Second Date Update - Ex Marks The Spot

Beasley Digital

4/23/2025

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00:00Right now, it is the second date update where we try to match two people up on another date.

00:04We're trying to help out Lisa this morning, who sounds very sweet, very nice.

00:09It sounds like she's thought the date through that she had.

00:11And I kind of believe that things were normal on the date.

00:15Yeah, I mean, I asked her, you know, anything weird?

00:17Did she wear anything revealing or any of that stuff?

00:19And she said no, so we'll see.

00:20What's the problem with that?

00:22Some guys don't like it.

00:24Oh, okay.

00:25Some.

00:26Some.

00:26Few.

00:27All right, well, we do have her date, Danny, on hold right now.

00:30Let's bring him on and see if we can get some answers from him.

00:34Danny, are you there?

00:36I am, yeah.

00:37Hey, Danny, I know you talked to Kevin off the air, and he kind of gave you the rundown of what we're doing here

00:42and kind of let you know that we wanted to talk to you about a date you went on,

00:45and I'm sure you've kind of probably figured it out.

00:47This is about Lisa.

00:49Yeah, I did, yeah.

00:50Okay, so we just want to talk to you about it.

00:52We heard about your date at Kona Grill.

00:54She said that you're kind of an old-fashioned gentleman.

00:57And do all the right things and say all the right things and just kind of were a great guy to be around,

01:03and it was an easy date, and it was a good time.

01:07And now she really wants to see you again and go on another date with you,

01:11but you have not reached out, haven't responded to any of her texts,

01:14and she's really confused by that, and she was hoping that maybe we could help you out

01:18or help you guys out and get you set up again.

01:20So what's going on here?

01:22Why are you not getting back to this girl?

01:23Yeah, well, you know, it's complicated.

01:29I did have a good time with her, and yeah, she is a sweet girl,

01:35and the date was going well.

01:38It's just a messy situation, and I just can't go down that road.

01:45What's so messy?

01:46Why do we not understand?

01:49Well, okay.

01:50During the conversations that we were having,

01:53I found out that she works at the same place as my ex.

02:01Interesting.

02:03Does she know your ex?

02:04Well, this is the issue.

02:06I didn't really go into it with her.

02:09I'm pretty sure she must in some way,

02:14but, you know, it's the same insurance company,

02:16and yeah, it's just a bad, it's a really bad look.

02:21Okay.

02:22So what are you worried about?

02:23They're going to talk, or what's going on?

02:24Well, my ex, you know, we didn't exactly have the sweetest breakup,

02:29and if there's any contact with them or if they know each other or anything like that,

02:34it would just be a very bad situation.

02:36Okay.

02:37Well, I can see how that's kind of weird.

02:40Yeah.

02:40How long were you and your ex together?

02:42Two years.

02:44Okay.

02:45Well, let me just say this, Danny.

02:48Lisa sounded very sweet when we talked to her,

02:50and we actually have her on the phone with us as well still.

02:54She wants to go with you.

02:55Yeah, she got to hear what you had to say.

02:56Would you care if we brought her back on right now

02:58and just kind of all talk together here?

03:00I guess it's too late to just say no to that.

03:04Okay.

03:05Well, Lisa, you there?

03:07I am.

03:08Hi, Danny.

03:09Hi, Lisa.

03:10Hi.

03:12You didn't mention anything about your ex,

03:15but it wouldn't matter to me.

03:17Like, I just think you're a really great guy.

03:19I thought you were just wonderful,

03:22and yeah, your ex doesn't have to have any bearing

03:26on anything that we do.

03:29Yeah, I mean, I understand that perspective,

03:32but, you know,

03:34I know who she is,

03:38and she'll find out.

03:40There's no way that she wouldn't find out.

03:43It would eventually exist,

03:45and there'd be a conversation,

03:46and, you know,

03:47she would say certain things about me

03:48or just attempt to sabotage.

03:51Lisa, do you know her ex?

03:53Yeah, do you know who he's talking about?

03:55No, I mean,

03:56I mean, it's also...

03:58What's your ex's name?

03:59No, don't do that.

04:00Don't do that.

04:00I would keep that private

04:02if I were you, Danny.

04:03Yeah, I don't want to say her name at all.

04:05Well...

04:06I just know that, you know,

04:08the breakup was what it was,

04:10and her personality type,

04:12she would really work hard

04:15to get involved

04:17and to influence whatever it is

04:19that would be going on with us,

04:21and it's just complicated.

04:23It's messy.

04:23It's a, you know,

04:24it's just a no-no for me.

04:26I just wish you'd sort of

04:28given a little faith in me

04:31that, like,

04:32our business could stay private

04:34between us,

04:35and I'd love for you

04:37just to think about it,

04:39because I would really love

04:40to go out with you.

04:41I really thought you were

04:43someone of quality,

04:44and it's sort of hard to find.

04:47Danny, is she one of those

04:48crazy, like, psycho exes?

04:50Like, is she going to do

04:51some weird stuff

04:51when she finds out about Lisa?

04:53That's what it sounds like.

04:54This is what the thing is,

04:56you know, like, I mean,

04:57my ex is,

04:58she's a little extreme,

05:00and yeah, 100%.

05:01If she has any idea

05:03or any concept

05:04or found out through social media

05:06or anything,

05:07she would do some ballistic,

05:09unfortunately, you know,

05:10and I'm not,

05:11I just know,

05:12because I was in it.

05:13I was in the relationship,

05:14and it's like you learn

05:15and you say,

05:16okay, well,

05:16I need to stay out

05:17of that whole zone.

05:19Yeah, you're smart.

05:20You got to keep yourself

05:21away from all that kind of stuff.

05:22That is the smart thing to do,

05:23but.

05:24So, Danny,

05:24is this going to be

05:25your answer then?

05:27Is this going to be

05:27a deal breaker for you?

05:28You're not going to

05:29want to see Lisa again?

05:31It really sucks.

05:32It really hurts my heart,

05:33but, you know,

05:34I already know,

05:35like, I got to say no.

05:37It sucks.

05:37Okay.

05:37Darn.

05:38All right.

05:39Well, Lisa,

05:39you did nothing wrong

05:40whatsoever.

05:41This is the bad situation.

05:43I'm sorry this is not

05:44going to work out,

05:44and now you know

05:46what's going on,

05:47and I appreciate you

05:48coming on with us,

05:49and Danny,

05:49thanks for your time as well.

05:51Well, thank you.

05:51I appreciate it,

05:52and Danny,

05:53I wish you the best of luck.

05:55Aw.

05:56All right.

05:56Well, thanks, Lisa.

05:57All right.

05:58Take care, guys.

05:59Take care.

06:00Yeah, it's tough.

06:01I mean,

06:01I don't think Lisa

06:02should have been punished

06:03for the fact of where she works,

06:05but I can totally see

06:06what Danny is saying as well,

06:08because that would be

06:09an awkward thing.

06:10Like, oh, she's going to work,

06:12and I know my ex works there, too.

06:13Well, and like he said,

06:15he needed to remove himself,

06:16and this is only going to put her

06:19back into his life.

06:21I totally get it.

06:21Lisa sounded so nice, though.

06:22I know.

06:23That was a bummer.

06:23That stinks.

06:24Okay, I want to know

06:25where you're at on this,

06:26and maybe this would not

06:27be a deal-breaker for you.

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