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Second Date Update - House Party
Beasley Digital
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4/23/2025
Second Date Update - House Party
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00:00
All right, we are trying to help out the very confident Tim this morning on the Second Date Update.
00:04
Yes, so apparently he took Elizabeth to OnSwan after they met online.
00:10
Where's that located?
00:11
It's OnSwan.
00:12
Okay, gotcha.
00:15
How convenient.
00:17
Oh, beautiful.
00:18
He said they had a great dinner.
00:20
It sounded like they were both kind of really into each other from him.
00:24
And then I guess they went back to his place.
00:27
And he said he had a pretty nice place.
00:29
So they checked that out.
00:30
I'm sure she was liking that.
00:31
And then he said he took her home and everything was fine, he thought.
00:34
But now she's not texting him back and he wants to take her out again.
00:37
So it's time to call her and see if we can get her on the phone.
00:39
Let's do it.
00:39
Here we go.
00:56
Hello?
00:56
Hi, good morning.
00:57
Is this Elizabeth?
00:59
Uh, yeah.
01:00
Elizabeth, this is J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.
01:05
How you doing?
01:07
I'm good, thanks.
01:09
Well, you seem nice and chipper.
01:11
Yeah.
01:11
For getting a random phone call from us.
01:14
All right.
01:15
I mean, what's going on?
01:16
Okay.
01:17
Have you heard our show before?
01:19
Uh, yeah, sometimes.
01:20
Have you ever heard us do something called a Second Date Update?
01:23
Oh, yeah, I think so.
01:26
Okay.
01:26
Well, that's what we're doing right now.
01:28
And we want to talk to you about a date you went on with this guy, Tim.
01:32
Do you remember Tim?
01:34
Oh, okay, yeah.
01:36
Okay.
01:36
Tim told us about your guys' date at OnSwan.
01:39
He told us that, uh, afterwards, you actually ended up going back to his house and hanging
01:43
out.
01:44
I guess he had a couple friends over.
01:46
And he said that it was a good time, and you seemed to get along with everybody.
01:50
And then he took you home, gave you a hug, gave you a kiss on the cheek.
01:54
But that's where things ended, as far as your communication goes, because he hasn't heard
01:56
from you since.
01:57
And we're seeing if we can maybe set you guys up on another date.
02:02
Um, I think to say a couple people were at his house is under-selling it.
02:08
There were way too many people there.
02:10
Oh, was he having a party?
02:11
Well, I, I, he said he had a few people over, and I, I, I was still interested in hanging
02:17
out.
02:17
But there were, like, definitely more than a dozen there.
02:20
And I don't think he even knew everybody who was there.
02:22
So it kind of made me uncomfortable, because I'm going out with this guy who's, like, almost
02:26
40, and I feel like he's still living like a frack guy.
02:30
And that's just not at all what I'm looking for.
02:32
And I thought I was being polite about it, but I, I was trying to deter him from having
02:38
another go with me, because that's just not what I was looking for.
02:41
So you basically walked into, what, like a frat party?
02:45
That's what it felt like to me.
02:46
I mean, people were in the pool, people were drinking, the football game was on, and there
02:51
were, there were, there were girls there, and I couldn't tell if they were truly significant
02:55
others.
02:56
I, I don't know, I kind of felt like another escapade of, like, this group of guys.
03:00
Wow.
03:00
But what did he say to you when you, when you, you guys walked into that?
03:04
Well, it seemed like it, this was like every day to him, and I was like, I was like,
03:08
oh, you know, you have a lot of people here.
03:10
And he was like, yeah, I mean, people are coming and going all the time.
03:13
And it just, I don't know, that feels a little immature to me.
03:16
And so I, that's just not how I roll.
03:18
I like to know who I'm going to be with.
03:22
And I, maybe I like a little bit of alone time.
03:24
I don't want everybody in my place all the time.
03:26
Okay.
03:28
That's interesting that he would take you back there if he had a ton of people at his
03:31
house.
03:32
That's interesting to me.
03:33
Well, here's the deal.
03:34
We actually have Tim on the phone with us as well.
03:38
And I want to just get his take on things, Elizabeth.
03:41
Tim.
03:42
Yes.
03:43
Does that sound like an accurate depiction of your house when you went over?
03:46
Like I said, you know, I have a nice house.
03:51
People have the code to get into the side, to go around into the lanai.
03:54
And, uh, and, you know, I have friends.
03:58
I didn't know that was a crime.
03:59
I mean, my house is clean and neat.
04:01
Like there's no issues.
04:02
Everybody's adult.
04:03
And she said I was almost 40, which is accurately correct.
04:07
I didn't know I can't have a life.
04:09
I don't know.
04:10
It just, it still feels immature to me and feels like a college student to me.
04:13
We were all athletes at one time and we're all still close and we like to hang out.
04:18
Like, you know, like the Bruce Springsteen song, like glory days, like stuff like that.
04:22
Like we hang out.
04:22
I don't know.
04:26
I mean, that's normal to me.
04:27
I don't, I'm not sure.
04:28
I don't know what quite, there's a problem with that.
04:31
I don't really see one.
04:32
I don't know.
04:33
It just doesn't seem like a super conducive environment for starting a relationship if
04:38
you're really serious.
04:40
Well, I guess a second date is out of the question.
04:42
I mean, I thought I was, I thought I was pretty polite about, I don't know.
04:46
I just didn't, I just didn't want that kind of vibe.
04:48
You didn't, I mean, you just, you know, when we spoke, you said, yeah, well, let's try to
04:52
do something again.
04:53
Like you didn't say, oh my God, your friends are idiots and this is a crazy frat house.
04:57
Yeah.
04:57
Well, I don't think your friends are idiots.
04:58
I think, I think, I think you have the vibe that you want.
05:01
It's just not what I wanted.
05:02
Okay.
05:03
Perfect.
05:04
That's, that's, that's your, uh, that's your deal.
05:07
I'll respect that.
05:08
You don't get tired of people in and out of your house all the time.
05:11
I don't, nobody goes in like my, I have a wing.
05:14
Nobody goes up there.
05:16
Wing.
05:17
Oh my.
05:18
I mean.
05:19
I have like a, you know, like a master suite and then I have like a, like a sitting area.
05:23
Like I have my own area.
05:24
It gets crazy, but I don't care.
05:26
They're my friends.
05:27
So it's just like a revolving party all the time.
05:30
I don't know.
05:31
I guess kind of, sort of.
05:32
I mean, we're not, I mean, I don't wake up in the morning and people are, you know,
05:35
dead in my pool or drunk on my lounge chairs.
05:37
They go home.
05:38
So, I mean, we're older.
05:39
We're not 18.
05:41
Okay.
05:42
All right.
05:42
Well, it sounds like it's just not going to be for Elizabeth, Tim, as you heard.
05:45
No, she needs peace and wants to tiptoe through the tulips or something.
05:49
So, okay.
05:50
All right.
05:51
Elizabeth, thanks for coming on today.
05:53
I appreciate you.
05:54
All right.
05:55
And Tim, now you know what's going on and I hope you have a great party.
06:00
I will.
06:00
You guys are welcome anytime.
06:01
All right.
06:02
Thanks, man.
06:03
That sounds like fun.
06:04
Appreciate it.
06:04
All right.
06:04
You guys have a great day.
06:06
All right.
06:07
All right.
06:08
Take care.
06:09
All right, Lana.
06:10
So, the question is, would that bother you as a woman?
06:13
I would not want to date somebody who has the house, right?
06:17
That everybody parties at.
06:18
What if you're tired?
06:19
What if you don't want to talk to anybody?
06:21
What if you want to walk around naked?
06:23
I mean, you can't because there's constantly people at your house.
06:26
No, I wouldn't like that.
06:27
You need your space sometimes.
06:30
All right.
06:30
Would this have been a deal breaker for you?
06:32
Would you be cool with this?
06:33
Would this be a problem for you?
06:34
800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
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