Second Date Update - Tough Crowd

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00All right, so we got Andrew, who has reached out to us, trying to get on another date with Bree.

00:05And he seems like a pretty straightforward guy.

00:08And he seems like he really has thought about this date that he went on with Bree.

00:11He said he's been on enough dates to know when a girl is into him and everything.

00:15So he's like, I really thought she was.

00:17But he has no idea what happened on the date and why she's not calling.

00:20And we've heard that before.

00:21Oh, we have.

00:22Okay, so we're going to call her right now and see if we can get her on the phone.

00:30Beep.

00:31Beep.

00:33Beep.

00:37Beep.

00:38Beep.

00:41Beep.

00:42Hello?

00:43Hey, this is Bree.

00:45It is.

00:45Who's this?

00:46Hey, Bree.

00:47This is actually J.R., Lana, and Kevin over here at 99.5QIK.

00:50How you doing?

00:52What?

00:55I'm good.

00:56How are you?

00:57We're great.

00:58Hey, would you have a couple minutes to talk to us on the air?

01:01We wanted to ask you a couple questions.

01:03Oh, my God.

01:03I mean, sure.

01:05Yeah.

01:06Okay.

01:07Well, I appreciate that.

01:08We want to actually ask you about this guy that you went on a date with to Jackson's.

01:13His name is Andrew.

01:15Oh, okay.

01:17That went sour fast.

01:19I was going to say, yeah.

01:19What happened there?

01:20What happened?

01:21I mean, this guy seems, he was talking about how beautiful you were and how great of a date

01:26it was, and he thought you were really, you know, you're hitting it off, but it hasn't

01:31heard anything from you since the date.

01:33Wow.

01:35I can't believe we're even talking about the same person.

01:39That is not my experience of that date.

01:42Okay.

01:43What was it?

01:45He was a jerk.

01:47I don't know how else to say it.

01:48Like, from the moment it started, he was, like, cracking, I guess he thought they were

01:55jokes.

01:56They were not funny.

01:57He was just belittling everything.

02:01Like, the first thing he said was a belittling comment about my outfit, and, you know, he said,

02:08oh, is that how you wear your hair on dates?

02:10What?

02:11Are you kidding me?

02:13Yeah, like, do you think that makeup is impressive, or just, like, every little thing, it was

02:19like he had to belittle.

02:22It was just, it was wild, and the whole time he was just having fun at my expense.

02:27I kept giving him looks, like, hoping he'd get it, but it never stopped.

02:32It was literally the entire conversation, if you could even call it that.

02:36And I was just like, can we be an adult for a second here?

02:39Like, do you even want to be here?

02:41Because I certainly don't.

02:42Did you say that, or did you, that was the look you were giving him?

02:45That was the look I was giving him, and I was not laughing along with his joke.

02:51I was, you know, doing a lot of, like, clearing my throat and trying to change the subject,

02:55and, you know, I'd ask him about himself, and it would almost immediately turn back to

03:02me.

03:02Um, I, you know, ordered, like, a chicken plate, um, and he was like, you're gonna eat

03:10all that on a date?

03:12I just, I couldn't even eat my food without being belittled.

03:16Did he realize what he was doing, though, to you?

03:17Yeah, I don't want to defend him by any means, Brie, but would he laugh this off after he

03:23said something, or was he really trying to be rude?

03:25He, he would laugh it off, sure, but, like, at a certain point, when I am not laughing,

03:33I am not responding in the same way.

03:35You're rolling your eyes, and you're turning your head.

03:38Oh, a lot of eye-rolling, believe me.

03:40Okay, I think I kind of know what she's talking about, because guys have a tendency to do this

03:44sometimes, or they think they're funny, and they're not.

03:47Well, I'm super serious, so I'm confused.

03:49I'm looking right at you, JR!

03:51What's that?

03:51Um, okay, well, Brie, this is a for-real thing.

03:58We have Andrew on the phone with us, and I want to bring him back on, because that was

04:01not the vibe that we got from him by any means, but I get what you're saying.

04:05Um, Andrew.

04:07Yeah.

04:08Kind of a bad approach, huh?

04:10Well, I mean, I thought it was obvious that I was joking.

04:15I, well, you better laugh.

04:17Yeah, that's just laughing.

04:18Like, like, don't, don't women like guys with a sense of humor?

04:22Yeah, but women also don't like bullies.

04:26I mean, that's not the same thing.

04:28Well, I, I'm sorry, I, I didn't feel like I was bullying you, I was just joking.

04:34I thought you were cool with it, and, you know, I was just talking with you like I would

04:39talk with my friends.

04:41Well, that's...

04:41I don't know you like that.

04:44Like, I'm not one of your buddies.

04:45Don't talk to me that way.

04:46I'm, I'm a girl you're on a first date with, and I should be treated as such.

04:51I'm sorry that I made you feel uncomfortable, uh, with my joking.

04:55And maybe, you know, that's just the way that I am, though.

04:58I, I like to joke around with people, and, uh, you know, if I went too far, I'm sorry.

05:03I, I can, I mean, I could, I could be more serious.

05:07Um, the fact that you even are saying, if I went too far, I'm sorry, if, no, I think

05:14you're not an adult ready for a serious relationship.

05:17So, no, you're, you're rude.

05:20It wasn't funny.

05:21It was just mean.

05:22And I can't believe you didn't pick up on any of the unbelievably obvious signs that I

05:26was putting out there.

05:27So, uh, hard pass for me.

05:31Really?

05:31Okay.

05:31I, I just thought maybe because he says, sorry, Bri, that he, you might be able to hit

05:36the reset button.

05:37No.

05:37And plus he's calling us.

05:38He really wants to go out with you.

05:39That's kind of a big deal to call us.

05:42Is it?

05:43Like, I'm sure it's maybe a great gesture, but ultimately it's still putting me in an uncomfortable

05:51position.

05:52Okay.

05:53So his goal at the end of the day is to make me uncomfortable is what it seems like.

05:56And I'm not going to entertain that.

05:58No.

05:59All right.

05:59All right, Andrew.

06:00It's her call, man.

06:01We tried.

06:02I'm sorry.

06:02A second date's not going to happen.

06:04You know, I mean, to be honest, she sounds like she just takes herself way too seriously.

06:08So that's fine.

06:10We're probably not right for each other anyways.

06:12Okay.

06:12Oh, wildly not.

06:13I don't even have time for this anymore.

06:15I'm going to go.

06:16All right.

06:16We'll let you go.

06:17Thank you, Bri.

06:18Thank you, Andrew.

06:18You guys have a great day.

06:19Boy.

06:20Ooh.

06:21It's a tough one.

06:22That was tough.

06:23Because I like to joke around, but belittling somebody, you know, and nonstop on a first

06:29date is not a good look at all.

06:32No.

06:32I wouldn't give you the time of day, so I don't blame her.

06:35Would you give him another chance, Zoe?

06:36We want to know 800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.

06:41He did say sorry.

06:42So hit us up.

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