Second Date Update - Broad Strokes

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4/23/2025

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00:00Susan, very confused, very energetic, though, about her date with Jared.

00:06And they did something simple.

00:08They just went on a coffee date.

00:09She goes, I didn't want to put a lot of pressure on the date.

00:11And in case things went wrong, I wanted to be able to get out of it as soon as I could.

00:15So coffee date is what they did, and it went well.

00:18Now, she hasn't heard from him since.

00:21That's where we come in.

00:22Yeah.

00:22And we actually have Jared on the phone.

00:24So let's bring him back on.

00:26He's agreed to talk to us.

00:27Jared, you there?

00:29Yeah.

00:30So listen, understood that's a weird request to say, hey, let's talk about a date you went on on the radio.

00:35Get it?

00:36But I do want to see if that's okay with you if we ask you a couple questions about a woman named Susan.

00:42Yeah, it's a little strange, but yeah, happy to chat.

00:46All right, cool.

00:47Appreciate it.

00:47So you just heard us talking about you guys going on a coffee date.

00:51She really felt like you guys lined up in a lot of areas when it comes to dating.

00:55And she really thought she'd be seeing you again and going on a more formal date with you,

01:01but hasn't heard anything from you, and she's even reached out to you.

01:05So we want to know what's going on.

01:06Why the cold shoulder?

01:08Yeah, listen, she's very nice.

01:11I just don't think we line up on a lot of things.

01:16Really?

01:16Because she said you guys lined up on a lot of things.

01:19Really?

01:20Did she tell you her life plan?

01:24Is that what she told you?

01:26Yeah, what's her life plan?

01:28Yeah, she plans to quit her job and be a full-time artist.

01:33Like artists?

01:34What kind of artists are we talking about?

01:35Like a painter.

01:36Oh, okay.

01:38Gotcha.

01:38She showed you some of her paintings?

01:39She must be good.

01:41She did show me on her phone.

01:42She showed me some of her paintings.

01:43And, you know, I don't want to be mean here, but honestly, I don't know anything about art, but they were not very good.

01:51Well, you just said you don't know anything about art, so that's your opinion.

01:55Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right?

01:58Sure, yeah.

01:59But when I looked at them, I just can't imagine anybody buying them.

02:04So her plan is to quit her job, become a full-time artist, and sell her paintings?

02:08That was what she told you?

02:10Yeah, that's what she told me.

02:11And, you know, that's cool.

02:12If that's what you want to do, if you want to follow your dreams sort of thing, but you've got to be able to support yourself.

02:18You don't think anybody's going to buy these paintings?

02:21No, I don't.

02:22I can't see anybody that doesn't know her trying to buy these paintings.

02:26Okay.

02:27And so what exactly is your problem with it?

02:29I mean, it doesn't really affect you, right?

02:32I'm just not really looking to get involved with someone who wants to just kind of like paint all day.

02:38Well, I mean, she did wonder why you were not getting back to her.

02:41I guess this explains it.

02:43We do have her on the phone with us, too.

02:45Jared, I want to let you know.

02:46Susan.

02:47Hi.

02:48Hi.

02:49So is that kind of what you were saying your plan is?

02:52You kind of want to quit your job, what you're doing now, and be a full-time artist?

02:56Well, here's the thing.

02:57I'm an entrepreneur, you know?

02:58So I wanted to start my own company, like an art company, where, you know, I paint and

03:04I sell my paintings, you know?

03:06I'm a little disappointed in hearing, Jared, that you don't like my paintings.

03:11I mean, I get tons of compliments all the time.

03:14So I don't see where there would be an issue of me, you know, making my paintings that are

03:21extremely valuable.

03:22Everyone loves it.

03:24I think it would be a great business.

03:26Who are you getting these compliments from?

03:30Who's telling you that the paintings are good?

03:33My friends and my family.

03:36Exactly.

03:37Exactly.

03:38Look, I'm not trying to be mean, but I don't think you'll be telling them.

03:42But why, I mean, I feel a little offended.

03:45I'm like over here trying to, you know, chase my dreams.

03:48I mean, I think my paintings are great.

03:50My friends think my paintings are great.

03:52They would never lie to me.

03:54And I just, I'm so disappointed that you would totally diss me off of trying to be an entrepreneur.

04:01Just a curiosity, Susan, have you sold any paintings before?

04:06No, I haven't.

04:07Okay.

04:08All right.

04:08Well, I guess I'll start somewhere.

04:10Yeah.

04:10How do you get to the point where somebody pays a lot of money for your paintings?

04:14How do you get there?

04:15Well, if it's valuable to them and they want it, I guess.

04:17I mean, I'm not a big art collector.

04:18It's worth money, yeah.

04:19But I know, I think it's great that she wants to do her own thing and follow her own dreams.

04:23I don't really see how, Jared, I mean, besides this, did you have a good time with her?

04:27I mean, wouldn't this be worth like maybe hanging out with her again and getting to know

04:30her a little bit more than just this?

04:32Listen, yeah, I mean, we had a good time.

04:34But, you know, for your sake, I hope that's the case.

04:37I hope you sell a lot of paintings.

04:40But I'm not looking to get involved with someone who's, you know, going to quit their job to paint.

04:46So it's a no-go for me.

04:49Well, Susan, I think it's great that you are going to say, hey, I'm going to bet on myself.

04:54I'm going to make this happen.

04:54I hope you are super talented, and I hope you, you know, make all the money in the world

05:00selling your paintings, and we appreciate you reaching out.

05:03It's just not going to be another date with Jared, okay?

05:06It's okay.

05:07I love you.

05:08I don't want to be with someone that doesn't, like, you know, you know, inspire me or motivate

05:12me or support me, for God's sake.

05:16There you go.

05:17All right.

05:18Thanks for coming on.

05:19Jared, thanks for your time.

05:20You guys have a great day.

05:22Yeah, you do.

05:22Okay, first of all, both of them sounded very boring, so I can only imagine what that

05:27date was like.

05:29I hate to be mean, but I'm just saying that.

05:31But if she's super talented and wants to do what she wants to do, then that's great.

05:34Yeah, she might be talented, and her paintings might be great, but you've got to be able

05:39to afford living off of just painting.

05:41If no one's going to buy these paintings, like he's saying, I mean, how does she think she's

05:45going to make a living?

05:46Maybe she has saved for this moment.

05:48Maybe she said, I've saved enough money to give myself six months to be able to chase

05:52this dream.

05:53Maybe that's what's happened.

05:54But he doesn't want to wait around to see if this dream's going to come true or not.

05:58Well, I mean...

05:59It's a risk.

05:59I'd like to lay around and paint all day, too.

06:02Can you pay?

06:02I've got to pay my electric bill.

06:04Hold on.

06:06All right.

06:07So, would this have been a deal breaker for you?

06:10Would you have been scared off if someone told you this on a date?

06:12We want to know.

06:13800-992-1099.

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