Second Date Update - Making A Dent

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4/22/2025

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00:00Trying to help out Nick this morning on the second date update.

00:02He said his hopes aren't high, which is kind of a bummer.

00:04We want to make it happen for him.

00:07Yeah, he and his date, Sydney, they went to P.F. Chang's and he was all about it.

00:11He said they had a great time and he just wants to get some answers like what happened, what went wrong.

00:18Yeah, and they've got mutual friends too.

00:19So you would think they would be a good match if your friends are setting you up, you know.

00:23All right, so we actually have Sydney on the phone with us.

00:26I want to bring her back on.

00:27Sydney, are you there?

00:28Yeah, hi.

00:31Hey, Sydney, I know this is kind of a confusing phone call to get in the morning.

00:35You just heard us talking about this date you went on with Nick.

00:39And, you know, I'll just be honest with you.

00:41He's very confused because he thought things went really well between the two of you.

00:46And we were just wondering if you could maybe explain to us why you haven't gotten back to him.

00:52Yeah, I mean, I didn't know if it was like a date or a business event.

00:58Or a what?

00:59Like a business thing.

01:02He picked me up in his truck and I guess he owns like a dent and scratch repair company.

01:08And it was his work truck.

01:10Okay.

01:10After dinner, he's like, hey, do you mind if I take care of something real quick?

01:16And I was like, okay.

01:18And I kid you not, he like drove up and down the parking lot in his truck and he was soliciting people for business.

01:26He was like, I mean, he actually even went up to a woman and he was like, your car looks really all messed up.

01:32You know, maybe I can repair it for you.

01:33I mean, I was so embarrassed.

01:34I'm just sitting in the truck while he's drumming up work.

01:39I feel like there's a time and a place for everything.

01:42This is definitely not the time.

01:43Like we were on a date.

01:45Like I didn't want to sit there while he's trying to get customers.

01:48I mean, do that during work hours.

01:50It just felt super inappropriate.

01:51So he's just driving up and down the parking lot?

01:54With me in the truck.

01:56Oh.

01:56Wow.

01:57Oh, okay.

01:58All right.

01:59Well, what, did you say anything to him?

02:02I was like, I was like confused and I, and I was like, is this what you always do?

02:08And he's like, yeah, I got to sort of take advantage of, um, you know, I'm trying to build my business

02:12and, you know, we're here and there's all these dinged up cars.

02:15I was like, oh my God, what will we ever do on another date?

02:18We go to like house calls, like drive around bugging people.

02:23Oh, it wasn't, it was, it was not for me.

02:27Hey.

02:28All right.

02:28So this is a reason not to call this guy back though.

02:30I mean, he's, he's just like stirring up business here.

02:32But if that's what he does on a first date, I, you know, I just feel like it would all

02:36be about that all the time.

02:38I mean, did you admire the fact that he's a hustler?

02:42I, it just did not seem appropriate.

02:45It felt like it was, you know, all about him and his business and my time didn't matter.

02:49It just felt disrespectful.

02:51Okay.

02:52Well, Sydney, I want to let you know that we have Nick on the phone with us and I want

02:55to bring him back on.

02:56Oh, God.

02:59Nick.

03:00Yeah.

03:01Hey.

03:02Yeah.

03:02I kind of go where my business is at.

03:04I mean, you know, we talked, I'm a small business owner.

03:07It's nonstop almost.

03:09And I saw an opportunity cause we're in a big lot.

03:12I don't get why you're offended, but look, I understand if I did it for like three hours,

03:16I get that, but it was like five minutes, put out a couple of cars, talk to one lady

03:21and got you home.

03:22Like, I don't, I don't see the big deal.

03:25It wasn't five minutes.

03:26And it was totally weird to do that while I was sitting in the truck.

03:31Like we just met is our first date.

03:34I don't think that you go around like approaching people about how messy their cars are.

03:40I was there.

03:41I was embarrassed for that woman.

03:43I was embarrassed.

03:44I didn't want to be around.

03:46It was embarrassing.

03:47I mean, you're on a date.

03:48I mean, you're driving around a parking lot looking for people with what dents in their

03:53cars.

03:54Yeah.

03:54I mean, Brandon's a couple of towns over from where I live.

03:56So I'm not there a lot.

03:57So I just, you know, added five minutes.

03:59Maybe it was 10 max.

04:00Again, it was like a quick thing.

04:02And I don't know why you wouldn't be supportive of someone who's a hustler just trying to grow

04:06their business.

04:07Like you said, you're trying to get promoted at work.

04:09You know, I'm trying to grow my thing.

04:11I thought our goals were aligned there.

04:13And this is, I don't get it.

04:15But I'm, I'm doing it at work.

04:17I wasn't like doing my, I didn't like pull out my computer and paper and start working while

04:23we were sitting at the table.

04:25It was just after dinner, by the way.

04:27Yeah.

04:27Okay.

04:28All right.

04:29Maybe 10 minutes.

04:30I'm in a work truck.

04:30It's like full of stuff.

04:33It's like, I don't know.

04:35It just felt like it was, I was surrounded by, it was like it was in your office.

04:38And this all felt not the right time.

04:41I mean, why didn't you bring your work truck?

04:43That's the only car I have.

04:45Like, I don't know.

04:47I don't know what you want me to do.

04:48Rent a Ferrari for a first date.

04:50Like.

04:51That'd be awesome.

04:53You know, maybe if I could grow my business without people making me feel bad, maybe

04:58I could get a second car to have a work truck and a regular car.

05:00But like, that's where it's at right now.

05:03I just, it just wasn't for me to just sit there watching you do your work.

05:07It felt like my time wasn't being valued.

05:09And I just want to, I don't know.

05:12Good luck to you.

05:13I just don't think we're a match.

05:15Yeah.

05:15I don't think you guys are a match either, to be honest with you.

05:17I mean, not that it's my decision, but Nick, I mean, do you have an interest in going

05:21on with, out with Sydney again anyway?

05:23No, no, not, no, not how ungrateful you are.

05:26I did not see this side of you on the date.

05:30Look, you can say whatever you want.

05:31You can call me whatever you want, but just don't call me anymore.

05:35This is not going to work out.

05:36All right.

05:37Okay.

05:37All right, guys.

05:38Well, hey, Nick, now you know what's going on, man.

05:40Good luck with your business.

05:41I hope it blows up for you.

05:42And Sydney, thanks for your time this morning.

05:45You guys have a great day.

05:46Take care.

05:47All right.

05:48She's.

05:49I know, but I.

05:50I mean, she's, that's.

05:51I'm not siding with her.

05:54I don't know what else to say.

05:55She was not cool at all.

05:56I'm not siding with her.

05:58But I, but listen, you're on a date and all of a sudden the, your dates driving up and

06:02down the parking lot of a mall and handing out business cards.

06:06I mean, come on.

06:08I mean, we're all working all the time anyway.

06:10Now with, with our phones and email and stuff.

06:13He just has a different way of working, right?

06:15Yeah.

06:15But the way she's like laughing the whole time, like the whole, it's just, I just was

06:18like, lady, do you really care?

06:20Or are you just laughing this whole through this whole thing?

06:23And I just, I, I don't understand how you couldn't see that as like, all right, maybe

06:27not the time and place, but the guy's a hustler.

06:29He's erring on the side of a hard worker.

06:31Why would you be mad about that?

06:32I don't understand.

06:33Just wrong time.

06:35Let's see where you're at on this.

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