It's all escalate things.
03:42The final group workshop...
03:44Welcome.
03:45Hi, everybody.
03:47..will test exactly how far the virgins have come
03:51and how far they're willing to go.
03:56This is it, our final workshop.
03:59And this phase is all about escalation.
04:03And you're just like, what?
04:05Didn't we escalate enough?
04:08So on the first day that we came in,
04:12Andre demonstrated on Danielle
04:14an exercise called Up Against the Wall.
04:19In the first workshop, they were terrified.
04:25We were actually worried that we overwhelmed them so much
04:29that they won't be able to continue.
04:32Now, Celeste and Danielle want them to finally conquer their fears.
04:37It's your turn to bring all of these tools together.
04:42Who wants to try it?
04:47Oh, I saw that.
04:52I'm quite scared around sex and what it really is.
04:59I want to be more comfortable in my skin
05:01so that I can live my life to the fullest, you know?
05:04Just when you're ready, nod and I'll come to you.
05:07He arrived as one of the quietest in the group,
05:10but now it's time for Dave to show how far he's come.
05:14Ready? Yeah.
05:24Oh, yes.
05:26Oh, yes.
05:28Oh, my leg between my legs.
05:33Oh.
05:36Oh.
05:39Oh.
05:42That's so good.
05:44CHEERING
05:46So good!
05:48Inspired by Dave...
05:50We're doing it together.
05:52..some of the others show off their sexy skills.
05:57Oh, man.
06:00Oh, yeah.
06:04But Ben needs a little warm-up.
06:10Yeah, nice and hard.
06:12Yeah.
06:14Harder.
06:16Great.
06:22APPLAUSE
06:25Last up...
06:26Are you pushing or being pushed?
06:28I'll push. Sweet.
06:30..23-year-old dog groomer Holly.
06:37A lot of different experiences in my life
06:39have knocked me down a little bit.
06:44I pretty much got bullied throughout most of high school
06:48because I was the quiet kid, so I became quite withdrawn.
06:52I wish I could just leave the house
06:54and not care what other people think and just be the real me.
07:01That feels good.
07:03So good.
07:05APPLAUSE
07:10Can you take a moment? Could you believe yourselves?
07:13Can you...? Talking about before and after.
07:16What is happening here?
07:23Being, like, doing the pushing is fun.
07:25Shall we do that in the hangout?
07:27Can I push you, Ben? All right, then.
07:29After the final workshop, some of the students...
07:32Ben's going to walk to you, you put your hand on him, push him up.
07:35Yeah. That's it, yeah.
07:37Pull him close, pull him close with that hand.
07:39..have become the teachers.
07:41Do you want to do an advanced wall push? Go on.
07:49Hey. Hey, Dave. Hello.
07:51How was yours? I think it was good, yeah.
07:54The neck bit, that was great.
07:56But it's Dave who's probably transformed the most within the group.
08:00I'm more confident.
08:01Like, I'm not going to approach random people
08:03and start pushing up against walls,
08:05but, like, I'm going to try and speak to them a little bit.
08:08Dave, when I think about how he arrived,
08:11just totally inside of himself, you know?
08:14For him to come out to the level that he has is just, like...
08:17Meteoric. Yeah.
08:19We've been escalating quite a bit,
08:21and so we're going to do oral today,
08:23but also practising, like, staying connected,
08:26because I think that's something he still struggles with a little bit.
08:38Hi. How are you? I'm good.
08:41How are you, team?
08:43Right this way.
08:45To test Dave's ability to connect...
08:48OK.
08:49..Kat is escalating to the bedroom for the first time.
08:53Don't be intimidated, even though there's a bed.
08:58Er...
09:01It's OK. I'm...
09:04OK.
09:05I'm losing my virginity.
09:08I want to be ready for it, you know?
09:11I've just got to go in and just see what happens.
09:15I just want to return to all my friends and family
09:18and just be a completely different person.
09:22Throughout the course, Dave has shown an interest in oral sex.
09:27You know, I pick her up, take her down on the bed,
09:31and I'd probably do something with oral sex.
09:34I don't know what I'm doing.
09:38OK.
09:40I want to work on staying in connection through transitions
09:44and then practising oral.
09:47How are you feeling about that?
09:49I feel... I feel excited about it.
09:53But I'm overthinking it.
09:55Yeah. Just trust yourself.
09:59Surrogate partner therapy is working really well for Dave.
10:03And practise moving when you want to.
10:06Look up closer.
10:08And practise staying in connection.
10:11It's nice.
10:15Yeah.
10:19But he still worries too much about getting it wrong
10:22and can get really in his head.
10:27One of the biggest things to do
10:29is normalising the experience of sex.
10:33When you feel your body being loved
10:35and then you feel pleasure from that,
10:37it makes all of the external things just not matter as much.
10:45OK.
10:51Is it OK for you to give and receive oral?
10:55Yeah.
10:56Just lie down.
11:01Be gentle at first.
11:07Yeah, that's good.
11:15Yeah.
11:18Mm-hm.
11:25Are you able to go faster?
11:39It feels so good.
11:45How are you feeling? I feel good.
11:48Thank you for all this.
11:50You're welcome.
11:53Yeah, it's the first time I've been involved in a proper sexual act.
11:57It feels good. It's like a weight off my shoulders.
12:00See you tomorrow.
12:02But I feel like there's still further for me to go.
12:06I do think I'm ready now to lose my virginity.
12:10DOORBELL RINGS
12:15Give her a squeeze.
12:17Act like it's my cock.
12:19SHE LAUGHS
12:21What's the worst possible option?
12:24Continuing the theme of escalation...
12:26I think lick bum is pretty good.
12:28Lick bum is pretty good.
12:30..the group are playing a game of sexy dice.
12:33I'm going to do it.
12:35I'm going to do it.
12:37They're playing a game of sexy dice.
12:40Kiss arm. Use of it's in.
12:46Beautiful.
12:49As the virgins get touchy-feely with each other...
12:53Lick bum! Yes!
12:55..even Holly, one of the quieter members of the group,
12:58is throwing herself in.
13:00We've been working two weeks for this. Come on.
13:03OK, go.
13:05One, two, three, four, five.
13:08Yay! Well done.
13:11There's something about Holly that has a lot of potential,
13:16but she's still kind of, yeah, hiding.
13:19We need to really understand what's holding her back
13:22in order to help her, like, move forward.
13:25I'm so happy.
13:27I'm going to spend some time with you.
13:30It can feel lonely, just when you see, like,
13:33all your friends are getting in relationships,
13:35and, like, a big worry of mine.
13:37It's like I'm always going to be alone.
13:39Like, I'll never have a family and have that perfect life
13:42that I guess I'm, like, dreaming of.
13:46Let's shake it.
13:48Before Holly leaves the island...
13:50Just soak it in.
13:52Just enjoy the sun.
13:54..Danielle wants to encourage her to feel more confident
13:57and finally come to terms with her true self.
14:03How are you doing? Do you like the activities?
14:06I think they've been tough.
14:08It's bringing up a lot of feelings I didn't know I had.
14:11So it's kind of tough learning that side of myself.
14:14Do you want to share with me a little bit more?
14:17I'm not sure I fully understand it myself yet.
14:20It's just lots of big emotions.
14:22Yeah, in your chest, in your belly?
14:24Kind of both.
14:27After her talk with Danielle...
14:30I'm going to be sad going home, opening my curtains
14:33and just seeing the local pub.
14:35Is that what it is when you open your curtains?
14:38..Holly seems ready to share her innermost feelings with Viraj.
14:42I don't know.
14:44It's just been intense.
14:46Are you not grateful for it?
14:49Yeah.
14:51A whole lot of things going on in my head.
14:55What do you feel like you've learned from this?
14:59That I might like girls. I do.
15:02Yeah? That's a really big thing, though.
15:05That's a big change, like...
15:07Is that how you feel?
15:09Sometimes I don't know if it's just I connect to people
15:12just on a friendship thing or if it's anything more.
15:15Mm.
15:17I feel like I find it hard to distinguish between the two.
15:21Yeah.
15:23I'm unsure.
15:25Why is it so difficult?
15:29Why can't it just be simple?
15:31Mm.
15:33Feeling a bit overwhelmed.
15:35All these feelings are emerging that I'm unfamiliar with,
15:39so I think I just try to deal with them.
15:42It's, yeah, a lot to process.
15:45Do you want to do some yoga?
15:47Yeah, but what kind of yoga?
15:49Strip yoga.
15:51I'm already wearing a bikini. I don't know how much more I could strip.
15:59While Holly ponders...
16:01I want you to practise reading my body.
16:04..across the island...
16:07You can touch my ass. It feels really good to me.
16:10You can touch my ass.
16:12..Zach is learning how to stay attuned to Kat.
16:15Maybe I think you might like more.
16:19Kissing? Yeah.
16:21And he's finally getting the results he craves.
16:39Zach has learned a lot about how to show up in relationship,
16:43how to attune to people.
16:45I feel like that's really important for him.
16:50So I feel really confident for Zach going out into the real world.
16:54He's going to enjoy this.
16:56That felt really good, could you tell, in my body?
16:59Yeah. Definitely.
17:01It's been the time of my life being here.
17:04Kat, she has helped me a lot,
17:06and, you know, I'll forever be grateful for that.
17:09It was nice. I feel confident.
17:11I'm grateful for that. It was nice. I feel close.
17:14I just feel far more prepared for it,
17:17and I feel ready to hopefully...
17:22..be the confident player when I get back, with any luck.
17:30I can't even see what's around. I don't know where everyone is.
17:33Where's Tom? Is he at the water?
17:35Is he still there?
17:37He's still there, look. Yeah, he's like a fish.
17:41Whilst at the retreat, Ben has learned to let his guard down,
17:44but there is one fundamental obstacle
17:46standing in the way of losing his virginity.
17:49Oh, God, the thought of being naked in front of someone
17:52absolutely terrifies me.
17:54I've never been in, like, showers where everyone's naked,
17:57and that was just... Absolutely not.
17:59Even when it's just me in the house, I will not be naked at all.
18:02I'm just that kind of person.
18:04The experts believe that Ben must overcome his fear of nudity
18:07for relationships to flourish back home.
18:09Hello. Hey. Do you want to take your shoes off? Yeah, sure.
18:12Ben needs to relax into his body, into the moment,
18:16and, yeah, come out of his head.
18:19Society makes it very difficult.
18:22He has some ideas about how he should look,
18:25and I think that scares him.
18:28Let's first start, I just want you to put your hands on my hips.
18:31Mm-hm. And I'm going to just move your body a little bit.
18:34Mm-hm.
18:35Joy gets him in the mood to loosen up.
18:38That's really good. Do you feel how connected we are in that?
18:42Quite fluid and less stiff.
18:45Before escalating...
18:47Why don't you take your shirt off?
18:49This shirt or the T-shirt as well?
18:52What do you feel comfortable with?
18:57I would love to feel more confident in myself and how I look.
19:00I don't smile in pictures a lot of the time,
19:02and I think, actually, that's a leftover from school,
19:04cos I got, you know, teased about having chubby cheeks or something.
19:07But ultimately, yeah, it would be nice
19:09just to be more confident in myself and how I look.
19:11But unfortunately, that's hard to change.
19:15What I'm going to be doing is touching in a way that feels connecting.
19:33Do you want to try it with me? Yeah, sure.
19:38Where would you like to be touched?
19:40I kind of want you to just explore.
19:46But exploring is leading to overthinking.
19:51I don't know what position to go in.
19:53Yeah, it's hard, right?
19:55I don't want to crush you. It's OK, you won't crush me.
19:58Ben's becoming increasingly awkward.
20:02Can I move you? Yeah.
20:07I'm going to switch over again, sorry.
20:09And it's stalling his progress.
20:16How do you feel?
20:18I don't know, I just wish I had eight arms, it would be easier.
20:22But Joy wants to challenge Ben before time on the island runs out.
20:27So, next time, think about
20:29whether you feel comfortable being naked together.
20:36I think, you know, nakedness is, to me, it's a private thing. Yeah.
20:46I mean, obviously, I know the experts,
20:48that they're not sort of judging in that same sort of way anyway,
20:51but it really makes me uncomfortable.
20:53I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it
20:56and not be so afraid.
21:16How do you feel about being the last day?
21:18I'm quite emotional, actually.
21:20How do you feel about being the last day?
21:22I'm quite emotional, to be honest. Are you?
21:24Yeah, I actually am, yeah.
21:26I'm going to miss everyone.
21:29It may be the final morning on Virgin Island,
21:32but for some, there's unfinished business.
21:35I think I would like to maybe get naked in front of Joy,
21:39because if I can break that barrier,
21:41then it'll be easier when I'm with somebody.
21:43I just want to see where it goes.
21:47I feel like if I do leave my virginity today,
21:49it will be a huge step forward.
21:51But I think everyone's nervous about it the first time.
21:57Morning. Hello. Yeah, I'm grand. How are you?
22:00I'm all right, thanks.
22:01Will all good things come to an end?
22:03I'll look every single day.
22:04It's been a big process.
22:06It's hard to kind of share, like,
22:08your deepest secrets and struggles with people.
22:13Oh, this might be the last time.
22:16The last day. Let's take the alcohol. It can't kick us off.
22:21Overnight, Holly has been doing some thinking.
22:24Hi.
22:26Before coming here, I'd always just say, like, oh, I'm straight.
22:31But, like, coming here, I feel like it's been more clear
22:35that I am bisexual.
22:38And, yeah, I'm proud.
22:40And she's asked Celeste to help her open up to the rest of the group.
22:44Holly has something that she wants to share with all of you.
22:49Something I've struggled with a lot in coming here,
22:52I've kind of had time to think about it
22:54and have the confidence to speak out is about my sexuality.
23:01And I'm bisexual.
23:04Woo!
23:07Woo!
23:09Welcome to the club.
23:11Woo!
23:13Well done, Queen. Smashed it.
23:15Proud of you.
23:17Thank you, guys. That was terrifying.
23:20I definitely would have suppressed it for longer
23:23if I hadn't come here.
23:25So proud of you.
23:29Having all the support in the group,
23:31it gave me the confidence to speak out.
23:34I couldn't have done it without them.
23:40I always thought I'd be a great dominatrix.
23:43I feel that for you. Thank you.
23:45You're the whipping one. Yeah.
23:47You whip people, so... I like to whip people.
23:50Yeah.
23:55As she's progressed through the cast...
23:57Hi-hi. Hi-hi.
23:59..she's come to realise
24:01Charlotte has overcome her body issues.
24:04What would feel comfortable for you?
24:06Maybe some body caress?
24:08And now she knows exactly what she wants.
24:11I have an idea.
24:13I want to take my top off and I want to straddle you.
24:16OK, you want me laying down? Yes.
24:21Knees down.
24:23Yes, ma'am. Arms further.
24:26OK.
24:28OK.
24:30OK, grip my hips.
24:34That's nice.
24:36Watch at me.
24:38You...
24:40..are so beautiful.
24:42Having you straddle me is almost overwhelming for my body.
24:46You...
24:48..are a fucking goddess.
24:59I want to grip your chest.
25:01You have full permission.
25:03Yay.
25:08You are firm.
25:16I love feeling your body on mine.
25:20Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess.
25:24Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess.
25:35Thank you for this gift.
25:42I want to say how proud I am.
25:44That was a big leap,
25:46to ask for what you needed.
25:48Ooh.
25:51I adore Andre. I adore him completely.
25:55It was through him that I was really able to be like,
25:58OK, this is what I want.
26:01I went into this with the mindset of he is a tool,
26:05a very enjoyable tool for me to kind of get what I want out of it.
26:10Oh, I just had so much fun.
26:14I feel so ready for everything now.
26:21While many are finding their body confidence...
26:24I like being naked by myself. I don't.
26:26..Ben still has work to do.
26:28Me and my ex, I don't know, even though we were together,
26:31I've got to change in the bathroom, it's weird.
26:34It's just a big step for me.
26:39In a final bid to overcome his fear of nudity...
26:44Hey. Hello.
26:46..Joy has a new plan.
26:50I know it's a stretch, but I would love to practise
26:53the animal game with you...
26:55Hmm. ..in our underwear.
26:59In an early group workshop,
27:01Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animal game.
27:05So can we stay connected while we undress?
27:12With most clothes removed...
27:14Even as we get down, we can keep that connection.
27:19Hmm.
27:22Ben tries to let animal instinct take over.
27:34How does that feel to you?
27:36Yeah, it's a good connection.
27:41He's kissing on your... Yeah.
27:49Losing himself in the moment,
27:51Ben seems to have let go of his inhibitions.
27:56Would you like to move to bed?
27:58Yeah.
27:59But will it be enough to finally bear all?
28:07That was fun.
28:09Do you think we should just roll?
28:13Yeah, let's do it.
28:15I have to break this barrier.
28:17Let me pull up this.
28:19Joy puts up a screen so Ben's body is for hair eyes only.
28:23Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK.
28:32Is my body normal?
28:34Your body is beautiful, yeah.
28:36I'm normal down there?
28:38I look better than with clothes on.
28:40Really? Yes.
28:42Broken barrier.
28:45I'm proud of you. Thank you.
28:51Do you feel complete?
28:53Yeah, I think that's a good way to end it.
28:55Yeah. Yeah. Great.
28:59I'm so incredibly proud of him.
29:01He's opened in ways that I can't even believe,
29:04and I feel honoured he allowed me
29:06to be the one to accompany him on that journey.
29:09Hello. Hello.
29:11Are you all right?
29:13So, I just saw Joy.
29:15Ooh-la-la.
29:17My journey is complete.
29:19I didn't lose my virginity, but, um...
29:21Did you...?
29:26Joy is the only person who has ever seen me naked.
29:28So, did you see her fully naked?
29:31It's nice to break that barrier,
29:33and hopefully, when I'm in the real world
29:35and I get to the stage again,
29:37it will be a lot easier.
29:39I won't be in my head all the time.
29:41I have changed, and that's all I needed, really.
29:43It's just that confidence.
29:45I haven't had a point of making a one-to-one.
29:47He did more than me. Yeah, but you climaxed.
29:49I didn't.
29:53Bye-bye-bye-bye-bye.
29:55Bye. Bye-bye. Bye. Bye.
29:57Bye, sexual.
29:59I'm not the only girl in the village.
30:03This evening, there will be a graduation ceremony
30:05to end the course.
30:07What are you wearing tonight?
30:09I've got, like, a full-on suit.
30:11Really? Yeah.
30:13Does anyone want to swap outfits?
30:15I'll wear your dress.
30:17And the group has been set a final exercise,
30:19to write a letter to a future lover.
30:21I don't like writing letters.
30:23Can I write a text instead?
30:25Would shagging by the Tesco bins be a bit too graphic?
30:28Yeah.
30:30I know how to start mine.
30:32Dear Emma.
30:34Oh, my God!
30:36Me and Viraj are very good friends.
30:39A friendship with a good connection.
30:41So I think, get back to the UK,
30:44and if it works, then it works.
30:47I don't think I will close myself off any more.
30:54For Dave, a lover could be more imminent.
30:57After two weeks of intense treatment and years of longing,
31:01he could be on the verge of achieving what he came here for.
31:06Go on, big doll. Enjoy. Have fun.
31:12Being a virgin at 24, I hate it.
31:14My biggest fear is that I'll find someone that I genuinely care about
31:18and I won't be ready to have a proper relationship with.
31:21You know, it could be love my life and I could just...
31:26..be too awkward and I could blow it.
31:33Hello. Hey.
31:35How are you doing?
31:42Are you still feeling good about intercourse?
31:45Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cool.
31:47THEY LAUGH
31:49Lie down.
31:51So we'll just start in a way that we've been starting,
31:54just letting it be organic, staying in connection and kissing.
31:58Yeah, that sounds good.
32:00OK.
32:22OK, close.
32:30Grab that condom.
32:33Do you know how?
32:35No.
32:37Yeah, you just pinch the top.
32:39And you want to roll it all the way.
32:43OK.
32:45Just start.
32:48I'll be honest, I'm struggling a little bit.
32:51So just relax.
32:56I think I'm putting a bit too much pressure on myself.
33:03OK.
33:05I'm just going to...
33:07I'm just going to...
33:09I'm just going to...
33:11I'm just going to...
33:13I'm just going to...
33:16SHE SIGHS
33:21Has everyone written their letters?
33:23No, got right as black.
33:26While most of the group are preparing letters
33:29for tonight's graduation ceremony...
33:31Just go with the flow, write what comes to mind.
33:34..in the Zen den...
33:36So just relax.
33:38..Dave is trying to get back on track with Kat.
33:41Do you think it might be easier for you if I'm on top?
33:46Yeah.
33:47Yeah, so let's switch.
33:48Just breathe.
33:49How does that feel?
33:50Okay.
33:51Yeah.
33:52Just move the way that feels good for you.
33:54Okay.
33:56How does that feel?
33:59Okay.
34:00Yeah.
34:01Just move the way that feels good for you.
34:25You're so excited.
34:27It feels so good.
34:45Did you wrap?
34:46Yeah.
34:47Yeah.
34:50Are you feeling good?
34:53Yeah.
34:54Yeah?
34:55Yeah.
34:56Okay.
34:57After 12 days, Dave has completed his course of therapy on Virgin Island.
35:04Thank you for this.
35:07And how does it feel now, not a virgin?
35:14I feel really good.
35:16Well, how do you feel?
35:19I feel good about being the person with him in that important moment.
35:24And I think he has changed so much.
35:27He knows a lot more about what he wants.
35:30And it's a lot easier if you've done it once.
35:34So I think that will help.
35:36Yeah.
35:38Yeah, I think you've done a really good job.
35:44I'm proud that I can finally say I'm not a virgin anymore.
35:48I've still got a lot of catching up to do.
35:51But I feel like I'm on the board now.
35:55Thank you, Tim.
35:57Yeah, see you later.
36:00Now I can go and actually properly progress with some sort of idea of what I'm doing.
36:05The fact that I'm no longer a virgin is great.
36:07It's just relief.
36:14Do you have a session?
36:15Yeah.
36:17How did it go?
36:18I think it went well, yeah.
36:20You cool?
36:21Yeah, I'm just really tired.
36:24Exhausting day.
36:26You know what, it's the last one, mate.
36:29I'm going to miss it.
36:32Let's go.
36:34End of an era.
36:36The end of a chapter.
36:39As the sun starts to set for the final time on Virgin Island,
36:44the group are getting ready for graduation.
36:49It's really sad.
36:50Yeah, I'm going to miss everyone so much.
36:53I am going to miss the island and the routine I think I'll miss a lot as well.
36:59Very lovely.
37:03You look gorgeous, darling.
37:07It would be funny if we're in there and they're all naked.
37:09Do you think we got a certificate?
37:11Look at them all down there.
37:26Graduation is a time for you to gather up all of your newfound confidence and skills
37:32and get ready to take them out into the world.
37:35So we're going to invite you up one by one
37:37because we did ask you to write a letter to a future lover.
37:46The retreat was emotional for Taylor, but she discovered her true sexuality.
37:51Dear future lover, I've spent so long being scared of who I was,
37:57what people thought, who I was supposed to be and what I wanted.
38:00You hear this, I'm not scared anymore, I'm terrified.
38:03Being terrified means I've found something that I don't want to lose.
38:09If I'm terrified of losing you, then maybe you'll be terrified of losing me.
38:14If it all gets too real, remember, sing loudly, not well,
38:18laugh at everything that you can and lick bum.
38:26Taylor wasn't the only one to find their true identity.
38:29Dear future lover, we haven't met yet,
38:32but I have been on one hell of a self-discovery journey.
38:35I feel like I am able to be my true, full self and show you all of me.
38:40I used to think hiding my feelings was my superpower.
38:42It really is my biggest weakness.
38:44It took me a long time to be happy with who I am as a person
38:47and there's no way I can go back to hiding.
38:53Look at you. Exactly.
38:56The Tom that you are is just gorgeous.
39:04For Ben, the island has meant overcoming rejection head on.
39:09Dear lover, this man you see before you is not the man I once was.
39:14I thought I was repulsive, undesirable and that I could never be loved.
39:19I now know that I was wrong.
39:22I went to an intimacy retreat.
39:24It was a bold step, but one that changed my life forever.
39:27It was here that I learned of my sexual self
39:30and it was here that I learned how to be wanted.
39:34This journey has been tough, but I wouldn't change a thing
39:37because it ultimately led me to you.
39:39Thank you for loving me and showing me that I could love myself.
39:44For many, discovering self-confidence has been key.
39:49Dear future lover, I want to thank you for taking my hand
39:53and coming with me on an amazing adventure.
39:56Thank you for having all the love for me
39:58that I once struggled to have for myself.
40:00Being my true self is when I can exhale.
40:04You are all I need.
40:06You are all I need.
40:08You are all I need.
40:10Being my true self is when I can exhale.
40:12You are a woman now.
40:14Thank you, thank you so much.
40:16I'm so frigging proud of you.
40:21Dear future lover slash lovers,
40:24I want you to be patient with me while I continue to learn,
40:27grow and inevitably make mistakes.
40:30I want us to worship one another.
40:32I want everyone to see our love.
40:35I wasn't sure if I would ever get to a point in my life
40:38where I could truly believe that I was worthy of being loved.
40:42I don't expect anything from you,
40:44except you must ride the elephant with me on our wedding day.
40:52Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds.
40:55I was overwhelmed by your beauty.
40:58I promise tomorrow will be better
41:00because I'm going to use the skills I learned from the intimacy retreat.
41:09Dave.
41:12He arrived on the island as one of the quietest in the group,
41:15but slowly he's found his voice.
41:19Dear my future lover,
41:21despite all my continued flaws,
41:23like my constant awkwardness,
41:25you've always loved me.
41:27I can't put into words how much I appreciate that.
41:30You're everything I've ever wanted,
41:32and you complete me.
41:35I know that you can go out there and break many hearts.
41:45Um, sorry.
41:48After weeks of being surprised by the experts,
41:51the group now have a surprise for them.
41:55We've all been through so much with you
41:57and we all want to give our thanks.
41:59I personally want to thank you
42:02for your patience and understanding.
42:04You helped me feel confident and see who I am
42:07and see myself in a place beyond here.
42:10And I really, really appreciate everything that you've done for me
42:13and thank you all.
42:18This group are some of the bravest,
42:21wisest,
42:23most engaged and loving people
42:25that I have ever worked with,
42:27and seeing their transformation,
42:29yeah, I can't even.
42:31I can't even.
42:34I want to thank you for the most unforgettable experience
42:37of my entire life.
42:38Nothing's going to ever come close to this,
42:40and it's been incredible.
42:42Thank you so much to my lovely Andre
42:45for creating that beautiful space
42:48for me to feel vulnerable
42:51and like if I was going to fall,
42:53you would catch me.
42:56Wrong way to wear makeup.
42:58I can say confidently
43:00you've changed my life,
43:02changed all these people's lives
43:04and I'll always remember that.
43:06Before I came here,
43:08I was at the lowest point in my life.
43:11I had no idea how to love myself
43:14or how to love others.
43:16At least every one of you has inspired me
43:19and I don't know how I'd ever be able to repay what you've given us.
43:30Woo!
43:33Congratulations!
43:35From the people who came off of that boat
43:37to the people who I'm looking at now,
43:40it's unrecognizable.
43:42And I have only hope for them
43:44to have the most amazing sex and relationship lives
43:47going out into the world.
43:50So we want to invite you to closing but beginning circle.
43:54Join us.
43:57Even though I didn't lose my virginity on the island,
43:59I learnt so much more about myself
44:01and I feel like now when I go into the outside world,
44:03I'll be so ready for my new intimate journey.
44:06Your courage is going to inspire so many people out there.
44:11You're going to take the world by storm.
44:13I can feel it.
44:15It's all about kind of reaching out and being like,
44:18hey, maybe I would like some help.
44:21Congratulations!
44:23Woo!
44:25Woo!
44:28They're beautiful human beings that just didn't know it.
44:31Cheers!
44:33I'm so honoured and proud to be a part of this project.
44:37This place, I'd recommend it to anyone.
44:41My intimacy journey from here,
44:43I'm going to go back to Rochdale,
44:45take it by storm,
44:47and yeah, mock up your sons.
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