The MRL Show: Don't Say This On A Date

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00:00the one phrase that if a woman says it the man will go running away you know my single ladies

00:06i think you may do this a lot and even though i'm married i think i say this phrase every once in a

00:15while oh geez okay so an australian dating expert and matchmaker reveals that there is five words

00:22that women should stop saying if they want to find romance the words are i don't need a man

00:30how many times and i don't know about you know people who are in the dating world but i am such

00:39an independent person and i love my husband i love him but i am so independent that i think i've said

00:47those words before oh i'm sure amanda has said those words before and i'm sure my work wife has

00:53said those words before like to the point where i joke i mean knock on wood god forbid anything ever

01:00happened to dallas right but if anything ever happened to our relationship let's let's go down

01:04that path for a second i always said i would probably end up raising my children or being in a

01:14asexual relationship with either my best friend laura or my old nanny elena i love both of them

01:21i'm like i could live with you i could raise children with you and then like i do my thing

01:26you do your thing like i don't need a man right yeah i don't need a man there it is but this

01:30relationship expert is saying that when you're saying those things you're almost giving yourself

01:36like a self-fulfilled prophecy it's like the secret right like you manifest things you put things out

01:41into the universe and that's what you get back yeah and that's what she's saying now she's also

01:48saying that those words scare a man yeah that's that's what i was thinking when i read it i was like

01:53if you hear someone say i don't need a man then then that means that you have like a wall up and you're

01:59protecting yourself maybe from falling in love and maybe emotionally connecting to a man well and i think

02:06maybe at that point it's uh not emasculating for a man but then they're like well what can i offer you

02:13if you don't need a man what am i here for right so she says the way to look at it is look at what a

02:18man can give you or what you can get out of a relationship if you're in a same-sex couple you can

02:23get love you can get affection you can get support laughter caring uh moving furniture so there are more

02:30things that that person can offer you than just quote unquote dating so i i mean i think that's fair

02:38i'm trying to think what a guy shouldn't say to a woman to you know what i mean like that like if

02:45there's a phrase that a guy could say you got anything four kids and i don't pay child support

02:50yeah i'm running i don't have a job and i'm not retired i just don't have a job yeah i guess

03:01i'm trying to like will you be my sugar mama oh yeah that's that's a bad one too

03:06like my psycho ex-wife yeah that's another good one i'm not putting up with any crazy exes

03:11i'm the only crazy one in the picture

03:13you