Second Date Update - It's In The Bag

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00All right, this is interesting.

00:01Kurt has reached out to us today for the second date update,

00:03and he goes, I know what I did wrong.

00:05Yeah, he knows.

00:06And I want to talk to her about it, and I want to apologize.

00:08But he has not told us what happened.

00:11He goes, I just want to talk to her about it.

00:12Yeah, I told him that we can't make her talk to us on the phone,

00:17but I guess we'll try our best.

00:18Yeah, we're going to try to call her right now

00:20and see if we can get Stacey to answer.

00:30Hello?

00:40Hi, good morning.

00:40Is this Stacey?

00:42Yes.

00:43Hey, Stacey, I'm glad you answered.

00:46This is going to sound really weird.

00:48This is actually JR, Lana, and Kevin at 995QIK.

00:53Good morning to you.

00:54Good morning.

00:55Good morning.

00:57We wanted to see if we could talk to you real quick.

00:59Actually, about a date you went on with a guy named Kurt.

01:03Oh, my God.

01:05Okay.

01:06Well, you know what?

01:07Instead of us asking questions,

01:09we don't really know what happened on the date

01:11other than you guys went to Sparkman Wharf

01:14and had a date there.

01:17But we do have Kurt on the phone with us as well right now.

01:21Oh, okay.

01:23Yeah, he's been trying to get a hold of you,

01:24and you won't respond.

01:26Kurt, you said you know what you did wrong,

01:28and you need to apologize,

01:29so the floor is yours, man.

01:31Hi, Stacey.

01:32Look, thank you.

01:33I just wanted to apologize to you

01:37about everything that happened.

01:39You know, the food,

01:40it just got,

01:41it just unsettled my stomach.

01:43It upset me.

01:45And, you know,

01:46I really, really apologize about everything.

01:48And I just,

01:50I wanted to say it to you.

01:53Okay.

01:54Well, I mean,

01:55I forgave you,

01:56but, like,

01:57I don't want to really see you again.

02:01Well, Stacey, what happened?

02:02Yeah, wait, hold on.

02:03What happened?

02:04I mean, he just got sick?

02:05He didn't tell you what happened?

02:07No.

02:08Oh, oh, great.

02:10I gotta relive this.

02:11We were on the way home,

02:13and, you know,

02:13the date seemed fine.

02:14Like, I was gonna, you know,

02:16probably go out again,

02:17but he wasn't really talking on the way home.

02:19I was like,

02:19okay, maybe he got anxious.

02:21And then he grabbed my purse from my lap

02:24and threw up in it.

02:26Oh, right.

02:27And nothing else was said after that

02:30except for profuse apologizing

02:32and absolute stunned silence from me.

02:35Ooh.

02:36Is it an expensive purse?

02:39I mean, it wasn't cheap.

02:41I mean,

02:42it was my favorite purse.

02:45It's the one I use daily,

02:46and there's also, you know,

02:47stuff in there that I can't use anymore

02:50that I have to replace

02:51because hell if I was gonna go through that.

02:55I just threw the whole thing away.

02:56Oh, my gosh.

02:58Kurt, why would you throw up in her purse?

03:01Yeah, why don't you pull over or something?

03:02Well, I wasn't thinking.

03:04I was on the bridge, you know, heading over,

03:07and there was really no spot to pull over.

03:10I didn't want to throw up on the inside of my car,

03:12and it was just, like, it was instinctual.

03:15I guess looking back on it now,

03:16I should throw up outside the window,

03:18but, like, it was gonna come regardless,

03:20and her purse was the first thing that I saw.

03:24I mean, it kind of resembles a bucket, yeah.

03:26And, you know, like,

03:28I really understand that, you know,

03:30you're upset, Stacey.

03:31I really understand.

03:32I understand that it is uncomfortable to be sick.

03:36However, you know,

03:37even kids who are 10 can make themselves

03:40get to a separate location before they are sick,

03:44and I was disgusted.

03:46It took everything in me to not have a panic attack.

03:49I just needed to get home,

03:51and so, honestly,

03:52I just, I don't think I can go out with you again.

03:54It was just such a jarring experience.

03:56Well, hey, did you offer to pay for the purse?

03:58Yeah.

03:59Clean it out or something?

04:01I mean, you saved your car

04:02by not throwing up in your car.

04:04Yeah, but my purse was fine.

04:06Like, yeah, I don't,

04:07how much was the purse?

04:09I mean, I can get you a new one

04:11or, you know, reimburse you for it or something.

04:14Oh, she's got to pick out a good one?

04:15You have my number.

04:16If you want to pay for the purse,

04:18that'd be great.

04:20It was a Louis.

04:21But I...

04:22Yeah.

04:23But I...

04:24Oh, man, that's brutal.

04:26Well, I mean,

04:26I don't know if I can afford a Louis Vuitton,

04:29like, right at this moment,

04:30but, I mean,

04:31I mean, maybe eventually I can get you back for that.

04:34That's kind of steep.

04:36Well, would you be willing to go back out with him?

04:37I mean, at the end of the day,

04:39obviously, this was not his plan

04:40to get sick and throw up.

04:43He ate something bad.

04:44It didn't sit well.

04:46I mean, can you look past this?

04:47I know it's kind of a gross situation,

04:48but could you look past this, Stacey?

04:51I don't think I could.

04:53I mean, just imagine going through that

04:55and then this person wants to go back out with you

04:57and you have to act like that didn't happen

04:59and then maybe at some point

05:00they even want to kiss you.

05:01I'm just like,

05:02I just don't think I can be that close to your face.

05:04Your face ruined my purse.

05:06But that would be such a great first date story

05:09that you could carry with you

05:10for the rest of your life.

05:12Yeah.

05:13Maybe for someone else,

05:14but I am not that girl.

05:16Wow.

05:17Okay.

05:18You're blaming me for food poisoning.

05:21It's not like I intentionally wanted this to happen.

05:25I'm not blaming you.

05:26I just can't do it.

05:28And you know what?

05:28Maybe there are other fish in the sea.

05:31Yeah.

05:31I guess maybe there are other fish in the sea

05:33that don't throw up.

05:34That don't have other bodily functions as well.

05:39I guess it seems like you're pretty picky.

05:41Hmm.

05:42All right.

05:42Well, here's the deal.

05:44I appreciate your answer

05:45and appreciate you coming on with us, Stacey.

05:47Kurt, you heard what you had to say.

05:49It's just not going to be a match.

05:51An unfortunate situation.

05:52I'm sorry that happened to you.

05:53But you guys probably should go your separate ways

05:56and now you both have a story

05:58and thanks for coming on with us.

06:01All right.

06:03Thanks.

06:04All right.

06:05See ya.

06:08Oh, my gosh.

06:09That's so gross.

06:10Can you imagine having to clean out your purse?

06:13She did.

06:13She just threw it away.

06:14There's stuff.

06:15You got to get your license.

06:16You got to get some stuff.

06:17Yeah.

06:17All those can be replaced.

06:19I feel bad for the guy

06:20because, you know, he ate something bad.

06:22But why would you grab her purse?

06:24He said it was instinct.

06:26Oh, man.

06:27I guess this would be a deal breaker for anybody,

06:30but maybe I'm wrong.

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