Second Date Update - Always On Call

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00All right, Tabitha, very jacked up about her date with Mark.

00:03Second date update right now.

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00:07Kevin, what are your first impressions of Tabitha?

00:11Well, I like what you said when you're like, hey, you felt really connected to him.

00:14She's like, yeah, he was really handsome, had all these great things to say.

00:18And she's like, she usually can get a good read on these things.

00:20And she is super confused.

00:23This never happens to me.

00:24She goes, I have a good day.

00:25I get another date.

00:26Right.

00:27And it's not happening on this one.

00:28And I like that confidence.

00:30And she needs our help to get that second date.

00:32All right.

00:32Well, you did what you do.

00:34And you got him on hold.

00:35OK, so let's bring him back on.

00:37Mark, you there?

00:39Yeah.

00:40Hey, Mark.

00:41Listen, man, I will just tell you this.

00:44I understand this is a weird thing to do.

00:47I know that Kevin told you we want to talk to you about a date you went on.

00:51We do.

00:52We want to talk to you about a girl named Tabitha.

00:55We heard you guys went to Nabruzzi's, had a great meal there.

00:59She thought you were very handsome.

01:01She thanked you for picking up the check.

01:03And she's been trying to get in touch with you, but no luck.

01:07And we want to know if we can set up another date between you two.

01:11I don't think that's going to work out, unfortunately.

01:15Well, that's kind of a bummer.

01:16Why is that?

01:17Well, like during dinner, she was just rude, you know, rude to the staff, rude to me.

01:25The thing that really drove me crazy is she answered three work calls in the middle of dinner.

01:32So the first one comes up, and I understand, you know, like a last-minute emergency work thing, you know, whatever.

01:39So she spent like 10 minutes on the phone, and then it's over.

01:43And I was like, okay, I can gloss over that.

01:44But then 20 minutes later, a second call, and she's like, do you mind if I take this?

01:49Well, I don't really have many options.

01:51I say, sure, you can take it.

01:53And then she's on the phone, and at one point she even says to the person on the other line, like, oh, no, no, no, I have time.

01:58What's up?

01:59Oh, wow.

02:00Whoa.

02:01So I'm guessing she didn't excuse herself from the table.

02:04This is right at the table?

02:04No, no, no.

02:05This is right.

02:06I'm just sitting right across from her, and it happened a third time, and that was the last straw.

02:13And it's embarrassing, you know, like she's blowing off the waitress.

02:16You know, everyone at the restaurant is like she's kind of drawing attention, having these work phone calls.

02:21I don't know exactly what it's about, but they were long calls, and she didn't seem in any rush

02:26or completely oblivious to the fact that she's on a date at all.

02:31So that was a huge turnoff, and I mean, honestly, it was just a deal breaker.

02:36Like, if you're on a date, you're on a date.

02:38If you're at work, then you're at work.

02:40It's 8 o'clock at night.

02:41You don't need anything that urgent.

02:43She's not a doctor or anything like that.

02:44She doesn't need to pick up every single phone call in the middle of a date.

02:48All right.

02:48Gotcha.

02:49Well, I will tell you, she made another phone call to us this morning, and that's probably you're figuring out how we got your phone number.

02:57I figured.

02:58Yeah, we have her on hold.

02:59She likes calling people.

03:00Yeah, I guess so, because she called us, and I want to bring her back on.

03:04Tabitha.

03:05Oh, wow.

03:07Tabitha?

03:07Yeah.

03:08Is that about right?

03:09Oh, my God.

03:10Okay, listen, I'm a real estate agent, and, you know, I thought that he got, you know,

03:15guys always say they want a woman who, you know, has a career and can provide as well,

03:20and, like, then all of a sudden they're intimidated by this.

03:22Like, I'm a real estate agent.

03:23Sometimes they get calls at night.

03:25Like, you have to be able to act now and be available at all times because, you know,

03:29with the market the way it is, like, there's no resting.

03:33Obviously, he does not get what my job is.

03:35Okay.

03:35Tabitha, first of all, I did not say anything or leave you on that I need a career woman to date.

03:41That wasn't me saying that at all.

03:43And also, like I said, you're not a doctor.

03:46Do you have to pick up every single phone call, even if it's at 8 at night?

03:49What, are you going to show a house at 8 at night and just leave the date?

03:52Yes, I've done it before.

03:55The point is that I can't just let these people, if they have questions, like, if we hold on for, you know,

04:01a half hour, an hour, sometimes that house is gone.

04:04So, like, I can't lose my clients, you know, and let my business run into the ground.

04:09I know other real estate agents, and they don't operate that way.

04:12That's all I'll say.

04:13It's very rude what you did.

04:15It's 8 o'clock at night.

04:16Like, if you've got work stuff, finish it up before 6, 7 at the latest, but block off the time.

04:22Put your phone on silent.

04:24Don't tell me what my business is.

04:25Like, that's rude.

04:27I'm not telling you what your business is.

04:28I'm just saying it's basically...

04:29You kind of are.

04:30You're telling me I'm not as good as a doctor, obviously.

04:34Like, oh, I'm not a doctor.

04:35I don't have to be on call.

04:36Well, other people are on call.

04:37Other people do have things like that.

04:39It's just a fact of life.

04:41Tabitha, I have a question for you, though.

04:42What about the other people in the restaurant?

04:44I mean, why not get up, go outside, or, you know...

04:48I mean, it's probably not ideal to take a phone call on a date, right?

04:51But at the same time, if you had to take it, why not walk outside?

04:55No one cared.

04:56I mean, it wasn't that big of a deal.

04:58Like, seriously, like, nobody else cared.

05:01No, Tabitha, people cared, and it's a nice restaurant, and it's got a quiet, romantic vibe,

05:07and then you're just jammering on the phone three separate times without getting up to excuse yourself.

05:12Oh, my God.

05:13You were on the phone for ten minutes per call.

05:15Like, a fourth of our date was just you on the phone, and you just...

05:18Two minutes.

05:19Looking at my plate of...

05:20You're exaggerating.

05:21Okay.

05:22Well, we can agree on that she took a couple phone calls during the date,

05:26and it obviously was a little distracting to Mark.

05:28Mark, let me ask you this question.

05:29What if Tabitha, and Tabitha, if you'd be willing to do this,

05:32what if Tabitha left her phone in the car, put it on silent for a date,

05:36would you be willing to go out with her again?

05:38No.

05:40The nail in the coffin was the third call, and I extended grace after the first and second.

05:45That's okay, because you know what?

05:46I am not going to put my phone in the car for any guys,

05:49because every guy, if I did this on a date, he would totally have...

05:53People would be like, oh, I totally understand.

05:55You need to make a living.

05:56Why is it different when I'm a woman?

05:57Can I do that with my phone?

05:58Seriously.

05:59You're not getting it.

06:00I'm going to jump in here.

06:01I'm sorry it's not going to work out between you two.

06:04Tabitha, thank you for coming on.

06:06Mark's just looking for something a little bit different.

06:08Mark, thank you for your honesty as well, and I wish you both luck.

06:12All right.

06:13Tabitha, I hope you learned something.

06:15Oh, okay.

06:16Jeez.

06:17All right, guys.

06:17Take care.

06:18I mean, you can't be doing that.

06:20On a first date?

06:21On a first date, you're taking a phone call.

06:22Second of all, at Nabruzzi's, it is kind of a quiet spot.

06:26It is.

06:27You can't be doing that.

06:28And your point about getting up, get up, get out of there.

06:32Say, hey, I'm so sorry.

06:33I have to take this phone call.

06:34Like, fine.

06:35All right.

06:35800-992-1099.

06:38800-992-1099.

06:40Are you backing Tabitha on this, or are you backing Markup on this?

06:44We want to know.

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