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00:00But Ms. Ayo, since I've been a single mom for a long time,

00:04yes, so I also want to know how it is to be a single mom.

00:09From a mom to a single mom.

00:11It's hard at first.

00:12It's really hard because you're used to having a body,

00:16so it's just there anytime.

00:17It's a struggle because I have four kids and they're all studying.

00:20It's really hard.

00:22You're about to give up.

00:24Sometimes you don't know what to do, right?

00:27Then you suddenly fast forward and realize,

00:29Huh? I've done this before?

00:32How did I do this?

00:33That's what makes me cry.

00:37I've been through this.

00:38You've been through a lot of struggles,

00:40but you've been able to stand up.

00:41That's the most delicious feeling.

00:43Because it's the Lord, right?

00:44You know, it's not true.

00:46The whole time since I became a single mom,

00:50from day one until now,

00:52if the Lord wasn't there,

00:53if my faith wasn't there,

00:54I wouldn't be here.

00:55I really wouldn't be here.

00:56So how did you manage to do that?

00:58Because of course, you're working.

01:00There were tapings before,

01:02until 1-2 in the morning.

01:04Sometimes, the next day.

01:06Who's waiting for you?

01:06Yes, who's waiting for you?

01:08No one.

01:08Because when I started being a single mom,

01:11they're a bit older.

01:12My youngest is already in grade 1.

01:15So, it's just us.

01:17We don't have a helper.

01:19We don't have a helper.

01:20So you taught them how to be independent.

01:24They also learned how to do their homework.

01:27It just so happens that

01:28my triggers are bigger than theirs.

01:31That's why they're able to take care of their siblings.

01:33Which is now,

01:33our only boy is 23 years old.

01:36He's already graduated.

01:36He's already working.

01:38He's already graduated from work.

01:40How old is your eldest?

01:4338.

01:44Wow!

01:4538, then 35, then 30.

01:47Then the 24th.

01:48Wow, there's no age limit.

01:50It's like he's not stressed,

01:51he's just tired.

01:52You're so immortal.

01:53You're really a godmother.

01:54No, you know what?

01:55When I think about it,

01:57it's all thanks to you.

02:00Because if it wasn't for me,

02:01it's all thanks to you.

02:03It's your inspiration,

02:04it's your strength.

02:05If it wasn't for you,

02:06I would've been eliminated.

02:07Were you more inspired

02:10when it came to your love life

02:11compared to before?

02:13Hmm...

02:14Were you so lucky to be different?

02:16Because you've been single for a long time.

02:18Yes.

02:19It's different because at that time,

02:21you're just thinking about

02:22yourself.

02:25You're like,

02:26I just want to have kids,

02:28I just want to be a mother,

02:29I just want to be a housewife.

02:30But now, it's different.

02:31You're thinking about other things.

02:33Yes, you're also thinking about

02:34while you're enjoying yourself,

02:36you're happy emotionally,

02:38but because you're an adult now,

02:42you need to balance your...

02:44Right?

02:45Your thoughts are more mature.

02:47And you feel like it's the perfect time.

02:49Yes, that's true.

02:50You can carry your heart more.

02:52You can carry yourself more.

02:54Self-love comes first.

02:56Compared to before,

02:57because we're very...

02:59You and me against the world.

03:01That's how it is!

03:02Right?

03:03It's like you're right with everyone.

03:05Now, it's not just your second priority,

03:08but you need to...

03:09Because you've learned a lot.

03:10You don't want to repeat your mistakes.

03:12Yes.

03:13So you enjoy it more.

03:15Rate 1 to 10,

03:1610 is the highest.

03:17In love life.

03:18How happy are you?

03:19Rate 1 to 10.

03:208?

03:21Yes, that's the percentage.

03:23I don't want to say 10.

03:24Because you don't have yourself.

03:25Because I didn't realize that...

03:28No.

03:29If we're honest,

03:31let's not say 10,

03:32there's no perfect.

Yayo Aguila, inaming nahirapan maging ‘single mom’ | Lutong Bahay

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