00:00All right, Michael is on the 715 Second Date Update.
00:03We are trying to help him out.
00:03He went on a date with a girl, Carla, that he met on Hinge.
00:07They went to DATS in Riverview.
00:09And what's interesting is she actually said, yeah, we should go on another date.
00:13Yeah, I know.
00:14Which is a good thing.
00:15It's a great thing.
00:16And so I said, was there anything that you did post-date?
00:19Like send a bunch of flowers her way or showed up at her work?
00:23And he goes, no, I did not come on too strong.
00:25I did not do that.
00:26And so now we're just kind of confused on why she disappeared on him.
00:31Because they did not go on another date.
00:33So we actually have her on hold.
00:34Kevin, you've talked to her a little bit.
00:36Let's bring her back on right now.
00:38Carla, are you there?
00:40I'm here.
00:41Hey, Carla.
00:41I know you talked to Kevin.
00:43I know you kind of know what's going on right now, right?
00:47Sort of, yeah.
00:48Okay, so we want to talk to you about a date you went on.
00:51And that would be Michael.
00:53And he told us that you guys went to DATS in Riverview.
00:56Had a great lunch.
00:58And he said it was very refreshing to go on a date with someone like yourself.
01:03Had a great time with you.
01:04And we heard that you actually agreed to go on another date.
01:07And we're excited about seeing him again.
01:09And then you just dropped off.
01:11So we're trying to figure out if that's accurate.
01:13And if that is, what happened to you?
01:16Well, he apparently is super close with his family.
01:23Okay.
01:23Especially with his three sisters.
01:26Oh, wow.
01:27I do want to be with somebody who has a close family.
01:29But I don't want to be with somebody whose family, like, dictates their dating life.
01:34Which I feel is kind of the case.
01:36Why do you think that?
01:38After our date, I got hit up through Instagram, through my DMs, from one of his sisters.
01:45Really?
01:45I mean, when he told me he was close with his family and was, like, one of four kids and had three older sisters, I was like, cool.
01:51Like, I felt like, that's great.
01:53Like, he obviously knows how to, like, treat a woman if he has sisters, is what I thought.
01:56That's a good point.
01:57Yeah.
01:58But after I started getting this whole thread of DMs, basically in the DMs, his one sister was like, yeah, so I was talking with my other sisters after we talked to our brother.
02:09And we're really protective of him.
02:11And so we actually want to get together with you.
02:14Wow.
02:14And we'd love to, like, meet you for a drink or for lunch.
02:18And just, we just are protective of our brother, and we want to make sure if he's going to continue to see you, that basically the gist I got is they want to, like, interview me and make sure they approve of me before I continue seeing my girl.
02:32Wow.
02:32Like, I was like, are you kidding me right now?
02:34And the fact that she was like, yeah, I was talking to my other sisters, and I'm like, we just went on a date yesterday.
02:40Like, this all went, like, I don't know, it's like he called his sisters to, like, give them the, like, details of the date.
02:45And the whole thing was just, like, it just, it really was off-putting.
02:49Did you respond to them at all or no?
02:52Well, I responded at first.
02:54Then she started following me.
02:55Then she started liking my photos and making comments.
02:58I just feel like my privacy is all of a sudden, like, invaded by this girl and this gaggle of sisters.
03:05All right.
03:05Well, I can see why that would be a little invasive and a little bit scary, actually.
03:11I mean, we hit it off, so I feel like I had a great first interview.
03:14Like, why do I have to go now, like, interview with the members of his family?
03:18Like, I just met your brother.
03:20Like, lay off.
03:21Well, here's the deal, Carla.
03:22We actually have, not the sisters, but we actually have Michael on the phone with us, and I want to bring him back on.
03:28He did not tell us that.
03:29I'm not even sure if he's aware of that, but we want to talk to him about it.
03:32Give me one second here.
03:33Michael, are you there?
03:34Yeah, I'm here.
03:35Michael, did you know that your sisters hit up Carla?
03:37Uh, no, I wasn't aware, but I did tell them about Carla, and they were super excited for me, so I'm sorry Carla went through that, but no, I'm not too surprised.
03:48Michael, have they done this with other girls in your past?
03:51Um, a little bit.
03:54Oh, boy.
03:55So they kind of dictate who you date?
03:57No, I wouldn't say that.
03:58So, but they put you in the right direction, I'm thinking.
04:03They definitely give me some good advice, and, you know, um, they give me questions like how to talk to them.
04:08No offense, but we met on a dating app.
04:10Do your sisters, like, control your app and, like, and, like, swipe and, like, tell you who to go out with?
04:15Because now I feel like they're really involved.
04:17No, no, no, no, no, no.
04:18But I'm not going to lie.
04:20Like, they, you know, they kind of hinted at what pictures I should use or, you know, a couple things in my bio.
04:26But, no, I run the profile.
04:29You guys, help me out.
04:30Isn't this weird?
04:31I'm weird about it.
04:31It is strange, Carla.
04:33Michael, let me ask you a question.
04:34Do you think it's strange?
04:35Do you think that would be a very odd thing to get from, you know, let's say her brother?
04:39If her brother said, hey, I'd like to meet you after one date, wouldn't that be a little odd to you, Michael, if Carla's brother hit you up?
04:46Yeah, I could definitely see how that's a little odd.
04:48But as far as between Carla and I, like, that was all me, so.
04:53Okay.
04:53Well, would you be able to tell your sisters?
04:56To back off?
04:58Well, I don't know.
04:58I mean, she was just trying to help, so.
05:01But you're putting Carla in a bad spot here, is what I'm saying.
05:04Like, that's uncomfortable, right?
05:06Yeah, like I said, I totally get it.
05:08It's just.
05:08All right.
05:10All right.
05:10Carla, here's what I'm going to ask you.
05:12You did talk to him, and you did act like you were going to go on another date.
05:16Or, I'm sorry, you did agree to go on another date before you knew about the sisters hitting you up.
05:20If he were to say something to his sisters, like, hey, don't contact her, don't talk to her anymore until, like, I get to know her well enough, would you be willing to go on another date with him?
05:30Well, Michael, I mean, it sounds like your sisters may have overstepped in Carla's mind here, and it kind of scared her off.
05:57But now, I guess you know it wasn't something that you did, so maybe have a conversation with your sisters and kind of let them know, you know, what the result of them reaching out was.
06:06But it's not going to be a match with Carla.
06:08I'm sorry, dude, but I wish you well.
06:11I feel like it might be a reality show that wants his sisters and him to be on it, though, like a dating show of some sort.
06:17All right.
06:18Carla.
06:19Carla was on the situation.
06:20No, I'm good on that.
06:21All right, Carla.
06:22Well, I appreciate your time as well.
06:24You guys have a great day.
06:25Sure.
06:26All right, guys.
06:27All right, Michaela, you were quiet during all of that, but that would be awkward.
06:31That's super awkward.
06:33Yeah, invasion of privacy.
06:34She said it right.
06:35I wouldn't want someone's sibling to reach out to me after a first date.
06:39No.
06:40That's a little too soon.
06:41I mean, I've had a dad sit down with me after like two dates and be like, what are your intentions with my daughter?
06:46And I thought that was too soon.
06:47I was like, I don't know, maybe take her out to dinner again.
06:50I don't know.
06:50You know, or whatever.
06:51I don't know.
06:51We barely know each other.
06:53I don't even know our middle name.
06:53800-992-1099, 800-992-1099.
06:59I'm really interested to see where you're at on this.
