Second Date Update - Just A Kiss

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Right now, we've got to dive into this second date update a little bit.

00:02We're trying to help out Hannah and get her set back up on another date with Ian,

00:06which sounded like a good first date, and, you know, it could be risky if you think about it,

00:11but it seemed like it went well because it was kind of a group date.

00:14She said it was so much fun.

00:17She's like, my friends were having a good time with his friends.

00:20His friends were having a good time with my friends.

00:22She goes, we just had a ton of fun.

00:24And she's like, I was totally being attentive to him, and we were really hitting it off.

00:28And she's like, I don't understand.

00:30We were having a great time.

00:32She hasn't heard from him since their date.

00:34We actually have him on hold right now.

00:35Ian is the mystery guy that's kind of disappeared, so we're going to talk to him right now.

00:41Ian, you there?

00:42Hey, yeah.

00:43What's up?

00:44Hey, man.

00:44I appreciate you agreeing to talk to us today.

00:47I know you talked to Kevin, and he told you this was about a date you went on,

00:51but it was kind of a group date, and we're talking about Hannah,

00:53and she told us that you guys had a great time together.

00:57Went bar hopping in South Tampa, and your friends were there.

01:01Her friends were there, and it just was a smooth night.

01:04But she has not heard from you since that date and is just kind of confused on what's going on.

01:09So we thought we'd ask you straight up, what's going on here?

01:14You've got to be kidding me, right?

01:15She doesn't know why I didn't respond to her?

01:18No, she doesn't.

01:19No, uh-uh.

01:19Did she tell you about the guy she made out with in front of me?

01:23Oh, boy.

01:24No, that didn't come up.

01:26Yikes.

01:27Yeah.

01:28What was that situation?

01:31I mean, we were out, and like she said, all our friends were hanging out together.

01:34It was a decent time.

01:35And then one of her friends, just out of nowhere, dares her, offers her 50 bucks if she goes and makes out with a stranger,

01:43some dude at the bar who just happens to be there.

01:46And she did it?

01:47Yeah, she's a couple drinks in, you know, and she's spilling loose, and she goes and does it.

01:52What did you say?

01:53And I'm like, I mean, everyone's laughing and having a good time.

01:56What could I do?

01:57I just kind of smiled and went with it.

01:59But inside, I'm thinking, you know, this is your first impression to me?

02:03That's a good point.

02:04This is crazy.

02:05That's crazy.

02:06So she just went and did this and then walked back over to your group and acted like nothing happened or what?

02:11Oh, yeah, she came back to the table, sat down, got her 50 bucks from her friend, and ordered another round like nothing had happened.

02:18My goodness.

02:20Wow.

02:2150 bucks, that's it?

02:23Wow.

02:2450 bucks is 50 bucks, Lana.

02:25That's right.

02:26A couple of drinks, yeah.

02:29All right.

02:30Well, I could see why that would be a turnoff, obviously.

02:33She did not tell us that.

02:35We do have her on the phone with us, though.

02:37Ian, I'd like to bring her back on and really listen to what she has to say about this, if that's cool with you.

02:42I mean, I guess I'm already here, right?

02:43Yeah.

02:44All right.

02:44Here we go.

02:45Hannah, are you there?

02:46I'm here.

02:47Hannah, is that how things went down?

02:49You got dared to go kiss some dude, and you did it?

02:52Yeah, I did.

02:53And, oh, my God, Ian, I cannot believe that that's why you're not returning my calls.

02:58Like, that is so, so miniscule.

03:00You can't believe it?

03:01You were, it was fun.

03:03I was, I mean, it's not something that I always do, but you were there.

03:06You saw my friend dare me.

03:07You were into it.

03:08Your friends were into it.

03:10Your friend high-fived me afterwards, you know?

03:13Like, I don't understand, like, what's the actual?

03:17I was not into it.

03:19No, I wouldn't go that far.

03:20I might have smiled and tried to get past it, but, yeah.

03:24You were laughing.

03:24And we're on our first date.

03:26It was, like, I mean, yeah, but it was, like, a preliminary date, and you didn't, you know,

03:30protest when you heard the terms or anything.

03:33You weren't, like, actually, that's really out of line, or, like, that sounds like a bad

03:36idea.

03:37It was, like...

03:38Well, what am I supposed to do?

03:39Like, I met you 20 minutes ago.

03:41What am I supposed to start telling you what to do?

03:44I'm not that guy, okay?

03:45It was about an hour and a half into the night, and, I mean, we're bar hopping.

03:49This is, you know, I mean, kind of a little bit of a bar culture thing.

03:53I mean, it was...

03:54It just doesn't seem, like, that big of a deal.

03:56We weren't dating, you know?

03:57Like, we weren't exclusive.

03:59We were on a first date, and you made out with a stranger in front of me for money.

04:04But I didn't, like, linger there.

04:06I didn't, like...

04:06He didn't become my date.

04:08I went...

04:08You saw me walk to the other side of the bar, make out with this guy, come back, high-five

04:12your friend, collect 50 bucks, and then buy us another round and, like, continue gallivanting.

04:19Hey!

04:19He spent the money on you, Ian!

04:21Exactly!

04:22I reinvested in our date.

04:25Reinvested.

04:26Hey, I gotta ask, Hannah, was the guy you made out with, was he, like, good-looking?

04:31Was he cute?

04:32I mean...

04:32Why does that matter?

04:33It kind of does.

04:34Why does it matter?

04:35Because if he's better-looking than Ian, then it's an issue.

04:37If not...

04:38Ian's not gonna sit here and say, yeah, the guy was better-looking than me.

04:40Or maybe if he was just, like, an older, you know, unattractive man, it shouldn't matter.

04:46You know, it matters.

04:47I don't care who the guy was.

04:48It matters to me.

04:49I can't tell if you're jealous or possessive or you're just lame.

04:52Like, that's what I want to know.

04:54Because ghosting somebody is, like, is really rude either way.

04:57But also not saying how you feel at the time of, you know, an occurrence or something or

05:02before an occurrence is also immature.

05:05You know what?

05:06I don't need any lectures about maturity from someone who makes out with other people on

05:09a first date and then gets mad that I don't respond.

05:12I'm not into this.

05:13Ian, I have a feeling I know the answer to this question, but this is obviously going to be

05:16a deal-breaker for you.

05:18Yeah, it's a deal-breaker.

05:19That's why I didn't respond to her.

05:21Yeah, I got it.

05:22Yeah.

05:23Okay.

05:24Well, Hannah, now you know why Ian's not getting back to you.

05:28But I appreciate you reaching out to us and I wish you luck, okay?

05:31All right.

05:31Well, thanks, guys.

05:33All right.

05:33Sorry it didn't work out.

05:34Thanks, Ian.

05:36Thanks.

05:37Yeah.

05:37I mean, I would be out in a heartbeat.

05:39I'd be like, all right, see ya.

05:41Well, yeah.

05:42And I think she was just playing off like it was just a fun night.

05:45And was it her friends or was it his friends that dared her to do that?

05:49No, it was her friends.

05:51Which is a bad move on her friends, too.

05:53Yeah.

05:55Well, yeah.

05:57She sounds like a ton of fun, though.

05:59Yeah.

05:59Her defense was, we're not dating.

06:02It just was 50 bucks and I threw the money on you.

06:04So, is that something that you could look past?

06:06We want her to know.

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