Second Date Update - "Pre"Mature Convo

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

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00:00Well, Will is direct to the point.

00:02He said, yeah, we hung out, we went to dinner, I'm out.

00:05That was it. That's pretty much what we got from him.

00:07It's commercial-free New Country 99.5 QYK, your 715 second date update.

00:12And we are going to call Rachel right now, who has not gotten back to Will since their date.

00:30Hello?

00:33Hi, this is Rachel.

00:34Yeah, this is Rachel.

00:36Hey, Rachel. Sorry to bother you this morning.

00:38This is actually J.R. Lana and Kevin over here at 99.5 QYK.

00:43The Country Station?

00:44That's us.

00:45Good morning.

00:47Good morning.

00:48I know we're catching you off guard right now.

00:50Would you have a couple minutes to talk to us?

00:52We'd be on the air. Would that be all right?

00:54What is it about?

00:56Oh, it's actually about this guy, Will.

01:00Okay.

01:01Do you remember going out with a guy named Will?

01:04I do.

01:05Okay.

01:05Yes.

01:06Well, I guess you guys went to Seasons 52.

01:08He kind of summed it up for us and said that you guys had a great time together,

01:13had a great conversation,

01:15and even afterwards, the conversation spilled out into the parking lot by your car.

01:21He made sure you got home okay,

01:23and that was the last communication he had with you,

01:26but he wants to see you again.

01:27And he's just kind of confused why he's getting the cold shoulder now.

01:31So is there a reason?

01:34I mean, yeah, of course there's a reason.

01:37I mean, I just, you know, I just didn't think we're probably the right fit.

01:41Why?

01:42I mean, basically, he's, you know, quite a few years older than me,

01:48which honestly doesn't really bother me,

01:50except for the fact that he's had a lot more time in his life to have experiences,

01:56which he felt the need to speak incessantly about.

01:59And basically, I mean, you know, on our first date,

02:03he starts talking about, you know, how he's divorced

02:07and how important prenups are to protect yourself, you know,

02:11before you get married.

02:13And it just was kind of negative and just, like, not what I'm looking for.

02:19Like, I really want someone who's, like, not so jaded

02:22and speaks so much about, like, their ex, especially on, like, a first date.

02:27Like, he just seemed dated.

02:29Well, bringing up a prenup on a first date is quite an interesting tactic on his part.

02:34But if he's been, I mean, he sounds like he said he's just divorced.

02:37Is that what you said?

02:39I think just divorced, yeah.

02:41So, I mean, he probably could be going through a hard time.

02:44Well, he could, but do you talk about that on a first date?

02:46If it's something that's important to you.

02:47Okay.

02:48Well, here's the deal, Rachel.

02:50We actually have Will on the phone.

02:51I want to bring him back on.

02:52He didn't tell us that.

02:54He didn't tell us much, actually.

02:56So, Will, you there?

02:58Yeah, I'm here.

02:59All right.

02:59So, Rachel's on the phone with us.

03:00You just heard what she had to say.

03:01Were you talking about your ex and prenups and all that?

03:05I mean, yeah, because she was asking about my marriage,

03:08and I told her about the divorce I was going through,

03:10and I was just letting her know, like, everything that was going on,

03:14because it's a very lengthy process.

03:16And so, yeah, we started talking about that and about the process,

03:20because she asked.

03:21Did you ask about that, Rachel?

03:24I mean, I only asked because he brought it up,

03:26and, like, I was curious when he got divorced or, like, when he was getting divorced.

03:31A valid question on a date.

03:33Yeah.

03:33I mean, yeah, I just wanted to kind of give you, like,

03:35a background of what I was going through in my life and stuff like that.

03:38I didn't think that hindered the conversation any.

03:41And, I mean, I think a prenup is important.

03:43And, like, if I were to get married in the future, like, I would want to sign one.

03:46I don't really see a problem with that.

03:48I mean, was it necessary to tell me that, like, we're probably not getting married,

03:53so I don't really care.

03:55I mean, yeah, no.

03:56I mean, I just, like, whenever I'm dating somebody,

03:58I date somebody to look for a future with them.

04:01And so I wanted you to know.

04:03We went on one date.

04:05I'm sorry, what?

04:06I didn't hear you.

04:07We're not dating.

04:07We went on one date.

04:09Like, it was intense.

04:11Yeah.

04:12And, I mean, I'm an intense person.

04:14I'm sorry if that scared you away.

04:16Like, I just, I don't see what an issue is with talking about what's going on in my life

04:21when that's kind of what a first date's supposed to be about.

04:26Yeah.

04:27Yeah.

04:28All right.

04:29So, obviously, you had a bad divorce then.

04:33Is that correct?

04:34I mean, yeah, but, I mean, it happens, you know.

04:37We just didn't click as romantically as we thought we would.

04:40It just didn't work out.

04:42Well, I'm just saying, I mean, obviously, you just want to protect yourself for the next time,

04:46and you're just going into the next relationship with all this stuff up front.

04:51You go into anything with past experience.

04:54I mean, that's how you have smarter choices.

04:57I'm not saying it's wrong.

04:58I'm just, I mean, it's okay.

05:00It's okay to go into a relationship with that like that.

05:02Well, is it okay with Rachel, though?

05:04Yeah.

05:04It might not be okay with her.

05:06Right.

05:06I mean, Rachel, what are your thoughts on this?

05:08I mean, that's why I didn't call you back.

05:10Like, it's too much for me.

05:13Okay.

05:14Just a little bit.

05:14I understand, because, I mean, you've never been married, and you're younger, and you don't

05:18understand, and you don't really have that experience.

05:21And so, I understand that you really understand the conversation.

05:26Are you, like, talking down to me?

05:27I also haven't been divorced, which I'm actually really proud of.

05:31So, I don't think you know more about life because you've been divorced.

05:36I mean, I was just educating you in an area that I have a little more expertise in.

05:41Oh, you're educating me.

05:42Thank you so much.

05:43I don't need an education on that, because I'm not going to get divorced, because I'm not

05:46going to marry people like you.

05:47Oh.

05:48Here we go.

05:49What do you mean by people like me?

05:52Like, it's like, you're going to teach me about life on one date.

05:55Like, I'm not interested in that.

05:56That's definitely not what I want.

05:58I'm not going to teach you about life on one date.

06:00I was trying to give you my experiences on something recent that was happening in my life.

06:05I'm sorry that you didn't understand that, and that went over your head.

06:07Well, you're the one who's calling a radio station trying to get me to respond, and I was

06:12trying to be nice, and I just let it be.

06:15I'm sorry that I put in effort.

06:18Okay.

06:18All right.

06:19Well, I'm going to jump in, guys.

06:20I think it's pretty clear that you guys aren't going to be a match.

06:23Rachel, Will, thanks for being on the show this morning.

06:26You guys take care, okay?

06:28I appreciate it.

06:28You guys have a wonderful evening.

06:30Thank you, guys.

06:31All right.

06:31See you.

06:32Evening.

06:32Yeah.

06:33Where are we?

06:34I mean, I was kind of understanding of him.

06:36I don't think you should be talking about a prenup on the first date.

06:39No.

06:39But then he did start talking down to her at the end there.

06:42That got a little bit.

06:43Right.

06:44No, he totally did.

06:45But I know a lot of people that have gone through some ugly divorces, and they're like,

06:51I'm never doing this again without protecting myself.

06:54Well, I get that.

06:55But that's not a first date conversation.

06:56I don't know.

06:57What do you think?

06:57800-992-1099.

07:00800-992-1099.

07:01I'd love to hear what you think about this.

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