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A painful relationship doesn’t happen because you don’t love each other.
It happens because only one person is willing to grow.
The truth is, real love requires both people to be self-aware, accountable, and open to change.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one trying—this message is for you.

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00:00Here's how you know whether a relationship is going to be painful and it's going to continue
00:04to be painful. It's just one thing. The person that you're in a relationship with is not willing
00:08to work on themselves. They are not self-aware. Both people in a relationship have to be self-aware.
00:13They have to at least assume that there are things about them that need work. There are
00:17things about them that are going to have to change at some point. If you have one person
00:22in a relationship who assumes that and one person who doesn't, the person who assumes that is going
00:26to take the blame for everything. But if you have two people who assume there are things about
00:29me that need to change, then you have two people who are willing to work on themselves.
00:33Human beings are fluid and so relationships are fluid. They are always changing. The dynamics
00:38are always changing. Things happen that actually transform people and change people. In order
00:42to stay compatible, they need to assume that there are things about them that they need
00:45to change so that they can stay compatible with the other person. That is the essence
00:49of a healthy relationship. Two people who are willing to change.

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