Second Date Update - Get A Room

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Well, Darren, very mellow guy that we just talked to.

00:03Commercial-free New Country 99.5 QIK.

00:05It's our second date update.

00:07Went to a great spot with Kim.

00:09Yeah, they went to Ulele, which is right there on the river walk.

00:11He said they had a great meal, and then they were just kind of walking around

00:14and talking a little bit afterwards.

00:17Weather's great.

00:17He's like, but he's texted her a couple of times.

00:19He's called her since the date, and he's like,

00:21I don't know why she's not getting back to me.

00:23He goes, I'd love to take her out again, so who knows?

00:25Yeah, we want to make this happen, so we're going to try to call Kim ourselves right now.

00:30Hi, good morning.

00:46Is this Kim?

00:47Yeah, this is Kim.

00:49Hey, Kim.

00:50This is JR and Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QIK.

00:54How are you doing?

00:56I'm good.

00:57I'm sorry.

00:58Why are you guys calling me?

01:00Good morning.

01:01Well, hey, listen.

01:02We try to set people up on dates, and we call it our second date update.

01:07And the good news is it's someone that you know, all right?

01:09And it's someone that you've actually been out with already.

01:12And we're talking about Darren, and Darren told us that you guys met online,

01:17went to Ulele, had a great dinner, walked around a little bit after dinner,

01:21and now he wants to see you again.

01:23And we want to make that happen for him and you, but he can't get a hold of you.

01:27Yeah, so what's going on?

01:29Yeah, no, I'm good with that.

01:32That dude is so far out of line, I don't even know what he's thinking.

01:37Oh, what happened?

01:38He sounds like a very mellow, even-keeled guy.

01:41Yeah, I mean, that's how he comes off.

01:45The date was fine.

01:46It was good.

01:47We had great conversation.

01:48We went out to eat.

01:50Afterwards, we were walking around, and that was when it just got so awkward.

01:55He, I don't even know, like, how to even, like, articulate this.

01:59Like, I was so caught off guard.

02:01He literally asked me if I want to get a room at the JW, and he would pay for it.

02:07Wow, things must have been going well on the date then, huh?

02:12I guess, but I was so caught off guard.

02:14Like, I couldn't get out of there quick enough.

02:16And thank God that happened at the end of the date,

02:19because if he mentioned that in the middle of dinner,

02:21it would have been so awkward for me to just sit through that dinner with him,

02:25because it's just, who does that?

02:26It's a first date.

02:27We just met each other.

02:29Like, be a gentleman.

02:30So, I'm thinking, was there a lot of kissing going on?

02:32You guys must have been flirting with him?

02:33I mean, you guys must have really been into each other for him to say something like that.

02:37No, it wasn't, like, I mean, I didn't read it that way.

02:40Like I said, the dinner went really well.

02:42Like, it was a great day, but it's not like,

02:45I don't think I did anything to imply that I would go back to a hotel room.

02:49Like, is this what he does to the girls that he used online?

02:52I gotcha.

02:53Well, I can see how you'd be caught off guard by that.

02:56Kim, we have Darren on the phone with us.

02:58That's how we got your phone number.

02:59Oh, God.

03:01Darren, you there?

03:02Yeah, hi.

03:03Is that accurate, man?

03:04Did you kind of throw that idea out there?

03:07Yeah, I mean, I did throw it out there.

03:09I mean, it happens.

03:10You know, we're adults.

03:11It's 2023.

03:14People do hook up after dates.

03:16I have points in the JW, so I figured why not throw it out there.

03:20You know, maybe it was interesting.

03:23I didn't think it was that big of a deal to ask.

03:25She said no, which was fine, but I didn't think it would be a deal breaker.

03:30Well, for me, it is.

03:31I mean, that's just not how I roll, and you don't know me like that.

03:35To just assume that I'm that type of girl, that I'm going to go to a hotel room with you

03:39when I only met you in person like three hours ago, that's not cool.

03:44Like I said, you're an adult.

03:45I'm an adult.

03:45I don't think it's a bad thing to want to, you know, go back to a hotel room on a first date.

03:50I thought we were hitting it off.

03:51I didn't think it was a problem to ask.

03:53It's just really inappropriate, honestly.

03:55Like, I'm looking for a gentleman.

03:57I'm not looking for someone who's just trying to do something with me the first night.

04:01I thought we were going to get to know each other, and I thought, you know, this has potential.

04:05But that, honestly, that was such a turnoff for me.

04:08I mean, whatever.

04:10It's not that big a deal.

04:10You said no, which is fine.

04:12But I just didn't think it was that big a deal to ask you if you wanted to come back to the room with me.

04:16I didn't think it was a major issue or a deal breaker.

04:19Well, it was a deal breaker for me, and I was offended.

04:23That's just not the type of girl that I am.

04:25Okay, well, Darren, now you know what kind of girl Kim is, and you know she's really not interested in, obviously, doing that on a first date.

04:33Kim, is there any way that you would give him a second chance?

04:36Now he knows, like, where you stand.

04:38No, absolutely not.

04:39He had his chance.

04:41He showed his true colors.

04:42That's obviously the type of person he is.

04:45I'm the type of person I am.

04:46It's obviously not going to work out.

04:48And I don't know how many girls he's done this to before.

04:51But, you know what?

04:51Have fun with them.

04:53Oh, okay.

04:54Okay, wow.

04:54I mean, I am a gentleman.

04:56You said no, and that was fine.

04:59I didn't think it was that big of a deal.

05:01So you don't want to go on a second date and try this again?

05:05No.

05:06You don't give up.

05:07But the audacity to assume that I would want to do that is just too much for me.

05:13I'm good.

05:14Okay.

05:15All right.

05:15Well, we're going to respect what Kim wants here, Darren.

05:18I'm sorry it didn't work out for you.

05:20It's a little bit too forward for Kim.

05:22And Kim, thank you for coming on.

05:24And I wish you both luck.

05:25All right.

05:26Thanks, guys.

05:27All right.

05:27Thanks, Kim.

05:28Bye.

05:28I mean, you can't do that.

05:30You can't throw that out there like that.

05:32That's a bad read on his part.

05:34It's a bad read.

05:35I'm surprised he did because it didn't sound like they were hot and heavy all over each

05:39other.

05:39Now, if this girl had his tongue down his throat, I can see him saying that, but it didn't seem

05:45that way at all.

05:45That didn't happen at all.

05:47It's like, where, why would you throw that out there?

05:49I mean, she's, she was probably into you, but she wasn't like, yeah.

05:53All right.

05:54Well, this would have been a, no, I'm not saying that when I asked this question, would it be

05:57a deal breaker to go on another date?

05:59Obviously he was cool with her saying no, but would you go on another date with him?

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