- 7/4/2025
The Real Housewives Of Lagos Season 3 Episode 14 - Full
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00:00previously on the real housewives of lagos reunion the princess jasmine boat that brought
00:12you and it was princess jasmine boat that took you back it's not your boat there were two different
00:16and you made all this force about owning a boat about me creating a lifestyle about whatever
00:23my lifestyle is my lifestyle i wish that you had respected my rose in that moment because you
00:30didn't know how i was feeling you didn't call me aside the trigger is sitting here
00:35the real housewives of lagos reunion part two starts now well done dadim well done miriam i love it i
00:48love your love thank you and speaking about love let's move on to two people who i actually felt
00:58would blossom whose relationship would blossom on the show when these two ladies first met
01:05it was not hard to guess that there was no love lost but don't take it from me let's look at this
01:12clip hi david i've met you a few times we've never spoken yes yes for some reason for some weird
01:19reason david and i will be at the same spot the same chair we'll not speak to each other
01:24why i don't know why i expected like a better response from laura you know i sincerely thought
01:34she would apologize for her own wrongdoings for her own wrongdoings i don't care so much for what's
01:41that girl's name now that was i really don't care you're not really you're not in my world and i'm
01:47very very in tune with like i'm in my own world you're not even a name that comes up at all because
01:53i've said it several times i really don't care about that butter i really don't care about you
01:59about that again it doesn't really bother me because i'm indifferent i try to use a mutual
02:05friend a lady called sylvia i will speak to you actually reach out to a platform that was really
02:15really going in on my child the report that came back from her was laura said oh but when you were
02:22getting all the attention and publicity you didn't have an issue with it now that it's about your child
02:28you want to start attacking us no that was really the big elephant in the room between us
02:34all right dabzi i'm going to start with you considering that you had a room set aside for
02:42laura so when laura didn't show up it kind of had me wondering like okay why is that both are not
02:47calling calling laura to check up on her and to ask you know where she is and if she was going to
02:52come or did you no i didn't why because as corny as it sounds again i didn't have her number
03:00really i sincerely didn't have her contact the first time i um directly communicated with laura
03:08was when she had sent me a text message inviting me for this lunch that was when i got her number i
03:14mean i could have made an effort if i wanted to yeah i could have asked somebody for it but yeah
03:19maybe i just in that moment i wasn't not i don't want to say i didn't care but not just ready to
03:27invest myself like that um in laura at that time see yeah prior to you telling me about oh laura they
03:36said laura said if it's where you know they were writing about you didn't say anything now i understand
03:42where you're coming from so your anger towards me at that time is very valid or was valid because
03:48you didn't know the truth now i'm telling you dabota because it's hard it hurts me when people don't
03:55believe that i'm saying the truth it really hurts me and i can't lie to you it helped me now i'm telling
04:04you that with that i didn't see it i believe you i didn't say i said it before and i understand why she
04:09was mad at me so i'm listening to two of you and i can't help but ask this question where is this
04:15relationship now there's no relationship at the moment but i'll tell you that i've had conversations
04:20more conversations with i've spoken to dabota for more than an hour so you guys are building we are
04:26building and half of the things i said about her was because i wanted to just do something she did not
04:32offend me in any way um so i'm not labeling this i think she's a kind person and i genuinely want to
04:38get to know laura more and see where the relationship i respect her as a business woman
04:43when i walked into her business space i was blown i i appreciate laura and i i want to get to know
04:50you more i want us to create a bond if you're willing to open to it so yeah i love this i like you
04:57and do you do you accept that invitation oh definitely yeah definitely it's like miriam
05:02why is it the ground i walk on all the one that you are doing on you feel she hates you yes i know
05:11she hates me ah i know why i've ignored so many things like you understand such as i didn't like the
05:19fact that the what's it called um the scene at caroline's event when you make when you made a
05:26joke about last year do you understand you laughed obviously you laughed as well which i could have
05:33you laughed listen you everybody laughed and at some point i was i was i was like this because
05:40it's caroline's event i didn't want to say anything too diabolical and in my diary section i responded
05:46because we can all bring things from things that hurt us from the past
05:49really that's what we're doing something disrespectful that happened last year you know
05:59i could also be disrespectful i could also repeat the facts that caroline called you a ron's girl
06:05well obviously when it hurt did that hurt you though i felt some type of way well why didn't you tell me
06:12laura i said it in my diary session why didn't you tell me because i didn't want to bring it up
06:17at laura's event why didn't you brought it up period you shouldn't brought it up laura again again
06:22that's the thing what i'm saying you cannot say my response was stronger than yours
06:26miriam look look let me finish one of the reasons let me finish where i'm landing let me finish where i'm
06:30that i hit her is what why would she say i hit her why would you let me finish where i'm landing
06:36let me finish where i'm landing because you will laugh at me and you will throw shit at me
06:41you will call me ah we will ail each other do you understand and laura said does not just come as
06:47play play and marion that's that's how you two you roll i said play play that's supposed to be play
06:53play is to come hard example you two you come hard sometimes i do for when i retire see when you
07:00abuse me back i don't come to your page or social media to be doing why would you say that she wrote
07:06a freaking dear miriam on her page because you know why i wrote it you wrote it yeah i want to
07:11you to see because i know they fear you i will tell you i will tell you how i feel laura laura you cannot come
07:17tell me why i said dear miriam when you started it don't be upset because my comeback was harder
07:23than yours you can't fall miriam hold on hold on my comeback came better than yours that's it was wrong
07:28miriam it wasn't better than my baby it was it was you knew the situation you were hurt obviously
07:34you knew the situation miriam you were in your feelings because she gets what i would be baby
07:39exactly that's why you wrote what you were in your feelings no no no no but again if if sophia had said it
07:44no sophia i would never say it if um that was i said it or anybody had said it i would have understood
07:50what this is the lady i expressed my feelings to the emotions the the the the the all the problems
07:58i experienced during that period i still i'm not over it because everybody i fight guess what they
08:08used to abuse me that thing okay this is no listen okay let me let me let me let me let me let me
08:14let me let me let me i'm not a victim to you i'm not a victim to you right now victim to you
08:18victim to you you keep saying that oh you you you you're still going over people to keep abusing you
08:23ladies and gentlemen let us take a breather we'll be right back with the gorgeous queens of lagos
08:48ll mothe
08:49Muslim welcome back thank you for sticking with us right here on the
08:59Real Housewives of Lagos is in three reunion can I ask you a question is
09:04there middle ground here no they'll never be me to know what I said yeah
09:08never pretend I stare there's so many things that I said behind my back I'm
09:13happy to be watching that clip at the pajama party when they had her blowout
09:17and it felt like she was panning more towards their them did you feel like I
09:21can't come I'm not shocked to be sincere and I can't control how Laura feels I can't control
09:26who she decides to you know take side with pick a lane pick a struggle that I
09:34picked the lane already baby okay so I expressed it to you I feel like we're going back and forth
09:39back well you knew last year got me as well they said when we were all hurt so what I want to find out
09:43on me I'm using something to crush me I'm using something how is it different I don't like it
09:50you see it's you don't me I don't you feel like we owe you an apology I don't understand you can't
09:56pick and choose what's my rest question be Miriam do you feel like you owe me an apology
10:01but are you guys cordial at me oh yeah we are very cordial now speaking of drama it's been such a
10:07dramatic season this year season three kicked off with some tension around Caroline's return
10:13last time Caroline and Laura were in this friendship group it was epic watch
10:20after a while I realized my mistake and I was also vindicated and I said there is no how I wouldn't want
10:35to come and address these issues with someone like you it was someone like Laura I don't know
10:41I don't know what I feel towards Caroline until I eventually see Caroline but I'm not tonight yet
10:47and you know I want to see her have you heard an unflattering rumor about someone here would you
10:55comfort them directly or just let it go yes I did who's up it was Laura I just want you to know that I
11:03love you very much and I'm sorry and I'm I am so happy I am so happy okay I'm actually very happy
11:12that it didn't go south because I would have hated myself well like you accepted are you quick to say
11:21sorry I don't say sorry but yeah I'm very glad that she did oh wow nice of course of course of course
11:27okay Caroline I'm not used to you inviting me to anything but I'm glad that you invited me
11:32so Laura when you told Miriam and dear them that you don't say sorry it was a bit triggering of our
11:42audience out there what was it about Caroline that made you say you won't say sorry I actually need to
11:48correct that statement I do say sorry okay but I don't like to say sorry and take it back with
11:56Caroline I was just getting to know her again okay before then hadn't seen her in almost three years
12:01and where we left off was really bad it was one of the lowest times of my life do you understand so I
12:10wasn't sure about her vibe I wasn't sure and I was telling myself look listen if you say sorry to
12:17this lady and you fight her again you look stupid so I'm just watching her and in my mind I was like
12:24you know what eventually after this whole group will come together and I'll say hey this is where I was
12:29wrong this is where you were wrong I can like you as a person now and that's what that was where I was
12:34going to with the way the season ended I have to ask where does your relationship stand now
12:39ask her Caroline where does your friendship stand now what's going on for me I'm I'm on a very
12:48neutral ground because she's yet to be accountable for what she said to me she's the first person that
12:52said I sleep with small boys but anyway coming back in season three I decided to be accountable for
12:58what I said to her based on what I had said to her not because I felt like okay you know what let me
13:04forget about what Laura had said or what she did to me prior to my reaction towards her right so that
13:10is me just being matured on my side and saying you know what I don't want issues with Laura I want to get
13:15to know Laura better do you understand so right now watching clips here and there I don't know where I am
13:23with Laura because with Laura is like just like the same thing happened in season one you're trying
13:30to get to know Laura you're trying to be open-minded but there's always something under the carpet that
13:35Laura has against you so it seems like Caroline is actually trying to make peace with you why are you not
13:42receiving this I actually thought the same you know prior to a few weeks ago I was very cool with
13:51Carla yes I actually told everybody I like Caroline I like her vibe but I mean if you want the show you
13:57know I've never said anything nasty about her because I actually liked her vibe and my biggest fear or fear
14:07happen right Caroline Caroline and I and the girls met up and we were all playful and the next minute I
14:19got a text message from Caroline the same thing three years ago I got messages from Caroline and three
14:26years after I'm getting the same type of messages from Carol on trigger it wasn't the insult it was the
14:37derogatory words there you telling me that if you see me when you see me you will show me like you
14:46know I'm looking at I'm looking at the message like physically Caroline and I'm looking at this is the lady
14:53that I actually like you know what happened and I heard oh she thought that you gossip about her like
14:59me I don't go yes watch me so I tell you the way I feel and I get myself out of this situation what made
15:06you so angry to the point of sending a message to tell her that if you see me Laura would come to
15:15tell me beware of this cast this cast this cast this cast so she can come to me now say beware of
15:22this cast this cast this cast she will go and tell this guys beware of Caroline this this is this she
15:27can't tell this as well I wish I was that she will go I don't believe behind behind but then you will now
15:32come to the front and be laughing so is there anyone here that actually came to you to say Laura warned
15:37us against you and who exactly did Laura warned you on this table let me tell you on this table I told Sophia
15:46Sophia I told you I said your fight is your fight don't carry anybody's fight on your head and I've said it
15:51several I don't I know they lie I don't get time but did she tell you to beware of myself and Miriam as well
15:56don't fight anybody fight she just told me that with every the entire collective I just need to not
16:03pick side when it comes anybody fight so you didn't tell me that she said she should be careful of myself
16:08and Miriam she just said I should be careful but I said you know see I like Sophia Sophia is like my
16:15sister and I I know I don't want to curse but I f with my sisters right the same thing I told you all
16:21every time I called her I speak to Sophia and Yola a lot I told you all the same thing I told you I
16:25say don't interject yourself don't put yourself for any wahala if it is Caroline spy let Caroline fight
16:32her bathroom but you told me to be careful of Miriam and Sophia that they don't have my back
16:37Caroline and you actually in Ghana that was what she said and I said that was what she said no I said Sophia
16:47I don't fight anybody's bathroom I am see I know what I said to Sophia and because of the love I have
16:53for Sophia I do not want people to think that they are ganging up against anyone and you told me to be
16:57careful of Miriam and Sophia when you asked me I don't know what I told you I don't know what I told you
17:06Miriam now you believe on this group Miriam do you believe yeah do you believe anything I believe
17:14I was trying to hide it from you right when you shouted at me things can be said do you understand
17:20I don't think Caroline has any reason to lie reason to lie I don't know if Laura said okay now I'm telling you
17:29like this thing can I continue yes like when she told me that day I just laughed to the system like me
17:37so Sophia do you feel like there was a two-faced game in play here do you feel like um uh Laura was
17:44playing both sides um I wasn't thinking that's in the moment but now that you mention it I'm now I'm
17:50thinking it but in that moment my real concern was Caroline because she was deeply upset um and I
17:59really because it was my hosting and I had you know flown everybody out so in my mind it was yes to
18:06Ghana so in my mind it was my responsibility to make sure that everybody was okay after her
18:11altercation with Tabota I then you know went to see her but when I walked in she she was defensive
18:17you know Caroline as she should be so I said what happened and she was like yeah I just finished
18:24talking to Laura and I'm like okay and so then the conversation came up and I was like well I do have
18:32your back and I want you to be comfortable I want you to be happy sorry but do you believe it do you
18:39believe I'll tell Caroline to be aware of you do you just do you believe it in all honesty it doesn't
18:44matter to me no but do you believe it I take it with a pinch of salt can I say that because in all
18:49honesty Caroline has no reason to lie to me you know and Laura has no reason to tell Caroline to
18:55be careful of me it's because I have a relationship with you right and I I would not tell Caroline ha in
19:03all honesty it's I didn't bring it up that's fine it doesn't matter that's fine if she wants to sit
19:08on the fence you know I want to sit on the fence because I care about both of them and I like both
19:13of them you know what I like everyone here to be honest however um I don't want to be like she
19:21warned me get caught up in like she said two people's skinny so you've heard everyone's um point
19:29of view and all of that so what's your resolution with all of this I didn't say
19:33all right now let's move on to sisterhoods and friendships Caroline and the bota was one sisterhood
19:48we were hoping will blossom this season but the flames went out right after it started let's take a
19:56look the votes are how are you how's your daughter fine thank you I'm really excited to see Caroline
20:05when I walk into the tea party you know Caroline right yes of course yes Caroline I met in 2018 or
20:1819 I'm not too sure I've known that butter for not as a close friend um as a woman that um I know
20:28when she was going through her ish when I was going through a very tough time she reached out to me
20:33and she offered her support from my conversation with the bota I do not know why she didn't eat
20:40anything she offered her so happy so happy I'm proud of you always have your back miss your boy
20:48love you hi my love what's up I know you're waiting we're coming I'm coming I'm coming it's okay I
20:55have to come in now so we can go I'm coming I promise you all right darling okay love you loads
21:00hi I do not like he he came out to greet me it triggered something in me you have the right
21:08to feel how you feel sorry if that made you uncomfortable thank you very much that's my
21:12sister true it's okay see thanks to me thank you so much for taking your time to explain it is
21:19impossible for us to bond it cannot be possible you guys are not speaking to each other why must I
21:26speak I don't understand am I obliged to speak to everybody so are we supposed to just sit here
21:31I am fine I am happy to be here I'm happy the way I am so are you guys going to address I don't
21:39need I don't need to address anything can you please just let me enjoy myself which yet did I
21:47wow that was one of the most shocking moments from this season of the Real Housewives of Lagos
22:04and Caroline I would like to start with you so inviting someone to your house shows some level
22:12of care and trust don't you think so knowing the history that you and Dabota have I can't
22:22seem to fathom why you would still go ahead to invite her to your home and also go to hers so why
22:32first and foremost whatever happened between myself and Dabota in the past I wanted to find the right time
22:39to address it with her because I have not seen her in like six seven years after that incident
22:45I decided to now go to her house because she said she sprained her ankle now all the food and drinks
22:52and whatever it is I got for entertainment gone down the drain it's not a problem I got to her house
22:57around four o'clock getting to her house I was looking at her she didn't look like someone that
23:02sprained her ankle the voice note she left for me was that it was so bad that she had to call a nurse
23:08to give her local anesthetic so I imagined that it was really really bad because she said she fell
23:12from the steps and the dog or she slipped and the dog was the cause of it now I was standing there
23:19when her friend walked in and hugged me I did not hug her friend who's her friend I'm not going to
23:25mention the name again I've decided not to mention anybody's name are we talking about Ehi yes I thought
23:30if she had come to my house there were other things we were going to address do you understand
23:34let me go to Ehi for instance I shot a movie in Ehi's house in 2022 it was only out of courtesy I
23:41say thank you to you girl to Ehi to Ehi yes but I didn't have a number it was from that location I
23:47got her his number okay so was it just thank you messages you said it was thank you messages and then
23:52her daughter because we delayed shooting for a few days based on production as you know I promised her
23:57daughter football because her daughter likes football and then when you have somebody on your
24:03whatsapp and you see their status it's not as if you always look at the person and everything but
24:06one day she complained that her jewelries was stolen and I remember in 2017 all my jewelries were stolen by
24:12a cleaner and I said oh this is what I did you should get you know just presentries after 2022 in 2023 was
24:20when that incident happened September when she told the clients not to work with me and I was shocked
24:25because the last time I checked in 2022 there was no issue so why tell a client not to work with me
24:30it was a client that told me directly yes and this client is is he's old enough to be our grandfather
24:36he hadn't he has no reason to lie to me so you believed him I believed him and I moved on so when
24:42I saw her at Dabota's house I thought it was planned you actually intentionally cancelled because you wanted
24:48me to come to your house because you knew fully well that he was going to be there I'm not comfortable with
24:53her I know that Dabota knew I had issues with her he but she probably did not know how deep it was
25:00did you know okay so in all honesty I had no idea I told her he oh Carolyn we're filming now Carolyn is
25:11in the house I said okay I'll be in the kitchen she never gave me any reaction to say
25:18I don't like Carolyn and when she was leaving they had a quick chat hugged each other and left
25:26the reason why he had to send me those screenshots was to prove to me that she didn't have any issues
25:34because when Carolyn had brought up her name to that capacity at Laura's event I was shocked
25:44okay so Carolyn do you actually understand where Dabota is coming from and do you believe her when
25:49she says she had no knowledge of any issues I would have loved to believe it by saying that I stood with
25:55her here to chat with her I can't stand with someone that did that to me and I blocked the chat what am I
26:01chatting for I need to go to Sophia so that takes me to your Ghana trip right and the mediation there
26:08watching that clip and seeing how things played out it begs the question did you really want to
26:20settle issues between the both of them there was tension and everyone noticed is I was talking about
26:27it so for me it was important for me to find a way to get them to at least speak so that you know
26:36everyone can enjoy the trip without they were not speaking to each other and it was very obvious
26:42I wasn't thinking for a second that they were going to fight about their ex-husbands when I brought up the
26:48conversation I wanted us to talk about the one thing that I was present for that I am aware about
26:53which was the fact that she had mentioned that they were waiting for hours this is something I wasn't
27:00privy to and then that nobody had come Caroline hadn't communicated with them at all however when
27:09she was showing me the chats I could see Caroline not just explaining but also sending videos as well
27:17listen the timeline here I'm telling you what I was thinking okay but the timeline of the conversation
27:22was those photos videos and pictures started to come in after the phone call that we had on speaker
27:31saying I will be going with Sophia's phone call before those pictures and you were aware of every
27:38time you were laughing you were telling me that you were being delayed by the team
27:44basically what I wanted them to hash out which is it was the fact that she didn't know that Caroline or
27:52she said that she didn't know that Caroline was you know not coming to her because they were just sat
27:57there just waiting when I heard that nobody wants to just sit down and wait for two hours on that is
28:03on you know because I wasn't even aware of this um Caroline would you want to take responsibility for
28:10walking up to the Buddha poking her in the face
28:15what triggered that do you have any regrets and would you have handled what tree things differently
28:23what triggered that was the statements that came from the Buddha you slept with my ex-husband that is
28:31a defamation of Carter to me literally accusing me of adultery given the time frame time you got married to
28:38your husband was I aggressive did I have to fight no so I take that yes I'm I can't get your actions
28:45for fighting yes I regret my action but you triggered me first by saying I slept with your husband a
28:50statement was that was a loss and did I sleep with your husband yes
28:56have you sleep with this one were you in the bedroom with us for you tonight slept with you okay okay when did
29:03I know your husband I knew your husband 2005 after 2005 I have not known this man but even if I had an
29:10affair with your ex-husband a decade before you met him I'm giving an example what's why do you have to
29:16say on TV that I slept with your ex-husband you're more listening to me I slept with him or had an
29:23affair with him whichever how you want to put it while you were married no that is an unfair and
29:28unjust thing to say to me you were trying to position me in a way that makes me look like I went to your
29:36matrimonial home you said matrimonial did I accuse you of sleeping with my ex-husband oh my have I ever
29:42accused her of sleeping with my ex-husband no you didn't but you said I went to your matrimonial home
29:47because you were still married when I went to his house because you went to the Daniel and I still
29:51stick to it with yes not with and you know that you went to Daniel and you are Nikke's sister
29:57Dabota at that point in time you went through your issues I don't I'm not saying you owe me anything you
30:04don't owe me anything me coming out to anybody here yes when you were going through your own it
30:09was more than a year that at least I was available when you needed me now this is my own story as a
30:17married man then I know where my shoe hurts when I needed Dabota she was never there for me because
30:25at that point in time she chose her friends and it's okay the first place that I ever saw that girl
30:31dancing at my home then it was still my matrimonial home was Dabota snapchats
30:36then now you now come 10 years later to now say I slept with your husband how well because you want
30:44to hurt me does not mean you should boldly say things like that my aim before I was physically
30:52assaulted was to let her know and actually falsely accused hold on of committing adultery
30:58the aim was when she said Dabota you were a snake you went blah blah blah blah blah from eight years
31:03ago I was like wow are we living in that time me too I can easily say I don't with you because
31:10once upon a time you used to date my ex before I could say anything she had split up yes if I had
31:15any issues with Caroline over that I would never even have been cordial with her in the first place
31:20I know from the way Caroline has even described my relationship with her I'm surprised myself to
31:29hear that I had such a friendship with her now to clarify something about this reaching out and no
31:35reaching out matter the issue I was having was not even with my ex the issue I was having was with a
31:43mutual friend a guy I don't want to mention his name Caroline now you know reaches out to him
31:49to say look don't put your friend out there like this in reference to me all right I went to this
31:58person who is I would consider at this point a childhood friend and we sorted out our issues and
32:04he told me he said Caroline had messaged him you know injected in the situation and kind of gave him a
32:09different perspective on a lot of things and I said okay give me her number let me reach out to
32:16her to say thank you and this was in 2015 2016 from March I was pregnant I wasn't really in communication
32:26with anybody and I had not communicated with her for a long time my friends who know me knew about it
32:32if we had that kind of close relationship you would have known 2017 I was building my mall
32:39for the first time me and Caroline like after a while just you know keeping up with each other
32:47she said she has a salon I said of course I knew about her salon when she opened a beautiful space
32:52I went there and I just paid a cut CVC and she told me she's also into interior designs
32:58and I said okay mark the date you can go back to your account 5th of March 2017
33:05between that time I think about a week she came over to my mall during the construction phase
33:12and she offered oh you know her different ideas from that day till I met her at your space
33:22we have not seen each other so I literally met with Caroline one-on-one twice in the past decade
33:30and kept in touch with her just like everybody else who reached out to me whatsoever whatsoever
33:36now flashback again to 2017 there was a period in time my cousin is into events we both own a company
33:44called Diamond Inc the company is for exhibitions events and whatnot she told me she had an event she
33:52was doing a guy I was seeing at that time also invited me to the party I got there I saw a lady
33:59called Daniel Daniel who at this point okay I'm not realizing this was an outdoor party by the poolside
34:06with so many people within the space if you tell me to go back there today I cannot find my way back
34:12there I don't know my way but I don't I can't remember whether it is the COI or VI because this was so long ago
34:18I'm there I know um this lady Daniel as my cousin's friend my cousin who was in charge of the event planning
34:28is older than me and Daniel is her older friend be Beyonce did her makeup using my products
34:34and I posted her that same evening after that time I can't remember in between when when I was that same night
34:42or the day after Carolyn sent me a message or whatever all I know is that I just didn't see her again
34:49after a while I didn't bother myself till we met again at your event at your tea party
34:55after the tea party I was going to my car Carolyn said to me Tabuta you know you hurt me
35:03and I said how what are you talking about she said you didn't even ask of me you didn't even look for me
35:11I said babe if you block me and you just act out of character like that I will never come and look for you
35:17I don't operate that way she said you were in a party with Daniel and she was like oh
35:25I didn't know I didn't know Danica was your cousin I said well she's my cousin and that's her friend
35:32I don't even have a relationship with that girl from that moment we were standing there
35:38we walked upstairs to come and meet the both of you we had drinks
35:42and I thought we have come to a clear understanding
35:46so Caroline what was your major issue with Tabuta did you actually when she talked about her ex
35:54did you date him this is not my first time of hearing that accusation from Tabuta you see all
35:59this beautiful scenario she has painted I would not expect her to paint anything less
36:04but let me make it clear to you that a woman who is in the marriage
36:09or a woman who is in the relationship is the one that knows where it hurts
36:15and you will not be right what happened for me to me now you claim that you had from somebody you
36:21were crying over the phone to this stylist and I was sitting down with him and I saw you cry
36:27already prior to that time you were doing buzz buzz on the internet and for me because I was a young
36:33wife you understand I just felt oh my god this lady is as young as I am and we are married to
36:41older men that are you know wealthy in quotes at the end of the day we are probably going through
36:48I will probably understand her better do you understand what I'm talking about right there
36:52and there with my stylist I said let me speak to her and my stylist was like oh speak to Caroline
36:57because she's emotional about what you were going through you claim you only came to my salon
37:02twice he didn't come to my salon twice the first time you came I remember how you looked and I
37:09felt for you okay let me show you the picture of the first day I'm still speaking I'm still speaking
37:16you spoke for one million hours I remember how you looked I remember that was not how you looked my
37:23darling that was not how you looked that was not how you looked and that was not even my salon
37:28I've always looked good no this is from my house I never said you look bad you need to listen to what I have to say as well
37:35I'm sorry if I didn't interrupt you please go on and I'm going to speak sorry you will not shut me up sorry go on
37:41Dabota was looking very distraught not in a bad way but you know when someone is broken
37:47in 2017
37:48finish you know when someone is broken I came in just like I would come in for any woman and I've done that for even
37:58strangers I came in she came to my salon she came and cried and explained everything and all that
38:05for me it's giving you a shoulder woman to woman before you know it she kept coming and coming and I
38:14was always there to listen from coming or giving phone calls I was always there to listen I would
38:18never shut up not for once did I use whatever she was going through to mock her to gossip or to pass around
38:25do you understand the next thing she now said oh that she was selling water she brought water to me
38:30the next thing she now said with the water I was selling it to my clients in the office as well the
38:35next thing she said actually she wanted to show me her store her store was in a mall under a stairs and
38:41I was proud of her we went there we sampled her lipstick because I was a makeup artist sampled her
38:46highlighter I still brought her brand to my own office as well it wasn't once or twice she came back
38:51again do you understand so it's nothing like one-off she came back again oh Caroline I need to know the
38:57person that you use for your interior designing and I said it was my idea but I'm gonna give you my
39:02architectural interior designer another time again that what I said oh I want to show you my mall now
39:06in all of this this thing did not happen within one month or two months it's like a span of one year
39:10mm-hmm she took me to the building that she said she was going to renovate and she was asking me for
39:16idea and I went to that building twice she was asking me for idea that she wanted to sublet the
39:21place and I said it's fantastic I am here genuinely happy for this lady because you know what when you
39:28see a woman walk away from whatever is causing her heartache you clap for her do you understand I am
39:34here genuinely being happy for her I gave her my architectural interior designer a lady I don't know
39:40what she did with the design I wasn't interested normally I would charge clients but for me I just
39:44wanted to see Dabota's success do you understand after that time she was still on my snapchats we
39:52were still exchanging presentries unfortunately my own turn came it was now my turn to go through my own
39:59predicament before God and man there was no issue between me and Dabota all I remember was I was just
40:07scrolling through my snapchat it was November 4th scrolling through my snapchats I had gotten the gist that
40:13this lady that she claims to have the company events company together it was going to design the place now
40:19this particular lady has been the one designing love centers for my ex-husband and this girl
40:25since 2009 I'm not hurt I've moved on they don't make a mockery of me I never made a mockery of you
40:33do you understand I supported you now it was on your snapchat that I saw that we saw what the lady
40:40was when she was wearing a white beaded outfits and the first thing I did was because how I saw Dabota in
40:47in that before then was like I will call her my friend I said this on the show she was not my friend she
40:53was not my close friend she was just a woman I reached out to and that's the sincere truth do you
40:58understand I reached out on snapchat Dabota told me off before I now sent her a long paragraph I started
41:06sending out that long paragraph I waited for her to read it on snapchat you will still see that opened
41:10before I blocked her when I blocked her do you know what she did she came to my whatsapp and abused me
41:15that oh she noticed that I blocked her I blocked her again and blocked her on Instagram since that day
41:19Dabota had been blocked at this point in time I take accountability for fighting I take accountability for
41:26being aggressive because every other lady in this group would actually think I would do the same
41:31thing to them but you see that defamation of character it is unforgivable I will not sit here
41:37and watch you accuse me of adultery with your exhaust bank moving forward can we please as women we can
41:45all shade each other and bruise internally I do not want a situation whereby we are physically attacking each
41:52other in all honesty if you ask me it shouldn't have even happened it shouldn't have happened
41:58regardless for the future I wish they had just said I do not want to be a person that you said I don't
42:03so who do you hold accountable for that in both of them in this situation let's just leave it those who
42:11trigger should be held accountable for triggering however your reaction is also accountable highly
42:19accountable by you it is not necessarily about how you were triggered because most people don't
42:25remember that but what people remember the action is your reaction which is why we encourage to respond
42:31there is zero tolerance for violence absolutely and understanding is key patience is key empathy
42:38all right we'll take a quick break now don't go anywhere so beyond the drama one thing that's never
42:51lacking on this show is showmanship this is why we are called a core for show all of your queens in
42:58your own queendoms so what's next for the businesses I'll start with you Caroline currently I'm on a project
43:05a construction project which I've been posting on my snapchat I'm a very quiet person and it's two
43:10triplexes actually what I mean triplex is it is not a duplex the triplex and that's ongoing already
43:16hopefully will be done in the next five to six months so in case you have anyone that wants to
43:21purchase one is gone so we're looking for a buyer for the other one and then my movie project is also
43:26coming up as well the first draft is gone and we're working on you know perfecting the second
43:31appropriate drafts so it's yes thank you very much Sophie thank god I wrote a chapter in a book
43:39with um Steph Busari because I also have another book coming at the end of this year but that was
43:43my introduction into becoming an author and I enjoyed every step of it I also have my studio space that's
43:51also getting launched as well um and you know there's a lot of you know things in the pipeline
43:57um as well uh okay my boat is still my boat you know what I'm saying and I know what's so crazy we
44:09are all you have to and I'm going to invite you to my house because I need you to come to my house
44:17it is what it is it's happening you need to come to the house I'm going to make a video and I'm going
44:22to post it because in all honesty we are all women who are constantly talked about in the blogs and you
44:29know it is such a low blow and such a cheap blow to bring up something that you know might be a lie
44:35because it happens to you so people talk about you all the time I could throw it at you you know
44:40there's conversations that your mall is rented I could have said that to you when we're oh my darling
44:45I lose my my my beauty but no I don't only to the building you know yes I lose the building exactly
44:52yes I've never said I don't use it so okay well so when you and I were going back and forth I could
44:57have to but I still held myself back because guess what all the time there's people who say things
45:03about Caroline there's people who say things about okay about me well Nigerians love talking about
45:08my running myself what I'm trying to say is what I'm trying to say is I would like to see moving
45:14forward for us to show each other more grace especially when it comes to false accusations
45:18and speculations that are made in the public about each individual that is sat here I agree you
45:24know let's not use it to come at each other because most of the time it's cat piss it's not seen
45:29like okay but let's also try and be honest with ourselves amen to that so you know I launched
45:37obviously along the show and on my birthday few weeks after I launched it fully to the to everyone
45:42to the public on my birthday and I can tell you for a fact that it's been amazing because under my
45:48birthday the first true bash sold out and next year obviously I'm hoping to launch my glow oil
45:55because it was the butter cream I launched on the show the glow oil that you guys got to say with
45:59my husband yeah like yeah so that's what I'm working on and I can't wait for everyone to say
46:04big big of Laura what's next what's going on mine is more business um I want to do a lot of
46:12international collaborations um Sophie and I have talked about it a few times a lot of international
46:17collaborations a lot of um big jobs big um influencing jobs I think we haven't gotten to that I have eight
46:24new products coming up I have a certain spray sorry I'm setting my market powder foundation concealer
46:31so I have all these things coming out and I would like to collaborate with more of the ladies and I
46:35will talk to them privately so for me it's still my work you know I don't joke with my work so you know
46:43producing more products serving everybody's beauty needs and you know we have a whole lot of
46:50international collaborations in London I mean in a couple of days we'll be going to the house of
46:55lots we've been invited to speak you know and I'll be moving into my you know mansion
47:05congratulations I've been working on that and you know I'm almost done with it and you know I'll be
47:12moving in soon fantastic well done well done well done and the queen of queens alpha so for me um is
47:22expanded my business um and to be in line with my global agenda um write more books because I already
47:31have a book out I launched last year as an educator as a public speaker as a mentor to so many people
47:41I have been blessed to be invited to different parts of the world to speak this year alone I've
47:47traveled three times and like Dola said um on Tuesday I'm going to the house of lords both of us as
47:53we've been invited to speak um I intend to have more recognition more strong alliances um internationally
48:00globally and continue to just you know be the best that I can be I love it maybe open more shopping
48:09malls as well and I feel like and I feel like this show you know I think the bond that we share on the
48:13show yes really resonated with a lot of people because we've been getting calls from schools
48:19they want us to come and talk the scene that uh was shown where I said where's the butter I think
48:24that got to a lot of people people are sending us dms like oh my god that was really nice we've signed
48:30so many deals signed so many deals it was amazing and you know people are even calling their friends
48:36saying you know what I'm I'm scratching my beef with like any of my friends and all of that so it was
48:42this is our our third trip this year together we're in Qatar in January yeah you know when when
48:48London I think we're in France as well yes I was in France and then we're going to London again
48:54so it's been amazing beautiful
48:59okay well congratulations to all of our beautiful queens you guys gave us a fantastic show what a
49:06reunion we've had today all right my ladies I think it's only right that we give a toast
49:14to a fantastic season thank you so much ladies for a great season cheers to a great season
49:21my queen my queen my queen my name is Utsi Watsuku and from me it's good night Africa
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