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00:00Previously on Somebody's Son.
00:02I see your mom as your god.
00:03I would never say that my mom is my god.
00:05It kind of triggered me when you said,
00:07Look, he trying to defend you, girl.
00:08The energy in the room right now is tense.
00:10So I wrote a letter.
00:11Oh, Lord.
00:12I feel like you're still coming from a place of judgment
00:14at times, and it is starting to negatively affect me.
00:19All of a sudden, I get a knock on my door.
00:20I was confused, but it was Tamaris.
00:24I'm seeing this side of Tamaris, and I'm liking it.
00:27Now it's just leaving me wondering,
00:29Am I going to make the right decision?
00:32I'm so sorry to wake you up.
00:34I cannot leave without telling you goodbye.
00:36I'm satisfied with choosing me and standing
00:40on what I believe in.
00:42You know, I'm definitely interested
00:43in taking this experience past this.
00:46So I just want to see if you want to date exclusively.
00:50I am going to have to say no right now.
00:59Today's the last day in this house.
01:13And now we're winding things down.
01:16And I mean, I got to make a decision.
01:18It is a lot to deal with.
01:24Having two women's emotions and dealing with them
01:28while trying to navigate my own emotions at the same time.
01:31And really just taking this whole experience serious
01:34has been a lot to bear with.
01:36And I just hope I made the right decision at the end.
01:43Yo, yo.
01:44Hey, come on, come on.
01:45How'd you sleep?
01:46How'd you sleep?
01:48How'd you sleep?
01:49I did good.
01:51Good morning, y'all.
01:52Good morning.
01:53Yeah, we was going back and forth yesterday night.
01:55I know.
01:57So tell me, what's going through your mind?
02:02Let's talk about the date.
02:03Let's talk about the date.
02:04OK.
02:05Shamriel.
02:06Good time.
02:07Good.
02:08You saw when we came in.
02:09Uh-huh.
02:10You're enjoying.
02:11Yeah.
02:12You're having fun.
02:13You're finally in love.
02:16OK.
02:17I was feeling all right.
02:18Aw.
02:19What's up?
02:20OK.
02:21But like, me and Shamriel only kissed during a photo shoot.
02:24We ain't never really kissed on a date.
02:25But, I mean, Shamriel's a funny person.
02:27She's a cool person, good personality.
02:30So the first day, Tamera told me she doesn't know how to ride a bike.
02:35So I was like, you know, it'd be cool to see if I can teach her how to ride a bike.
02:38Jesus.
02:39So I told her how to ride a bike, and she was riding.
02:41She did good.
02:42Then we started talking afterwards in my football.
02:45How could she implement herself in my life?
02:47Would she be willing to sacrifice things?
02:49As an athlete, you might want to hear.
02:51But overall, I had a good day, too, with Tamera's.
02:54I know she can have fun.
02:56She can.
02:57I know.
02:58I saw her last night.
03:00Hey!
03:03This boy, you're a spy boy, yo!
03:06I was sleeping, and she knocked on the door, and she came.
03:10Hey, really?
03:14That was a shock to me.
03:15Tamera's is very reserved, and that's not what I was expecting from her.
03:20I hope I won't carry any baby afro from here.
03:22No, no, no.
03:25No, no, not yet.
03:26OK.
03:27OK.
03:28But that's beautiful.
03:29So think about the emotions.
03:30I go on this really good date with Shambria.
03:32We got close.
03:33We had a great time, great experience.
03:35But we still didn't test out to see if the chemistry, the physical attraction was there.
03:40Tamera makes a very bold move.
03:42That's good.
03:43And she comes from home.
03:44Mm-hmm.
03:45I saw it like, are you coming in this room because you just saw that me and Shambria had
03:49a good time?
03:50Or because you found out I play football, you trying to give me that last little mm to
03:54kind of sway my mind?
03:56It felt not authentic.
03:58So it's a lot of positive, but those are the biggest question marks that I'm still trying
04:01to figure out.
04:02It's like, what do I do?
04:03I don't know.
04:04I love both of them so dearly.
04:06And that's how it's supposed to be, right?
04:08Mm-hmm.
04:09OK.
04:10So let's see what the tablet says.
04:14Joshua, you have come a long way on this journey of self-discovery.
04:18I have.
04:19You've grown and you've broken down walls.
04:22Allow yourself to be vulnerable and trusted the process.
04:26Now it's time to trust your heart.
04:28Ooh-wee.
04:30OK.
04:31Today, your journey will come to an end.
04:33Oh, wow.
04:34Ultimately, you will leave this experiment single or in a committed relationship.
04:41Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's hands.
04:44Now, I'm using myself.
04:45But this time, the decision will be in yours alone.
04:48Get out of your head and search your heart.
04:50OK.
04:51You've been making decisions this far.
04:53Now that's when it's yours.
04:54It's a lot of pressure.
04:56And I'm used to making tough decisions all the time.
04:59But this is tough, man.
05:01This is really tough.
05:03When did I press and win?
05:04I don't know.
05:14Good morning, ma'am.
05:15Good morning, Song.
05:16How are you?
05:17I'm doing well.
05:18All right, so yesterday, I know you went out on a date with Sabernet.
05:24Where'd you go?
05:25You would have loved it.
05:27We went to a butterfly habitat.
05:29Oh.
05:30It was like a really dope.
05:33It's like you were kind of transported into like a rainforest almost.
05:37You just look up and you just see a bunch of butterflies.
05:40Oh, wow.
05:41We had a moment.
05:42We kissed.
05:43Oh.
05:44Yeah.
05:45You know when you spend time with somebody and you start talking to them and it's just
05:48like, OK, like I see, you know, like, OK, I'm liking this.
05:51I'm digging that.
05:52You know what I'm saying?
05:53Sabernet and I have come a long way.
05:54Like, I feel like we've really made strides in the right direction that I could see her vibing
06:00with my family and like being somebody that I can go through life with and start a future
06:04with.
06:05All right, so I wanted to share a couple of things with you.
06:09OK.
06:10When you were on your date, I had a conversation with Alicia.
06:14I was kind of blindsided.
06:16I wanted to apologize to her about the comment that I made during the exercise that we did.
06:21She was prepared to talk to me as well.
06:24But what she actually did, she wrote a letter.
06:26And in the letter, she referenced whatever comments I made.
06:31So what comments?
06:34Regarding my entry walk, outfits, makeup, faith, my demeanor, job, piercings, and tattoos.
06:42You have tattoos?
06:43I do.
06:44I didn't notice that.
06:45No, so I did not make a comment about your tattoo.
06:49That was over my head, so I was blindsided on that because then I felt like I was a villain,
06:55you know?
06:56Yeah.
06:57And I felt it was too deep.
06:59OK, yeah.
07:00So, I mean, you guys made up on that front, right?
07:02You know, we talked about it.
07:04She accepted my apology.
07:05That's good.
07:06I don't have to step in or anything like that.
07:09So I'm really happy that you guys were able to have that conversation.
07:12When it comes to issues with my mom and women that I've dated, like, my mom can really go left.
07:17I've seen how detrimental it was in a past relationship.
07:21So hearing that my mom was able to resolve things with Alicia without me is a relief.
07:26Y'all weren't having as much fun.
07:28Yes, I think I can be at times too controlling, but I have my reasons.
07:35Because whoever you date, I don't want them to be in-laws.
07:38I want them to be my bonus daughter.
07:42So from a mom's perspective, I just pray you making the right choice to mesh with us as a family unit.
07:50We shall see.
07:55We want to see what we have going on today.
07:59Good morning, James and Charlize.
08:01The end of the journey is approaching.
08:03James, today you will have one final date of this experience with Alicia.
08:10Remember to have fun.
08:13I'm excited to get into it with Alicia.
08:17I'm going to try to dig in a little bit more.
08:19I mean, because on paper, things line up with Sabernet.
08:21Right.
08:22But then at the same time, I want to see if, like, Alicia could be a potential partner as well.
08:27Okay.
08:28I just appreciate it whenever you have a one-on-one with her.
08:32Clarify, please.
08:34Clarify what?
08:35How I was perceived.
08:38Because you, I thought when you said that.
08:40I just want to leave it where it is, honestly.
08:41I'm tired of bringing it up.
08:42It's done.
08:43It's done.
08:44We put it to bed.
08:45That's what I don't like.
08:46You're trying to be dismissive.
08:47You're not respecting my feeling and something dealing with me personally.
08:52We just passed.
08:53Are we good?
08:54See, there you go.
08:55Like, y'all's relationship is y'all's relationship.
08:57Like, me being the middleman in this, that's not going to be beneficial to the relationship
09:02that you guys are going to build.
09:05I'm tired of going through the same process of having to advocate for the woman that I'm dating.
09:12that my mom will get along with her.
09:14It's way too exhausting.
09:15Why can't you bring it up?
09:16There you go.
09:17I'll ask her, okay?
09:18I'll ask her.
09:19I'll ask her.
09:20Okay.
09:21stagnation of men as well.
09:22Let's go first.
09:23Hey.
09:24Let's go.
09:25actor
09:42I'm really happy to get some one-on-one time.
09:48And this is the last one-on-one time I'm going to get with her
09:51before I make the decisions.
09:55This is so nice.
09:56Very nice.
09:59I don't want to feel like I have to defend my mom
10:02or I have to do basically damage control.
10:04I just want to spend time with her.
10:10You're welcome.
10:11Cheers.
10:12Cheers.
10:13It feels really good to be on this date right now with James.
10:17You're great.
10:18You're like really great.
10:20You're making me blush.
10:21Chemistry is everything when it comes to dating.
10:24You showing up and showing out.
10:26You've been smiling like crazy too.
10:28I know.
10:29I know.
10:30I'm enjoying myself.
10:32If you don't have chemistry, then maybe what do you have?
10:36Glad we are here.
10:38Me too.
10:39So.
10:40So.
10:41So.
10:42Questions.
10:44Do you have some?
10:45I have some.
10:46Wow.
10:47Yeah.
10:48Okay, I'm ready.
10:49I heard that like you wrote a letter and things like that.
10:52Yeah, actually.
10:53But to be transparent with you, your mom was very defensive at the beginning.
10:58Like, I didn't even get through the second sentence before I got cut off.
11:01Okay.
11:02So I felt like a bit discouraged at the beginning, almost questioning.
11:05Should I be having this conversation right now?
11:07Is it worth it?
11:08But whenever I think about like you and our connection, then it was like, okay, like, just
11:13stay put, stay the course.
11:14Like, it'll be good.
11:15I don't 100% forgive Ms. Charlize for the things that she said to me and the ways that she's offended me.
11:22But I feel like me and Ms. Charlize are mature women and we can definitely move past this.
11:28I have experience with my mother.
11:30She can be defensive at times, but like, it's like her exterior.
11:34Like I said, I have faced that type of situation before and like learning from my past.
11:39I've done the middleman thing before and it just doesn't work out.
11:44It's exhausting.
11:45It's so tiring.
11:46And I'm just like, I would want y'all to have y'all's own relationship.
11:49This is the start of ours and also of yours and my mom's, right?
11:53I feel like your mom really sees Sabrena for you.
11:56But I feel like me and Sabrena are totally different girls.
11:59And I don't know exactly how you feel about that viewpoint.
12:03So, put your mind at ease.
12:05It's like, I enjoy my time with you now.
12:08And you know, like, I can only imagine what it would be like when we're outside of this setting.
12:13Like just how magical it could be.
12:23James is so present.
12:25He is very much in the moment.
12:28And when I look into James's eyes, it really tells me that he's serious.
12:35He means what he says.
12:36And your girl is falling for a man whose mom happens to be completely overbearing.
12:43I feel like I'm going crazy.
12:46Can I get a kiss?
12:48You can.
12:50I've been waiting.
13:01Ready?
13:02Okay, James.
13:11Whatever it is between me and Alicia, we have chemistry.
13:14It's there.
13:15And it's time to like really settle down, find a partner that I can like take on life with.
13:20And let's just see what happens.
13:22You want to head back to the house?
13:24Okay, Buki.
13:25Hey, Buki.
13:26Good morning.
13:27Good morning.
13:28Good morning.
13:29How are you?
13:30I'm fine.
13:31How are you?
13:32Well, you want to see what the day holds?
13:37Sure.
13:38It's the last day.
13:39What about you?
13:40Let me jog this one.
13:41James, you have come a long way on this journey.
13:46You've grown beyond your comfort zone, not only with these ladies, but you've also deepened
13:51your bond with your bond with your mother.
13:52I would say so.
13:53Yes.
13:54Now it's time to determine if either of these ladies are a match for you.
13:58Today, your journey will come to an end.
14:01Ultimately, you will leave this experiment single, for the last day and for the last day.
14:06Ahem.
14:07Nice.
14:08Now it's time to determine if either of these ladies are a match for you.
14:14Today, your journey will come to an end.
14:17Ultimately, you will leave this experiment single, or in a committed relationship.
14:22Up to this point, the decisions have been in mom's hands.
14:26But this time, the decision will be yours alone.
14:29So let's see how it ends.
14:32Mm.
14:33And it's my decision.
14:35OK, so you've had your last two dates.
14:38So what do you like about this one?
14:40It was really great to see different sides of these ladies
14:44at this point in time.
14:45Like with Alicia, now that I've gotten to sit down with her
14:51and I see where her mindset is and how she handles situations
14:54and the maturity to go out and resolve things herself.
14:58And then with Sabrenet, it was more
15:01of like a comfortable conversation.
15:03Oh.
15:04So it allowed me to see like a different side of her,
15:06which was great.
15:07Really?
15:08Yeah, I think that her personality is great as well.
15:12Glad you see some positives.
15:13I've seen some positives as well.
15:15I feel like both of these dates helped
15:17both of these ladies out.
15:19Let me just say this.
15:21I know we hit an issue early with Alicia,
15:26but you made a decision to involve me in this process.
15:31So I would have preferred that you let Alicia know, first off, I know my mom's not trying
15:37to hurt you, you know, in this instance.
15:39Like I didn't think I needed to protect you in that.
15:41You should always.
15:42I mean, I didn't think it was a situation where I had to protect you.
15:45Like, that's what I'm saying.
15:48Now you know.
15:49But you can clean up.
15:50We're still pulling back layers.
15:51You can clean up after yourself as well.
15:53Yeah, but we just didn't, it just didn't go that way.
15:56I mean, I did say, you know, I apologize if I offended you.
15:59Mm-hmm.
15:59I did say it.
16:00I mean, I understand, like, I apologize if I offended you, but, like, being intentional
16:05in an apology is also something, like.
16:07I was intentional.
16:08Okay.
16:09And leave it there.
16:10I've heard that sentiment before.
16:11You making it seem like you single just because me.
16:14But I mean.
16:15But.
16:16There's a but.
16:17I'm irritated right now because this type of conversation that has come up in the past,
16:22what I ultimately want is, like, for my mom to not be an obstacle in my dating life.
16:26I did intentionally apologize, I meant my apology, and you just keep going, and you just keep
16:31going, and I'm like, come on.
16:33This is all about finding the person who I think I can live my life with, and you're making
16:38this about you.
16:39No, I'm not trying to make no false image, I'm, I am who I am.
16:43I understand that.
16:44You know, I'm not saying I'm trying to, because that's not me.
16:48I have a huge decision to make today.
16:51Am I going to bring somebody into my life, or am I not going to bring anybody into my life?
16:56That's where my head needs to be, that's my focus, and that's what I'm going to be deliberating
17:01on for the rest of the day.
17:04Okay.
17:05And that's that.
17:07Like, I love my mom, but this is, like, probably the biggest thing that, like, I can't stand
17:14about her.
17:15It's a repetitive thing, it's always gone on, and I'm tired of it.
17:21Like, I'm really trying to find somebody I can settle down with, and, like, build a
17:25life with.
17:26It's really sad to see that, like, my mom continues to display this, this type of behavior.
17:32I don't really know what else to say about it.
17:39Like, I love you.
17:40Yeah.
17:41I'm going with my Auntie Oma.
17:42I'm making a final decision, and this is kind of scary to think about.
17:57It's been a fun journey.
18:02been a whirlwind of emotions I know my baby liking it how often do you need
18:09physical intimacy yeah that's what I want you just call me now I can do that
18:17for you here itself about 450 Wilson pedicure is $200 she got a good job and
18:24career she didn't have to depend on you I can see it but then kids I already
18:29pack my stuff I'm just not sure you're my husband you look nice though today thank
18:40you I just pray that God will lead you to the right person for a lot of years I've been in the NFL having
18:52fun and finding my own lane and like real superficial and not being able to get real
18:57deep connections but through this experience a lot of those old ways have been relinquished
19:02it's been fun I'm glad you've been here you know to guide me through it but you know this time is
19:08it's on me yep it's on you today from the beginning I love the two ladies and I appreciate them just
19:16follow your heart whatever you decide my son I'll be okay with it I hope it's gonna be a dream date
19:23for you that's all I needed to hear now I can make the best decision I need for myself
19:27so going into the decision I've been you know like weighing things out been playing back conversations
19:45hi ladies I'm James's mom does she need to bite it to feed you what listen I'm gonna let my man man oh
19:54you're a man yeah you know it's hot the final invitation goes to Alicia thank you all you gotta do is say you want to kiss
20:06I think I've come to a conclusion I think I know what makes sense for me okay
20:21my son can be hard-headed when he has his mind made up he's gonna do what he wants to do and if
20:37that means he has to go and hit a brick wall he's gonna hit the brick wall even though I told him it
20:42was there so be it now my life I feel comfortable going into the decision ultimately it's like what's
20:51real to me and what's what I believe is best and I mean I know you want the best for me and you have
20:58your opinions though I do have my opinions and you don't always agree with them and it is what it is but
21:03you know you're gonna do what you're gonna do whether we like it or not I didn't really understand
21:11how heavy this whole process was going to be this was stressful like you can be upset and you're
21:19entitled to your emotions right you have no idea what it's like to carry a child that doesn't want
21:24listen it is tough like yeah I do listen to you and I do hear the things that you're saying you may
21:30not always think I do but I do right yeah you have a serious decision to make yeah go handle your
21:42business all right
21:44going into this final decision
21:58it's a tough one both of these women have shown so much of themselves it's really going to boil
22:06down to do I think I can live a life with you or not I really don't know what is going to happen
22:19today James and I have gotten to learn about each other and I have also gotten to learn about his
22:25mother Mrs. Charlize which has been amazing
22:28I'm just thinking about the great times that I've had while being here I'm thinking about the
22:57challenges and the lessons that I've learned like wow are we really at the end
23:04I am so nervous right now I'm trying to just breathe however you can't help but be nervous in a
23:20situation like this so yeah first off I just want to say thank you so much for spending this time in the
23:28house I know it's been not a comfortable situation right I really appreciate you getting to learn about
23:33me over these past couple of weeks and I am very interested in you so I kind of want to know like what
23:39you think I really want to know who James will choose so this experience it's been amazing and it's really been
23:53great getting to know you you've taught me a lot about myself and you helped me learn what I don't like and what I need
24:00oh yeah this whole experience has been a lot through it I really appreciate the way that you handle problems right you face them head on
24:12it's been a wild ride
24:20and with that being said unfortunately I can't ask you to be exclusive with me
24:35I just feel like our personalities don't necessarily mesh that well and it's kind of difficult to see a future with you I mean like yes on paper things look great
24:59yeah um but I'm just thinking like down the line I just don't think that it's going to be successful
25:05okay it's been really really great to know you
25:11I feel like I'm the better match for James I could definitely see James fitting into my family and I am sad that I will not be the daughter in love for Mrs. Charlize
25:35I will miss her I loved living in the house with her I loved waking up and giving her hugs
25:42give me a high five on you
25:44I am still looking for love and you know what I'm going to let love find me
25:50I feel like the time that we spent it's been really comfortable
25:56from the first day Alicia caught my eye I can really see the type of camaraderie and a relationship
26:05that I would look for
26:06with that being said would you like to be exclusive with me
26:22oh this is so crazy
26:24it's been a wild ride right
26:41with that being said
26:44would you like to be exclusive with me
26:48this experience has offered plenty of ups and downs however in this moment I'm feeling very sure
26:57of my decision and the direction I'm going to move towards
27:01I'm really happy that we've had this time
27:03and I think you're amazing
27:06so extremely flattered
27:09my answer is going to be
27:13no
27:15I think right now I'm still thinking about the conversation between me and Ms. Charlize
27:29and ultimately that does have an effect on my decision
27:32James is shocked
27:36I think he was definitely expecting a yes
27:40I came into this experience hoping to leave with somebody's son
27:45but I think someone's mom who is that judgmental and that involved
27:50it's a bit of a turn off
27:52can I go ahead
27:54at this moment I'm super upset
28:07for real
28:08I thought that we were locked in
28:12things were smooth
28:13the rockiness came in
28:16when it came down to my mom
28:18I know that Alicia felt like she was misjudged
28:22I know that she had to relive some traumatic times in her life
28:28based off of this house
28:30and I respect her for everything that she's given
28:33and the position that she's taken
28:35it really sucks
28:39that I missed my shot with Alicia
28:41I feel like my mom is the reason that I'm single at 30
28:54I know my mom and I know how she is
28:57so having this happen again with Alicia
29:00it's way too exhausting
29:02tell me what's going on
29:04I spoke to Sabernet
29:06but ultimately I told her I did not want to be exclusive
29:09and I did ask Alicia
29:14okay
29:15so
29:16what did she say?
29:18she said no
29:19I mean I respect her decision
29:23you did what you thought you needed to do
29:26and I only want the best of you
29:31I'm not mad at Alicia's decision
29:34I'm actually happy about it
29:37because my son deserves
29:42someone who is balanced and equally yoked with him
29:47alright, well hey
29:49very interesting
29:51I thought that it was secure
29:54but romantic rejection
29:56just gotta take that on the chin and keep going
29:58like everything happens for a reason so
30:00mmhmm
30:00can't say I'm surprised
30:02okay
30:04I was
30:07I wish my son would listen to me
30:11with that said
30:13moving forward
30:14I want for my son what any other mother would want for their son
30:18to be happy
30:19to love someone that loves you back
30:21and build a life together
30:23you good?
30:25like I ain't mad at it
30:26it's all good
30:27on to the next
30:28I think my mom is a great mother
30:36I definitely know that she wants the best for her family
30:39and especially her kids
30:41but I mean
30:42when it comes to boundaries
30:43you gotta set them
30:44and that's something that like
30:46I learned from this experience
30:47we're gonna establish these boundaries
30:49and she's gonna have to stick to them
30:51and you know
30:51we're gonna figure it out
30:52I didn't think this experiment was gonna be as difficult
30:54I thought it was gonna be a cakewalk
30:55man
30:57I didn't think this experiment was gonna be as difficult
31:02I didn't think this experiment was gonna be as difficult
31:20I thought it was gonna be a cakewalk
31:22man
31:23I was far from right
31:25it'll be the best day
31:27oh
31:28oh
31:29during this whole process
31:31I've been attracted to Tamaris
31:32from the start
31:33the physical attraction is evident
31:35but
31:36I don't know if we got
31:38deep enough mentally
31:40with Chambriel
31:44it's the opposite
31:45in the beginning
31:46the physical attraction
31:47with me and Chambriel
31:48it felt forced
31:49but slowly
31:53it started to
31:54you know
31:55get better
31:57and better
31:58but is it enough?
32:04Chambriel and I haven't even had a real kiss yet
32:06how am I supposed to make a decision?
32:15I'm walking down this path
32:17and my heart is like
32:18about to jump out of my chest
32:19because this whole experience
32:21has been the unknown
32:22so I don't know what I'm walking into
32:23and I'm very very nervous
32:25how you feeling?
32:27overwhelmed
32:28like
32:29okay
32:29me too
32:31as I'm walking
32:48over the bridge
32:50I'm anxious
32:50my hands in this moment
32:53are clammy
32:54but when I see him there
32:56despite all that anxiety
32:58I was like
32:59oh Joshua
33:00like
33:00I get excited
33:02hi
33:04there she goes
33:05how are you?
33:06Joshua looks great
33:07Joshua looks great
33:11I'm hoping
33:12I'm hoping in that moment
33:14I'm hoping in that moment
33:14that he will choose me
33:16well I guess I just wanted to let you know
33:22that I am interested in you
33:24like a lot
33:25okay
33:25but I do think that I'm a slow burn
33:27and I think in this process
33:30I kind of like
33:31didn't express myself enough
33:34but I'm kind of hoping
33:35that we can still build something
33:37yeah
33:37well I've been very
33:41I think very honest
33:43from like day one
33:44and I honestly
33:45wholeheartedly
33:46yeah
33:46and I feel like as we talk
33:48we keep finding like
33:49we have more in common
33:50than we think
33:51yeah
33:51I came to this experience
33:53to find love
33:54to find my partner
33:55and right now
33:56I cannot breathe
33:58my mind is like
34:00like I'm literally shaking
34:01what are your biggest concerns
34:02though you know
34:03I just wanted to
34:06to like
34:07be real
34:08you know what I'm saying
34:09it's been hard
34:09in this short amount of time
34:10you know
34:11yes
34:11to really get to
34:12to know somebody
34:13really immerse your whole self
34:14into somebody else
34:15so it's like
34:16what now
34:17I love the fact that
34:21both came into this journey
34:22with an open mind
34:23got to meet my mom
34:24I got to meet your mom
34:25I know
34:26you know
34:26had a good time
34:27there's a lot of ups and downs
34:29and emotions
34:29in this whole journey
34:31you know
34:31in this short amount of time
34:32you're an obvious choice
34:35no questions about it
34:36you're looking at my past
34:39it's like
34:40you're the one
34:40it's easy
34:41you know
34:45but at the same time
34:53my past has been something
34:56that I've been trying to change
34:57I do want to be exclusive
35:00with you
35:01but I don't think
35:02that's the right decision
35:03for me
35:03what's going on
35:06what is going on
35:08you know
35:09what is happening
35:11I was just confused
35:14I do want to be exclusive
35:26with you
35:26at the same time
35:28but I don't think
35:29that's the right decision
35:29for me
35:30sorry about that
35:32I mean
35:32I didn't want you to hear that
35:34I didn't want to tell you that
35:35but I just feel like
35:36that's coming from my heart
35:37don't look at me like that
35:41I don't know if you made
35:42the right choice
35:43but I do think that it's your loss
35:48respectfully
35:48we could have built something
35:51really beautiful
35:52and I want to
35:54so
35:54I guess hit me when you're ready
35:56I feel disappointed
36:05for a moment
36:07I thought
36:07it was just going to go
36:08the opposite way there
36:09alright
36:11let me see
36:12I feel like I'm not choosing
36:25Tamaris right now
36:26because
36:26I feel like
36:28trust is a big thing
36:29with me
36:29Tamaris
36:30you just didn't give me enough
36:31you made me feel comfortable
36:38I just love the fact
36:40that we're alike
36:41in so many different ways
36:42obviously I haven't been able
36:43to show
36:43myself wholeheartedly
36:45because I've been like
36:46mixing emotions
36:47with different people
36:47and it's a lot of energy spent
36:49right
36:49but I mean
36:50you align with my family
36:51and I align with yours
36:52and I do want to
36:54take the chance
36:54to be exclusive with you
36:55you're willing to do that
36:58what
37:00why you see so surprised
37:02well
37:04I'm just like
37:06what
37:09you still haven't answered the question
37:11would I like to date you exclusively
37:13yeah
37:13yes
37:16you know what y'all
37:22I am exclusively dating someone
37:25oh
37:26oh my sweet
37:29I am feeling everything
37:31that was wow
37:32my mouth is probably open
37:35right here
37:36when I give her a kiss right now
37:39like
37:40I'm not worried about nothing
37:41I'm excited
37:42this is actually
37:44our first real kiss
37:45I would say
37:46and I literally forget where we are
37:49which is perfect
37:50I feel like it's just us
37:52we finally got our moment
37:54to just do us
37:57so why are you surprised
37:59because
38:00I don't know what's happening ever
38:02around here
38:02I chose Chambriel
38:09because
38:10I feel like
38:11in this whole experience
38:12I've gotten nothing but Chambriel
38:14from the beginning
38:14I've gotten the authentic
38:16I've gotten the friend
38:17I've gotten the
38:18business woman
38:19I've gotten it all
38:20you saw me for who I am
38:22and I know
38:24it ain't run you off
38:25you ain't scared
38:26you know what it comes with
38:27and your life
38:29and my life can co-exist
38:31wait till my mama find out
38:33oh she don't know yet
38:34she don't know nothing
38:35I got you nervous now
38:37just a little bit
38:38yeah
38:38because it's been on my mind
38:39the whole day
38:39because I mean
38:40it's one thing for me to want it
38:41but
38:41yeah
38:42you have your concerns
38:43so you're your own person too
38:44you know
38:45this is crazy
38:47hello
38:52how are you
38:57well you'll be able to do that
39:01you'll be able to do that tomorrow too
39:03and you'll be able to do that the next day too
39:05and the next day
39:06because she ain't going nowhere
39:08I am so happy with Joshua's decision
39:16because if I've told him
39:17to go with Chambriel
39:19probably he wouldn't have listened to me
39:21but
39:21I told him
39:22follow your heart
39:23and let God direct you
39:24so
39:24that's to tell you
39:26God works
39:26congrats
39:28thank you
39:28I'm happy for you
39:29thank you
39:30enjoy
39:31I bless you
39:33I bless you all
39:35I'm so happy
39:37your prayers work huh
39:39okay
39:41cheerio on top huh
39:42yep
39:42cheerio on top
39:43this one is just Joshua's song
39:45he made his choice
39:47thank you Lord
39:48this is something that I never ever
39:55in a million years
39:56thought I'd be doing
39:57ever
39:58you and me both
40:00this experience has been such a wild ride
40:03I've learned so much about who I am
40:05and what I look for
40:06and a potential partner
40:07it's really allowed me to
40:09work on the relationship
40:11that I have with my mother
40:12as well
40:12my mom has a lot of things
40:14but I'm definitely thankful for her
40:18that'll be
40:20hi ladies
40:23overall this experience
40:25has been a great experience
40:27I wouldn't trade it for the world
40:29being able to wake up with you
40:30every morning
40:31talk to you
40:32eat breakfast
40:32what you cook
40:33it definitely
40:34made our relationship better
40:36yeah I think that you're
40:38the most important person
40:40to me in my life
40:41in the future
40:42when it comes to dating
40:43my mom will
40:44you know
40:45inevitably think
40:46she knows best
40:47but honestly
40:48I think I'll be able
40:49to take care of her from here
40:50it's been a journey
40:55but we did it
40:56couldn't have done it without you
40:59thank you son
41:00thank you
41:01so all I wish
41:03is for you to have fun
41:04enjoy her
41:05and you all
41:07plan to pop the baby
41:09chill chill chill chill
41:10I knew you were going to say that
41:12don't do that
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41:19I need a drink
41:21I need a drink
41:22and I am leaving here
41:23with somebody's son
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