Second Date Update - Sleep Mode

4/23/2025

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00:00We are trying to help out Kim this morning on the second date update and trying to match her back up with Alex, who she went on a date with.

00:07They did something casual for a first date, which I think is sometimes a good idea.

00:10Yeah, I like it.

00:11They went to Panera, she said, and they just kind of had a great date.

00:15There was no pressure, not a lot of stress, she said, and she really enjoyed it.

00:18And she told him straight up that she wants to see him again.

00:22But for some reason, he has not been getting in touch with her for a second date.

00:25Has not.

00:26We were able to get in touch with him, though.

00:27We actually have him on hold, so we want to bring him on and see if we can get some answers from him.

00:32Good morning, Alex.

00:35Hey, good morning, guys.

00:36Hey, I appreciate you agreeing to talk to us.

00:38I know this is a little confusing.

00:40We wanted to talk to you about Kim, who you went on a date with.

00:44We heard about your date at Panera, and you just heard us talking about it as well.

00:47But she's just kind of in the dark right now of why she has not heard from you since this date,

00:51because she thought things were going in the right direction.

00:53Yeah, I find it hard to believe she doesn't understand why.

01:02Yeah, pure and simple, she showed up wearing pajama bottoms.

01:05Wait, so like long pants, or like, what are we talking here?

01:09Yeah, like the long, like flannel-y, like pants.

01:13Yeah, I see girls wearing them.

01:14Yeah, girls wear them to, like, the grocery store and gas stations and stuff.

01:18And gas stations, or they're hanging out at the gas station, around, picking up kids from school, I don't know.

01:26I mean, but I see, yes, I see women and girls wearing them at gas stations and what have you.

01:34I don't know, not on a first date.

01:36It just seemed like she put zero, zero effort into the whole thing.

01:41She wasn't wearing the pajama top, too, was she?

01:44No.

01:45Okay.

01:45It's the bottoms, but it still looks ridiculous.

01:47And honestly, it's like, it's just, it's pretty rude, in my opinion.

01:52Okay, so you just felt like she didn't put any effort in on the date and kind of just showed up half of it.

01:57Yeah, and she just, yeah, it's just like, well, and I, you know, it's not like I wore a tux or anything like that,

02:03but it's like, you know, when I put some effort into it, act like you care.

02:08Okay, okay, I have to, like, I can't, I don't want to sit here and take this right now.

02:15I just can't.

02:16Well, Alex, that's Kim.

02:19Yeah, I gathered.

02:23Go ahead, Kim.

02:24Hey, Kim.

02:26First of all, those pajama bottoms are expensive.

02:29They're really nice pajama bottoms, and they've got, like, sort of a, like a Czech floral print on them,

02:35and they look like pants, but they're, yeah, they're pajamas.

02:39I, like, had done two work Zooms already that day.

02:42Like, I was so busy, and I just thought, well, these pants are cute.

02:46They are cute.

02:48I can't even believe you're judging what I was wearing and saying I didn't put any effort in.

02:52They're cute if, like, I had just woken up next to you and rolled over and was like, oh, wow, those are nice.

02:59But not at a first date.

03:02Where did your clothes come from?

03:03Old Navy?

03:03Like, what, what, why was what you were wearing was so amazing?

03:07I don't understand.

03:08So old Navy.

03:09My Republic, thank you very much for asking, but, I mean, at least I looked like, you know,

03:13it was daytime human hours, like, not at my house, just rolled out of bed.

03:20Like, honestly, did you brush your teeth?

03:22Like, did you?

03:22Oh, my God.

03:23Are you serious right now?

03:25Oh, my God.

03:26I can't even.

03:26Did you sleep in those?

03:27Did you sleep in those?

03:29Well, yeah.

03:30Yeah.

03:30Okay.

03:31All right.

03:32I mean, you didn't even change.

03:37They're super cute.

03:38I worked all day and, like, they're just cute pants.

03:42So, whatever.

03:43And also, like, you said it was going to be a coffee date and really casual.

03:47And, like, that was the thing of back and forth of, like, how much dates are expensive now.

03:51And it's so crazy.

03:52And we're both, like, we're both dating and, like, it's just, it's so nuts.

03:57So, this just seemed like, oh, these pants are cute.

04:00I'm going to wear them.

04:01And now I'm being judged for not putting any effort.

04:04I actually did put thought into it.

04:06And you're a jerk.

04:08Oh, man.

04:08Okay.

04:09Okay.

04:09Wow.

04:09Okay.

04:10A coffee date is not breakfast in bed.

04:12There's a difference.

04:13You guys, I don't really think this, like, now I can, it's actually saved me a lot of

04:18time if he's this upset about my cute pants.

04:22So.

04:22Wow.

04:22Okay.

04:23So, Kim, are you not wanting to go on another date now?

04:26No, I really don't.

04:27Oh, wow.

04:28Okay.

04:29Weird.

04:30All right.

04:31Well, Alex, we originally called you because we were going to try to set you guys back up.

04:35Uh, but it doesn't look like that's going to happen now.

04:37I'm guessing you're probably okay with that.

04:39No, no, I'm, I'm all good.

04:42All right, Alex.

04:42Thanks for your time today, Kim.

04:44Sorry we couldn't make it happen.

04:45And I wish you both luck.

04:46Okay.

04:47Okay.

04:49All right.

04:49See ya.

04:50Do you guys really care about what a woman is wearing?

04:54Um, I would be a little bit like, did you just roll out of bed?

04:57I would probably say the same thing.

04:58So, you guys do care?

05:00Uh, 100%.

05:01If you're, you want someone to put in effort on a date.

05:04I get that.

05:04Yeah.

05:05And if they're not putting in effort, you're kind of going, okay, well, what am I doing here?

05:09Do you not take this date that seriously?

05:10Do you not really care?

05:12Am I wasting my time?

05:13That's exactly what he said.

05:15Right.

05:15Yeah.

05:15So, I kind of agree with him.

05:16I just didn't think like a woman's clothes are all that important.

05:20Let me ask you a question.

05:21Is it important to you how you look on a first date, Lana?

05:23It is.

05:24Yeah.

05:24So, that's what I'm saying.

05:25If you wear pajama bottoms, do you think that's putting your best self forward?

05:28Yeah.

05:28I don't wear pajama bottoms out in public, but I have seen women do it.

05:31All right.

05:32Well, this has been a deal breaker, though, for you.

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