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Somebody's Son Season 1 Episode 11 - Full
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00:00Previously on Somebody's Son.
00:02I see your mom as your god.
00:03I would never say that my mom is my god.
00:05It kind of triggered me when you said,
00:07look, he trying to defend you, girl.
00:08The energy in the room right now is tense.
00:10So I wrote a letter.
00:11Oh, Lord.
00:12I feel like you're still coming from a place
00:14of judgment at times.
00:15And it is starting to negatively affect me.
00:19All of a sudden, I get a knock on my door.
00:20I was confused, zeal, but it was Tamaris.
00:24I'm seeing this side of Tamaris, and I'm liking it.
00:27Now, it's just leaving me wondering, am I
00:29going to make the right decision?
00:32I'm so sorry to wake you up.
00:34I cannot leave without telling you goodbye.
00:36I'm satisfied with choosing me and standing
00:40on what I believe in.
00:42You know, I'm definitely interested in taking
00:44this experience past this.
00:46So I just want to see if you want to date exclusively.
00:50I am going to have to say no right now.
00:57Today's the last day in this house.
01:13And now we're winding things down.
01:16And I mean, I got to make a decision.
01:17Oh, it is a lot to deal with.
01:23Having two women's emotions and dealing with them
01:28while trying to navigate my own emotions at the same time,
01:31and really just taking this whole experience serious
01:34has been a lot to bear with.
01:36And I just hope I made the right decision at the end.
01:39Yo, yo.
01:43Hey.
01:44Come on, come on.
01:45How did you sleep?
01:46Woo.
01:47How did you sleep?
01:48Very good.
01:49Good morning, my wife.
01:50Good morning.
01:51Good morning.
01:52Yeah.
01:53We was going back and forth yesterday night.
01:54I know.
01:55So tell me, what's going through your mind?
01:59Let's talk about the date.
02:00Let's talk about the date.
02:01OK.
02:02Good time.
02:03Good.
02:04Good time.
02:05Good.
02:06You saw when we came in.
02:07Uh-huh.
02:08You're enjoying.
02:09Yeah.
02:10You're finally in love.
02:11You're finally in love.
02:13OK.
02:14I was feeling all right.
02:15Aw.
02:16What's up?
02:17OK.
02:18But like, me and Shamriel only kissed her in a photo shoot.
02:21We ain't never really kissed on a date.
02:23But I mean, Shamriel's a funny person.
02:24Yeah, she is.
02:25She's a cool person, good personality.
02:27So the first day, Tamaris told me she has no idea how to ride a bike.
02:33She has no idea how to ride a bike.
02:34So I was like, you know, it'd be cool to see if I can teach her how to ride a bike.
02:37Jesus.
02:38So I taught her how to ride a bike.
02:40And she was riding.
02:41She did good.
02:42Then we started talking afterwards about football.
02:44How could she implement herself in my life?
02:47Would she be willing to sacrifice things?
02:49As an athlete, you might want to hear.
02:51But overall, I had a good day, too, with Tamaris.
02:54I know she can have fun.
02:56She can.
02:57I know.
02:58I saw her last night.
02:59I was sleeping, and she knocked on the door, and she came.
03:09Hey, really?
03:13That was a shock to me.
03:14Tamaris is very reserved, and that's not what I was expecting from her.
03:19I hope I won't carry any baby out from here.
03:23No, no, no.
03:24No, no, no.
03:25You're okay.
03:26You're okay.
03:27But that's beautiful.
03:28So think about the emotion.
03:30I go on this really good date with Shamriel.
03:32We got close.
03:33We had a great time.
03:34Great experience.
03:35But we still didn't test out to see if the chemistry, the physical attraction was there.
03:39Tamaris makes a very bold move.
03:41That's good.
03:42And she comes to my room.
03:43Mm-hmm.
03:44I saw it like, are you coming in this room because you just saw that me and Shamriel had a good
03:49time?
03:50Or because you found out I played football, you trying to give me that last little mm to
03:54kind of sway my mind.
03:55It felt not authentic.
03:57So it's a lot of positive, but those are the biggest question marks that I'm still trying
04:01to figure out.
04:02It's like, what do I do?
04:03I don't know.
04:04I love both of them so dearly.
04:06And that's how it's supposed to be, right?
04:07Mm-hmm.
04:08Okay.
04:09So let's see what the tablet says.
04:11Joshua, you have come a long way on this journey of self-discovery.
04:18I have.
04:19You've grown and you've broken down walls, allowed yourself to be vulnerable and trusted
04:24the process.
04:25Now it's time to trust your heart.
04:27Ooh-wee.
04:28Okay.
04:29Today, your journey will come to an end.
04:32Oh, wow.
04:33Ultimately, you will leave this experiment single or in a committed relationship.
04:40Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's hands.
04:43Now it's you.
04:44What's that?
04:45But this time, the decision will be in yours alone.
04:47Wow.
04:48Get out of your head and search your heart.
04:49Okay.
04:50You've been making decisions this far.
04:51Oh, this one is yours.
04:52It's a lot of pressure.
04:53And I'm used to making tough decisions all the time.
04:57But this is tough, man.
04:59This is really tough.
05:00When did I press and win?
05:01I don't know.
05:02I've been thinking about it every time I wake up.
05:03I've been drinking about it, pour me the red cup.
05:14Good morning, ma'am.
05:15Good morning, Song.
05:16How are you?
05:17I'm doing well.
05:18All right.
05:19So, yesterday, I know you went out on a date with Sabernet.
05:24Where'd you go?
05:25You would have loved it.
05:26What?
05:27We went to a butterfly habitat.
05:29Oh.
05:30It was, like, a really, like, dope.
05:33It's like you were kind of transported into, like, a rainforest almost.
05:37Oh.
05:38You just look up and you just see a bunch of butterflies.
05:40Oh, wow.
05:41We had a moment.
05:42We kissed.
05:43Oh.
05:44Yeah.
05:45You know when you spend time with somebody and you start talking to them and it's just
05:48like, okay, like, I see, you know, like, okay, I'm liking this, I'm digging that, you
05:51know what I'm saying?
05:52Sabernet and I have come a long way.
05:54Like, I feel like we've really made strides in the right direction that I could see her
05:59vibing with my family and, like, being somebody that I can go through life with and start a
06:04future with.
06:05All right.
06:06So, I wanted to share a couple things with you.
06:09Okay.
06:10When you were on your date, I had a conversation with Alicia.
06:13I was kind of blindsided.
06:15I wanted to apologize to her about the comment that I made during the exercise that we did.
06:21She was prepared to talk to me as well.
06:23But what she actually did, she wrote a letter.
06:25And in the letter, she referenced whatever comments I made.
06:30So, what comments?
06:31Regarding my entry walk, outfits, makeup, faith, my demeanor, job, piercings, and tattoos.
06:41You have tattoos?
06:42I do.
06:43I didn't notice her.
06:44No?
06:45So, I did not make a comment about your tattoo.
06:48That was over my head.
06:50So, I was blindsided on that.
06:52Mm-hmm.
06:53Because then I felt like I was a villain, you know?
06:55Yeah.
06:56And I felt it was too deep.
06:58Okay, yeah.
06:59So, I mean, you guys made up on that front, right?
07:02You know, we talked about it.
07:04She accepted my apology.
07:05That's good.
07:06I don't have to step in or anything like that.
07:09So, I'm really happy that you guys were able to have that conversation.
07:11When it comes to issues with my mom and women that I've dated, like, my mom can really go
07:16left.
07:17I've seen how detrimental it was in a past relationship.
07:21So, hearing that my mom was able to resolve things with Alicia without me is a relief.
07:26Y'all weren't having as much fun.
07:28Yes, I think I can be, at times, too controlling.
07:33But I have my reasons.
07:35Because whoever you date, I don't want them to be in-laws.
07:38I want them to be my bonus daughter.
07:42So, from a mom's perspective, I just pray you making the right choice to mesh with us as a family unit.
07:51We shall see.
07:53We wanna see what we have going on today.
07:57Good morning, James and Charlize.
08:00The end of the journey is approaching.
08:03James, today you will have one final date of this experience with Alicia.
08:10Remember to have fun.
08:14I'm excited to get into it with Alicia.
08:16I'm gonna try to dig in a little bit more.
08:18I mean, because on paper, things line up with Sabernet.
08:20Right.
08:21But then at the same time, I wanna see if, like, Alicia could be a potential partner as well.
08:26Okay.
08:27I just appreciate it whenever you have a one-on-one with her.
08:32Clarify, please.
08:33Clarify what?
08:34How I was perceived.
08:37Because you, I thought when you did it.
08:39I just wanna leave it where it is, honestly.
08:40I'm tired of bringing it up.
08:41It's done.
08:42It's done.
08:43We put it to bed.
08:44That's what I don't like.
08:45You're trying to be dismissive.
08:47You're not respecting my feeling and something dealing with me personally.
08:51We just asked, are we good?
08:53See, there you go.
08:54Y'all's relationship is y'all's relationship.
08:56Like, me being the middle man in this, that's not gonna be beneficial to the relationship
09:01that you guys are gonna build.
09:04I'm tired of going through the same process of having to advocate for the woman that I'm
09:11dating that my mom will get along with her.
09:13It's way too exhausting.
09:14Why keep bringing it up?
09:15There you go.
09:16I'll ask her, okay?
09:17I'll ask her.
09:18Okay.
09:19Ooh.
09:20Hey.
09:32From the beginning, it's always been you.
09:35You make me forget...
09:36Girl, you looking good.
09:37We look good.
09:38Delicia right now is looking stunning.
09:42I'm really happy to get some one on one time.
09:44time and this is the last one-on-one time I'm gonna get with her before I make the decisions
09:53this is so nice very nice I don't want to feel like I have to defend my mom or I have to do
10:03basically damage control I just want to spend time with her thank you cheers cheers it feels
10:14really good to be on this date right now with James you're great you're like really great you
10:20make me blush chemistry is everything when it comes to dating you showing up and showing out
10:26you've been smiling like crazy I know I'm enjoying myself if you don't have chemistry then maybe what
10:35do you have glad we are here some questions do you have some wow okay I'm ready I heard that like
10:49you wrote a letter and things like that yeah actually but to be transparent with you your mom
10:55was very defensive at the beginning like I didn't even get through the second sentence before I got
11:01cut off okay so I felt like a bit discouraged at the beginning almost questioning should I be
11:06having this conversation right now is it worth it but whenever I think about like you and our
11:10connection then it was like okay like just stay put stay the course like it'll be good I don't a
11:16hundred percent forgive Miss Charlize for the things that she said to me and the ways that she's offended
11:22me but I feel like me and Miss Charlize are mature women and we can definitely move past this I have
11:28an experience for my mother she can't be defensive at times but like it's like her exterior like I
11:34said I have faced that type of situation before and like learning from my past I've done the the
11:41middleman thing before and it just doesn't work out it's so tiring and I'm just like I would want
11:47y'all to have y'all's own relationship this is the start of ours and also of yours and my mom's right
11:52I feel like your mom really sees Sabrena for you but I feel like me and Sabrena are totally different
11:59girls and I don't know exactly how you feel about that viewpoint so put your mind at ease it's like
12:05I enjoy my time with you now and you know like I can only imagine what it would be like when we're
12:11outside of this setting like just how magical it could be James is so present he is very much in
12:27the moment and when I look into James's eyes it really tells me that he's serious he means what
12:36he says and your girl is calling for a man whose mom happens to be completely overbearing I feel
12:45like I'm going crazy can I get a kiss you can thank you I'm waiting ready okay James
13:06whatever it is between me and Alicia we have chemistry it's there and it's time to like really
13:17settle down find a partner I can like take on life with and let's just see what happens you want to
13:22head back to the house okay bookie good morning good morning how are you well you want to see what the day
13:49holes this is the last day let me let me drive this one James you have come a long way on this
13:58journey you've grown beyond your comfort zone not only with these ladies but you've also deepened your
14:04bond with your mother I would say so yes now it's time to determine if either of these ladies are a match
14:13for you today your journey will come to an end ultimately you will leave this experiment single
14:20or in a committed relationship up to this point the decisions have been in mom's hands but this time
14:26the decision will be yours alone so let's see how it ends hmm and it's my decision okay so you've had
14:37your last two dates so what do you like about this one it was really great to see different sides of
14:43these ladies at this point in time like with Alicia now that I've like gotten to sit down with her and
14:51like I see where her mindset is and how she handles situations and the maturity to like go out and resolve
14:57things herself and then with Sabrena it was more of like a comfortable conversation oh so it allowed
15:04me to see like a different side of her which was great really yeah I think that her personality is
15:10great as well um glad you see some positives I've seen some positives as well I feel like both of these
15:16dates helped both of these ladies out let me just say this I know we hit um an issue early with
15:25Alyssia but you made a decision to involve me in this process so I would have preferred that you
15:33let Alyssia know first off I know my mom's not trying to hurt you you know in this instance like
15:39I didn't think I needed to protect you in that you should always I mean I didn't think it was a
15:43situation where I had to protect you that's what I'm saying like now you know but we're still pulling
15:51back layers you can clean up after yourself as well yeah but we just didn't it it just didn't go
15:55that way I mean I did say you know I apologize if I offended you I did say it I mean I understand
16:01like I apologize if I offended you but like being intentional in an apology is also something I was
16:07intentional okay and leave it there I've heard that sentiment before you making it seem like you
16:12single just because me but I mean but there's a but I'm irritated right now because this type of
16:20conversation that has come up in the past what I ultimately want is like for my mom to not be an
16:24obstacle in my dating life I did intentionally apologize I meant my apology and you just keep
16:30going and you just keep going and I'm like come on this is all about finding the person who I think
16:35I can live my life with and you're making this about you no I'm not trying to make no false image
16:42I am who I am you know I'm not saying I'm trying to because that's not me I have a huge decision to
16:50make today am I going to bring somebody into my life or am I not going to bring anybody into my life
16:55that's where my head needs to be that's my focus and that's what I'm going to be deliberating on
17:01for the rest of the day okay and that's that like I love my mom but this is like probably the biggest
17:11thing that like I can't stand about her it's a repetitive thing it's always gone on and I'm tired
17:21of it like I'm really trying to find somebody I can settle down with and like build a life with
17:26it's really sad to see that like my mom continues to display this this type of behavior
17:31I don't really know what else to say about it
17:37I'm going through my auntie Elma I'm making a final decision
17:56and this is kind of scary to think about it's been a fun journey it's been a whirlwind of emotions
18:03I know my baby liking it oh my goodness how often do you need physical intimacy
18:11yeah that's what I want you just call me now I can do that for you hair itself is about $4.50
18:20we'll say a pedicure is $200 she got a good job and career she doesn't have to depend on you I can see
18:26it but them kids I already packed my stuff I'm just not sure you're my husband
18:32thank you you look nice though today thank you okay why you nervous I don't know I just pray that
18:45God will lead you to the right person for a lot of years I've been in the NFL having fun and finding
18:53my own lane and like real superficial not being able to get real deep connections but through this
18:58experience a lot of those old ways have been relinquished it's been fun I'm glad you've been
19:05here well you know to guide me through it but you know this time is it's on me yep is on you today
19:11from the beginning I love the two ladies and I appreciate them just follow your heart whatever
19:19you decide my son I'll be okay with it I hope it's gonna be a dream date for you that's all I
19:24needed to hear now I can make the best decision I need for myself so going into the decision I've been
19:40you know like playing things out been playing back conversations hi ladies I'm James's mom does she
19:49need to bite it to feed you what listen I'm gonna let my man man oh you're a man yeah you know
19:55it's hot the final invitation goes to Alyssia thank you all you gotta do is say you wanna kiss there you go
20:07I'm gonna wait
20:11I think I've come to a conclusion I think I know what makes sense for me you're good
20:21no but I'll be like okay my son can be hard-headed when he has his mind made up he's gonna do what he
20:35wants to do and if that means he has to go and hit a brick wall he's gonna hit the brick wall even
20:41though I told him it was there so be it not my life I feel comfortable going into the decision
20:48ultimately it's like what's real to me and what's what I believe is best and I mean I know you want
20:57the best for me and you have your opinions though I do have my opinions and you don't always agree
21:02with them and it is what it is but you know you're gonna do what you're gonna do whether we like it or
21:06not I didn't really understand how heavy this whole process was going to be this was stressful
21:15like you can be upset and you're entitled to your emotions right you have no idea what it's like to
21:22carry a child that doesn't want to listen it is tough like yeah I do listen to you and I do hear the
21:28things that you're saying you may not always think I do but I do right you have a serious decision to
21:37make going into this final decision it's a tough one both of these women have shown so much of
22:04themselves it's really gonna boil down to do I think I can live a life with you or not I really
22:18don't know what is gonna happen today James and I have gotten to learn about each other and I have
22:23also gotten to learn about his mother Mrs. Charlize which has been amazing
22:28I'm just thinking about the great times that I've had while being here
22:56I'm thinking about the challenges and the lessons that I've learned like wow are we really at the end
23:03pretty thank you can I hold your hands yeah sure okay I am so nervous right now I'm trying to just
23:15breathe however you can't help but be nervous in a situation like this
23:21so yeah first off I just want to say thank you so much for spending this time in the house I know
23:28it's been not a comfortable situation right I really appreciate you getting to learn about me
23:33over these past couple of weeks and I am very interested in you so I kind of want to know like what you think I
23:40I really want to know who James will choose so this experience it's been amazing and it's really been
23:53great getting to know you you've taught me a lot about myself and you helped me learn what I don't like
23:59and what I need oh yeah this whole experience has been a lot through it I really appreciate the way
24:09that you handle problems right you can face them head-on it's been a wild ride right uh uh and uh
24:25um with that being said but unfortunately uh I can't ask you to be exclusive with me
24:35I just feel like our personalities don't necessarily mesh that well and it's kind of difficult to see
24:52a future with you I mean like yes on paper things look great yeah um but I'm just thinking like down the
25:03line I just don't think that it's going to be successful okay it's been really really great to know you
25:11but like I'm the better match for James I could definitely see James fitting into my family and I am sad
25:30that I will not be the daughter in love for Mrs. Charlize I will miss her I loved living in the house with her
25:39I loved waking up and giving her hugs oh you I am still looking for love and you know what I'm gonna
25:49let love find me I feel like the time that we spent it's been really comfortable from the first day
25:58Alicia caught my eye I can really see the type of camaraderie and a relationship that I would look for it
26:06with that being said would you like to be exclusive with me
26:12oh this is so crazy
26:24it's been a while right right with that being said would you like to be exclusive with me
26:48this experience has offered plenty of ups and downs however in this moment I'm feeling very sure
26:57of my decision and the direction I'm going to move towards I'm really happy that we've had this time
27:03and I think you're amazing so extremely flattered my answer is gonna be no
27:15I think right now I'm still thinking about the conversation between me and Ms. Charlize and
27:30ultimately that does have an effect on my decision James is shocked I think he was definitely expecting a
27:40this I came into this experience hoping to leave with somebody's son but I think someone's mom who is
27:48that judgmental and that involved it's a bit of a turnoff
27:52at this moment I'm super upset for real I thought that we were locked in things were smooth
28:13the rockiness came in when it came down to my mom I know that Alicia felt like she was misjudged
28:23I know that she had to relive some traumatic times in her life based off of this house
28:30and I respect her for everything that she's given and the position that she's taken
28:35I feel like my mom is the reason that I'm single at 30 I know my mom and I know how she is so having
28:58this happen again with Alicia like it's way too exhausting tell me what's going on I suppose it's
29:05happening but ultimately I told her I did not want to be exclusive and I did ask Alicia okay so what did
29:17she say she said no I mean I respect her decision you did what you thought you needed to do and I only want the best for you
29:31I'm not mad at Alicia's decision I'm actually happy about it because my son deserves someone who is balanced and
29:45equally yoked with him all right well hey very interesting I thought that it was secure but
29:54romantic rejection just gotta take that on the chin and keep going like everything happens for a reason
29:59so mm-hmm can't say I'm surprised okay I was I wish my son listened to me with that said moving forward
30:14I want for my son what any other mother would want for their son to be happy to love someone that loves you
30:21back and build a life together you good like I ain't mad at it it's all good on to the next
30:28I think my mom is a great mother I definitely know that she wants the best for her family and especially
30:40her kids but I mean when it comes to the boundaries you got to set them and that's something that like
30:46I learned from this experience we're gonna establish these boundaries and she gonna have to stick to
30:51them and you know we're gonna figure it out
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32:19I'm walking down this path and my heart is like about to jump out of my chest because
32:20this whole experience has been the unknown so I don't know what I'm walking into
32:23and I'm very very nervous
32:25How you feeling?
32:27Overwhelmed.
32:28Like
32:29Okay.
32:30Me too.
32:31I
32:33Okay.
32:35Okay.
32:47As I'm walking over the bridge I'm anxious. My hands in this moment are clammy, but when I see him there um, despite all that anxiety I was like oh Joshua like that.
32:50I'm anxious my hands in this moment are clammy, but when I see him there
32:57Despite all that anxiety. I was like, oh, like I get excited
33:04Hey, there she goes. How are you? Joshua looks great
33:09Joshua looks great
33:11I'm hoping in that moment that he will choose me
33:20Well, I guess I just wanted to let you know that I am interested in you like a lot
33:24Okay, but I do think that I'm a slow burn and I think in this process. I kind of like
33:33Didn't express myself enough, but I'm kind of hoping we can still build something. Yeah
33:40Well, I've been very I think very honest from like day one and I honestly
33:45Wholeheartedly, yeah, and I feel like as we talk we keep finding like we have more in common than we think
33:51Yeah, I came to this experience to find love to find my partner and right now
33:56I cannot breathe my mind is like like I'm literally shaking
34:01What are your biggest concerns though, you know, I?
34:05Just wanted to to like be real, you know what I'm saying
34:09It's been hard in this short amount of time, you know
34:11Yeah, it's really good to know somebody really and like your whole soap into somebody else. Well, it's like what now I?
34:20Love the fact that both came to this journey with open mind got to meet my mom. I got to meet your mom
34:26You know had a good time. There's a lot of ups and downs and emotions in this whole journey, you know, in this short amount of time
34:34You're an obvious choice. No questions about it
34:36You're looking at my past. It's like you know one. It's easy
34:45You know
34:52But at the same time
34:55My past has been something that I've been trying to change I
34:57I do want to be exclusive with you up, but I don't think that's the right decision for me
35:07What is going on you know what what is happening now? Just confused
35:13I do want to be exclusive with you up at the same time. I don't think that's the right decision for me
35:31Sorry about that. I mean, I don't want you to hear that. I don't want to tell you that
35:35But I just feel like that's coming from my heart
35:40Don't look at me like that. I don't think you made the right choice
35:46But I do think that it's your loss respectfully
35:50We could have built something really beautiful and I want to move so I guess hit me when you're ready
35:56I
36:02Feel disappointed
36:06For a moment. I thought it was just gonna go the opposite way there
36:10All right
36:12Can't believe you did me like that
36:16Didn't think you were capable
36:24I feel like I'm not choosing Tamaris right now because I feel like trust is a big thing with me
36:30Tamaris you just didn't give me enough
36:32But you made me feel comfortable I just love the fact that we're alike in so many different ways obviously I haven't been able to show
36:44Myself wholeheartedly cuz I've been like mixing emotions with different people and it's a lot of a lot of energy spent
36:49Right, but I mean you align with my family and align with yours and and I do want to take the chance to be exclusive with you
36:56You really went to do that
36:58I
37:00Why you see so surprised
37:04Well, I'm just like
37:09You still haven't answered the question, but would I like to date you exclusively? Yeah
37:15Yes
37:21You know what y'all I am exclusively dating someone
37:28I am feeling everything that was wow
37:33My mouth is probably
37:36Right here
37:38When I give her a kiss right now like I'm not worried about nothing. I'm excited
37:43This is actually our first real kiss I would say
37:46And I literally forget where we are which is perfect. I feel like it's just us
37:51We finally got our moment to just do us
37:57So are you surprised?
37:59Because I don't know what's happening ever around here
38:07I
38:08Chose shambriel because I feel like in this whole experience. I've gotten nothing but shambriel from the beginning
38:15I've gotten the authentic. I've gotten the friend. I've gotten the businesswoman
38:19I've gotten it and my life can co-exist wait till my mom will find out she don't oh she don't know yet
38:24She don't know nothing
38:26I got you nervous now
38:27Just a little bit yeah, because it's been on my mind the whole day because I mean it's one thing for me to want it
38:31But yeah, you have your concerns so you're your own person too, you know, this is crazy
38:37Hello
38:50You'll be able to do that you'll be able to do that tomorrow, too
38:53You're gonna do that the next day, too and the next day if she ain't going nowhere
38:57I
39:04Am so happy with joshua's decision because if I've told him to go with chambriel probably he wouldn't have listened to me
39:11But I told him follow your heart and let god direct you so that's to tell you god works
39:17Congrats. Thank you. I'm happy for you. Thank you enjoy
39:23I bless you
39:25I'm so happy your prayers work
39:30Okay, sure you're on top, huh? Yep, you're on top. This one is just a joshua song. He made his choice. Thank you lord
39:43This is something that I never ever in a million years thought I'd be doing
39:48ever
39:49You and me both
39:51This experience has been such a wild ride. I've learned so much about who I am and what I look for in a potential partner
39:58It's really allowed me to work on the relationship that I have with my mother as well
40:03My mom is a lot of things
40:06But uh, I'm definitely thankful for her
40:08That'll be
40:09That'll be
40:13Overall this experience has been a great experience
40:17I wouldn't trade it for the world being able to wake up with you every morning talk to you eat breakfast which you cook
40:23It definitely made our relationship better. Yeah, I think that you're
40:29The most important person to me in my life
40:31In the future when it comes to dating my mom will you know inevitably think she knows best
40:37But honestly, I think I'll be able to take care of her from here
40:44It's been a journey, but we did it
40:48Couldn't have done it without you. Thank you son. Thank you
40:51So all I wish is for you to have fun
40:54Enjoy her and uh, you all
40:58Plan to pop the baby
40:59Chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill, chill
41:01I knew you were gonna say that. Don't do that
41:04This message is brought to you by Chambriel TV where we keep it a hundred percent real
41:10I need a drink
41:12And I am leaving here with somebody's son

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