Not The Time Or Place

Beasley Digital

4/22/2025

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00:00Well, Nick sounds like a really good guy.

00:02He's energetic.

00:02He sounds very outgoing.

00:04And he said something that I thought was interesting.

00:06He said, nothing crazy happened either way.

00:08It wasn't like, oh my gosh, I want to spend the rest of my life with you.

00:10And nothing was like, never talk to me again.

00:12He said it was just down the middle.

00:13He didn't bring his mom on the date.

00:14Right, right.

00:15It just was like down the middle of the road date.

00:18And he goes, it was fun.

00:19And he listens to the show.

00:21So he's like, I know what you guys are asking for.

00:23And nothing like that happened.

00:25All right.

00:25So let's do this.

00:26We actually have Julia on hold.

00:28We're going to bring her back on.

00:29And she has agreed to talk to us on the air.

00:31Let's do that.

00:32Julia.

00:33Hey, guys.

00:34Hey, Julia.

00:35I appreciate you so much talking to Kevin off the air and then coming on with us.

00:40And I know you went on a date with Nick.

00:42You guys went to the pier.

00:43You guys went to Doc Ford's.

00:44He said things went really well with you guys.

00:46And I'll say it again.

00:48He said it was just like a real casual date where things didn't get too serious.

00:52And nothing got out of hand.

00:55And he just was having fun.

00:57And now he has not heard from you.

00:58And he wants to see you again.

01:00And we're just trying to figure out if we can set that up or not.

01:02Okay.

01:03Honestly, the only reason I'm doing this is to really just put him on blast for how inappropriate

01:08and rude he was during that date.

01:10Okay.

01:11What happened?

01:12So, we were at the pier hanging out.

01:15And we're just walking and watching the sunset.

01:18And Nick decides to drop to one knee and do like a whole big fake proposal.

01:24What?

01:26Yeah.

01:26I mean like a whole speech.

01:28People were gathering around.

01:30It was so embarrassing and inappropriate.

01:33And I'm just like, is this a show?

01:35Like he kept going on and on and on.

01:39He put you on the spot.

01:39How did he do that?

01:40I have no idea.

01:42It wasn't funny.

01:43And as more people gathered, he got even louder.

01:46And it was just like, I wanted to just disappear.

01:48This is not funny to me.

01:50And then like at the end, he just like jumps up and he's just like, oh, it was a joke or

01:55whatever.

01:55I was just, I couldn't.

01:58I was like, why would you do this?

01:59What were people around you doing?

02:01Were they like clapping and happy for you?

02:04And you're just like, oh my gosh.

02:05They were taking photos.

02:08Now, did he tell everybody it was a joke, including you?

02:10At the end, yeah.

02:12He announced it like he was done with his production.

02:15Production.

02:16Oh.

02:17You know, listen, I'm down for a good joke.

02:19But I understand you being very uncomfortable in that situation.

02:22Not a proposal.

02:24And it was the first date.

02:25It's not like we have this long history of joking back and forth.

02:28I get it.

02:28You don't know me.

02:30I get it.

02:30So you were really put off by that, obviously, and very embarrassed.

02:34Yeah.

02:34Did you say anything to him?

02:37Honestly, I was, like, I was livid.

02:39I know I was just like, there was only a few minutes after the date, and I was just like,

02:43I'm just going to go home after this.

02:46So I was just quiet.

02:47Like, the energy was completely different.

02:49This was, it wasn't like, it wasn't fun.

02:51It wasn't funny.

02:51It was just rude and inappropriate.

02:53Maybe he really has, like, strong feelings for you and just wanted to see what you'd say

02:57or something?

02:58Honestly, I just think he's a jerk.

03:00Well, here's the deal, Julia.

03:01We actually have Nick with us on the phone, and I want to bring him back on, because I

03:05did not know that.

03:06It seems like a pretty big part.

03:08Nick, you there?

03:09Yeah, I'm here.

03:10So, man, this joke kind of backfired on you, it sounds like.

03:14It backfired on me.

03:15I can't believe what I'm hearing, that you're literally just bent out of shape from that

03:19joke.

03:20Oh, my God.

03:21It was just kidding around.

03:22You're like, are you serious that you're really upset about it?

03:25I'm serious that it made me uncomfortable, it was disrespectful, and just rude.

03:30Why would you amass a freaking audience for a joke with a woman you don't even know yet?

03:36Disrespectful.

03:37Life is about enjoying it, having fun, loosening up.

03:40I didn't realize I was taking out someone from the Real Housewives of St. Pete.

03:44I believe 90% of the people that were on that period knew it was a joke.

03:47Okay.

03:47You don't joke with someone you don't know and make them uncomfortable.

03:51And it's just, it was 100% inappropriate.

03:55Like, there's just nothing else for me to say.

03:57You know, if you wanted to do some kind of joke like that, you could at least like, hey,

04:00hey, do you want to participate in this nonsense?

04:03I mean, give me that freedom.

04:04Do you want me to email your jokes in advance?

04:06Do you want me to do?

04:07It obviously wasn't for me.

04:09It was for all of the people in the pair.

04:11And they all had a great time, except for you.

04:13That's the problem.

04:14You weren't on a date with me.

04:17I mean, Nick, you did put her on the spot.

04:19You see that, right?

04:19I mean, like I said, I'm down for a good joke.

04:22But you did put her on the spot, and it can make someone feel uncomfortable.

04:25If you guys were there, you guys would see that it was so over-the-top joking.

04:29Like, everybody thought it was a joke and that it was a funny thing.

04:32It wasn't like it was a real proposal.

04:33Like, oh, my God, we've been dating like two years, three years, and you know I don't

04:37want to get married to you, whatever.

04:38And then you proposed, and I had to say no in front of everybody.

04:41That's my neighborhood.

04:42Do you understand?

04:43People are taking questions.

04:44I'm going to see those people again.

04:46I won't see them?

04:47Why won't I see them?

04:48I live there.

04:49Oh, oh, I'm sorry.

04:51You're running for election?

04:52You're the mayor.

04:53I didn't realize everybody knows you were saying Pete.

04:55My bad.

04:56So I see you guys are getting along well here.

04:59I mean, holy cow, man.

05:03Yeah, Nick, I'm starting to see why she didn't call you back, because I don't think that you're

05:08her type of guy, to be honest with you.

05:10You know, I had to waste my time going out with someone who was just looking for drama.

05:14Well, it sounds like a fake proposal.

05:15It was pretty dramatic.

05:16I mean, that's pretty wild.

05:19I don't think she's looking for drama at all.

05:22Yeah, I don't think she's looking for that kind of a deal.

05:23Yeah, you're definitely trying to gaslight me, and I'm really glad this is on the radio

05:26at this point, so everyone can hear how insane you are.

05:29All right.

05:30Well, listen, guys, it's obviously not going to work out.

05:32Nick, now you know why she wasn't getting back to you.

05:33A joke just kind of backfired.

05:34Julia, thanks for your time this morning.

05:36I'm sorry you were embarrassed, and I wish you both luck.

05:39Hey, thanks.

05:40All right.

05:40Holy cow.

05:41Well, listen, here's the deal.

05:43If I was a person spectating this, I would have cracked up, and that would have been hilarious,

05:47and I apologize for that, but I understand being put on the spot.

05:50I would have been like, oh my gosh, I would have killed my date for doing something like that.

05:54Would you have laughed, though?

05:55I mean, me, but that's, a lot of girls, that's, you don't want to, that's not a joke thing.

06:00No, you don't do that.

06:01Yeah.

06:02I mean, I...

06:03Because then what happens if it ever does happen, you're never going to...

06:06Well, then that's, you can't say a cried wolf after, like, you know, one date here.

06:10I don't, I wouldn't like it.

06:12I don't know.

06:12I wonder what you think right now.

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