Second Date Update - In A Pickle

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Well, it sounds like they had a fun date.

00:01Marissa and Toby is who we're talking about right now on the second date update as we try to match them back up.

00:06It's commercial-free new country, 99.5 QYK.

00:10Toby is, though, lost about why he has not heard from Marissa since the date.

00:14Yeah, well, they went to go play pickleball.

00:16We asked him a bunch of stuff like, was it too competitive?

00:19Was it too hot outside?

00:21I asked if he was, you know, taking pictures of her mid-pickleball swing or whatever, and he said no.

00:26So he said he's wracking his brain.

00:27He can't figure out why she ain't calling him back.

00:29All right.

00:30Well, we were able to get a hold of her.

00:31We got her on hold right now.

00:32Let's just talk to her.

00:33She's heard what we had to say.

00:35Marissa, are you there?

00:36Yeah.

00:37Hey, Marissa, you just heard us kind of recapping your date with Toby.

00:41But this guy wants to see you again, and he can't figure out why he hasn't heard from you.

00:45So we want to kind of know what's going on.

00:48Oh, that guy's a clown.

00:50No.

00:52He's a clown?

00:52What did he do?

00:54You know, the date was going really well.

00:58And then he made this comment, and I was like, what?

01:02Well, we want to know what the comment was.

01:04Did he tell us?

01:05Is it safe to say on the radio, though?

01:08Oh, yeah.

01:08Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:09We were in the middle of playing pickleball, and he goes, oh, you move pretty well for

01:15a bigger girl.

01:16Oh, he screwed.

01:17Yeah.

01:18And boy, no.

01:19He did not.

01:22Yes, he did.

01:23And I was there like, I'm sorry, what did you say?

01:26And he just, you know, kept playing.

01:28And it's like.

01:29Did you hit him with the pickleball racket?

01:31I was going to say.

01:32Did he get smacked with that racket?

01:34Did he get it?

01:34Wow.

01:35No, I didn't.

01:36I was just in such shock that someone would say something like that.

01:39I get it.

01:40Wow.

01:40Yeah.

01:41Oof.

01:41Yeah, not smart at all.

01:43Dang.

01:44Did you, what'd you say?

01:46I was just so in shock that I didn't say anything.

01:49You know, like, who says that?

01:51Yeah, exactly.

01:52Oh, man.

01:53Well, I totally get why you're not calling him back.

01:55I wouldn't either.

01:56Well, I kind of want to talk to him about this.

01:59And we have Toby on the phone with us, Marissa.

02:01Can we bring him back on and ask him?

02:03Please, please, please, please.

02:04Yes, please.

02:04So he will leave me alone.

02:06Oh.

02:06Okay.

02:07Toby, you got an uphill battle here, man.

02:09Did you say that?

02:11No.

02:11I mean, I don't know, I guess.

02:14But, like, that's definitely not what I meant.

02:16Like, I didn't mean, like, big, you know?

02:18I'm just like, you know, Marissa, you're, like, athletic.

02:21You're not, like, an itty-bitty, like, tiny, little, fragile girl.

02:26That's all I meant.

02:27Oh.

02:28So girls are supposed to be little and fragile?

02:31No.

02:32And I'm not, so I'm a bigger girl?

02:35No, it's not.

02:36Wow.

02:37You're, like, you're, you know, you're not out of shape.

02:40Like, that's not what I'm saying.

02:41You're not, like, a bigger girl.

02:43You're just not, like, mousy, you know?

02:45Like, you're athletic.

02:47You're not winning points here.

02:49Yeah, I mean, I work out and stuff.

02:51And I've just never been called bigger because, I mean, there's no way.

02:55I work out and all that stuff.

02:58And I'm not.

02:59Then I, look, man, I misspoke.

03:02I used the wrong phrase, man.

03:04Yeah, you did.

03:05I just apologize.

03:05Yeah, you did.

03:06I had a really good time with you.

03:08Like, and I'm hoping you can forgive me and just acknowledge that it's kind of a slip-up.

03:13And maybe we can go get dinner and, like, put all this behind us.

03:17Like, what do you think?

03:18No.

03:19No.

03:19I mean, if mousy and little and fragile is what you're looking for, then I'm not that.

03:25And, you know, I just don't like all this focus that you've got on body type right here as far as, like, what I'm not.

03:35So, yeah.

03:36I think you've got some issues that you've got to work through before, you know.

03:41That's a bad choice of words, Toby.

03:43Yeah.

03:44Yeah, I guess.

03:46I mean, I'm not really that, I don't know.

03:49I'm not really that, like, body focused.

03:50I mean, Marissa, he did call us trying to, you know, get a date with you.

03:54So, no forgiveness there?

03:56Good try.

03:57No, because all I'm hearing out of his mouth is body judgment, body judgment, body judgment, body judgment.

04:04And, no, thank you.

04:06Okay.

04:07All right, Toby.

04:08Well, we know where we messed up here.

04:09It was pretty clear.

04:10Sorry that you didn't use your words a little bit more careful next time, I think.

04:17And we do appreciate you reaching out to us.

04:20Marissa, thanks for coming on.

04:22You guys have a great day, okay?

04:23Yeah, you too.

04:25Thanks, guys.

04:25I appreciate you.

04:26Appreciate you, Ed.

04:27Yeah.

04:28I mean, dead in the water, as soon as he said it.

04:30Do you forgive somebody who says that?

04:34I mean, I don't know if I could.

04:35I guess you could forgive someone, but maybe on the first date.

04:38And now you're thinking all the time he's always going to compare you to something else.

04:41Or he's always going to be thinking that you're a bigger girl.

04:43Yeah, I don't blame her.

04:46Not at all.

04:46I don't blame her one bit.

04:47Oh, man.

04:48Yeah, talk about screwing yourself over big time right there.

04:53All right, 800-992-1099.

04:56800-992-1099.

04:58Is there any coming back from that whatsoever?

05:01We want to know.

Second Date Update - In A Pickle

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